The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands (Article inside)

[2stepz_ahead]

Storytime: had a neighbor who married his high school sweetheart. They were married at 18 and were like 38 when I met them. He was a truck driver until he fucked his back up and got disability. He put her through college all the way to her Master's. She was a school teacher. She graduated and divorced him. Lied to the courts saying he was abusive and cheating.

Now, he dragged me to court to tell the truth of what I saw. She was the one cussing her kids out in the front yard every day, and she was the one caught by him at Applebee's cheating on him. She also tried to set up his girlfriends to solicit him on FB so she could try to have evidence he cheated, and she tried throwing women is way when he went out. Dude didn't do shit. He was a homebody. Courts believed her anyway and she took the house and the kids. Months later her lawyers calling me asking if I know if her husband's working (bc they want to take even more of his shit). Now, this dude was cutting my grass for $45 a week and they want half of that.

I'm all for marriage, but I can talk all day on some shit. A ton of people are selfish and power hungry and ego maniacs. Some say they want the things they don't want and then don't want the things they say they want AND expect someone else to entertain them and make them happy. Most don't know what role they want the other to be or how to make a marriage work bc they've never seen a marriage work. People do what they know.

adding on to homies story....i know a couple just like that. dude helped put her thru college she got two degrees or some shit. her family got the hook up at this company so she along with her degrees is very high in the company.. she ended up cheating an the nigga she cheated with , she got a job at the comapny. and later she got her husband a job at the same company. her husband found out later that he knew the nigga she was cheating on him with. an had to look at this nigga everyday. he ended up creeping but she extra mad at him for doing it. an she keeps trying to leave him an finally they split up. i feel like thats a fucked up situation to be in. to help someone get to where they are then they begin to feel they are too good or dont need your shit.

i just couldnt picture myself not just walking out but...how do you keep your sanity in that? she used to straight up shit on him about not making loot when he put her thru college in order for her to make the loot she makes.

Yeah, that's definitely not for me.

Word to @gemini86 .

'Makes me wonder what the backstory is whenever I hear stories in the news about a man killing his entire family or his wife/gf.

I mean, not trying to justify it............but people just don't go off like that for no reason.

Something had to have triggered it, and going through something like that would definitely be a possible catalyst for something like that to happen.

Now, this isn't about right or wrong............it's about cause and effect.

yea the crazy thing is...he still is trying to get back with her. an she basically wants to "see whats out there"

this is the most fukked up part. see whats out there now that you are established and hes not as established cause he sacrificed his youth to help her become better. but she feels she sacrificed her youth being locked into a relationship...an thing is she has a mother and father.

an when we had the couples meetings....all the chicks would say but he cheated....so she has a right. they all skip over that she cheated first and he has to work with this nigga.

man shit i agree with you.....if my wife was to ever do that shit...i would cry for about 2-3 days...then just leave me the fukk alone an let me go on my way. any futher contact an i might nicole simpson her ass

Yeah, old girl is on another level of foul.

It's one thing to cheat, but to hook the nigga you're cheating with and your husband up with the same job?

Then has the nerve to talk down on him when he put her through school???

My father used to always say that........"the more you do for people, the less they appreciate it."

Never made sense when I was young, but I understand what he meant now.

I think what happens is, when some people get help like that..........at some point, instead of being grateful, they start to resent the person who helped them because they can't cope with knowing that they weren't able get to where they are on their own ........and that they owe somebody else for their success.

Backwards way of thinking, but it's more common than most people might think.

oh i get it.

an she cool as shit too.

but my problem has always been with girlfriends that put shit in her ear or any chicks ear for that matter. or the fact the cosign her fukkery. an even her parents who got loot....yet they allowed the man to take care of all her shit and pay the rent and mortgage and raise the kids while she focuses on school.

they just want someone who would have dont that for them.

but i say all this to say.....

i still tell and promote people to arrange couple meetings an have open discussion about the troubles in the relationship and how to handle the troubles someone else has.

the shit can be eye opening, helpful and cheaper than therapy. an sometimes you just dont know how blessed you are.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

Sex androids are safer to invest in.

Anyway why should i bet my life on something that has a 70 % failurr rate?

 

[texas409]

IDENTITY CRISIS

I think the opportunities for women have changed drastically in this country from the let's say (1900s-1995). Due to these new opportunities women are having to redefine expectations and what is fulfilling.

