Some men mistake sexual interest for consent,

[LordZuko]

Precisely why I do not engage in flirtatious behavior with men unless I have intention of having sex with them.

Is old white pussy on the uptrend again?

 

[jetlifebih]

Mysonne dropping gems....women use their sexuality as power the same way men use their positions of power it’s just one is looked at more negative(men using positions of power) than the other and we never hear the other side being talked about with the same emotion and or enthusiasm

Typical @Madame_CJSkywalker @Westie @Kat @babelipsss @"BiblicalAtheist " response at the 10:00 mark...you hit women with logic...they hit you with the....”oh well...the bottom line is....”

[yt]https://youtu.be/LceaeCnQx0w[/yt]

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

@jetlifebih idk wtf you're talking about. Don't presume to know anything about me.

 

[Shuffington]

Yeah... in a lot of situations

Men use their power to sleep with women.

Women sleep with men to gain power.

Who's actually wrong here?

•Would you say those in powerful positions have a responsibility to utilize their power in ways that are moral and ethical.?

or

• In general those looking to obtain power need to work within and ethical and moral blueprint to rise to a powerful position.

I think the game is rigged in general.

perhaps what is going on now is a reset.

 

[jetlifebih]

@jetlifebih idk wtf you're talking about. Don't presume to know anything about me.

Don’t @ me to dumb shit

 

[blackrain]

When i worked corrections ....they had a very important part of the training called “the games inmates play”

Basically they would put you up on game about the shit inmates do to manipulate officers.....

There needs to be a class called “the games women play”

Fuck you mean your interested in fuckin but you don’t want to fuck....is you fuckin or not?? Your girlfriend requested me on fb was eyeing me the whole fuckin night anyway ...stop playing games....

This really sounds like some shit chicks used to do right around that age where you stopped listening to your parents when they WASNT there...this issue seems adolescent in nature

early 20s. had a guy I'd been dealing with invite me over just to watch a movie... no discussion of sex....its like 6 pm...i accept because our first couple of dates was cool and we had chemistry... get to his house. eat. there is no tv in his living room. the only working tv is supposedly in his bedroom. now he tryna get me to drink. wasn't ready to go there with him. I make up an excuse to leave and even then he didn't want to take me home at first

now I'm thinking had he told me to find a diff way home he prob would have plenty of boys ready to dap him up

or if I'm down to just hug up and kiss, times you got men who will pressure u to do more after 2, 3 rebuffs

and based off what other women shared with me it happens a lot...

that said, i don't even think a lot of men are actively trying to do harm...or rather they aren't consciously aware of how intimidating or grating it can be after a while because obviously y'all are rarely on the receiving end, bigger, etc... and its almost expected behavior and has been tolerated up until now...it usually is chalked up to boys beings boys... to youth...etc

agree things are kind of getting muddled....but that's why what is consent is a necessary convo though...and getting to a consensus what is acceptable

We'll never reach a consensus on what's acceptable.

Take the whole "street harassment" bullshit. You got women out there vehemently opposed to a man approaching them for any reason while out and about much less speaking to them. Then you have women that welcome it and are flattered by it and think the chicks that don't like it are just stuck up bitches. You have women that actively seek it out male attention on the street and see all attention as good. Then you have women that don't care one way or another and really wish everyone would just shut up about such a non-issue.

In a scenario like your own, the last time he did it the chick was likely open and receptive, prolly even decided she was gonna fuck before she got to his crib. For her it was a welcome thing, for you it wasn't. Consensus can never be reached because some chicks don't mind it while others do. Same for "unwanted" touching; for some women it's a sign the man is feelin' her and she likes it and for some they look at it as sexual assault.

This is the shit that females don't understand. Niggas ain't mind readers. The only thing we can do are read the signs as best we can. If the shit worked for us the last three times, we have no reason to assume it won't work the forth time. If we're wrong we're wrong, but we're not villains for misreading signals.

Misreading signals isnt usually an issue. Its when niggas know the signals ain't there and they keep pressing. Shit I just read an article that said 1 of 4 men don't think flashing a woman or rubbing against her without her consent is wrong. Shit like that is a problem if that study is true

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

@jetlifebih idk wtf you're talking about. Don't presume to know anything about me.

Don’t @ me to dumb shit

Likewise.

