my girlfriend is mad I'm friends with my ex..

[Stew]

I'm sorta in the same situation and feel you to an extent. My ex and I broke up over the summer and messed around for a lil bit after only to find out a couple months later she was pregnant and married. So technically she didn't play me but she kinda did by still talking to me and not telling me wasup. I was heated as fuck at first but whatever we weren't together.

Now where we differ is I don't have a girl now and you do. She wants to be "friends", I didn't at first but since we were together for so long its kinda hard not to. Lost all respect for her and let her know that. If I had a girl tho I prolly wouldn't so I can see why niggas is saying u crazy lol.

 

[damobb2deep]

....................................

Smh.....................

 

[damobb2deep]

T/S, I have to wonder if you even realize the ridiculous-ness of these stories? Because, you make these threads, with a straight face (I imagine) and you're just SO serious. You're always defending these girls that use you, and ask questions like "am I wrong?".... but you don't listen to people's answers. I can only hope that one day you look back at this phase of your life and just laugh

You really should just fall back from ALL women for awhile and work on yourself.

Honestly tryna be "nice" to that ex that played me is my way from not thinkin bout it and honestly goin 2 jail..

 

[Stew]

Honestly tryna be "nice" to that ex that played me is my way from not thinkin bout it and honestly goin 2 jail..

LOL real talk.

 

[damobb2deep]

LOL real talk.

Yea it is all the shyt that bytch has done 2 me if I jus sit back and think about it I will prolly snap and do shyt I won't regret but will fuck up my life..

 

[T. Sanford]

Yea it is all the shyt that bytch has done 2 me if I jus sit back and think about it I will prolly snap and do shyt I won't regret but will fuck up my life..

thats why you gotta distances yourself from her, I wuldnt wanna see a chick around if she did all them actions to me. We can be cool on some *nods head* whats up type shss then keep it moving. but she wont get a full conversation with me. As long as you close to her like that, she can always think she'll always have & use ya like previously

 

[damobb2deep]

thats why you gotta distances yourself from her, I wuldnt wanna see a chick around if she did all them actions to me. We can be cool on some *nods head* whats up type shss then keep it moving. but she wont get a full conversation with me. As long as you close to her like that, she can always think she'll always have & use ya like previously

Yea I thought about that but we have the same group of friends so ima see her all the time so will my girl if I'm with her.. Tryna defuse a future fight cuz I kno my girl will beat her ass..

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

"well I'm here 4 u when u need me" that's what we both came 2 an agreement with.

This is probably what pissed her off the most. Sometimes knowing someone of the opposite sex, not to mention an ex is offering to be there for your partner when they need them is like a kick in the teeth. Like a place to run to if you all have problems. An awkward situation because what if for some bizarre reason you did go to them when you needed them during times of trouble and you had sex or something? Oh the suspicions that could run through the mind after hearing your partners ex say something like wow.

Now last night she did somthin I did not like and I got mad.. Well other things got on my nerves as well.. Like me getting vacation time.. Work.. Me buyin our tickets 4 the vacation.. So I was irritated I didn't really wanna talk.. Well my ex and her friends was textin me. So I ended up @ they house we was jus chillin..

This just might have been what she suspected what was going to happen if she 'agreed' to you and the ex being friends. You all fight and low and behold where do you end up going? To the ex's house who offered to be there for you when you needed.

Can't say as I blame her, it just seems like something you're not suppose to do. That and if I put myself in this situation but reverse, I gotta consider how my bf would feel if I went over to an ex's house after we had argument.... the same friend/ex who offered to be there for me.

 

[1of1]

Lemme guess. T/S has massive feelings tied up in some chick who has fucked him over and he's lookin' confused out here about a situation b/c he's blinded by love and caring and general naivete...but he's also capable of doing some crazy isht and he needs someone to tell him not to do it.

 

[T. Sanford]

Yea I thought about that but we have the same group of friends so ima see her all the time so will my girl if I'm with her.. Tryna defuse a future fight cuz I kno my girl will beat her ass..

trust me dawg, I was almost in the same situation. I dated my home boy's sister & she committed some foul shss. Whenever we all party, she there also. so imma see her regardless. but I dap up everybody, say hey to all the chicks except for her. Whenever Im clowning & joking on some shss, she laughing & shss but she still dont get attention from me. But yu talking about a nigga that hold grudges for a long time

 

[damobb2deep]

Lemme guess. T/S has massive feelings tied up in some chick who has fucked him over and he's lookin' confused out here about a situation b/c he's blinded by love and caring and general naivete...but he's also capable of doing some crazy isht and he needs someone to tell him not to do it.

Lmao!! Nigga far from that u tryna be funny read the fuckin thread title dumbass..

 

[damobb2deep]

trust me dawg, I was almost in the same situation. I dated my home boy's sister & she committed some foul shss. Whenever we all party, she there also. so imma see her regardless. but I dap up everybody, say hey to all the chicks except for her. Whenever Im clowning & joking on some shss, she laughing & shss but she still dont get attention from me. But yu talking about a nigga that hold grudges for a long time

We most deff have them times where me n her say NOTHING to each other but 2 me unless I'm fightin it takes to much energy to NOT talk 2 someone..

 

[damobb2deep]

This is probably what pissed her off the most. Sometimes knowing someone of the opposite sex, not to mention an ex is offering to be there for your partner when they need them is like a kick in the teeth. Like a place to run to if you all have problems. An awkward situation because what if for some bizarre reason you did go to them when you needed them during times of trouble and you had sex or something? Oh the suspicions that could run through the mind after hearing your partners ex say something like wow.

I AINT THINK OF THAT THO...

This just might have been what she suspected what was going to happen if she 'agreed' to you and the ex being friends. You all fight and low and behold where do you end up going? To the ex's house who offered to be there for you when you needed.

Can't say as I blame her, it just seems like something you're not suppose to do. That and if I put myself in this situation but reverse, I gotta consider how my bf would feel if I went over to an ex's house after we had argument.... the same friend/ex who offered to be there for me.

And I see where u comin from if she thinkin like that that does seem petty..

 

[G.R.I.P. Money $$$]

bruh....how do dis keep hannen to u..

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

And I see where u comin from if she thinkin like that that does seem petty..

Maybe petty, but it does appear suspect.

 

[G.R.I.P. Money $$$]

T/S, I have to wonder if you even realize the ridiculous-ness of these stories? Because, you make these threads, with a straight face (I imagine) and you're just SO serious. You're always defending these girls that use you, and ask questions like "am I wrong?".... but you don't listen to people's answers. I can only hope that one day you look back at this phase of your life and just laugh

You really should just fall back from ALL women for awhile and work on yourself.

PLEASE do this bruh...

 

[T. Sanford]

We most deff have them times where me n her say NOTHING to each other but 2 me unless I'm fightin it takes to much energy to NOT talk 2 someone..

you gotta master the art of mind control when dealing with ex's (the left on bad term ones). they'll slit their veins if they cant catch ya attention

 

[Copper]

t/s sounds like an emotional ass dude

 

[damobb2deep]

t/s sounds like an emotional ass dude

Anger don't mean "emotional"..

 

[Copper]

Anger don't mean "emotional"..

it actually does....lolz