In over half the homes in the US women are the head of the household and raising children on their own. Women also have closed the gap (not completely but drastically) financially and have increased their education. As they have done so, some are conflicted with what to expect from a man versus what to demand or fight. Some of the very shit they used to like is the very shit being called harassment or chauvenistic.

Storytime: had a neighbor who married his high school sweetheart. They were married at 18 and were like 38 when I met them. He was a truck driver until he fucked his back up and got disability. He put her through college all the way to her Master's. She was a school teacher. She graduated and divorced him. Lied to the courts saying he was abusive and cheating. Now, he dragged me to court to tell the truth of what I saw. She was the one cussing her kids out in the front yard every day, and she was the one caught by him at Applebee's cheating on him. She also tried to set up his girlfriends to solicit him on FB so she could try to have evidence he cheated, and she tried throwing women is way when he went out. Dude didn't do shit. He was a homebody. Courts believed her anyway and she took the house and the kids. Months later her lawyers calling me asking if I know if her husband's working (bc they want to take even more of his shit). Now, this dude was cutting my grass for $45 a week and they want half of that.

I'm all for marriage, but I can talk all day on some shit. A ton of people are selfish and power hungry and ego maniacs. Some say they want the things they don't want and then don't want the things they say they want AND expect someone else to entertain them and make them happy. Most don't know what role they want the other to be or how to make a marriage work bc they've never seen a marriage work. People do what they know.

Wow...just wow smh

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

The social has to be renogiciated. Nobody is happy.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

IDENTITY CRISIS

I think the opportunities for women have changed drastically in this country from the let's say (1900s-1995). Due to these new opportunities women are having to redefine expectations and what is fulfilling.

In over half the homes in the US women are the head of the household and raising children on their own. Women also have closed the gap (not completely but drastically) financially and have increased their education. As they have done so, some are conflicted with what to expect from a man versus what to demand or fight. Some of the very shit they used to like is the very shit being called harassment or chauvenistic.

Storytime: had a neighbor who married his high school sweetheart. They were married at 18 and were like 38 when I met them. He was a truck driver until he fucked his back up and got disability. He put her through college all the way to her Master's. She was a school teacher. She graduated and divorced him. Lied to the courts saying he was abusive and cheating. Now, he dragged me to court to tell the truth of what I saw. She was the one cussing her kids out in the front yard every day, and she was the one caught by him at Applebee's cheating on him. She also tried to set up his girlfriends to solicit him on FB so she could try to have evidence he cheated, and she tried throwing women is way when he went out. Dude didn't do shit. He was a homebody. Courts believed her anyway and she took the house and the kids. Months later her lawyers calling me asking if I know if her husband's working (bc they want to take even more of his shit). Now, this dude was cutting my grass for $45 a week and they want half of that.

I'm all for marriage, but I can talk all day on some shit. A ton of people are selfish and power hungry and ego maniacs. Some say they want the things they don't want and then don't want the things they say they want AND expect someone else to entertain them and make them happy. Most don't know what role they want the other to be or how to make a marriage work bc they've never seen a marriage work. People do what they know.

Wow...just wow smh

but is he wrong tho

 

[Go figure]

Storytime: had a neighbor who married his high school sweetheart. They were married at 18 and were like 38 when I met them. He was a truck driver until he fucked his back up and got disability. He put her through college all the way to her Master's. She was a school teacher. She graduated and divorced him. Lied to the courts saying he was abusive and cheating.

Now, he dragged me to court to tell the truth of what I saw. She was the one cussing her kids out in the front yard every day, and she was the one caught by him at Applebee's cheating on him. She also tried to set up his girlfriends to solicit him on FB so she could try to have evidence he cheated, and she tried throwing women is way when he went out. Dude didn't do shit. He was a homebody. Courts believed her anyway and she took the house and the kids. Months later her lawyers calling me asking if I know if her husband's working (bc they want to take even more of his shit). Now, this dude was cutting my grass for $45 a week and they want half of that.

