Some men mistake sexual interest for consent,

[LordZuko]

Fuckin with females there were a lot of situations where i coulda got myself fucked up because niggas don't always know the games females play.

Like black girls typically like aggressive niggas. A nigga that is just gonna make his move.

White girls typically like dominant niggas not aggressive but firmly taking charge of a situation

Latinas be liking a build up to the moment. They like a sexually charged atmosphere bc they really get off on that latin seductress stereotype.

Asian bitches are funny. You can't always read them. Partly if they are international too because cultural barriers causes a lot of miscommunication

 

[LordZuko]

Girls play a lot of games figuring out their sexuality and how they can use it and do different things with it.

Like you got some females that will wave their pussy in your face just to see how high you'd jump to get it. They have no intentions of fuckin but they want to exert some power and influence.

 

[felliwonda]

Fuckin with females there were a lot of situations where i coulda got myself fucked up because niggas don't always know the games females play.

Like black girls typically like aggressive niggas. A nigga that is just gonna make his move.

White girls typically like dominant niggas not aggressive but firmly taking charge of a situation

Latinas be liking a build up to the moment. They like a sexually charged atmosphere bc they really get off on that latin seductress stereotype.

Asian bitches are funny. You can't always read them. Partly if they are international too because cultural barriers causes a lot of miscommunication

Dawg am telling you man you never know wtf going on out here with women sometimes.

 

[AggieLean.]

Curiosity doesn mean green light you fucking retards.

Gotdamn

Who said it did?

 

[LordZuko]

Curiosity doesn mean green light you fucking retards.

Gotdamn

What does it mean then? Yellow light? Proceed with caution.

Basically the verbiage is setting up a scenario where men have to let females make the first move.

But how often do females make the first move?

Most times a nigga only has "sexual interest" to act upon as information if she gon fuck or not

 

[felliwonda]

Curiosity doesn mean green light you fucking retards.

Gotdamn

What does it mean then? Yellow light? Proceed with caution.

Basically the verbiage is setting up a scenario where men have to let females make the first move.

But how often do females make the first move?

Most times a nigga only has "sexual interest" to act upon as information if she gon fuck or not

Lmfao man smh I keep telling you man

 

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[The Lonious Monk]

When i worked corrections ....they had a very important part of the training called “the games inmates play”

Basically they would put you up on game about the shit inmates do to manipulate officers.....

There needs to be a class called “the games women play”

Fuck you mean your interested in fuckin but you don’t want to fuck....is you fuckin or not?? Your girlfriend requested me on fb was eyeing me the whole fuckin night anyway ...stop playing games....

This really sounds like some shit chicks used to do right around that age where you stopped listening to your parents when they WASNT there...this issue seems adolescent in nature

early 20s. had a guy I'd been dealing with invite me over just to watch a movie... no discussion of sex....its like 6 pm...i accept because our first couple of dates was cool and we had chemistry... get to his house. eat. there is no tv in his living room. the only working tv is supposedly in his bedroom. now he tryna get me to drink. wasn't ready to go there with him. I make up an excuse to leave and even then he didn't want to take me home at first

now I'm thinking had he told me to find a diff way home he prob would have plenty of boys ready to dap him up

or if I'm down to just hug up and kiss, times you got men who will pressure u to do more after 2, 3 rebuffs

and based off what other women shared with me it happens a lot...

that said, i don't even think a lot of men are actively trying to do harm...or rather they aren't consciously aware of how intimidating or grating it can be after a while because obviously y'all are rarely on the receiving end, bigger, etc... and its almost expected behavior and has been tolerated up until now...it usually is chalked up to boys beings boys... to youth...etc

agree things are kind of getting muddled....but that's why what is consent is a necessary convo though...and getting to a consensus what is acceptable

We'll never reach a consensus on what's acceptable.

Take the whole "street harassment" bullshit. You got women out there vehemently opposed to a man approaching them for any reason while out and about much less speaking to them. Then you have women that welcome it and are flattered by it and think the chicks that don't like it are just stuck up bitches. You have women that actively seek it out male attention on the street and see all attention as good. Then you have women that don't care one way or another and really wish everyone would just shut up about such a non-issue.

In a scenario like your own, the last time he did it the chick was likely open and receptive, prolly even decided she was gonna fuck before she got to his crib. For her it was a welcome thing, for you it wasn't. Consensus can never be reached because some chicks don't mind it while others do. Same for "unwanted" touching; for some women it's a sign the man is feelin' her and she likes it and for some they look at it as sexual assault.

This is the shit that females don't understand. Niggas ain't mind readers. The only thing we can do are read the signs as best we can. If the shit worked for us the last three times, we have no reason to assume it won't work the forth time. If we're wrong we're wrong, but we're not villains for misreading signals.

