*** Should Single Mothers be Acknowledged on Father's Day?

[h8rhurta]

Nah!

 

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[TayGettem]

Several of your responses touch on the "women's" poor choices in men being the reason why they are single.

I believe this is the case .... sometimes. But It will be ignorant to assume that "all" women should be psychic and

for tell the future to see whether or not a man will be a great companion and present in their child's lives.

If that was the case, then "every single one of you", (whom have children with a woman you are no longer with)

should still be with your child's mother.

And if not, does that mean she made a poor choice in you?

Not in the case of women who use the kids as pawns and purposely fight to keep the father away.

That case shows poor judgement on the mans part. But I digress, not derailing the thread.

But what about the men who run out on the kid at birth

Then wanna be in his kids life later

Had a homie who finally met his dad at 18....punched his pops dead in his shit and said his died been dead ever since he walked out on his mom's

Not to mention alot guys really ain't shit seriously how many of us have claimed to love a women then cheat on her with another chick....it works both ways

Does your mom get celebrated on mothers day or nah?? She kept u, she took care of u. Should she not do that?? Sorry u didn't have both parents in your life. That's tough, but it seems like you've bought into the idea that a single mother's actions were 100% right and a single dad's were 100% wrong. Maybe your mom tried to trap your dad. Maybe your mom was the jump off and he had a real relationship. U don't know until u get both sides of the story. If your dad is a scumbag or deadbeat, what does that make your mom for being attracted to that type of guy?? Smh women play perpetual victims in every aspect of life and refuse to acknowledge their part in fucked up decisions.

I said my dad died apparently u didn't read my 1st post

My parents where married dad got cancer and passed

I also said I know women do foul shit In 1st post

I know there are single fathers out there

I'm talking abt the women like my mom who held it down not them trifling babymommas

Also we lie and y'all know it hell I'm a complete asshole to women

But I don't go up and say hey I ain't shit I put on the perfect man routine

So u can't just blame it on decision making

 

[TayGettem]

raised by a single mom,

never wished her happy fathers day..

shit's retarded....she's not a father.....

You right

 

[JusDre313]

How about fuck all these damn holidays and if you really gave a fuck about what they stood for, you acknowledge them on a regular basis and not just once a year?

im telling yo bruh.. i wake up yesterday download the new episode of power from the night before. Everybody and they momma texting/calling me "oh happys fathers day" "your one of the good ones".. im like FUCK FATHERs DAY AND FUCK YOU!!!!!....one more of you bitches interrupt me from watching power again

 

[deadeye]

No.

She can be a good mother, but she shouldn't be acknowledged on father's day because.....well....she's not a father.

 

[deadeye]

All it really means is that woman has poor decision making skills when it comes to choosing men so unless the father is dead that bitch is just making herself look bad

 

[deadeye]

u go only find basic bitches doin this shit..

this'll be my secind official fathers day.. but iv been gettin cards for yrs.. why?? cause iv been instrumental in several childrens lives who father isnt here wit us any longer..

all them bitches screamin that "im the mommy and daddy" is full of shit.. they got cousins.. brothers... some nigga they fuckin helpin they sorry ass wit that bastard..

give credit where its due..

or send the government a card if u cant send one to any of the above.

i swear i hate basic bitches..

wanna reward for their fucked ip choices in life. smmfh

So it's the womens fault if a man decides to split because she should have realised he was dog shit from the start?

Most women know what time of man they're dealing with.

They can tell if he's the type she can control/wrap around her finger.....and they can tell if he's the type that she needs to watch her mouth around.

Therefore, if they can determine those two things.....they should also be able to determine whether or not a man would be a good father.

 

[deadeye]

Seem like this question always comes up to take away from father's rather good or bad. .. let father's have this one day with out no bullshit on the side.

I agree this topic is a constant around this time. So is the "Single Mother's are Stronger than others" topic. It is what it is.

I expected more women to chime in on this, especially from some of the posts I have read elsewhere in this forum.

Ladies.....

@empress_

@Bookworm

@LadyDu

@Kat

@BabyBugatti

@BiblicalAtheist

@Pico‌

@sixsicksins

@topoftheworld‌

@desertrain10

@kai

@Westie

@charlie_

@moneypowerrespect

@taeboo

@missk

@tha_bride22

@Peeny_Wally

@MsSouthern‌

@thecoach757

@msjones

@haute

@twinzmom

@Khaleesi

@akforty7

@Yoso

@ccluvsau

@quietlistener

@Wasabi

@atribecalledgabi

@Paper_Plane_Jane24

@Beezus‌

@sweetheart93

@Rockets

@KINdRED .