I'm all for marriage, but I can talk all day on some shit. A ton of people are selfish and power hungry and ego maniacs. Some say they want the things they don't want and then don't want the things they say they want AND expect someone else to entertain them and make them happy. Most don't know what role they want the other to be or how to make a marriage work bc they've never seen a marriage work. People do what they know.

adding on to homies story....i know a couple just like that. dude helped put her thru college she got two degrees or some shit. her family got the hook up at this company so she along with her degrees is very high in the company.. she ended up cheating an the nigga she cheated with , she got a job at the comapny. and later she got her husband a job at the same company. her husband found out later that he knew the nigga she was cheating on him with. an had to look at this nigga everyday. he ended up creeping but she extra mad at him for doing it. an she keeps trying to leave him an finally they split up. i feel like thats a fucked up situation to be in. to help someone get to where they are then they begin to feel they are too good or dont need your shit.

i just couldnt picture myself not just walking out but...how do you keep your sanity in that? she used to straight up shit on him about not making loot when he put her thru college in order for her to make the loot she makes.

Yeah, that's definitely not for me.

Word to @gemini86 .

'Makes me wonder what the backstory is whenever I hear stories in the news about a man killing his entire family or his wife/gf.

I mean, not trying to justify it............but people just don't go off like that for no reason.

Something had to have triggered it, and going through something like that would definitely be a possible catalyst for something like that to happen.

Now, this isn't about right or wrong............it's about cause and effect.

yea the crazy thing is...he still is trying to get back with her. an she basically wants to "see whats out there"

this is the most fukked up part. see whats out there now that you are established and hes not as established cause he sacrificed his youth to help her become better. but she feels she sacrificed her youth being locked into a relationship...an thing is she has a mother and father.

an when we had the couples meetings....all the chicks would say but he cheated....so she has a right. they all skip over that she cheated first and he has to work with this nigga.

man shit i agree with you.....if my wife was to ever do that shit...i would cry for about 2-3 days...then just leave me the fukk alone an let me go on my way. any futher contact an i might nicole simpson her ass

Shes dead wrong for that shit but he needs to take his losses n move on. Trying to get back with someone who isnt worthy of the relationship is wasting time he could be using to put himself in a better position.

Who knows, maybe they get back together n work it out, maybe he finds a better bitch.

Its tough but in a situation like that u gotta put yourself first. If u dont cut your losses early on u may suffer more of them.

Sometimes it can be an ego thing tho. Somebody left u for someone else can make u feel like less so u wanna get back with them just to feed your ego n say "it wasnt me after all"....but youre still bitter and unsatisfied

It never was u tho, that bitch is just selfish.

Find a better one!

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

Old boy fucked up when he didn't build himself first before worrying about himself. I'm about to have to do that with my fiance, help her through school for about two years, but I have my own foundation built, I have a career and my own money... hell I'm able to pay all my bills and still take vacation once a month. You're supposed to be selfish in your youth, that's why I never believed in young relationships. I'm 28 and I'm just now ready to get married, because even if something were to happen between me and my fiance I was fine before her I'll be fine without her.

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

As fucked up as this may sound fellas this is the truth: Your woman needs to feel like she needs you, meanwhile she needs to KNOW that you don't need her. If she ever starts to feel like you need her shit will go left real fast.

Sounds terrible coming from a recently engaged man, but that's the only way for it to work. Women are too opportunistic, they are the type to keep gambling even though they already hit the jackpot. Most of them are obsessed with what they don't need or should have, that's why Eve bit into that apple bruh, broad had everything and she still wanted more because for most of them no matter how much they get they always think they need more when they really don't.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

As fucked up as this may sound fellas this is the truth: Your woman needs to feel like she needs you, meanwhile she needs to KNOW that you don't need her. If she ever starts to feel like you need her shit will go left real fast.

Sounds terrible coming from a recently engaged man, but that's the only way for it to work. Women are too opportunistic, they are the type to keep gambling even though they already hit the jackpot. Most of them are obsessed with what they don't need or should have, that's why Eve bit into that apple bruh, broad had everything and she still wanted more because for most of them no matter how much they get they always think they need more when they really don't.

very delicate balancing act.

i was about to type some shit but changed my mind.

i work on a different playing field than most and i see things a bit different.

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

As fucked up as this may sound fellas this is the truth: Your woman needs to feel like she needs you, meanwhile she needs to KNOW that you don't need her. If she ever starts to feel like you need her shit will go left real fast.

Sounds terrible coming from a recently engaged man, but that's the only way for it to work. Women are too opportunistic, they are the type to keep gambling even though they already hit the jackpot. Most of them are obsessed with what they don't need or should have, that's why Eve bit into that apple bruh, broad had everything and she still wanted more because for most of them no matter how much they get they always think they need more when they really don't.

very delicate balancing act.

i was about to type some shit but changed my mind.

i work on a different playing field than most and i see things a bit different.

