Pat Robertson: Haiti "Cursed' By 'Pact To The Devil"

[Focal Point]

Son... You share that girl

 

[onthafly]

So I had a talk with her. She tried to give me the silent treatment and not respond when I told her she needed to clean the house because she's home all day every day but I didn't let up. She said something like she's not going to work her fingers to the bone anymore trying to clean the house. I'm pretty sure she's upset with me but I'm gonna keep bringing it up until she starts doing her part.

Don't let her do that reverse Psychology shit. You keep the pressure on her ass, she in the wrong

Yeah I'm stayin on her about it. She's been cleanin lately, it's just takin awhile to get the house clean. She's been tellin me how I need to help out more with potty training too but I'm gone before my son wakes up and get about 3 hours with him before bed time on week days so if he doesn't have to use the bathroom in those 3 hours, there's no much I can do. I've been tryin to tell her to stop spendin so much time makin excuses for why she can't do shit and just get it done. I wasn't raised to make excuses for shit.

 

[Focal Point]

On the real, she may need some counseling. You're doing your part and above. She will have to step it up otherwise some frank "our future" discussions will be needed.

 

[bignorm]

Son... You share that girl

She be cleanin another nigga house during the day.

 

[blakfyahking]

you know shit is bad when women in the PR are collectively telling you to man the fuck up

 

[D. Morgan]

Just wanted to get some perspective from other females and guys if they have any input. A little background. My wife is a stay at home mom. We have a toddler who will be 3 next month. He doesn't go to day care or anything like that. I work a full time job but I usually try to cook and do the dishes when I get home. If I'm not up to it then we'll usually end up ordering out or something. Our house pretty much stays dirty and I feel like my wife isn't really doing her part. She looks after our son while I'm at work but based on what I see when I'm home I feel like she's not really doing enough.

Whenever I see her she's always on her computer playing sims or something which she says she needs to help her keep her sanity when dealing with our kid. She says she does a lot more when I'm gone but she just feels like she can take a break when I'm home. Judging by the way the house always looks I find it hard to believe she's doing so much while I'm gone but I don't want to judge when I'm not home to witness anything. I just witness this dirty ass house that she's always telling me that WE need to get clean but I'm the only one at work all day gettin the bills paid. I also do all the grocery shopping since I'm the only one with a drivers license. She does do the laundry every now and then which is helpful and every now and then she may get a room in the house clean.

I understand a lot of women feel that being a stay at home mom is a job itself and I agree but I thought being a stay at home mom or dad generally included looking after the house while your spouse was at work. It seems like she wants to come home from a full day at work and clean up this dirty ass house along with doing all the cooking and shit. How would you all define the roles in and outside of the house if one person in the relationship was a stay at home mom or dad?

Reading all of that especially the bold parts all I could do is feel like

 

[Maximus Rex]

My wife is a stay at home mom.

They're called housewives.

I work a full time job but I usually try to cook and do the dishes when I get home. If I'm not up to it then we'll usually end up ordering out or something. Our house pretty much stays dirty and I feel like my wife isn't really doing her part.

Nigga, you're bitch owned. How are you going to go to work put in 40 work day, then not only come home to a dirty house, but the bitch has nerve enough to not even have dinner ready or the dishes done. That's some shameful shit.

My Na Na was a housewife. Not only did she have the house clean, but dinner was on the table for when my Pa Pa got home. For my maternal grandparents, my grandfather stayed home because he had a stroke at an early age and he was partially paralyzed, but that didn't prevent him from cleaning house and having dinner ready for my Granny when she got home.

She looks after our son while I'm at work but based on what I see when I'm home I feel like she's not really doing enough.

She isn't, he job is to do all of that domestic shit, e.g. clean house, put on a load of clothes, iron, make groceries, pick up dry cleaning, prepare meals, take the cars to get maintenance, and go to the gym as to to maintain her girlish figure and to prevent from chunking up. When you give her money for clothes, accessories and when you go on vacation to exotic locales, that's her compensation for doing her wifely duties.

Whenever I see her she's always on her computer playing sims or something which she says she needs to help her keep her sanity when dealing with our kid. She says she does a lot more when I'm gone but she just feels like she can take a break when I'm home.

Maintaining a house with one child isn't hard, she's putting too much on it and you're letting her get away with that shit.

Judging by the way the house always looks I find it hard to believe she's doing so much while I'm gone but I don't want to judge when I'm not home to witness anything. I just witness this dirty ass house that she's always telling me that WE need to get clean but I'm the only one at work all day gettin the bills paid.

Being that Rex is a firm believer in past or present behavior is the best predictor of future behavior, was your a fucking slob before you married her?

I also do all the grocery shopping since I'm the only one with a drivers license.

Dude unless you live in NYC, Philly, Boston, Chicago, S.F. and possibly D.C., how does an adult not have a driver's license? Also, why haven't you taught her how to drive?

She does do the laundry every now and then which is helpful and every now and then she may get a room in the house clean.

