Pros / Cons About Marriage

[2stepz_ahead]

@LordZuko you better finish part 2 bruh i was reading that shit intrigued then you go gone on a bitch raid. nigga just finish that shit. niggaZ like to be in the know

Part two is on gf vs wives.

You gotta understand what a man is to a woman. He's a lottery ticket. She tryna figure out if what she holding in her hand is a winner. If not she gonna move on, if she smart. Females understand that they age like athletes. Their prime years are between 19-29. After that it's a wrap you got a old bitch on your hands, those are dangerous.

A bitch is always tryna get a man to commit to her emotionally, that's why she needs constant validating. She needs to hear you say the i love you, needs you to buy her gifts and prioritize her over lifelong friends. That indicates to her the man's level of commitment. Men don't give commitment easy but once they do, it's hard to take back outside of her betrayal. So once she feels a nigga is committed she starts to move towards marriage.

This is where Niggas lose.

When a bitch is at the gf stage you as the man run the show. A bitch Got two options, she can stay or she can go. But if you the man, you already let her know that there's bitches waiting to come off the bench. 1)no bitch wants a nigga with no bitches. 2)no bitch wants to see another bitch prosper off her progress.

3)you gotta pimp these hoes, you gotta have that bitch mentally, she has to know that you're better than her. This seems harsh because the average nigga don't wanna pimp his girl. But if you don't pimp her another nigga will. No bitch wants to be with a lame nigga. Every bitch wanna feel like they nigga got the juice because that mean they got juice. This why rappers, dboys, athletes stay with hoes, and bitches on waiting lists just to try out to be a hoe. And a nigga gotta keep bitches because having hoes is how you keep your swag. You ever see a nigga that you know is bitchless try to talk to another bitch. It's sad. This all self explanatory tho.

So when she just a gf and she know she competing with other Bitches she either gonna work hard or fall off. Either way next bitch up.

Part 3: Marriage aka Every hoe think she a pimp

Yo bro.. You believe all of this?...

It's 2017.. This may have worked a generation ago.. But these women are moving different out here.. Pay attention..

No females not moving different. The year don't matter, the race don't matter the country don't matter.

Yo son.. These woman are definitely moving different.. Hoeism is applauded in today's society... These women have no shame. They'll fuck you and your friend and and give 0 fucks.. It is because of this that it might be in some dudes best interest to get married if they actually find a good woman.. Cuz it's a dirty game out here..

Hoeism is lauded but at the end of the day these hoes want validation. For example Amber rose. Notorious hoe. For all the shit she talks she still wants a man. However, based on her own actions there's only a certain level of man willing to be publicly seen with her. Enter 21 Savage. A nigga clearly dealing with mother issues and lack of father. Amber came in and played a role.

Blacc Chyna another hoe only could get someone that is a public joke. No serious nigga would ever cuff her.

Hoeism is lauded by hoes.but as much shit as these hoes talk they cannot validate themselves. They need a man to want them to desire them to love them.

The game is played differently at different levels. The level you talking about, is a basic bitch level.

This guy... What are we talkin about here? Amber got married to wiz and got a million outta the divorce settlement. Chyna is gonna take Rob to the cleaners and they ain't even get married. If you ask me they've been validated not only by the men they were dealing with.. But by the general public.. And most importantly by the courts.. Look at Future.. Again what are we really talkin about? Since when do niggaz gotta get married to get raped by the courts?

Don't let bravado and ego blind you to what is really happening out here. I'm all for being the pimp/alpha male.. But today.. You gotta be careful because they use that against you..

this lil nigga kickin tall nigga knowledge....lol

you my nigga tho

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

@LordZuko you better finish part 2 bruh i was reading that shit intrigued then you go gone on a bitch raid. nigga just finish that shit. niggaZ like to be in the know

Part two is on gf vs wives.

You gotta understand what a man is to a woman. He's a lottery ticket. She tryna figure out if what she holding in her hand is a winner. If not she gonna move on, if she smart. Females understand that they age like athletes. Their prime years are between 19-29. After that it's a wrap you got a old bitch on your hands, those are dangerous.

A bitch is always tryna get a man to commit to her emotionally, that's why she needs constant validating. She needs to hear you say the i love you, needs you to buy her gifts and prioritize her over lifelong friends. That indicates to her the man's level of commitment. Men don't give commitment easy but once they do, it's hard to take back outside of her betrayal. So once she feels a nigga is committed she starts to move towards marriage.

This is where Niggas lose.