Nah type it I'd like to hear it, I'm about to be married so I'd like to hear all perspectives besides my parents(my parents are old school, my mama is a rare breed in that she understands she can make money and still let a man be a man a lot of these new age chicks don't have the ability to do that).

 

[2stepz_ahead]

As fucked up as this may sound fellas this is the truth: Your woman needs to feel like she needs you, meanwhile she needs to KNOW that you don't need her. If she ever starts to feel like you need her shit will go left real fast.

Sounds terrible coming from a recently engaged man, but that's the only way for it to work. Women are too opportunistic, they are the type to keep gambling even though they already hit the jackpot. Most of them are obsessed with what they don't need or should have, that's why Eve bit into that apple bruh, broad had everything and she still wanted more because for most of them no matter how much they get they always think they need more when they really don't.

very delicate balancing act.

i was about to type some shit but changed my mind.

i work on a different playing field than most and i see things a bit different.

Nah type it I'd like to hear it, I'm about to be married so I'd like to hear all perspectives besides my parents(my parents are old school, my mama is a rare breed in that she understands she can make money and still let a man be a man a lot of these new age chicks don't have the ability to do that).

all i will say is...stand up now and early.

dont let no shit fester.

make sure you plan for the what ifs.

my wife and i fought like cats and dogs earlier in our relationship. others where showing they had it all together while we fought over dumb shit.

fast forward a decade....most of them divorced. im not saying we are perfect but some shit i just not gonna take on the chin. kinda like the scenario i just mentioned. if supported my wife thru her second degree but she supported me just starting out with my business. even tho i didnt need it cuase i turned a profit instantly...but she was there encouraging me to go for mine.

just know the beginning is always easy to get thru just like the good times are easy. but what happens when times get tough? thats when you know who you are truly married to.

but you also have to know what to expect and know she cant give you everything you need. its impossible.

yall just have to make it work like only you two can. allow her strengths to help your weaknesses and visa versa.

 

[AZTG]

At the end of the day, your wife/girl is her own person, and unrelated to you. Bitch dont owe you nothing, you dont owe her nothing.

Coming to a conclusion that you two wanna be together forever is a beautiful thing, but here is the part that people dont get. Me at age 28 and me at age 38 are completly different people. I can promise whole heartedly at 28 that I wanna be with my wife forever and mean everyword, but 38 year old me? Hes gonna be a completly different person and I cant speak for him.

Same goes for women. She can promise to love you, but in 10 years, shes a different person, and who knows what happened in those 10 years to make her who she is.

I say all that to say that people in general, in this case men, they gotta put the idea of forever out of their mind. Im not a women hater, i dont fear break ups, and im not gonna be in here saying dont fall in love, never get married etc. I think everyone should be in love, its a beautiful thing.

But, my only advice for men and women is get that forever shit out of your mind. Never forget that shit could end tomorrow. Enjoy what you got now, make the most of it, and if shit ends tomorrow, move on. It could hurt for a bit, but man as humans we get over everything. If you could get over the death of a parent, you can get over a bitch.

I cant promise a bitch the next 5 years, let alone forever. I can promise that the way I feel now, I wanna be with you forever, but who knows how ima feel in 5 years.

I damn sure dont believe in her promises of forever either. Man enjoy your time with the person you love, make the most of it, if it ends, doesnt mean it was wrong, yall shared some great time together, and look for other great times to jump into.

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

As fucked up as this may sound fellas this is the truth: Your woman needs to feel like she needs you, meanwhile she needs to KNOW that you don't need her. If she ever starts to feel like you need her shit will go left real fast.

Sounds terrible coming from a recently engaged man, but that's the only way for it to work. Women are too opportunistic, they are the type to keep gambling even though they already hit the jackpot. Most of them are obsessed with what they don't need or should have, that's why Eve bit into that apple bruh, broad had everything and she still wanted more because for most of them no matter how much they get they always think they need more when they really don't.

very delicate balancing act.

i was about to type some shit but changed my mind.

i work on a different playing field than most and i see things a bit different.