You married a weak ass bitch. One day you're going to come to this foul as shit.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zFosUj6A22c

I understand a lot of women feel that being a stay at home mom is a job itself and I agree

See that's your problem, you're believing this the feminist propaganda about how supposedly "hard," being a housewife is. How hard is it vacuum and dust on Monday? Put on a load of clothes on Tuesday? Make groceries on Wednesday? Pick up the dry cleaning on Thursday? and wash the windows on Friday? The most time consuming thing is the cooking. I do agree that maybe you should pick a day out of the weekend to do some cooking, but that's her job.

but I thought being a stay at home mom or dad generally included looking after the house while your spouse was at work.

It is.

It seems like she wants to come home from a full day at work and clean up this dirty ass house along with doing all the cooking and shit.

How did you meet ole girl? Is she a mail order bride from overseas or just some ole nigga bitch that didn't get the proper home training?

How would you all define the roles in and outside of the house if one person in the relationship was a stay at home mom or dad?

Nigga, you were suppose to have that conversation over steaks before you even thought about putting that rang on her finger.

 

[HarlemThumzUp]

My wife is a stay at home mom.

They're called housewives.

I work a full time job but I usually try to cook and do the dishes when I get home. If I'm not up to it then we'll usually end up ordering out or something. Our house pretty much stays dirty and I feel like my wife isn't really doing her part.

Nigga, you're bitch owned. How are you going to go to work put in 40 work day, then not only come home to a dirty house, but the bitch has nerve enough to not even have dinner ready or the dishes done. That's some shameful shit.

My Na Na was a housewife. Not only did she have the house clean, but dinner was on the table for when my Pa Pa got home. For my maternal grandparents, my grandfather stayed home because he had a stroke at an early age and he was partially paralyzed, but that didn't prevent him from cleaning house and having dinner ready for my Granny when she got home.

She looks after our son while I'm at work but based on what I see when I'm home I feel like she's not really doing enough.

She isn't, he job is to do all of that domestic shit, e.g. clean house, put on a load of clothes, iron, make groceries, pick up dry cleaning, prepare meals, take the cars to get maintenance, and go to the gym as to to maintain her girlish figure and to prevent from chunking up. When you give her money for clothes, accessories and when you go on vacation to exotic locales, that's her compensation for doing her wifely duties.

Whenever I see her she's always on her computer playing sims or something which she says she needs to help her keep her sanity when dealing with our kid. She says she does a lot more when I'm gone but she just feels like she can take a break when I'm home.

Maintaining a house with one child isn't hard, she's putting too much on it and you're letting her get away with that shit.

Judging by the way the house always looks I find it hard to believe she's doing so much while I'm gone but I don't want to judge when I'm not home to witness anything. I just witness this dirty ass house that she's always telling me that WE need to get clean but I'm the only one at work all day gettin the bills paid.

Being that Rex is a firm believer in past or present behavior is the best predictor of future behavior, was your a fucking slob before you married her?

I also do all the grocery shopping since I'm the only one with a drivers license.

Dude unless you live in NYC, Philly, Boston, Chicago, S.F. and possibly D.C., how does an adult not have a driver's license? Also, why haven't you taught her how to drive?

She does do the laundry every now and then which is helpful and every now and then she may get a room in the house clean.

You married a weak ass bitch. One day you're going to come to this foul as shit.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zFosUj6A22c

I understand a lot of women feel that being a stay at home mom is a job itself and I agree

See that's your problem, you're believing this the feminist propaganda about how supposedly "hard," being a housewife is. How hard is it vacuum and dust on Monday? Put on a load of clothes on Tuesday? Make groceries on Wednesday? Pick up the dry cleaning on Thursday? and wash the windows on Friday? The most time consuming thing is the cooking. I do agree that maybe you should pick a day out of the weekend to do some cooking, but that's her job.

but I thought being a stay at home mom or dad generally included looking after the house while your spouse was at work.

It is.

It seems like she wants to come home from a full day at work and clean up this dirty ass house along with doing all the cooking and shit.

How did you meet ole girl? Is she a mail order bride from overseas or just some ole nigga bitch that didn't get the proper home training?

How would you all define the roles in and outside of the house if one person in the relationship was a stay at home mom or dad?

Nigga, you were suppose to have that conversation over steaks before you even thought about putting that rang on her finger.

 

[D. Morgan]

My wife is a stay at home mom.

She isn't, he job is to do all of that domestic shit, e.g. clean house, put on a load of clothes, iron, make groceries[/b], pick up dry cleaning, prepare meals, take the cars to get maintenance, and go to the gym as to to maintain her girlish figure and to prevent from chunking up. When you give her money for clothes, accessories and when you go on vacation to exotic locales, that's her compensation for doing her wifely duties.

@"Maximus Rex" How in the fuck do you make groceries?

 

[onthafly]

Whenever I see her she's always on her computer playing sims or something which she says she needs to help her keep her sanity when dealing with our kid. She says she does a lot more when I'm gone but she just feels like she can take a break when I'm home.