@gotdamkam .

@scorpio4lfe .

@Khaleesi .

@obnoxiouslyfresh .

@Mizury .

Rebuttal?

 

[deadeye]

Anybody who says no clearly has both parents in they life

But I salute my mom's when my dad died

She held down me and my sister while working 2 shifts at the hospital

But still took off just to go see me and my sis individual sports games bck in highschool

How can u not give props to a female on her own doing things a man should do?

I never get men who have the nerve to judge women when we do the same shit

We cheat or fck multiple women we players

If they do it they hoes

We got the nerve to lie to women to get in they draws

Then call her stupid when she cry over a guy she really loved

We knock a chick up then run off on her

Then call her a bad mom when we don't know her situation

As a man I know some women are foul but hey u can't expect a female to stay the same

If every nigga see knows has been a complete dickhead

 

[NoCompetition]

I miss a lot of nonsense by not fckin with fb or none of that. I never really even heard of women wanting to claim Father's Day.There is Mother's Day. Father's Day is obviously for the fathers.

 

[T. Sanford]

Too many girls be trying to jump the gun too quick to be in a relationship.

They be trying to get with a "street dude" & try to mold him into Aladdin then put the blame on all dudes for their bad judgment of character

This ain't Disney word, this is real life

world

 

[manofmorehouse]

My homegirl's deadbeat baby daddy text her Happy Father's Day yesterday. She was neither amused nor flattered.

That is the dope st ether I've ever heard of! The dad doesn't take care of the kid at all and texts the chick Happy Father's Day to acknowledge he doesn't do shit and for her not to expect shit. Dead! Lmao

 

[MsSouthern]

Seem like this question always comes up to take away from father's rather good or bad. .. let father's have this one day with out no bullshit on the side.

I agree this topic is a constant around this time. So is the "Single Mother's are Stronger than others" topic. It is what it is.

I expected more women to chime in on this, especially from some of the posts I have read elsewhere in this forum.

Ladies.....

@empress_

@Bookworm

@LadyDu

@Kat

@BabyBugatti

@BiblicalAtheist

@Pico‌

@sixsicksins

@topoftheworld‌

@desertrain10

@kai

@Westie

@charlie_

@moneypowerrespect

@taeboo

@missk

@tha_bride22

@Peeny_Wally

@MsSouthern‌

@thecoach757

@msjones

@haute

@twinzmom

@Khaleesi

@akforty7

@Yoso

@ccluvsau

@quietlistener

@Wasabi

@atribecalledgabi

@Paper_Plane_Jane24

@Beezus‌

@sweetheart93

@Rockets

@KINdRED .

@gotdamkam .

@scorpio4lfe .

@Khaleesi .

@obnoxiouslyfresh .

@Mizury .

Rebuttal?

See page 2

 

[Kat]

Seem like this question always comes up to take away from father's rather good or bad. .. let father's have this one day with out no bullshit on the side.

I agree this topic is a constant around this time. So is the "Single Mother's are Stronger than others" topic. It is what it is.

I expected more women to chime in on this, especially from some of the posts I have read elsewhere in this forum.

Ladies.....

@empress_

@Bookworm

@LadyDu

@Kat

@BabyBugatti

@BiblicalAtheist

@Pico‌

@sixsicksins

@topoftheworld‌

@desertrain10

@kai

@Westie

@charlie_

@moneypowerrespect

@taeboo

@missk

@tha_bride22

@Peeny_Wally

@MsSouthern‌

@thecoach757

@msjones

@haute

@twinzmom

@Khaleesi

@akforty7

@Yoso

@ccluvsau

@quietlistener

@Wasabi

@atribecalledgabi

@Paper_Plane_Jane24

@Beezus‌

@sweetheart93

@Rockets

@KINdRED .

@gotdamkam .

@scorpio4lfe .

@Khaleesi .

@obnoxiouslyfresh .

@Mizury .

Rebuttal?

You might as well have shared with the class since you acting like a lil bitch right now.

You'll find my response on page one.

