she calls the cops on you.......dealbreaker?

[deadeye]

Alaska domestic violence aint no joke. It doesnt matter if nobody got hit, if someone calls the cops for domestic violence and even if the argument is completely over and everyone apologized, someone is still going to jail for a day or two.

Unless i physically harm her, or show her that I am about to physically harm her, which i would never do, but IF i did, she should never call the cops. Have the argument. Settle it and move on. No cops should be involved otherwise.

What?

What do they charge them with?

Domestic Violence. Chances are if nothing bad happened, then the state will lessen the charge or drop the case. Someone WILL get brought to the station though. Its always the State that is pressing charges in DV cases up here. Automatically. If alcohol is involved, you're probably fucked.

I guess Im just trying to figure out where the violence comes in if no one was struck.

Domestic violence occurs when you are physically, sexually, or emotionally abused by another person in the household. Doesnt always have to be a physical thing. If someone in the house does not feel safe because of someone else in the household, it is considered Domestic Violence.

At first I thought that law seemed ridiculous, but...... knowing that both people would be locked up and charged regardless.........it actually makes sense because it discourages either person from calling the police.

 

[deadeye]

I mean, if I call the cops on you I'm ready to be done with you..nobody trying to help pay them legal fees.

Seriously though, unless I'm afraid for my life in a serious way, I'm not inviting any police to my house.

And fyi, dudes be calling the cops too.

You got damn right. Cause if she hit me, her ass is going to jail. NO fucks given.

lol

The cops would probably clown you for that.

 

[deadeye]

I remember once I was demolishing a ex in a argument and she got so mad she was losing that she whipped around the block and pulled up to the police station she worked at. I almost murdered that bish and her boss right there in the street. Its one thing to call the police but you can avoid actually seeing them usually in that case, its another thing entirely to actually put you in physical proximity of them..thats a murderable offense.

Works for the police???

@obnoxiouslyfresh ???

 

[bgoat]

I mean, if I call the cops on you I'm ready to be done with you..nobody trying to help pay them legal fees.

Seriously though, unless I'm afraid for my life in a serious way, I'm not inviting any police to my house.

And fyi, dudes be calling the cops too.

You got damn right. Cause if she hit me, her ass is going to jail. NO fucks given.

lol

The cops would probably clown you for that.

They can do what they want as long as she goes to jail.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Naw. Can't do it.

It's one thing to cheat. I can get over that.

But destroying my livelihood where I lose my job, the respect of my friends & family, having a police record, and all this for a petty azzz arguement...naw cuz.

B/c how do I know the next argument you won't do the same thing? Sorry, not taking that chance. I can forgive, but I won't forget.

 

[AggieLean.]

Naw. Can't do it.

It's one thing to cheat. I can get over that.

But destroying my livelihood where I lose my job, the respect of my friends & family, having a police record, and all this for a petty azzz arguement...naw cuz.

B/c how do I know the next argument you won't do the same thing? Sorry, not taking that chance. I can forgive, but I won't forget.

Pretty much this.

And if I lose my damn job, it's really gone be a problem then. She already knows I ain't gone ever hit her, but if she feels she needs to call anyone, she better just call my mom...shit

 

[semi-auto-mato]

i would stay and work out our issues. I mean each situation is different but we are pretty much talking about a misdemeanor charge here. it would just get thrown out since its no history there.

 

[S2J]

i'm talking like putting of fingers in faces, or grabbing of arms as one tries to talk away........that's the extent of it......

This nigga Du out here kidnappin bitches

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

Fuck that bitch I'm gone.

 

[S2J]

As usual i gotta be the voice of reason

In the scenario mentioned niggas aint goin nowhere. Why? Look at you, emotional.

If you get to that point of wild arguments thats that crazy love shit its gon happen a few times before anyone leave and it woud probably be her. If u really coud up n leave her so quick u wouldn't have been in that position, that emotionally invested with hands in face, grabbing arms, etc.

Bet money that night or night after yall gon be boo boo'd up like it never happened, lookin ike a fake ass Jodie and Yvette.

Cool stories tho

 

[S2J]

As usual i gotta be the voice of reason

In the scenario mentioned niggas aint goin nowhere. Why? Look at you, emotional.

If you get to that point of wild arguments thats that crazy love shit its gon happen a few times before anyone leave and it woud probably be her. If u really coud up n leave her so quick u wouldn't have been in that position, that emotionally invested with hands in face, grabbing arms, etc.

Bet money that night or night after yall gon be boo boo'd up like it never happened, lookin ike a fake ass Jodie and Yvette.