Maintaining a house with one child isn't hard, she's putting too much on it and you're letting her get away with that shit.

Yeah, it took me a minute to realize that she was just lazy and that was probably acceptable in her house growing up. I don't want to get into too much detail about her family but her step dad is the only one with a job and she doesn't seem to respect the fact that he works. She acts like he's some bum sittin around the house who doesn't do shit. I think it may be a serious case of differing values here at least when it comes to work ethic. I came from a house with two parents that went to school and worked at the same time.

Judging by the way the house always looks I find it hard to believe she's doing so much while I'm gone but I don't want to judge when I'm not home to witness anything. I just witness this dirty ass house that she's always telling me that WE need to get clean but I'm the only one at work all day gettin the bills paid.

Being that Rex is a firm believer in past or present behavior is the best predictor of future behavior, was your a fucking slob before you married her?

Her mom did say that she never wanted to wake up to go to community college as a grown woman so she had to make her get up. We never really had much of a house to clean prior to gettin married. We were goin through a lot of shit with my sister gettin us evicted and renting rooms with people and by the time we got some stability we had a kid and she was hittin me with how hard it was to be a mother and all that shit.

I also do all the grocery shopping since I'm the only one with a drivers license.

Dude unless you live in NYC, Philly, Boston, Chicago, S.F. and possibly D.C., how does an adult not have a driver's license? Also, why haven't you taught her how to drive?

I've been pushing her to get her license for awhile. My mom never drove due to some traumatizing experience she had even though she had a job and her drivers license so I just never thought much of it.

I understand a lot of women feel that being a stay at home mom is a job itself and I agree

See that's your problem, you're believing this the feminist propaganda about how supposedly "hard," being a housewife is. How hard is it vacuum and dust on Monday? Put on a load of clothes on Tuesday? Make groceries on Wednesday? Pick up the dry cleaning on Thursday? and wash the windows on Friday? The most time consuming thing is the cooking. I do agree that maybe you should pick a day out of the weekend to do some cooking, but that's her job.

Yeah I think I bought into the bullshit. It was something I knew nothing about so I just went with what I was told and never questioned it.

 

[TheNightKing]

Happened upon this thread. I have s housewife and we have a 9 month old, 6 year old, and 10 year old. So Soccer practice, dance practice and all that. Dinner is ready when I get home, house is straight, and everything. She's even cooking more diverse meals since staying at home. I feel for you homie, but I'm glad I don't have your problems. If you can get it right, it's all that.

I think the key with us was that we agreed up front that if I worked my ass of to put us in a position where she didn't have to work, all the house shit would be taken care of by her. I do help out with the kids though, especially the baby. That's just being a father though, they're not a chore.

 

[Sexy26]

Take the trash out mow the lawn and be a great father

 

[TheNightKing]

Take the trash out mow the lawn and be a great father

Exactly, unless you have a son. Then it's just be a great father, lol. Let my boy do the trash and mow. I'll do the edging and hedges though.

 

[mrrealone]

I just read this story........

Wow. I'm getting the exact same story from the TS my ex-coworker gave me about his wife. His wife is tryna start a book club, but that ain't bringing in any money. He used to actually cuss her out and call her out her name behind some of that stuff too. Even on the phone at work. She doesn't cook or clean and tries to run a sob story about "how hard women have it" crying or some mess like that when he confronts her about the dirty house and no food. She also letting herself go (appearance wise). They in the plans on finalizing a divorce now. The kicker to the story is she has a Masters. Yup. He was telling me how before they got married she actually was telling him stuff like "you don't mind a woman working??" "You don't mind a woman making more money than you" and she went from that to "oh you the man, you take care of everything" once the wedding ring went on her finger.....

Lord knows, when I get married its hopefully to the right woman who'd have my back like I have hers......

 

[DarcSkies]

People should do what they want and be honest about it. And if what they want isn't up to par then the other person has the option to leave.

If a dude works AND cleans up the house while a woman just spends his money. That's THEIR business.

if you are not happy with that you need to say so. If things wont change you need to leave.

Of course this is easier said but minus all the intrinsic shit that's the situation. YOu will either demand a change in behavior or you wont. YOu kinda in a fucked up situation though.

But I dont feel sorry for you. All this shit should've been ironed out long time ago.

 

[Noble Al Lee]

I thought the point of being a stay at home mom was to take care of the household while the husband is out making the income. So in theory, a man with a stay at home mom for a s/o shouldnt have to really do anything around the house. Not to say he cant or shouldnt, but it definetly shouldnt be necessary

 

[onthafly]

Blah blah blah you know

 

[Kat]

Child got into a bottle of Benadryl "accidentally" huh?

More than once? Broke into a child proof bottle?

I hope you plan on filing for custody.

You never been happier..for now.

Lol..this is only the beginning. I hope for the best, but I feel for you..good luck

 

[deadeye]

I filed for divorce today and broke the news to my wife and I've never been happier.

How did your wife react when you told her?

 

[zzombie]

Horrible choice of a mate