When a bitch is at the gf stage you as the man run the show. A bitch Got two options, she can stay or she can go. But if you the man, you already let her know that there's bitches waiting to come off the bench. 1)no bitch wants a nigga with no bitches. 2)no bitch wants to see another bitch prosper off her progress.

3)you gotta pimp these hoes, you gotta have that bitch mentally, she has to know that you're better than her. This seems harsh because the average nigga don't wanna pimp his girl. But if you don't pimp her another nigga will. No bitch wants to be with a lame nigga. Every bitch wanna feel like they nigga got the juice because that mean they got juice. This why rappers, dboys, athletes stay with hoes, and bitches on waiting lists just to try out to be a hoe. And a nigga gotta keep bitches because having hoes is how you keep your swag. You ever see a nigga that you know is bitchless try to talk to another bitch. It's sad. This all self explanatory tho.

So when she just a gf and she know she competing with other Bitches she either gonna work hard or fall off. Either way next bitch up.

Part 3: Marriage aka Every hoe think she a pimp

Yo bro.. You believe all of this?...

It's 2017.. This may have worked a generation ago.. But these women are moving different out here.. Pay attention..

No females not moving different. The year don't matter, the race don't matter the country don't matter.

Yo son.. These woman are definitely moving different.. Hoeism is applauded in today's society... These women have no shame. They'll fuck you and your friend and and give 0 fucks.. It is because of this that it might be in some dudes best interest to get married if they actually find a good woman.. Cuz it's a dirty game out here..

Hoeism is lauded but at the end of the day these hoes want validation. For example Amber rose. Notorious hoe. For all the shit she talks she still wants a man. However, based on her own actions there's only a certain level of man willing to be publicly seen with her. Enter 21 Savage. A nigga clearly dealing with mother issues and lack of father. Amber came in and played a role.

Blacc Chyna another hoe only could get someone that is a public joke. No serious nigga would ever cuff her.

Hoeism is lauded by hoes.but as much shit as these hoes talk they cannot validate themselves. They need a man to want them to desire them to love them.

The game is played differently at different levels. The level you talking about, is a basic bitch level.

This guy... What are we talkin about here? Amber got married to wiz and got a million outta the divorce settlement. Chyna is gonna take Rob to the cleaners and they ain't even get married. If you ask me they've been validated not only by the men they were dealing with.. But by the general public.. And most importantly by the courts.. Look at Future.. Again what are we really talkin about? Since when do niggaz gotta get married to get raped by the courts?

Don't let bravado and ego blind you to what is really happening out here. I'm all for being the pimp/alpha male.. But today.. You gotta be careful because they use that against you..

this lil nigga kickin tall nigga knowledge....lol

you my nigga tho

5'5" with the soul of a 6'4 nigga lmao..

On the cool though.. Marriage and to a further extent failed marriage isn't the issue. It's gender roles.. And how we as men and women deal with each other.. And how society has shaped expectations to the point where certain things just aren't realistic.. It's a multi layered onion with failed marriage being a symptom of a larger issue.. But I digress..

 

[blacktux]

Nah the problem is how the courts deal with any domestic matter involving a male and female.

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

Nah the problem is how the courts deal with any domestic matter involving a male and female.

The courts by no measure is perfect.. However men/women are not blameless.. If people handled thier business there would be no need for the courts to step in..

 

[jetlifebih]

Lol

A lot of hurt feelings in this thread

Pros

Tax benefits

Cheaper insurance rates

Married men tend to live longer and report to being healthier....with women its a wash

Married men earn more than their unmarried peers. And these income differences among men don’t seem to depend on any of the obvious demographic differences, including age, education, race, etc. However women get hit with a marriage penalty, as married females earn less than unmarried women

Cons

Y'all got it covered

For anyone who is financially well off i can understand why you would be hesitate to marry

But otherwise marriage can be a great thing

Married men make more money because they work longer hours.

Here's a simple word problem

Jeffery makes 100k a year, is married to a wife who makes 50k a year. They have three children and live in a four bdrm house in a suburb. They own two car notes and both still have student loans. Jarrod is a single man, early 30s, lives in a two bdrm apt makes 45k a year and owns a 2010 benz. Who has more discretionary income? Who is probably no more than three paychecks away from bankruptcy?

Taxes only become an issue at the 60k bracket.

Health insurance, most men don't go to the doctor so basic coverage is what most will opt for.

As far as living longer, it's better to burn out than to fade away.

not totally true

when you account for hours work, position, salary, experience, etc married men still make more

studies strongly suggest employers tend to prefer and promote men who are married

married ppl car insurance and home insurance rates are lower as well

so living a longer and happier life isn't a benefit now? lol

A longer life as in 10 extra years of a low quality of life and drain more of the resources we could pass down in inheritance to the younger generation ? You are so selfish......