 

[Kat]

My homegirl's deadbeat baby daddy text her Happy Father's Day yesterday. She was neither amused nor flattered.

That is the dope st ether I've ever heard of! The dad doesn't take care of the kid at all and texts the chick Happy Father's Day to acknowledge he doesn't do shit and for her not to expect shit. Dead! Lmao

Yeah that's hilariously dope ether.

Smh.

 

[MistyKnight]

This is of no importance to me.

THIS is:

khaleesi-reborn.tumblr.com/post/122055795946/everyone-has-a-right-to-an-opinion

 

[scorpio4lfe]

Seem like this question always comes up to take away from father's rather good or bad. .. let father's have this one day with out no bullshit on the side.

I agree this topic is a constant around this time. So is the "Single Mother's are Stronger than others" topic. It is what it is.

I expected more women to chime in on this, especially from some of the posts I have read elsewhere in this forum.

Ladies.....

@empress_

@Bookworm

@LadyDu

@Kat

@BabyBugatti

@BiblicalAtheist

@Pico‌

@sixsicksins

@topoftheworld‌

@desertrain10

@kai

@Westie

@charlie_

@moneypowerrespect

@taeboo

@missk

@tha_bride22

@Peeny_Wally

@MsSouthern‌

@thecoach757

@msjones

@haute

@twinzmom

@Khaleesi

@akforty7

@Yoso

@ccluvsau

@quietlistener

@Wasabi

@atribecalledgabi

@Paper_Plane_Jane24

@Beezus‌

@sweetheart93

@Rockets

@KINdRED .

@gotdamkam .

@scorpio4lfe .

@Khaleesi .

@obnoxiouslyfresh .

@Mizury .

Rebuttal?

A mother is a mother. A father is a father. Each have their respective day. That is my only comment on the matter.

 

[manofmorehouse]

"TayGettem ;8147637"]

Several of your responses touch on the "women's" poor choices in men being the reason why they are single.

I believe this is the case .... sometimes. But It will be ignorant to assume that "all" women should be psychic and

for tell the future to see whether or not a man will be a great companion and present in their child's lives.

If that was the case, then "every single one of you", (whom have children with a woman you are no longer with)

should still be with your child's mother.

And if not, does that mean she made a poor choice in you?

Not in the case of women who use the kids as pawns and purposely fight to keep the father away.

That case shows poor judgement on the mans part. But I digress, not derailing the thread.

But what about the men who run out on the kid at birth

Then wanna be in his kids life later

Had a homie who finally met his dad at 18....punched his pops dead in his shit and said his died been dead ever since he walked out on his mom's

Not to mention alot guys really ain't shit seriously how many of us have claimed to love a women then cheat on her with another chick....it works both ways

Does your mom get celebrated on mothers day or nah?? She kept u, she took care of u. Should she not do that?? Sorry u didn't have both parents in your life. That's tough, but it seems like you've bought into the idea that a single mother's actions were 100% right and a single dad's were 100% wrong. Maybe your mom tried to trap your dad. Maybe your mom was the jump off and he had a real relationship. U don't know until u get both sides of the story. If your dad is a scumbag or deadbeat, what does that make your mom for being attracted to that type of guy?? Smh women play perpetual victims in every aspect of life and refuse to acknowledge their part in fucked up decisions.

I said my dad died apparently u didn't read my 1st post

My parents where married dad got cancer and passed

I also said I know women do foul shit In 1st post

I know there are single fathers out there

I'm talking abt the women like my mom who held it down not them trifling babymommas

Also we lie and y'all know it hell I'm a complete asshole to women

But I don't go up and say hey I ain't shit I put on the perfect man routine

So u can't just blame it on decision making[/quote]

The part about trapping and everything after was a generalization of people that grew up in single parent homes that buy into mom is right dad is wrong bullshit without hearing both sides. I don't care how amazing a mother is (my mom raised 5 boys but is also a woman who has been married for 35+ years). A mother is a mother. Chicks make it a habit of letting niggas know in the first 5 minutes they know if they'll fuck u or not. Perhaps some of these chicks need to spend a little more time getting to know who they're fucking or invest in some plan b. They'll let u know they have the final say in keeping a child or not but want input on a unilateral decision, and u don't see the issue with this as a man?? Ok....

 

[MrMinimalist]

The problem with a lot of women is that they wanna be masculine and people let them.