Pat Robertson: Haiti "Cursed' By 'Pact To The Devil"

[BeardedFreak]

You didn't realize she was lazy, before you wifed her. AND decided to have a kid with her?

Blinded by the pussy?

 

[onthafly]

I don't think it's been going on forever. I recall her doing dishes and cleaning and shit awhile back. It was probably only after we had a kid that she started telling me that I need to help out more around the house. I think the problem is the more I started trying to do around the house the lazier she got.

 

[CapitalB]

mannnnn.. i jus came in here to see if there were any new posts in the kids thread and this title for some reason jus pissed me the fuck off! hahaha

i had to come see what this was about. smmfh

i read a few of the posts..

and yeh.. u got that bitch feelin entitled.. nigga u working and commin home to cook and clean??! nah nigga..

first u go have a talk wit yo lady..

its not gonna change nothin.. so here's what u do..

for now on.. before u go home.. EAT!

get home.. say u aint hungry and let that bitch starve.. tell her u too tired to cook.. uv been working all day..

house's a mess?? come home.. say whats up to yo son.. call up a friend and go out.. or jus go chill at a family members' house.. when u leave her and she asks u where u goin.. jus say "out" tell her uv been working all day and the last thing u want to be in is a dirty house.. u tryin to unwind.. go back home late and go to sleep...

stop fuckin her..

in fact. everything u do that she loves about u STOP!

she aint doin what she suppose to.. so should u.. bitch go do one of two things..

sorry to keep calling yo bitch a bitch like that..

but that bitch trippin! lol

 

[Iheart~Cali]

My husband doesn't have to do anything when he gets home but eat, sleep, and get slobbed down. I do all the cooking, all the cleaning, and deal with the everyday kid stuff 90% of the time. The only thing I ask is that he take some time out once a week to take the kids so I can have some time to myself and recharge. He's also very nice in that he'll pitch in with the chores occasionally if he sees I'm busy or really tired.

I don't expect him to cook or clean. Just pick up his belongings and put them away if he leaves them out (which he hasn't quite mastered yet). That's all.

If I worked full time and came home to a messy house I'd be pissed. Her job is to be a homemaker. Stop eating junk food, eat better, get more energy, and make some home shit. If you're the sole provider she needs to ensure everything on the home front runs smoothly. I'm talking ironed shirts, hot dinners, everything. When you don't have a job you definitely have time to do stuff like that. Don't let her tell you any different guy.

 

[The Iconoclast]

Ima go head and ask what probably all us dudes is wondering so no offense.

Does she atleast put in work in that bed or has she become a lazy lay too? She should be fuckin the soul out cha body to excuse this kinda behavior.

And there goes the biggest problem in our relationship. She used to ride the dick real good. Now it's good when she rides it but she'd rather just lay on her back and let me do the work these days. This shit has to stop.

lol @ how the sex life is a microcosm of the entire relationship now.

 

[caddo man]

Talk that shit out with her. If you need to practice what you are going to say to her. Hell practice her response if you have too. Make sure you get your point across.

Worst thing you can do is talk to her about it and nothing gets agreed on. So make sure you know what you want before you go demanding shit. Have your reasoning ready. You know her well. Use your knowledge to get what you want.

Think of these talks with her as a mini-series that ends in one season. no long drawn out soap operas or one time event. Dont argue, yell or fight over it. Let her know that until she agree and start to do these things you want, it will be brought up again.

Be consistent and stay on subject. You want to be the voice of her guilty conscious when she look at the clock and realize she sat down all day and did nothing.

Recap:

Spoiler

1. Talk to her calmly

2. Practice what you are going to say and her response

3. Know what you really want and if it is feasible.

4. Dont argue or yell. stay calm.

5. Be consistent

6. Stay on subject

Remember the five stages: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. She may hit you with them.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

In all honesty she is probably unhappy, either with you, herself, the child, her life as it stands or how it's changed. I wouldn't ask if she is unhappy just state unequivocally you are aware of her unhappiness. If you ask it gives her the opportunity to avoid feelings getting hurt by denying things. But she is behaving depressive.