Tbh most of us ain't looking forward to 10 extra years of living from 80-90 unless we still fuckin

lol

living longer isn't a means unto itself. rather for married folk to live longer strongly suggests they are healthier and live a better quality of life than their single counterparts

you want to label me as selfish for noting that as a benefit, cool

and why not just kill urself now if you are truly concerned with conserving resources and ceasing the ways you contribute to things like global warming and world hunger

also good to note couples who get and stay married can have as much as four times the wealth of their single or divorced peers as well...wealth that is then passed down to younger generations, specifically their children

Your a wordsmith....I give you that...

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

Marriage is a fucking scam. I just spent the last 7-8 months sitting in court watching men get jerked over because of that "legally binding" relationship. I watched a mf making $250 K / year getting raped in court by his wife. Left that nigga w/ crumbs. Had me sitting there wanting to kill that broad for him. Why? All because somebody didn't want to be w/ the other person any more. Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn been together damn near 30+ years and never got married. Society tells people that you have to be "married" to prove your love for your partner. Marriage is mostly beneficial for women. My girl and I both are like "fuck getting married again". Bout to be on our Kurt and Goldie shit.

YOU AND LOTS OF WITNESS POSTERS ARE GIVING LIVING PROVES, LIVE AND DIRECT EXPERIENCES, NUMBERS.

YET THESE NIGGAS ARE STILL ON THEIR DISNEY SHIT : BUT BUT BUT !!!

DONT BE MAD AT THEM. THEY ARE WELL PROGRAMMED TO FOLLOW THE PATH OF THOSE WHOM YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.

YOU CANNOT SAVE THEM ALL BRUH.

 

[blackrain]

@LordZuko you better finish part 2 bruh i was reading that shit intrigued then you go gone on a bitch raid. nigga just finish that shit. niggaZ like to be in the know

Part two is on gf vs wives.

You gotta understand what a man is to a woman. He's a lottery ticket. She tryna figure out if what she holding in her hand is a winner. If not she gonna move on, if she smart. Females understand that they age like athletes. Their prime years are between 19-29. After that it's a wrap you got a old bitch on your hands, those are dangerous.

A bitch is always tryna get a man to commit to her emotionally, that's why she needs constant validating. She needs to hear you say the i love you, needs you to buy her gifts and prioritize her over lifelong friends. That indicates to her the man's level of commitment. Men don't give commitment easy but once they do, it's hard to take back outside of her betrayal. So once she feels a nigga is committed she starts to move towards marriage.

This is where Niggas lose.

When a bitch is at the gf stage you as the man run the show. A bitch Got two options, she can stay or she can go. But if you the man, you already let her know that there's bitches waiting to come off the bench. 1)no bitch wants a nigga with no bitches. 2)no bitch wants to see another bitch prosper off her progress.

3)you gotta pimp these hoes, you gotta have that bitch mentally, she has to know that you're better than her. This seems harsh because the average nigga don't wanna pimp his girl. But if you don't pimp her another nigga will. No bitch wants to be with a lame nigga. Every bitch wanna feel like they nigga got the juice because that mean they got juice. This why rappers, dboys, athletes stay with hoes, and bitches on waiting lists just to try out to be a hoe. And a nigga gotta keep bitches because having hoes is how you keep your swag. You ever see a nigga that you know is bitchless try to talk to another bitch. It's sad. This all self explanatory tho.

So when she just a gf and she know she competing with other Bitches she either gonna work hard or fall off. Either way next bitch up.

Part 3: Marriage aka Every hoe think she a pimp

Yo bro.. You believe all of this?...

It's 2017.. This may have worked a generation ago.. But these women are moving different out here.. Pay attention..

No females not moving different. The year don't matter, the race don't matter the country don't matter.

Yo son.. These woman are definitely moving different.. Hoeism is applauded in today's society... These women have no shame. They'll fuck you and your friend and and give 0 fucks.. It is because of this that it might be in some dudes best interest to get married if they actually find a good woman.. Cuz it's a dirty game out here..

Hoeism is lauded but at the end of the day these hoes want validation. For example Amber rose. Notorious hoe. For all the shit she talks she still wants a man. However, based on her own actions there's only a certain level of man willing to be publicly seen with her. Enter 21 Savage. A nigga clearly dealing with mother issues and lack of father. Amber came in and played a role.