Cool stories tho

Nah nigga. If she can call them boys on you over petty shit then she can do it again. It's apparent you've chose the wrong female if she jump out of pocket like that.

Absolutely! Of course! ....In theory

In theory, u never woulda been all belligerent arguing in the first place, yes? So in the example given if you doin all that she already got that heart pleighboi. Theory is out the window

Ie, Im sure at some point in OJ's clouded mind he was like 'man she just wont act right, i should bounce before i get in trouble . ...but i love her doe. .. :/

Am i keepin it too real or nah?

 

[_Lefty]

As usual i gotta be the voice of reason

In the scenario mentioned niggas aint goin nowhere. Why? Look at you, emotional.

If you get to that point of wild arguments thats that crazy love shit its gon happen a few times before anyone leave and it woud probably be her. If u really coud up n leave her so quick u wouldn't have been in that position, that emotionally invested with hands in face, grabbing arms, etc.

Bet money that night or night after yall gon be boo boo'd up like it never happened, lookin ike a fake ass Jodie and Yvette.

Cool stories tho

Don't project yo soft ass life experiences on niggas in here bruh. Ain't nobody tryin to read that coldest winter ever ass shit.

If you got a chick that's movin like that, she's runnin over you, and she don't respect you by puttin you in danger. If you ain't cleveland busdriver uppercuttin that bitch, she shouldn't be even talkin that police shit.

"It's gonna happen a few times". Who raised you niggas?

If you ain't hittin her(which you shouldn't be) she shouldn't be callin no police. Period.

Don't listen to this live from drake's rhyme book ass nigga.

 

[blackrain]

Just because you can work through something doesn't mean you should do it...I could do it but I wouldn't...I'm admittedly bad with the forget part of forgive and forget. You do me wrong once it's in the front of my mind in any interaction we have forever and I'd never feel completely comfortable again. It wouldn't be worth that extra stress in the long run to me or the people around me

 

[blackrain]

Shit, I don't argue with no one.

Once a voice is raised or I get cut off, conversation is over. We'll talk when you're ready to be an adult.

I've pissed off women in the past over this. Literally walked away mid conversation because they raised their voice. I don't do the arguing yelling back and forth shit. I'm an adult and we gonna talk like adults or she gotta bounce.

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

Chick call the cops on me we are done.. Point blank... There's nothing left to discuss after that...

 

[S2J]

Don't project yo soft ass life experiences on niggas in here bruh. Ain't nobody tryin to read that coldest winter ever ass shit.

If you got a chick that's movin like that, she's runnin over you, and she don't respect you by puttin you in danger. If you ain't cleveland busdriver uppercuttin that bitch, she shouldn't be even talkin that police shit.

"It's gonna happen a few times". Who raised you niggas?

If you ain't hittin her(which you shouldn't be) she shouldn't be callin no police. Period.

Don't listen to this live from drake's rhyme book ass nigga.

Why? Look at you, emotional.

 

[Trillfate]

As usual i gotta be the voice of reason

In the scenario mentioned niggas aint goin nowhere. Why? Look at you, emotional.

If you get to that point of wild arguments thats that crazy love shit its gon happen a few times before anyone leave and it woud probably be her. If u really coud up n leave her so quick u wouldn't have been in that position, that emotionally invested with hands in face, grabbing arms, etc.

Bet money that night or night after yall gon be boo boo'd up like it never happened, lookin ike a fake ass Jodie and Yvette.

Cool stories tho

How can an intimate moment like this happen again after she drove a wedge between yall? She called a third-party bully on u for pissing her off

 

[_Lefty]

As usual i gotta be the voice of reason

In the scenario mentioned niggas aint goin nowhere. Why? Look at you, emotional.

If you get to that point of wild arguments thats that crazy love shit its gon happen a few times before anyone leave and it woud probably be her. If u really coud up n leave her so quick u wouldn't have been in that position, that emotionally invested with hands in face, grabbing arms, etc.

Bet money that night or night after yall gon be boo boo'd up like it never happened, lookin ike a fake ass Jodie and Yvette.

Cool stories tho

How can an intimate moment like this happen again after she drove a wedge between yall? She called a third-party bully on u for pissing her off

Don't even investigate this nigga motives bruh...... You know the answer to all those questions wit this nigga. He showin himself.

 

[mryounggun]

I'll skip the 'That would never happen because...' shit and just say that if me and my woman are arguing and I grab her face and take her cell phone...how can I be mad if she calls the police?

 

[illestni99ainne]

Fuck dat bitch