 

[LordZuko]

Curiosity doesn mean green light you fucking retards.

Gotdamn

What does it mean then? Yellow light? Proceed with caution.

Basically the verbiage is setting up a scenario where men have to let females make the first move.

But how often do females make the first move?

Most times a nigga only has "sexual interest" to act upon as information if she gon fuck or not

So if a chick say "holup, I have a flare up" you gon say fuck that shit and rip the draws off?

If a she kinda drunk but has a moment of clarity, you gon buss that chick in the eye?

What about if she suddenly have wild bowels mid face sucking?

What if her period happen to come down? You gon earn your red wings?

What if she dry humped you and was put off by your rhythm?

Sexual Interest =/= Green Light

You know how many women done walked by me while bench pressing just to check my package? You must think i should have had my way with each of them huh?

My balls swing like a muhfukka during deadlifts, so every woman that watch the shit is mine for the taking?

Nah bro... Yall wrong.

Nigga you KNOW that's not what we mean. There's a difference between passing sexual interests (what you just described) vs continued and sustained sexual interest.

Niggas understand the first bit because niggas check out females all the time in a passing manner.

All them other scenarios are variables that change up the whole situation.

 

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[LordZuko]

Curiosity doesn mean green light you fucking retards.

Gotdamn

What does it mean then? Yellow light? Proceed with caution.

Basically the verbiage is setting up a scenario where men have to let females make the first move.

But how often do females make the first move?

Most times a nigga only has "sexual interest" to act upon as information if she gon fuck or not

So if a chick say "holup, I have a flare up" you gon say fuck that shit and rip the draws off?

If a she kinda drunk but has a moment of clarity, you gon buss that chick in the eye?

What about if she suddenly have wild bowels mid face sucking?

What if her period happen to come down? You gon earn your red wings?

What if she dry humped you and was put off by your rhythm?

Sexual Interest =/= Green Light

You know how many women done walked by me while bench pressing just to check my package? You must think i should have had my way with each of them huh?

My balls swing like a muhfukka during deadlifts, so every woman that watch the shit is mine for the taking?

Nah bro... Yall wrong.

Nigga you KNOW that's not what we mean. There's a difference between passing sexual interests (what you just described) vs continued and sustained sexual interest.

Niggas understand the first bit because niggas check out females all the time in a passing manner.

All them other scenarios are variables that change up the whole situation.

Ok.

What if she just plain loses interest?

How is this not allowed?

What if she got a bad case of Booty Dew?

Then she should open her mouth and say "i change my mind" or something to that effect.

There's a reason that we say sex is for adults because all parties have a reasonable assumption of being able to communicate.

 

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[Inglewood_B]

But these hoes turn around and call you lame for not being aggressive enough

 

[Madame_CJSkywalker]

When i worked corrections ....they had a very important part of the training called “the games inmates play”

Basically they would put you up on game about the shit inmates do to manipulate officers.....

There needs to be a class called “the games women play”

Fuck you mean your interested in fuckin but you don’t want to fuck....is you fuckin or not?? Your girlfriend requested me on fb was eyeing me the whole fuckin night anyway ...stop playing games....

This really sounds like some shit chicks used to do right around that age where you stopped listening to your parents when they WASNT there...this issue seems adolescent in nature

early 20s. had a guy I'd been dealing with invite me over just to watch a movie... no discussion of sex....its like 6 pm...i accept because our first couple of dates was cool and we had chemistry... get to his house. eat. there is no tv in his living room. the only working tv is supposedly in his bedroom. now he tryna get me to drink. wasn't ready to go there with him. I make up an excuse to leave and even then he didn't want to take me home at first

now I'm thinking had he told me to find a diff way home he prob would have plenty of boys ready to dap him up

or if I'm down to just hug up and kiss, times you got men who will pressure u to do more after 2, 3 rebuffs

and based off what other women shared with me it happens a lot...

that said, i don't even think a lot of men are actively trying to do harm...or rather they aren't consciously aware of how intimidating or grating it can be after a while because obviously y'all are rarely on the receiving end, bigger, etc... and its almost expected behavior and has been tolerated up until now...it usually is chalked up to boys beings boys... to youth...etc

agree things are kind of getting muddled....but that's why what is consent is a necessary convo though...and getting to a consensus what is acceptable

We'll never reach a consensus on what's acceptable.

Take the whole "street harassment" bullshit. You got women out there vehemently opposed to a man approaching them for any reason while out and about much less speaking to them. Then you have women that welcome it and are flattered by it and think the chicks that don't like it are just stuck up bitches. You have women that actively seek it out male attention on the street and see all attention as good. Then you have women that don't care one way or another and really wish everyone would just shut up about such a non-issue.