Blacc Chyna another hoe only could get someone that is a public joke. No serious nigga would ever cuff her.

Hoeism is lauded by hoes.but as much shit as these hoes talk they cannot validate themselves. They need a man to want them to desire them to love them.

The game is played differently at different levels. The level you talking about, is a basic bitch level.

This guy... What are we talkin about here? Amber got married to wiz and got a million outta the divorce settlement. Chyna is gonna take Rob to the cleaners and they ain't even get married. If you ask me they've been validated not only by the men they were dealing with.. But by the general public.. And most importantly by the courts.. Look at Future.. Again what are we really talkin about? Since when do niggaz gotta get married to get raped by the courts?

Don't let bravado and ego blind you to what is really happening out here. I'm all for being the pimp/alpha male.. But today.. You gotta be careful because they use that against you..

Notice how 2 of those 3 exampes you used weren't by niggas who got married...hence my point that as long as you in a relationship period especially one where children are involved you're taking a risk

 

[blackrain]

@LordZuko you better finish part 2 bruh i was reading that shit intrigued then you go gone on a bitch raid. nigga just finish that shit. niggaZ like to be in the know

Part two is on gf vs wives.

You gotta understand what a man is to a woman. He's a lottery ticket. She tryna figure out if what she holding in her hand is a winner. If not she gonna move on, if she smart. Females understand that they age like athletes. Their prime years are between 19-29. After that it's a wrap you got a old bitch on your hands, those are dangerous.

A bitch is always tryna get a man to commit to her emotionally, that's why she needs constant validating. She needs to hear you say the i love you, needs you to buy her gifts and prioritize her over lifelong friends. That indicates to her the man's level of commitment. Men don't give commitment easy but once they do, it's hard to take back outside of her betrayal. So once she feels a nigga is committed she starts to move towards marriage.

This is where Niggas lose.

When a bitch is at the gf stage you as the man run the show. A bitch Got two options, she can stay or she can go. But if you the man, you already let her know that there's bitches waiting to come off the bench. 1)no bitch wants a nigga with no bitches. 2)no bitch wants to see another bitch prosper off her progress.

3)you gotta pimp these hoes, you gotta have that bitch mentally, she has to know that you're better than her. This seems harsh because the average nigga don't wanna pimp his girl. But if you don't pimp her another nigga will. No bitch wants to be with a lame nigga. Every bitch wanna feel like they nigga got the juice because that mean they got juice. This why rappers, dboys, athletes stay with hoes, and bitches on waiting lists just to try out to be a hoe. And a nigga gotta keep bitches because having hoes is how you keep your swag. You ever see a nigga that you know is bitchless try to talk to another bitch. It's sad. This all self explanatory tho.

So when she just a gf and she know she competing with other Bitches she either gonna work hard or fall off. Either way next bitch up.

Part 3: Marriage aka Every hoe think she a pimp

Yo bro.. You believe all of this?...

It's 2017.. This may have worked a generation ago.. But these women are moving different out here.. Pay attention..

No females not moving different. The year don't matter, the race don't matter the country don't matter.

Yo son.. These woman are definitely moving different.. Hoeism is applauded in today's society... These women have no shame. They'll fuck you and your friend and and give 0 fucks.. It is because of this that it might be in some dudes best interest to get married if they actually find a good woman.. Cuz it's a dirty game out here..

Hoeism is lauded but at the end of the day these hoes want validation. For example Amber rose. Notorious hoe. For all the shit she talks she still wants a man. However, based on her own actions there's only a certain level of man willing to be publicly seen with her. Enter 21 Savage. A nigga clearly dealing with mother issues and lack of father. Amber came in and played a role.

Blacc Chyna another hoe only could get someone that is a public joke. No serious nigga would ever cuff her.

Hoeism is lauded by hoes.but as much shit as these hoes talk they cannot validate themselves. They need a man to want them to desire them to love them.

The game is played differently at different levels. The level you talking about, is a basic bitch level.

This guy... What are we talkin about here? Amber got married to wiz and got a million outta the divorce settlement. Chyna is gonna take Rob to the cleaners and they ain't even get married. If you ask me they've been validated not only by the men they were dealing with.. But by the general public.. And most importantly by the courts.. Look at Future.. Again what are we really talkin about? Since when do niggaz gotta get married to get raped by the courts?

Don't let bravado and ego blind you to what is really happening out here. I'm all for being the pimp/alpha male.. But today.. You gotta be careful because they use that against you..

this lil nigga kickin tall nigga knowledge....lol

you my nigga tho

5'5" with the soul of a 6'4 nigga lmao..

