Debate:Living with your Parents Man vs Woman..is it Ok??

[D. Morgan]

If I wasn't married I would more than likely still be living at home with my mother.

I don't see the problem.

 

[fortyacres]

Not going to lie. My son and daughter have a year after he graduate college to have a plan in place on his future. I want to walk around naked in my home cooking eggs and drinking the last of the kool aid.

My wife stayed with my mother in law up until we got married. That is cool in all but I wasnt built like that. I took my lumps at 18. I aint staying with my parents. Cant have a smoking session and a all night fucking session in your parents basement. LOL!

Ancient ass nigga

 

[babelipsss]

No man who sits in his parents basemet well into his thirties then gets up and buys a house. That's a myth. The fact is mommas boys are female repellent. If you are an adult you should pay your way, even in the basement. You use water, you turn on lights. What's the problem?

I have a friend named John. He's thirty, still lives with his recently widowed well off dad. His father is getting on in age and John is starting to finally think about his own future. He cleans himself up and goes out and meets the woman of his dreams. He tells her about his living situation and lets her know he's got something coming in the future

A week later... She's his new stepmother.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Because men are supposed to be able and provide for themselves six months to a year after they've secured a job or got their business going.

alot wrong with this post....

i gotta marinate the chicken....ill be back nigga

 

[2stepz_ahead]

No man who sits in his parents basemet well into his thirties then gets up and buys a house. That's a myth. The fact is mommas boys are female repellent. If you are an adult you should pay your way, even in the basement. You use water, you turn on lights. What's the problem?

I have a friend named John. He's thirty, still lives with his recently widowed well off dad. His father is getting on in age and John is starting to finally think about his own future. He cleans himself up and goes out and meets the woman of his dreams. He tells her about his living situation and lets her know he's got something coming in the future

A week later... She's his new stepmother.

LMAO........ who da true playa

the son ...the dad or the chick

 

[D. Morgan]

Because men are supposed to be able and provide for themselves six months to a year after they've secured a job or got their business going.

alot wrong with this post....

i gotta marinate the chicken....ill be back nigga

Don't burn it this time nigga!!!

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Because men are supposed to be able and provide for themselves six months to a year after they've secured a job or got their business going.

alot wrong with this post....

i gotta marinate the chicken....ill be back nigga

Don't burn it this time nigga!!!

thats fukked up.

you have to bring that up.

cant tell niggas shit

 

[D. Morgan]

Because men are supposed to be able and provide for themselves six months to a year after they've secured a job or got their business going.

alot wrong with this post....

i gotta marinate the chicken....ill be back nigga

Don't burn it this time nigga!!!

thats fukked up.

you have to bring that up.

cant tell niggas shit

LLS, just a friendly reminder is all.

No pressure!

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

After living alone in your own crib for years as an adult, moving back in with your parents would probably be awful.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

Old custom for the bread winner to gtfo and work while the women practice all that cooking and cleaning at home until some man comes to wed her and then she can move into his nice house and cook and clean there.

 

[CapitalB]

i believe in double standards..

this is a double standard world we live in..

this bein one of them..

my daughter can stay wit me and her mom until someone comes and get her..

my son tho??

he got til he's 21.. maybe 25 depended on how i feel...

 

[CapitalB]

If u 18 and over and still at the parents crib thats not whats up.

Male or female.

If u still at the crib u better be plottin on how to get your own spot ASAP

18 is too young..

 

[bigbird_1]

Not going to lie. My son and daughter have a year after he graduate college to have a plan in place on his future. I want to walk around naked in my home cooking eggs and drinking the last of the kool aid.

My wife stayed with my mother in law up until we got married. That is cool in all but I wasnt built like that. I took my lumps at 18. I aint staying with my parents. Cant have a smoking session and a all night fucking session in your parents basement. LOL!

Gotta be some Shreveport shit, cuz this is exactly what happened with me at 18. I feel ya on this

 

[NoCompetition]

Some of yall need to stop worrying about what others think. I have friends who are making serious bank and still live with their parents. A lot of my Indian and Asian friends do this. At the same time it depends on where you live. NY or Cali is understandable but if you live in say Georgia or Houston you don't have to if you work a decent job at least. Everyone has different reasons and situations. If you're being lazy and doing nothing then it's a problem. If you're a student, working towards something or trying to pay down debt I don't see the problem.