Nah type it I'd like to hear it, I'm about to be married so I'd like to hear all perspectives besides my parents(my parents are old school, my mama is a rare breed in that she understands she can make money and still let a man be a man a lot of these new age chicks don't have the ability to do that).

all i will say is...stand up now and early.

dont let no shit fester.

make sure you plan for the what ifs.

my wife and i fought like cats and dogs earlier in our relationship. others where showing they had it all together while we fought over dumb shit.

fast forward a decade....most of them divorced. im not saying we are perfect but some shit i just not gonna take on the chin. kinda like the scenario i just mentioned. if supported my wife thru her second degree but she supported me just starting out with my business. even tho i didnt need it cuase i turned a profit instantly...but she was there encouraging me to go for mine.

just know the beginning is always easy to get thru just like the good times are easy. but what happens when times get tough? thats when you know who you are truly married to.

but you also have to know what to expect and know she cant give you everything you need. its impossible.

yall just have to make it work like only you two can. allow her strengths to help your weaknesses and visa versa.

I feel you, me and my fiance discussed what was needed between the two of us from the jump. A lot of men are afraid to say anything to their woman because they are scared they will lose her... but that plays into her needing to know you don't need her also.

 

[AZTG]

I will promise a bitch forever though if im trying to get the pussy or trying to be with her. Haha.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

As fucked up as this may sound fellas this is the truth: Your woman needs to feel like she needs you, meanwhile she needs to KNOW that you don't need her. If she ever starts to feel like you need her shit will go left real fast.

Sounds terrible coming from a recently engaged man, but that's the only way for it to work. Women are too opportunistic, they are the type to keep gambling even though they already hit the jackpot. Most of them are obsessed with what they don't need or should have, that's why Eve bit into that apple bruh, broad had everything and she still wanted more because for most of them no matter how much they get they always think they need more when they really don't.

very delicate balancing act.

i was about to type some shit but changed my mind.

i work on a different playing field than most and i see things a bit different.

Nah type it I'd like to hear it, I'm about to be married so I'd like to hear all perspectives besides my parents(my parents are old school, my mama is a rare breed in that she understands she can make money and still let a man be a man a lot of these new age chicks don't have the ability to do that).

all i will say is...stand up now and early.

dont let no shit fester.

make sure you plan for the what ifs.

my wife and i fought like cats and dogs earlier in our relationship. others where showing they had it all together while we fought over dumb shit.

fast forward a decade....most of them divorced. im not saying we are perfect but some shit i just not gonna take on the chin. kinda like the scenario i just mentioned. if supported my wife thru her second degree but she supported me just starting out with my business. even tho i didnt need it cuase i turned a profit instantly...but she was there encouraging me to go for mine.

just know the beginning is always easy to get thru just like the good times are easy. but what happens when times get tough? thats when you know who you are truly married to.

but you also have to know what to expect and know she cant give you everything you need. its impossible.

yall just have to make it work like only you two can. allow her strengths to help your weaknesses and visa versa.

I feel you, me and my fiance discussed what was needed between the two of us from the jump. A lot of men are afraid to say anything to their woman because they are scared they will lose her... but that plays into her needing to know you don't need her also.

its crazy right.

niggas be ready to yell an say she aint shit but then be scared to talk about certain shit.

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

As fucked up as this may sound fellas this is the truth: Your woman needs to feel like she needs you, meanwhile she needs to KNOW that you don't need her. If she ever starts to feel like you need her shit will go left real fast.

Sounds terrible coming from a recently engaged man, but that's the only way for it to work. Women are too opportunistic, they are the type to keep gambling even though they already hit the jackpot. Most of them are obsessed with what they don't need or should have, that's why Eve bit into that apple bruh, broad had everything and she still wanted more because for most of them no matter how much they get they always think they need more when they really don't.

very delicate balancing act.

i was about to type some shit but changed my mind.

i work on a different playing field than most and i see things a bit different.

Nah type it I'd like to hear it, I'm about to be married so I'd like to hear all perspectives besides my parents(my parents are old school, my mama is a rare breed in that she understands she can make money and still let a man be a man a lot of these new age chicks don't have the ability to do that).

all i will say is...stand up now and early.

dont let no shit fester.

make sure you plan for the what ifs.

my wife and i fought like cats and dogs earlier in our relationship. others where showing they had it all together while we fought over dumb shit.

fast forward a decade....most of them divorced. im not saying we are perfect but some shit i just not gonna take on the chin. kinda like the scenario i just mentioned. if supported my wife thru her second degree but she supported me just starting out with my business. even tho i didnt need it cuase i turned a profit instantly...but she was there encouraging me to go for mine.

just know the beginning is always easy to get thru just like the good times are easy. but what happens when times get tough? thats when you know who you are truly married to.

but you also have to know what to expect and know she cant give you everything you need. its impossible.

yall just have to make it work like only you two can. allow her strengths to help your weaknesses and visa versa.