On the cool though.. Marriage and to a further extent failed marriage isn't the issue. It's gender roles.. And how we as men and women deal with each other.. And how society has shaped expectations to the point where certain things just aren't realistic.. It's a multi layered onion with failed marriage being a symptom of a larger issue.. But I digress..

@ the bold...my nigga that's what alot of this boils down to. People with unrealistic expectations hoping somebody will "change over time".

 

[blackrain]

Marriage is a fucking scam. I just spent the last 7-8 months sitting in court watching men get jerked over because of that "legally binding" relationship. I watched a mf making $250 K / year getting raped in court by his wife. Left that nigga w/ crumbs. Had me sitting there wanting to kill that broad for him. Why? All because somebody didn't want to be w/ the other person any more. Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn been together damn near 30+ years and never got married. Society tells people that you have to be "married" to prove your love for your partner. Marriage is mostly beneficial for women. My girl and I both are like "fuck getting married again". Bout to be on our Kurt and Goldie shit.

YOU AND LOTS OF WITNESS POSTERS ARE GIVING LIVING PROVES, LIVE AND DIRECT EXPERIENCES, NUMBERS.

YET THESE NIGGAS ARE STILL ON THEIR DISNEY SHIT : BUT BUT BUT !!!

DONT BE MAD AT THEM. THEY ARE WELL PROGRAMMED TO FOLLOW THE PATH OF THOSE WHOM YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.

YOU CANNOT SAVE THEM ALL BRUH.

Ya'll niggas keep talking like the shit ain't a 2 way street. Like I said before ya'll talking like a woman just wakes up randomly one day and decides to file for divorce. A marriage is still a relationship and just like any other you should be well aware of when it's fucking up and it rarely is just 1 person's fault when a relationship fails. But ya'll keep coming with the scenarios of a woman taking you for everything you got when most you niggas ain't even got shit. Niggas using celebrity divorces as a measure for why they won't get married like you got millions in the bank.

 

[7figz]

A few things I learned from the homey who got divorced:

-Hhave your wife pay half of every "marital asset" once you get married.

- Make sure she makes at least as much income as you, and or has the same earning potential.

- Prenup.

... and some more shit I can't think of right now.

Yeah I know it's easier said than done, and shit could still go way south with thbiased ass culture. But hey, if all they saying is true right now about Black women being the most educated now at this point, then at some point they should be making that kind of money that you won't have to worry... of course at that point they'll probably consider you a broke MF but hey.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

emm in here killing emm....lol

 

[MizuryLillith]

Nah the problem is how the courts deal with any domestic matter involving a male and female.

You mean any matter involving anyone

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

emm in here killing emm....lol

We gotta keep it a stack with each other if we are going to get anywhere.. There are some ain't Shit women who don't deserve a ring and some ain't Shit men who don't deserve a good woman.. On top of that people only do what they are allowed to do.. If the respect is there a woman will straighten her ass up.. And vice versa.. Everything else is Grey area..

Where my nigga Kap at what's his @ these.. Come join this discussion..

 

[blakfyahking]

@LordZuko you better finish part 2 bruh i was reading that shit intrigued then you go gone on a bitch raid. nigga just finish that shit. niggaZ like to be in the know

Part two is on gf vs wives.

You gotta understand what a man is to a woman. He's a lottery ticket. She tryna figure out if what she holding in her hand is a winner. If not she gonna move on, if she smart. Females understand that they age like athletes. Their prime years are between 19-29. After that it's a wrap you got a old bitch on your hands, those are dangerous.

A bitch is always tryna get a man to commit to her emotionally, that's why she needs constant validating. She needs to hear you say the i love you, needs you to buy her gifts and prioritize her over lifelong friends. That indicates to her the man's level of commitment. Men don't give commitment easy but once they do, it's hard to take back outside of her betrayal. So once she feels a nigga is committed she starts to move towards marriage.

This is where Niggas lose.

When a bitch is at the gf stage you as the man run the show. A bitch Got two options, she can stay or she can go. But if you the man, you already let her know that there's bitches waiting to come off the bench. 1)no bitch wants a nigga with no bitches. 2)no bitch wants to see another bitch prosper off her progress.

3)you gotta pimp these hoes, you gotta have that bitch mentally, she has to know that you're better than her. This seems harsh because the average nigga don't wanna pimp his girl. But if you don't pimp her another nigga will. No bitch wants to be with a lame nigga. Every bitch wanna feel like they nigga got the juice because that mean they got juice. This why rappers, dboys, athletes stay with hoes, and bitches on waiting lists just to try out to be a hoe. And a nigga gotta keep bitches because having hoes is how you keep your swag. You ever see a nigga that you know is bitchless try to talk to another bitch. It's sad. This all self explanatory tho.

