SolemnSauce
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Damn..
BiblicalAtheist
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LordZuko;8371032 said:
Idk, he didn't even post for 5 mths before this thread. Guess he got a life outside the IC, what a loser.
banginscrew901
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You gone have to drop a story to get this ball rolling.
BiblicalAtheist
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Choose the path that brings the least guilt/regret.
onetoughmiracle
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onthafly;c-9874341 said:
Do what they did back in the day?
If there aren't irreconcilable differences, you need to stick it out.
Otherwise, you'll be coming out of pocket on child support for 2 kids for the next 13-17 years........even more if they decide to go to college.
Now, you might think you're paying for the kids either way.........but the amount of money you'll actually spend on the kids while married is not going to be as much as you'll end up paying in child support if you get divorced.
Basically, you need to think of this as a business decision.
If you don't mind the child support, go through with the divorce........and also be prepared to give up some portion of whatever assets you have as well.
If you know you can't afford those costs, play the role and stay in the marriage.
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I make decent money. I'm ok with paying child support and alimony. If I try to stick it out and it fails 10 years down the road, I'd be paying permanent alimony for the rest of my life because she probably still won't be working and I think that would just lead to resentment. I'd also rather have part of my income and be with a woman that's working in the long run if we're talking finances.
ThaNubianGod
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onthafly;c-9874341 said:
Getting your girl pregnant at 21 was irresponsible, but if you're willing to step up and be in your kid's life, then you're no less a man than anyone else. Just know it will always been a tricky situation.
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Rozetta5tone
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When I knew I was gonna leave my wife I started documenting everything. Calling the police for the slightest shit. Nigga built a paper for real. Went to work on her mentally and financially. Put her in a position to submit to whatever I asked for.
End result, my daughter is in her room watching curious George and eating apple sauce and my ex is doing whatever it is a dumb bitch does when they don't have kids to be responsible for.
I'm a cutthroat type of nigga. I went to extremes to get my way. Idk what else to tell you bruh. Be a bitch about the situation or do what you gotta do to get your favor my nigga.
End result, my daughter is in her room watching curious George and eating apple sauce and my ex is doing whatever it is a dumb bitch does when they don't have kids to be responsible for.
I'm a cutthroat type of nigga. I went to extremes to get my way. Idk what else to tell you bruh. Be a bitch about the situation or do what you gotta do to get your favor my nigga.