I feel you, me and my fiance discussed what was needed between the two of us from the jump. A lot of men are afraid to say anything to their woman because they are scared they will lose her... but that plays into her needing to know you don't need her also.

its crazy right.

niggas be ready to yell an say she aint shit but then be scared to talk about certain shit.

Hell yeah, and a lot of these cats need to understand, sometimes you just gotta let women talk, they need to talk they like to talk even if it's about bullshit that's just what they do, talk. My fiance be talking, but she knows how far it can go sometimes you gotta let them talk.

 

[Max.]

How you know he doesn't feel the same?

Why question me?

If everyone lived their own truth without worrying about what works for the next person we'd be in a better place.

I'm only questioning u cuz u post here

yeah I would def ask a dude why he would wife a chick that doesn't believe in monogamy

not sure what the deflection is for when I'm just asking ur opinion

why so serious?

Cause I thought this was a serious thread.

I think some people manage monogamy, but I also think the inability ends alot of relationships.

I don't feel like it should. He could fuck someone this weekend while he's out of town and it wouldn't be the end of our relationship. Unless he knocked the bitch up.

@OmegaConflict

 

[OmegaConflict]

As fucked up as this may sound fellas this is the truth: Your woman needs to feel like she needs you, meanwhile she needs to KNOW that you don't need her. If she ever starts to feel like you need her shit will go left real fast.

Sounds terrible coming from a recently engaged man, but that's the only way for it to work. Women are too opportunistic, they are the type to keep gambling even though they already hit the jackpot. Most of them are obsessed with what they don't need or should have, that's why Eve bit into that apple bruh, broad had everything and she still wanted more because for most of them no matter how much they get they always think they need more when they really don't.

very delicate balancing act.

i was about to type some shit but changed my mind.

i work on a different playing field than most and i see things a bit different.

Nah type it I'd like to hear it, I'm about to be married so I'd like to hear all perspectives besides my parents(my parents are old school, my mama is a rare breed in that she understands she can make money and still let a man be a man a lot of these new age chicks don't have the ability to do that).

all i will say is...stand up now and early.

dont let no shit fester.

make sure you plan for the what ifs.

my wife and i fought like cats and dogs earlier in our relationship. others where showing they had it all together while we fought over dumb shit.

fast forward a decade....most of them divorced. im not saying we are perfect but some shit i just not gonna take on the chin. kinda like the scenario i just mentioned. if supported my wife thru her second degree but she supported me just starting out with my business. even tho i didnt need it cuase i turned a profit instantly...but she was there encouraging me to go for mine.

just know the beginning is always easy to get thru just like the good times are easy. but what happens when times get tough? thats when you know who you are truly married to.

but you also have to know what to expect and know she cant give you everything you need. its impossible.

yall just have to make it work like only you two can. allow her strengths to help your weaknesses and visa versa.

I feel you, me and my fiance discussed what was needed between the two of us from the jump. A lot of men are afraid to say anything to their woman because they are scared they will lose her... but that plays into her needing to know you don't need her also.

its crazy right.

niggas be ready to yell an say she aint shit but then be scared to talk about certain shit.

Hell yeah, and a lot of these cats need to understand, sometimes you just gotta let women talk, they need to talk they like to talk even if it's about bullshit that's just what they do, talk. My fiance be talking, but she knows how far it can go sometimes you gotta let them talk.

What movie yall talking about, this shit sound dumb af

Not watching

 

[Go figure]

The social has to be renogiciated. Nobody is happy.

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

I wouldn't allow a man to put me through school just to shit on him and continuously shit on him via the nigga I/we work with. That's how people come up missing.

I think that Texas gave some advice. I don't want my s/o to need me kuz certain shit you should be able to handle by yourself. Yeah, he may talk to me about how he feels about a situation or get my input, but the decision is always his. And by the time he comes to me with it, he's already made up his mind.

The idea of 'forever' is ok as long as you're realistic about things and are able to grow/allow that person to grow.