So when she just a gf and she know she competing with other Bitches she either gonna work hard or fall off. Either way next bitch up.

Part 3: Marriage aka Every hoe think she a pimp

Yo bro.. You believe all of this?...

It's 2017.. This may have worked a generation ago.. But these women are moving different out here.. Pay attention..

No females not moving different. The year don't matter, the race don't matter the country don't matter.

Yo son.. These woman are definitely moving different.. Hoeism is applauded in today's society... These women have no shame. They'll fuck you and your friend and and give 0 fucks.. It is because of this that it might be in some dudes best interest to get married if they actually find a good woman.. Cuz it's a dirty game out here..

Hoeism is lauded but at the end of the day these hoes want validation. For example Amber rose. Notorious hoe. For all the shit she talks she still wants a man. However, based on her own actions there's only a certain level of man willing to be publicly seen with her. Enter 21 Savage. A nigga clearly dealing with mother issues and lack of father. Amber came in and played a role.

Blacc Chyna another hoe only could get someone that is a public joke. No serious nigga would ever cuff her.

Hoeism is lauded by hoes.but as much shit as these hoes talk they cannot validate themselves. They need a man to want them to desire them to love them.

The game is played differently at different levels. The level you talking about, is a basic bitch level.

This guy... What are we talkin about here? Amber got married to wiz and got a million outta the divorce settlement. Chyna is gonna take Rob to the cleaners and they ain't even get married. If you ask me they've been validated not only by the men they were dealing with.. But by the general public.. And most importantly by the courts.. Look at Future.. Again what are we really talkin about? Since when do niggaz gotta get married to get raped by the courts?

Don't let bravado and ego blind you to what is really happening out here. I'm all for being the pimp/alpha male.. But today.. You gotta be careful because they use that against you..

this lil nigga kickin tall nigga knowledge....lol

you my nigga tho

5'5" with the soul of a 6'4 nigga lmao..

On the cool though.. Marriage and to a further extent failed marriage isn't the issue. It's gender roles.. And how we as men and women deal with each other.. And how society has shaped expectations to the point where certain things just aren't realistic.. It's a multi layered onion with failed marriage being a symptom of a larger issue.. But I digress..

^^^cosign all of this

with the biggest factor of all: RESPECT

a lot of people in marriages don't truly respect their spouse

marrying for love is not enough.......hell u could genuinely love a person and it's best that ya'll not be together

but if u have that basic respect, the way u handle each other will be what makes ur relationship become better or worse as life happens

also mofos have an immature perspective about what a long term marriage is supposed to be like...........u think that dimey chick u married in ur 20s won't get fat 1 day (especially after she has a kid or 2), u think when ya'll get older it's not possible for 1 of ya'll to get cancer, or to deal with the death of a parent, death of a child, etc...........mofos be ready to sign up but don't understand that u will have to take on all of that

if u ain't still gon find ur wife attractive while she getting cancer treatments and losing her hair and/or a breast, then u had no business even thinking about getting married in the 1st place

 

[2stepz_ahead]

@LordZuko you better finish part 2 bruh i was reading that shit intrigued then you go gone on a bitch raid. nigga just finish that shit. niggaZ like to be in the know

Part two is on gf vs wives.

You gotta understand what a man is to a woman. He's a lottery ticket. She tryna figure out if what she holding in her hand is a winner. If not she gonna move on, if she smart. Females understand that they age like athletes. Their prime years are between 19-29. After that it's a wrap you got a old bitch on your hands, those are dangerous.

A bitch is always tryna get a man to commit to her emotionally, that's why she needs constant validating. She needs to hear you say the i love you, needs you to buy her gifts and prioritize her over lifelong friends. That indicates to her the man's level of commitment. Men don't give commitment easy but once they do, it's hard to take back outside of her betrayal. So once she feels a nigga is committed she starts to move towards marriage.

This is where Niggas lose.

When a bitch is at the gf stage you as the man run the show. A bitch Got two options, she can stay or she can go. But if you the man, you already let her know that there's bitches waiting to come off the bench. 1)no bitch wants a nigga with no bitches. 2)no bitch wants to see another bitch prosper off her progress.

