QUESTION ABOUT MEN AND WOMEN IN RELATIONSHIPS

[Kat]

If I find out he's cheating I'm staying and I'll forgive him, but he just gave me a hall pass.

ALWAYS, WITH THAT HALL PASS.. DOES THAT MEAN U GONE GO OUT AND FUCK SOMEBODY? U KNOW A MAN AINT GOING FOR THAT

.. AND WHAT IS THE DUDE THAT HE CHEAT WITH IS BETTER THAN TARR TARR SEXUALLY? U MIGHT AS WELL JUST BREAK UP

Sex isn't everything DRO and it would never be the reason behind me deciding whether to stay or go.

And obviously he wouldn't know about the hall pass, so it doesn't matter what a man would be going for at that point.

 

[Knock_Twice]

Some (majority) women by nature have low self steem and/or carry baggage from years and years previous

Look at Nicole Scherz-azzizger...she's what most people deem universally gorgeuos and at 1 point she thought she was ugly.

Women think in odd/twisted/not meant to be understood ways- so trying to find a rational reason for why they stay with aint-shyt dudes will never happen.

I think they stay with "aint shit dudes" is becuz I don't think they wanna see the "aint shit dude" with noone else but them...

don't know if that makes any sense..but that's what one of my "aint shit homegirl told me" Lol

 

[Meta_Conscious]

a real nignog would not ask this question...

 

[lighthearted26]

I've been cheated on and stayed but the trust was gone which pretty much ruined the relationship. I can't deal with that shit not to mention potential std's. A man wants a woman to be totally down for them so they can cheat and know their woman will stay. If you fuckin another nigga they know they can't have their cake and eat it too so they break up with the girlfriend and find another one to play the same games on. Im speaking in generalities of course.

 

[Knock_Twice]

I've been cheated on and stayed but the trust was gone which pretty much ruined the relationship. I can't deal with that shit not to mention potential std's. A man wants a woman to be totally down for them so they can cheat and know their woman will stay. If you fuckin another nigga they know they can't have their cake and eat it too so they break up with the girlfriend and find another one to play the same games on. Im speaking in generalities of course.

Y.?

Why give this cheating "aint shit nga" another chance to hurt you...

 

[lighthearted26]

I've been cheated on and stayed but the trust was gone which pretty much ruined the relationship. I can't deal with that shit not to mention potential std's. A man wants a woman to be totally down for them so they can cheat and know their woman will stay. If you fuckin another nigga they know they can't have their cake and eat it too so they break up with the girlfriend and find another one to play the same games on. Im speaking in generalities of course.

Y.?

Why give this cheating "aint shit nga" another chance to hurt you...

Cuz I loved him smh. I cried for two weeks, was all depressed. One of my friends was like "Im so proud of you girl for kicking him to the curb" I attempted to ignore him but lost my will and took him back like a dummy. It didn't end well. Im still trying to get him outta my system and I officially have "baggage". I should have left him alone after that one time and I learned my lesson.

 

[taeboo]

I think a lot of women were brought up with the idea that if you have a man that provides( financial security, good dick, good father) that you are to keep him at all cost.

 

[MissK]

I think a lot of women were brought up with the idea that if you have a man that provides( financial security, good dick, good father) that you are to keep him at all cost.

Yes ma'am!

Learned my lesson

Never again.

 

[haute]

depends on the person

For me it was age and lack of experience

There's a lot that I put up with at 19 that I would even consider unless there was a ring and a life insurance policy involved

 

[b@squ1@t redux]

lol @ giving a fuck about understanding women and why they do what they do

sucker for love ass mentality.. you fuckboys are doomed to a lifetime of simpery

 

[Demarco27]

Alot of reasons... Women are nurturers so theyre more empathetic and sympathetic to shit first off.

They have this mentality that they need to "fix" whats broken in men.

And lastly...women are suckers for a good drama story and respond quicker to negative shit/drama, it is what it is. Its this very thing that turns the smart ones into bitter chicks by their 30's. Becuase they know logically it makes no sense, but its hard wired in ur brain to act this way.

Why u think so many women get cheated on and then convinced they "were to blame" for us cheating on them.

 

[Trollio]

Wtf is sentence case?

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

Too many women scared to be alone.

 

[Louis Cipher]

Pride in being a man "knowing" you got shit on lock and fucking dat thang right. Thinking it cant happen to you. Truth is men are more emotional when it comes to matters of the heart.

Keep that macho shit up you'll have a man of my caliber in ya gals walls

this right chea...

it took me a long time to grow up and see the error of my ways...

if you value your woman...treat her right...or somebody else will

 

[b@squ1@t redux]

lol

kat catchin feelings

why would i waste my time trying to understand an unstable creature...that would do nothing but cause me confusion..

a man such as myself doesnt operate well under confusion--i deal with logic..women tend to act out of emotion, an illogical sensation much of the time..

i dont want to understand women...i just want to fuck them, spend time with them, and if they're blessed enough to have it--love them

 

[Kat]

Tell em Louis.

 

[blakfyahking]

Pride in being a man "knowing" you got shit on lock and fucking dat thang right. Thinking it cant happen to you. Truth is men are more emotional when it comes to matters of the heart.

Keep that macho shit up you'll have a man of my caliber in ya gals walls

this right chea...

it took me a long time to grow up and see the error of my ways...

if you value your woman...treat her right...or somebody else will

no they won't

they'll dog her bum ass out just like I did

stop giving these worthless broads unnecessary hope you dream-smasher

 

[a.mann]

why would i catch feelings? i just don't understand how you can say men have more self worth when you clearly don;t have enough self worth to protect yourself. we believing random hoes that tell us they're on the pill now?

you don't even have a relationship, you have a hostage situation, she has successfully kept you hostage for years. you let your self get trapped and kept in a relationship you did not want, so either you are a little simple or she's mr burns level diaboloical

and lol @ you not accepting bullshit in your "relationship," i guess once someone traps you, (cuz you're gullible enough to believe everything people tell you) it's much easier to stand up for yourself 8-|

easy... be easy...!

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Don't get it twisted, dudes do the same shit.

Check the "End of the Road" song from Boyz II Men. Them niggas was basically serenading chicks that made it clear they didn't give a fuck about them.

There are plenty of dudes out that land what they think are dimes, and will do anything to keep those chicks.