 

[blackrain]

But these hoes turn around and call you lame for not being aggressive enough

Someone calls you lame for actually trying to take the time to see what she likes and is cool with...take it as a red flag and keep it pushing

with a dry dick.... see folk keep overlooking the goal is to get pussy or sex.... so all this bullshit being spilled by women doenst help the man at all... but it does help her cuz she can fuck when she want to esp if she pretty. the game has been rigged b

But is the pussy worth it? That's what you got to consider. Somebody playing games ain't never worth it. There's plenty women who have no problem letting it be known what they want. I was talking to a co worker the other day. He fresh out of college and still in his "crazy women are fun" phase. Told the lil nigga its all fun til you realize you ain't got not peace because of her crazy ass.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

When i worked corrections ....they had a very important part of the training called “the games inmates play”

Basically they would put you up on game about the shit inmates do to manipulate officers.....

There needs to be a class called “the games women play”

Fuck you mean your interested in fuckin but you don’t want to fuck....is you fuckin or not?? Your girlfriend requested me on fb was eyeing me the whole fuckin night anyway ...stop playing games....

This really sounds like some shit chicks used to do right around that age where you stopped listening to your parents when they WASNT there...this issue seems adolescent in nature

early 20s. had a guy I'd been dealing with invite me over just to watch a movie... no discussion of sex....its like 6 pm...i accept because our first couple of dates was cool and we had chemistry... get to his house. eat. there is no tv in his living room. the only working tv is supposedly in his bedroom. now he tryna get me to drink. wasn't ready to go there with him. I make up an excuse to leave and even then he didn't want to take me home at first

now I'm thinking had he told me to find a diff way home he prob would have plenty of boys ready to dap him up

or if I'm down to just hug up and kiss, times you got men who will pressure u to do more after 2, 3 rebuffs

and based off what other women shared with me it happens a lot...

that said, i don't even think a lot of men are actively trying to do harm...or rather they aren't consciously aware of how intimidating or grating it can be after a while because obviously y'all are rarely on the receiving end, bigger, etc... and its almost expected behavior and has been tolerated up until now...it usually is chalked up to boys beings boys... to youth...etc

agree things are kind of getting muddled....but that's why what is consent is a necessary convo though...and getting to a consensus what is acceptable

We'll never reach a consensus on what's acceptable.

Take the whole "street harassment" bullshit. You got women out there vehemently opposed to a man approaching them for any reason while out and about much less speaking to them. Then you have women that welcome it and are flattered by it and think the chicks that don't like it are just stuck up bitches. You have women that actively seek it out male attention on the street and see all attention as good. Then you have women that don't care one way or another and really wish everyone would just shut up about such a non-issue.

In a scenario like your own, the last time he did it the chick was likely open and receptive, prolly even decided she was gonna fuck before she got to his crib. For her it was a welcome thing, for you it wasn't. Consensus can never be reached because some chicks don't mind it while others do. Same for "unwanted" touching; for some women it's a sign the man is feelin' her and she likes it and for some they look at it as sexual assault.

This is the shit that females don't understand. Niggas ain't mind readers. The only thing we can do are read the signs as best we can. If the shit worked for us the last three times, we have no reason to assume it won't work the forth time. If we're wrong we're wrong, but we're not villains for misreading signals.

Misreading signals isnt usually an issue. Its when niggas know the signals ain't there and they keep pressing. Shit I just read an article that said 1 of 4 men don't think flashing a woman or rubbing against her without her consent is wrong. Shit like that is a problem if that study is true

Misreading signals is often an issue. That's basically the point of the article that this thread is about. Your study says that maybe 25% of dudes are just straight up scumbags or think scumbaggery is acceptable. However, 100% of men could fall victim to a misunderstanding.

 

[Kat]

Mysonne dropping gems....women use their sexuality as power the same way men use their positions of power it’s just one is looked at more negative(men using positions of power) than the other and we never hear the other side being talked about with the same emotion and or enthusiasm

Typical @Madame_CJSkywalker @Westie @Kat @babelipsss @"BiblicalAtheist " response at the 10:00 mark...you hit women with logic...they hit you with the....”oh well...the bottom line is....”

[yt]https://youtu.be/LceaeCnQx0w[/yt]

Man..I'm so over arguing about relations between the genders. Live your life...I'm good with my dude.

 

[Westie]

Mysonne dropping gems....women use their sexuality as power the same way men use their positions of power it’s just one is looked at more negative(men using positions of power) than the other and we never hear the other side being talked about with the same emotion and or enthusiasm

Typical @Madame_CJSkywalker @Westie @Kat @babelipsss @"BiblicalAtheist " response at the 10:00 mark...you hit women with logic...they hit you with the....”oh well...the bottom line is....”

[yt]https://youtu.be/LceaeCnQx0w[/yt]

If you niggas don't leave me tf alone.

This is the problem with yall. You @ the very few women who post here to bitch about how bad women are. You are on a site full of men. If you love the company of men soooooo much more, leave my screen name out of your bullshit and talk to these other niggas so you can continue to circle jerk each other.

Thanks.