3)you gotta pimp these hoes, you gotta have that bitch mentally, she has to know that you're better than her. This seems harsh because the average nigga don't wanna pimp his girl. But if you don't pimp her another nigga will. No bitch wants to be with a lame nigga. Every bitch wanna feel like they nigga got the juice because that mean they got juice. This why rappers, dboys, athletes stay with hoes, and bitches on waiting lists just to try out to be a hoe. And a nigga gotta keep bitches because having hoes is how you keep your swag. You ever see a nigga that you know is bitchless try to talk to another bitch. It's sad. This all self explanatory tho.

So when she just a gf and she know she competing with other Bitches she either gonna work hard or fall off. Either way next bitch up.

Part 3: Marriage aka Every hoe think she a pimp

Yo bro.. You believe all of this?...

It's 2017.. This may have worked a generation ago.. But these women are moving different out here.. Pay attention..

No females not moving different. The year don't matter, the race don't matter the country don't matter.

Yo son.. These woman are definitely moving different.. Hoeism is applauded in today's society... These women have no shame. They'll fuck you and your friend and and give 0 fucks.. It is because of this that it might be in some dudes best interest to get married if they actually find a good woman.. Cuz it's a dirty game out here..

Hoeism is lauded but at the end of the day these hoes want validation. For example Amber rose. Notorious hoe. For all the shit she talks she still wants a man. However, based on her own actions there's only a certain level of man willing to be publicly seen with her. Enter 21 Savage. A nigga clearly dealing with mother issues and lack of father. Amber came in and played a role.

Blacc Chyna another hoe only could get someone that is a public joke. No serious nigga would ever cuff her.

Hoeism is lauded by hoes.but as much shit as these hoes talk they cannot validate themselves. They need a man to want them to desire them to love them.

The game is played differently at different levels. The level you talking about, is a basic bitch level.

This guy... What are we talkin about here? Amber got married to wiz and got a million outta the divorce settlement. Chyna is gonna take Rob to the cleaners and they ain't even get married. If you ask me they've been validated not only by the men they were dealing with.. But by the general public.. And most importantly by the courts.. Look at Future.. Again what are we really talkin about? Since when do niggaz gotta get married to get raped by the courts?

Don't let bravado and ego blind you to what is really happening out here. I'm all for being the pimp/alpha male.. But today.. You gotta be careful because they use that against you..

this lil nigga kickin tall nigga knowledge....lol

you my nigga tho

5'5" with the soul of a 6'4 nigga lmao..

On the cool though.. Marriage and to a further extent failed marriage isn't the issue. It's gender roles.. And how we as men and women deal with each other.. And how society has shaped expectations to the point where certain things just aren't realistic.. It's a multi layered onion with failed marriage being a symptom of a larger issue.. But I digress..

^^^cosign all of this

with the biggest factor of all: RESPECT

a lot of people in marriages don't truly respect their spouse

marrying for love is not enough.......hell u could genuinely love a person and it's best that ya'll not be together

but if u have that basic respect, the way u handle each other will be what makes ur relationship become better or worse as life happens

also mofos have an immature perspective about what a long term marriage is supposed to be like...........u think that dimey chick u married in ur 20s won't get fat 1 day (especially after she has a kid or 2), u think when ya'll get older it's not possible for 1 of ya'll to get cancer, or to deal with the death of a parent, death of a child, etc...........mofos be ready to sign up but don't understand that u will have to take on all of that

if u ain't still gon find ur wife attractive while she getting cancer treatments and losing her hair and/or a breast, then u had no business even thinking about getting married in the 1st place

real shit.....right now ..you get props....but we gon run another fade.

but for now you on point.

 

[LordZuko]

The problem is thinking there is a difference between a hoe and a regular bitch.

Because you contrive this distinction you end up applying the wrong solution to the problem.

A hoe is nothing but a female willing to use her pussy to extract resources from a man.

Name five bitches you know that wouldn't use their pussy to get what they want.

Being a hoe is a basic program of a female. It ain't even an intentional thought it's just the way they move.

So to say that you simply have to choose the right female ignores the fact that hoe is encoded in her. The female you with used pussy to get you, uses pussy to keep you, but you think she's above using it to get something else from another man? Why? Because principles? Hoes don't have principles. They don't operate on an honor system.

If you with a female long term it is because she doesn't feel she can do better than you.

If she does find someone she thinks is better she'll do something called monkey branching. Shell pull back affection from her current, withdraw from sex become emotionally distant pick petty arguments, basically tank the relationship until he breaks up with her. She will swear there is nobody else, but look on her fb two weeks to a month later you gonna see her boo'd up with the nigga she was cheating on you with.

