she calls the cops on you.......dealbreaker?

[_Lefty]

.....

 

[(Nope)]

Just because you can work through something doesn't mean you should do it...I could do it but I wouldn't...I'm admittedly bad with the forget part of forgive and forget. You do me wrong once it's in the front of my mind in any interaction we have forever and I'd never feel completely comfortable again. It wouldn't be worth that extra stress in the long run to me or the people around me

Word, I was trying to be sensitive to someone that might be in a relationship like that, but I'm out. I care about myself too much for all that back and forth. Letting my freedom hinge on the whims of others when I can simply separate myself from them is not the move.

As usual i gotta be the voice of reason

In the scenario mentioned niggas aint goin nowhere. Why? Look at you, emotional.

If you get to that point of wild arguments thats that crazy love shit its gon happen a few times before anyone leave and it woud probably be her. If u really coud up n leave her so quick u wouldn't have been in that position, that emotionally invested with hands in face, grabbing arms, etc.

Bet money that night or night after yall gon be boo boo'd up like it never happened, lookin ike a fake ass Jodie and Yvette.

Cool stories tho

This is some real self-aggrandizing shit.

 

[SolemnSauce]

Depends on what I did to her

 

[blackrain]

Just because you can work through something doesn't mean you should do it...I could do it but I wouldn't...I'm admittedly bad with the forget part of forgive and forget. You do me wrong once it's in the front of my mind in any interaction we have forever and I'd never feel completely comfortable again. It wouldn't be worth that extra stress in the long run to me or the people around me

Word, I was trying to be sensitive to someone that might be in a relationship like that, but I'm out. I care about myself too much for all that back and forth. Letting my freedom hinge on the whims of others when I can simply separate myself from them is not the move.

As usual i gotta be the voice of reason

In the scenario mentioned niggas aint goin nowhere. Why? Look at you, emotional.

If you get to that point of wild arguments thats that crazy love shit its gon happen a few times before anyone leave and it woud probably be her. If u really coud up n leave her so quick u wouldn't have been in that position, that emotionally invested with hands in face, grabbing arms, etc.

Bet money that night or night after yall gon be boo boo'd up like it never happened, lookin ike a fake ass Jodie and Yvette.

Cool stories tho

This is some real self-aggrandizing shit.

And the Stephen A. Smith word of the day award goes to the bold lol...Nah I agree w/ your response to my post though. I care about me too much to let someone drag me down like that. Some have called it arrogance, I call it self preservation.

 

[JJ_Evans]

The moment the police became involved in your relationship is the exact moment the woman took complete control of your relationship.

From that moment on, she has all the power. Whenever you go against that power, the threat of her calling the police creeps into the situation.

 

[the dukester]

Does a bear shit in the woods & wipe his ass with a furry white rabbit?

My baby moms called the cops on me before (the one & only time).

It's black relationship blasphemy to call the beast on your nigga when shit gets heated.

Me an baby moms started arguing over her sister staying with us, an bringing strange niggas from the block into our crib. Niggas mouths was getting watery looking around the crib on some "birdman hand-rub shit."

I fucked around & knocked bowl of fruity pebbles out her hand (got damn cereal stayed stuck on the ceiling for months) and she called the police.

I kept the police report as a reminder to never fully trust her 100%. As the saying goes, get somebody mad and you'll see how they REALLY feel about you.

 

[S2J]

Does a bear shit in the woods & wipe his ass with a furry white rabbit?

My baby moms called the cops on me before (the one & only time).

It's black relationship blasphemy to call the beast on your nigga when shit gets heated.

Me an baby moms started arguing over her sister staying with us, an bringing strange niggas from the block into our crib. Niggas mouths was getting watery looking around the crib on some "birdman hand-rub shit."

I fucked around & knocked bowl of fruity pebbles out her hand (got damn cereal stayed stuck on the ceiling for months) and she called the police.

I kept the police report as a reminder to never fully trust her 100%. As the saying goes, get somebody mad and you'll see how they REALLY feel about you.

Word. So u left her immediately after?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I'll skip the 'That would never happen because...' shit and just say that if me and my woman are arguing and I grab her face and take her cell phone...how can I be mad if she calls the police?

you need to be more angry she got a second phone....to call the police.

cuz if you took her cell and she still call.....she got a lunch nigga on her metro throw away.

so you can be mad ina roundabout way

 

[blackrain]

I'll skip the 'That would never happen because...' shit and just say that if me and my woman are arguing and I grab her face and take her cell phone...how can I be mad if she calls the police?

you need to be more angry she got a second phone....to call the police.

cuz if you took her cell and she still call.....she got a lunch nigga on her metro throw away.

so you can be mad ina roundabout way

Some people still have landline phones in their home....or she could've gone to a neighbor and made the call.

 

[the dukester]

Does a bear shit in the woods & wipe his ass with a furry white rabbit?

My baby moms called the cops on me before (the one & only time).

It's black relationship blasphemy to call the beast on your nigga when shit gets heated.

Me an baby moms started arguing over her sister staying with us, an bringing strange niggas from the block into our crib. Niggas mouths was getting watery looking around the crib on some "birdman hand-rub shit."

I fucked around & knocked bowl of fruity pebbles out her hand (got damn cereal stayed stuck on the ceiling for months) and she called the police.

I kept the police report as a reminder to never fully trust her 100%. As the saying goes, get somebody mad and you'll see how they REALLY feel about you.

Word. So u left her immediately after?

Yup. I bounced for about 2 weeks, but came back after we reconciled (for the kid of course).