T/S seems more concerned with how women view it but I guess tried to cover it lolol. Look man a woman should be an asset to your situation not a liability. If you're more worried about what a girl thinks of it you're hustling backwards and it honestly wouldn't make a difference otherwise.

What with the low cost of living and everything it should be easy. Except there are some things that arent necessarily apparent to outsiders. I'll just speak on Atlanta area cant speak on the rest of those places. The cost of living is low because wages are low and thats all people can afford. Not across the board and there are people with money.The education system can suck especially the numerous all black schools further reducing the chance of those people getting "good jobs". And actually the cost of living in Atlanta isnt as low as advertised. Factor in all the gas used getting around and everything and its not necessarily like that. Just looking at the numbers may paint an inaccurate picture. Its actually a situation that doesnt reduce the chances of someone living with parents.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Not going to lie. My son and daughter have a year after he graduate college to have a plan in place on his future. I want to walk around naked in my home cooking eggs and drinking the last of the kool aid.

My wife stayed with my mother in law up until we got married. That is cool in all but I wasnt built like that. I took my lumps at 18. I aint staying with my parents. Cant have a smoking session and a all night fucking session in your parents basement. LOL!

it's about priorities....

just because you could take those lumps...doesn't mean your kids can.

an why put them thru that?

cuz you wanna get high with ya dikk out with red koolaid on tap?

you had your chance in the sun. sacrafice is the word after you nutted to make them.

they should not have to suffer the same as you did....cuz you did that already.

do they really deserve that?

black people got enough problems bruh without some generational shit adding to it.

an over red koolaid at that....

 

[jono]

Do what you gotta do. It ain't the 1960s anymore where you can get a job right out of high school and be there for 50 years.

One thing I do say though, is if you live on your own then you need to be ON YOUR OWN. Its alot of mofos out here that claim independent but got mama and daddy helping with rent, helping with food, helping with shopping to the point where you might as well be at home.

That's the worst thing to me. Staying at home and helping your parents out while they help you out is a partnership. Them scratching up rent to help you is bullshit. Asking them to take care of two homes is bullshit.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

sion and jono

summed it up.

do we need to go on?

 

[So ILL]

Do what you gotta do. It ain't the 1960s anymore where you can get a job right out of high school and be there for 50 years.

One thing I do say though, is if you live on your own then you need to be ON YOUR OWN. Its alot of mofos out here that claim independent but got mama and daddy helping with rent, helping with food, helping with shopping to the point where you might as well be at home.

That's the worst thing to me. Staying at home and helping your parents out while they help you out is a partnership. Them scratching up rent to help you is bullshit. Asking them to take care of two homes is bullshit.

Man, that shit is annoying as hell. Got them a car and be maintaining it for them and shit. Then be trying to look down on everybody else like they wouldn't be out here struggling if their people weren't totally enabling-ass motherfuckers.

 

[fortyacres]

No man who sits in his parents basemet well into his thirties then gets up and buys a house. That's a myth. The fact is mommas boys are female repellent. If you are an adult you should pay your way, even in the basement. You use water, you turn on lights. What's the problem?

I have a friend named John. He's thirty, still lives with his recently widowed well off dad. His father is getting on in age and John is starting to finally think about his own future. He cleans himself up and goes out and meets the woman of his dreams. He tells her about his living situation and lets her know he's got something coming in the future

A week later... She's his new stepmother.

i know about 4 people who have done this.

 

[Broddie]

I'm 33 living in NYC (the actual city not an outer borough). Left home in my 20s now I'm back.

I left a beautiful 2 bedroom panty dropper of an apt on riverside drive out in harlem. Both rooms were the size of living rooms and they overlooked the highway and riverside park. I bounced because my mom needed financial help setting up her business in PA and also needed me to help my kid sister with her kids since she was leaving NY for PA.

So I moved back home to help my sis who is early 20s, bipolar and clinically depressed so she's not even motivated to work. Also to be a father figure to my 7 year old niece who really needs a positive role model at home and help out with a newborn baby.

My hos think it's sweet that I put family first so they still come through. Especially since I'm home alone 85% of the time I'm at the crib so I still got my freedom, my nest egg never looked better, next tax season I get to claim dependents and I also get to focus more money on student loan paybacks and I finally also get to save for a car plus I'll be back out on my own in a year or so anyway. No regrets.

Like others said it's not the 60s anymore. Circumstances after the recession really changed things. Especially for those of us in major cities which are uneccessarily expensive to live in.