Now if she wants a man who she isn't sure is available she will cheat but won't leave right away. Maybe the dude is married or has a gf but she will fuck him in order to mate poach.

Some females will play a game where they hook up with a beta for the resources, cheat with an alpha, get pregnant by him and pass the baby off as the beta's.

Lot of niggas outchea thinking they chose the right one. Holding Ls.

Paying child support on kids not even theirs.

I already went over the other Ls.

Understand the nature of the thing you dealing with

 

[blakfyahking]

Marriage is a fucking scam. I just spent the last 7-8 months sitting in court watching men get jerked over because of that "legally binding" relationship. I watched a mf making $250 K / year getting raped in court by his wife. Left that nigga w/ crumbs. Had me sitting there wanting to kill that broad for him. Why? All because somebody didn't want to be w/ the other person any more. Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn been together damn near 30+ years and never got married. Society tells people that you have to be "married" to prove your love for your partner. Marriage is mostly beneficial for women. My girl and I both are like "fuck getting married again". Bout to be on our Kurt and Goldie shit.

YOU AND LOTS OF WITNESS POSTERS ARE GIVING LIVING PROVES, LIVE AND DIRECT EXPERIENCES, NUMBERS.

YET THESE NIGGAS ARE STILL ON THEIR DISNEY SHIT : BUT BUT BUT !!!

DONT BE MAD AT THEM. THEY ARE WELL PROGRAMMED TO FOLLOW THE PATH OF THOSE WHOM YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.

YOU CANNOT SAVE THEM ALL BRUH.

Ya'll niggas keep talking like the shit ain't a 2 way street. Like I said before ya'll talking like a woman just wakes up randomly one day and decides to file for divorce. A marriage is still a relationship and just like any other you should be well aware of when it's fucking up and it rarely is just 1 person's fault when a relationship fails. But ya'll keep coming with the scenarios of a woman taking you for everything you got when most you niggas ain't even got shit. Niggas using celebrity divorces as a measure for why they won't get married like you got millions in the bank.

LOL so u saying that it's better for a nigga to be forced to give up half his chik fila check like @2stepz_ahead said? :joy:

yeah I agree that these niggaz have irrational fears about taking a financial L

but I also think it makes more sense for a regular nigga to be concerned more than a mofos with millions to lose

a nigga forced to give $50 out of a $100 check is gon suffer way more than a dude forced to give up $500K out of a $1M check....just sayin haha

 

[2stepz_ahead]

so follow the above post....

do you think you could care for your mates sick mother?

if you got sick, who will be there? family? at some point their family will take priority... then what?

do you think running thru hors aint expensive?

an if they not...then you ain't shit for slumming it.

I see alot if ...ole not my heart but blame it on money an aint got shit ass niggas

 

[2stepz_ahead]

shit, God forbid my wife leave me tomorrow.... I'll be hurt as fukk.

but will hold my head high cuz I did my best without question. but some shit just don't work.

bout to call her now, tell her I miss her an ask if she misses me.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

Marriage is a fucking scam. I just spent the last 7-8 months sitting in court watching men get jerked over because of that "legally binding" relationship. I watched a mf making $250 K / year getting raped in court by his wife. Left that nigga w/ crumbs. Had me sitting there wanting to kill that broad for him. Why? All because somebody didn't want to be w/ the other person any more. Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn been together damn near 30+ years and never got married. Society tells people that you have to be "married" to prove your love for your partner. Marriage is mostly beneficial for women. My girl and I both are like "fuck getting married again". Bout to be on our Kurt and Goldie shit.

YOU AND LOTS OF WITNESS POSTERS ARE GIVING LIVING PROVES, LIVE AND DIRECT EXPERIENCES, NUMBERS.

YET THESE NIGGAS ARE STILL ON THEIR DISNEY SHIT : BUT BUT BUT !!!

DONT BE MAD AT THEM. THEY ARE WELL PROGRAMMED TO FOLLOW THE PATH OF THOSE WHOM YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.

YOU CANNOT SAVE THEM ALL BRUH.

Ya'll niggas keep talking like the shit ain't a 2 way street. Like I said before ya'll talking like a woman just wakes up randomly one day and decides to file for divorce. A marriage is still a relationship and just like any other you should be well aware of when it's fucking up and it rarely is just 1 person's fault when a relationship fails. But ya'll keep coming with the scenarios of a woman taking you for everything you got when most you niggas ain't even got shit. Niggas using celebrity divorces as a measure for why they won't get married like you got millions in the bank.

I was thinking like you bruh. Then i did some researches. Its deeper than money bruh believe me.