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I'll skip the 'That would never happen because...' shit and just say that if me and my woman are arguing and I grab her face and take her cell phone...how can I be mad if she calls the police?

you need to be more angry she got a second phone....to call the police.

cuz if you took her cell and she still call.....she got a lunch nigga on her metro throw away.

so you can be mad ina roundabout way

Some people still have landline phones in their home....or she could've gone to a neighbor and made the call.

ole dont wanna smile ass nigga

it was a joke

 

[Mister B.]

I've never had this done to me, but I suspect if someone did call the law on me for something petty, no use of me trying to repair that, cause she'll always have that in her back pocket, and I won't be strung along like some monkey on an organ grinder chain.

 

[semi-auto-mato]

So it’s a sin for her to call the cops but no one thinks it was wrong of the man to put his hands on the woman? It really doesn’t matter if u push her, grab her, or knock the chick out. a man not supposed to put his hands on a woman. From the original post you it’s a heated argument (about nothing but its heated) and the dude turns it physical. Im still trying to figure out why she needs to apologize for calling the cops but no one wants to apologize for putting they hands on the chick. Y’all niggas borderline abusive...lmao

 

[Dupac]

because calling the cops is an act of betrayal.....introducing a stranger into your relationship...

and cops already walk into domestic disputes assuming the worse....men have DIED because an over zealous cop showed up to their home.....

i didn't say she felt her life was in danger, i said she did it out of anger on some "i'll fix him" type shit.....

that's not cool...if you think that carefree of my life....then something is clearly wrong....

look closely at the context of my opening post.....you can't wait until your man is in handcuffs, and charges are being put n him to realize that calling the cops is wrong for a personal dispute.....you can beg for forgiveness all you want, but if the cops kill yur man, can you beg them to bring him back to life?

you can say you're sorry, but if the state pick ups the charges, sorry doesn't un take him to jail....

unless you actively harming your lady with physical force, that shit is extreme and far too inconsiderate....

that shit ain't cool at all.....

i didn't vote because i do feel that shit can be extreme

 

[semi-auto-mato]

putting your hands on a woman aint right. the fact that u try and justify it is sad. if the state picks up the charges that means there were visible signs of abuse...if its no visible signs the state aint picking up the charges. they need to be able to prove their case without her testifying. if u gave her a black eye then she should call the cops so she would be right in that case as well.

we talking about a chick here and a heated argument. u grab her aggressively what do u think she is supposed to do? square up with u? walk away, yell back, or leave the relationship but once u put ur hands on her all bets are off.

 

[7figz]

putting your hands on a woman aint right. the fact that u try and justify it is sad. if the state picks up the charges that means there were visible signs of abuse...if its no visible signs the state aint picking up the charges. they need to be able to prove their case without her testifying. if u gave her a black eye then she should call the cops so she would be right in that case as well.

we talking about a chick here and a heated argument. u grab her aggressively what do u think she is supposed to do? square up with u? walk away, yell back, or leave the relationship but once u put ur hands on her all bets are off.

The OP doesn't say who put hands on who. I think most dudes responded to this as a chick calling the cops on them period, not after they beat the shit out of 'em.

Another scenario could be a bitch starting some shit then calling the cops.

 

[Dupac]

bruh, i'm not talking about any incident where bruises are left....

i clearly said no punches, pushes, kicks, or anything of that nature is done....

i said at the absolute most, a finger being pointed in someone's face, or maybe an arm being grabbed... and not even the extreme side of that...i'm not talking preventing someone from leaving on some false imprisonment shit...

i'm clearly talking about cops being called out of spite because of an argument that got out of hand.....

there was no danger whatsoever....no bruises bruh.....no body got physically hurt.....just feelings

 

[semi-auto-mato]

bruh, i'm not talking about any incident where bruises are left....

i clearly said no punches, pushes, kicks, or anything of that nature is done....

i said at the absolute most, a finger being pointed in someone's face, or maybe an arm being grabbed... and not even the extreme side of that...i'm not talking preventing someone from leaving on some false imprisonment shit...

i'm clearly talking about cops being called out of spite because of an argument that got out of hand.....

there was no danger whatsoever....no bruises bruh.....no body got physically hurt.....just feelings

look I hear what u are saying its a small stupid incident but the dude is still crossing the line. u cant grab a person in a heated argument. the same niggas saying she wrong for calling the cops would be the first niggas to say they would knock a nigga out for grabbing his arm in a heated discussion. why the double standard? the chick is not gonna square up with u most times. if its new behavior for u then why should she wait and let it escalate?

fight or take flight...the bitch gonna do whats in her best interest...I don't blame her for that

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

bruh, i'm not talking about any incident where bruises are left....

i clearly said no punches, pushes, kicks, or anything of that nature is done....

i said at the absolute most, a finger being pointed in someone's face, or maybe an arm being grabbed... and not even the extreme side of that...i'm not talking preventing someone from leaving on some false imprisonment shit...

i'm clearly talking about cops being called out of spite because of an argument that got out of hand.....

there was no danger whatsoever....no bruises bruh.....no body got physically hurt.....just feelings

look I hear what u are saying its a small stupid incident but the dude is still crossing the line. u cant grab a person in a heated argument. the same niggas saying she wrong for calling the cops would be the first niggas to say they would knock a nigga out for grabbing his arm in a heated discussion. why the double standard? the chick is not gonna square up with u most times. if its new behavior for u then why should she wait and let it escalate?

fight or take flight...the bitch gonna do whats in her best interest...I don't blame her for that

You the boys bruh?

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

You a cop J Reed!?