In a scenario like your own, the last time he did it the chick was likely open and receptive, prolly even decided she was gonna fuck before she got to his crib. For her it was a welcome thing, for you it wasn't. Consensus can never be reached because some chicks don't mind it while others do. Same for "unwanted" touching; for some women it's a sign the man is feelin' her and she likes it and for some they look at it as sexual assault.

With the guy i was dealing with opposed to being direct and seeing what I was about, he tried to put me in a position where it would be harder for me to say no. Tryna get me to his house under false pretenses Tryna get me to his bedroom. Tryna get me to drink. Not a crime. But we can't agree that wasn't cool

And its best to keep ur hands to urself unless u have already built a rapport and trust with that particular woman ...really not sure why that's not something we can't agree on

To touch someone you gotta get into their personal space. Unless its incidental contact, its intimate in a way

There is other ways to express ur interest...for ex be nice and use ur words...She not trying to hear it move on....that's her right

When its comes to getting physical there is a thin line between persistence and doing something stupid ...best to err on the side of caution...discuss what she likes...why does a woman have to opt out of shit opposed to you asking...why is that a bad thing

You in the workplace keep it professional, at least until you built a rapport

 

[Max.]

Its a fuckn war on men!!!
https://twitter.com/jemelehill/status/935867500167942144
https://twitter.com/MigCuervo/status/935871140655968256
https://twitter.com/MigCuervo/status/935871140655968256
https://twitter.com/asitweetthis/status/935908199970082816

This is bull shit

 

[Madame_CJSkywalker]

When i worked corrections ....they had a very important part of the training called “the games inmates play”

Basically they would put you up on game about the shit inmates do to manipulate officers.....

There needs to be a class called “the games women play”

Fuck you mean your interested in fuckin but you don’t want to fuck....is you fuckin or not?? Your girlfriend requested me on fb was eyeing me the whole fuckin night anyway ...stop playing games....

This really sounds like some shit chicks used to do right around that age where you stopped listening to your parents when they WASNT there...this issue seems adolescent in nature

early 20s. had a guy I'd been dealing with invite me over just to watch a movie... no discussion of sex....its like 6 pm...i accept because our first couple of dates was cool and we had chemistry... get to his house. eat. there is no tv in his living room. the only working tv is supposedly in his bedroom. now he tryna get me to drink. wasn't ready to go there with him. I make up an excuse to leave and even then he didn't want to take me home at first

now I'm thinking had he told me to find a diff way home he prob would have plenty of boys ready to dap him up

or if I'm down to just hug up and kiss, times you got men who will pressure u to do more after 2, 3 rebuffs

and based off what other women shared with me it happens a lot...

that said, i don't even think a lot of men are actively trying to do harm...or rather they aren't consciously aware of how intimidating or grating it can be after a while because obviously y'all are rarely on the receiving end, bigger, etc... and its almost expected behavior and has been tolerated up until now...it usually is chalked up to boys beings boys... to youth...etc

agree things are kind of getting muddled....but that's why what is consent is a necessary convo though...and getting to a consensus what is acceptable

We'll never reach a consensus on what's acceptable.

Take the whole "street harassment" bullshit. You got women out there vehemently opposed to a man approaching them for any reason while out and about much less speaking to them. Then you have women that welcome it and are flattered by it and think the chicks that don't like it are just stuck up bitches. You have women that actively seek it out male attention on the street and see all attention as good. Then you have women that don't care one way or another and really wish everyone would just shut up about such a non-issue.

In a scenario like your own, the last time he did it the chick was likely open and receptive, prolly even decided she was gonna fuck before she got to his crib. For her it was a welcome thing, for you it wasn't. Consensus can never be reached because some chicks don't mind it while others do. Same for "unwanted" touching; for some women it's a sign the man is feelin' her and she likes it and for some they look at it as sexual assault.

This is the shit that females don't understand. Niggas ain't mind readers. The only thing we can do are read the signs as best we can. If the shit worked for us the last three times, we have no reason to assume it won't work the forth time. If we're wrong we're wrong, but we're not villains for misreading signals.

Lol

Considering women are not a monolith

Yes ...there is reason to assume it won't work the forth time

Not saying misreading signals is an act of pure evil and should be criminalized regardless of the offense but you arent an innocent or victim either if you get cussed put or reported to HR

 

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[deadeye]

Man... Them dating pool waters just get murkier and murkier by the day...

Waste of taxpayer money

Sexual Misconduct is very vague and theres no answer to it.

Any woman can proclaim misconduct no matter how overtly consenting she was prior.

Yeah.

Basically comes down to mixed messages and/or lack of communication.

Nothing groundbreaking.

 

[Max.]

My blood is boiling

Im shaking right now

 

[Madame_CJSkywalker]

But these hoes turn around and call you lame for not being aggressive enough

Someone calls you lame for actually trying to take the time to see what she likes and is cool with...take it as a red flag and keep it pushing