 

[bignorm]

My husband doesn't have to do anything when he gets home but eat, sleep, and get slobbed down. I do all the cooking, all the cleaning, and deal with the everyday kid stuff 90% of the time. The only thing I ask is that he take some time out once a week to take the kids so I can have some time to myself and recharge. He's also very nice in that he'll pitch in with the chores occasionally if he sees I'm busy or really tired.

I don't expect him to cook or clean. Just pick up his belongings and put them away if he leaves them out (which he hasn't quite mastered yet). That's all.

If I worked full time and came home to a messy house I'd be pissed. Her job is to be a homemaker. Stop eating junk food, eat better, get more energy, and make some home shit. If you're the sole provider she needs to ensure everything on the home front runs smoothly. I'm talking ironed shirts, hot dinners, everything. When you don't have a job you definitely have time to do stuff like that. Don't let her tell you any different guy.

This is what the fuck I'm talking about.

 

[prime_time_willy]

My husband doesn't have to do anything when he gets home but eat, sleep, and get slobbed down.

 

[onthafly]

So I had a talk with her. She tried to give me the silent treatment and not respond when I told her she needed to clean the house because she's home all day every day but I didn't let up. She said something like she's not going to work her fingers to the bone anymore trying to clean the house. I'm pretty sure she's upset with me but I'm gonna keep bringing it up until she starts doing her part.

 

[AP21]

So I had a talk with her. She tried to give me the silent treatment and not respond when I told her she needed to clean the house because she's home all day every day but I didn't let up. She said something like she's not going to work her fingers to the bone anymore trying to clean the house. I'm pretty sure she's upset with me but I'm gonna keep bringing it up until she starts doing her part.

nah...dont keep bringing it up. You are now on record about telling her that this bothers you.

they be quick to say "you never said anything so i didnt know it was a problem"

nah b

 

[gns]

ok u broke the cleaning ish down to her good for u

lettuce know when u tell her she cant fuck good no mo

nh

 

[onthafly]

Oh yeah I'ma bring that up too. I gotta give the cleaning shit some time to settle in.

 

[AP21]

@iheart~cali, what up tho

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

So I had a talk with her. She tried to give me the silent treatment and not respond when I told her she needed to clean the house because she's home all day every day but I didn't let up. She said something like she's not going to work her fingers to the bone anymore trying to clean the house. I'm pretty sure she's upset with me but I'm gonna keep bringing it up until she starts doing her part.

Nigga the countdown has begun, and I'm not trying to be finished.

 

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[Bcotton5]

the contract is voided my nigga

 

[caddo man]

Oh yeah I'ma bring that up too. I gotta give the cleaning shit some time to settle in.

Dont nag just let her know. Point it out and let that be it.

 

[DR. JEK]

Ima go head and ask what probably all us dudes is wondering so no offense.

Does she atleast put in work in that bed or has she become a lazy lay too? She should be fuckin the soul out cha body to excuse this kinda behavior.

And there goes the biggest problem in our relationship. She used to ride the dick real good. Now it's good when she rides it but she'd rather just lay on her back and let me do the work these days. This shit has to stop.

Oh heeeeeellll nawwwl she gotta go!!! Go get the divorce papers printed up right now!!! I mean literally log off from Here this second and go email your lawyer bruh. Smh

 

[DR. JEK]

So I had a talk with her. She tried to give me the silent treatment and not respond when I told her she needed to clean the house because she's home all day every day but I didn't let up. She said something like she's not going to work her fingers to the bone anymore trying to clean the house. I'm pretty sure she's upset with me but I'm gonna keep bringing it up until she starts doing her part.

Don't let her do that reverse Psychology shit. You keep the pressure on her ass, she in the wrong