Planning for Single Motherhood.. Are fathers really needed?

[meekins]

yeah because this is always the case.....

right.. smh.. 9m outta 10 times the father is a thief.. thats just the nature of it, ya diggs??

 

[meekins]

sorry but this bitch makes black women look bad and its bitches like this that set the tone for the public perception on black women.

your only as strong as yo weakest.. so when you got bitches like this comin out to the world like she got some great mind, but does nothing but shows ignorance, thats how the world is going to percieve YOU (black women) when they see you.. especially being in a white world.

 

[Ladiesman]

lets suppose the father is a dope fiend none working stealing from his own momma, so he'll definitely wouldn't hesitate to take from his child, yall mean to tell me the mother isn't better off raising that child alone vs. it being a must the father is in that childs life?

@ Du seltbeats don't save lives, GOD does........see the number of seatbelt related deaths

The chances r he probably a dope fiend because he had no father around and no postive male role models, what i'm saying is every boy needs a postive male role model it doesn't have to be his father it could be his uncle, teacher whatever not just women and girls also need a postive male influence so they learn to intereact with men, when you have women just thinking they can raise children alone this is where you start to have problems like PIMPs etc

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

lets suppose the father is a dope fiend none working stealing from his own momma, so he'll definitely wouldn't hesitate to take from his child, yall mean to tell me the mother isn't better off raising that child alone vs. it being a must the father is in that childs life?

@ Du seltbeats don't save lives, GOD does........see the number of seatbelt related deaths

Of course.

However I believe this is a general discussion of the importance of a two parent home, provided each parent is a positive force.

Your statement can also go both ways but let's not go there.

 

[damobb2deep]

If u believe this you should be shot..

 

[Mdizzle9000]

sorry but this bitch makes black women look bad and its bitches like this that set the tone for the public perception on black women.

your only as strong as yo weakest.. so when you got bitches like this comin out to the world like she got some great mind, but does nothing but shows ignorance, thats how the world is going to percieve YOU (black women) when they see you.. especially being in a white world.

you do know in her vid she is against single parenthood right?

 

[Dupac]

And I totally understood what you were saying the first time.

I am saying that your introduction was an error in itself. That mentality alone is counter productive.

sometimes you're just too deep for me...

i don't get it...

 

[meekins]

you do know in her vid she is against single parenthood right?

well.. with that said.... disregard what i said. proceed.

 

[The BAPHOMET]

Of course.

However I believe this is a general discussion of the importance of a two parent home, provided each parent is a positive force.

Your statement can also go both ways but let's not go there.

that don't guarantee nothing, I came from a household where my mom had to raise me alone since age 3, because the man I known as my father (not bi-ological, never seen him) was gunned down in 83' and when I compare myself to an aqcuintance I know whom was raised in a positvie household with both parents, and trust he's way lesser of a man then one would expect, so this theory is flawed.....but its good conversation

 

[The BAPHOMET]

The chances r he probably a dope fiend because he had no father around and no postive male role models, what i'm saying is every boy needs a postive male role model it doesn't have to be his father it could be his uncle, teacher whatever not just women and girls also need a postive male influence so they learn to intereact with men, when you have women just thinking they can raise children alone this is where you start to have problems like PIMPs etc

not true, I hung around gangstas, hustlas, and pimps my entire life, and I think I turned out alright, most of the time its the ones sheltered from the other lifestyle, that tend to gravitate towards what they've been sheltered from, I think me being exposed to such life it allowed me to see firsthand what mistakes to avoid in life

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

that don't guarantee nothing, I came from a household where my mom had to raise me alone since age 3, because the man I known as my father (not bi-ological, never seen him) was gunned down in 83' and when I compare myself to an aqcuintance I know whom was raised in a positvie household with both parents, and trust he's way lesser of a man then one would expect, so this theory is flawed.....but its good conversation

So two full time, present and active parents who are damn good ones is not better for a child to have than one?
Because that is the only bottom line in this particular thread.

You're bringing all variables into the equation, going beyond the fact that PLANNING single parenthood is just selfish. That is what this thread is about, is it not?

 

[The BAPHOMET]

research and statistics are more reliable than your little anecdote...

yeah better than life experiences, naw this very mentality that most people like yourself have are whats damaging to a child, like how you turned out, can't think for yourself

 

[The BAPHOMET]

So two full time, present and active parents who are damn good ones is not better for a child to have than one?

Because that is the only bottom line in this particular thread.

You're bringing all variables into the equation, going beyond the fact that PLANNING single parenthood is just selfish. That is what this thread is about, is it not?

just stating the obvious, that it is naive to think a planned single parent household is any less valuable than a two family household, life is a hit or miss, options, we as adults forget that we once were kids, and if you could think back to your childhood, I'm sure your mind was made up at an early age without influenece, so I just think her theory is flawed thats all, becuz of life's experiences, I'm not stating it off statistics and research

 

[Dupac]

-------------basicaly he's just playing devil's advocate, arguing just to have something to argue about...trying to find a flip side to a coin that don't need to be flipped...

 

[Mdizzle9000]

es bee has daddy issues

 

[The BAPHOMET]

yeah because this is always the case.....

same thing I thought about planned single-parent households

 

[The BAPHOMET]

smh...

you probably don't know what anecdote means...

anyway, I know that things that i have experienced do not apply to the world at large...

I guess you're not ready for that high level of thought...

obviously you don't, cuz I responded appropriately

 

[The BAPHOMET]

es bee has daddy issues

you got female tendacies, so I guess we =

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

just stating the obvious, that it is naive to think a planned single parent household is any less valuable than a two family household, life is a hit or miss, options, we as adults forget that we once were kids, and if you could think back to your childhood, I'm sure your mind was made up at an early age without influenece, so I just think her theory is flawed thats all, becuz of life's experiences, I'm not stating it off statistics and research

Edit: Misread HER and thought you were directing your comment at me.

Nevertheless, I do agree with the underlined. To think otherwise is foolish and simply ignorant.

 

[The BAPHOMET]

-------------basicaly he's just playing devil's advocate, arguing just to have something to argue about...trying to find a flip side to a coin that don't need to be flipped...

you never have clue, Du you