As far as the standard of beauty shit, here's rarely some spoken male thought.....
The majority of men (black men included) will fuck ANY race of woman. As long as she got a banging ass shape and halfway decent face without makeup. Dark skinned black, medium skinned black, any other shade, light skinned, Hispanic, Asian, Indian, white. No matter how we tell u the individual woman, ain't no 1 special bitch, dick get hard across the spectrum.
(Who we "bring home to mama" is different tho. For most people it's one of their race and has (to them) a mind + looks)
Afro hair style.....bald bitch.....locks.....long ass straight hair......look at amber rose. Nigga gon fuck. The shit is instinct (man:grrrr me like body, me want fuck) not no logical reasoning (oh if she only had a deeper bronzer, if she was a little more articulate, FOH). If that wasn't the case, all these ugly ass broads and all purpose birds with decent bodies would be childless.
We only give a fuck about that "standard of beauty" shit when we taking y'all out in public because you and your beauty reflects on us. we don't wanna be that nigga with an "average" looking female. "I wonder what ppl gon think OF ME when she's with me. I gotta have a level of pride in who represent me".
Sorry.
Lol Kurt Angle voice: it's true. It's damn true.
If you have already presented yourself as that standard of beauty (We Think we percieve) in public and you're single then we gon approach. It makes sense on a low instinctive level even if it isn't a conscience thought. So u wear that makeup and that weave.
If you didn't already know that then you'd be wearing your makeup to bed and making sure you put on makeup before your dude gets up in the morning. But because you are likely already fucking to be in the bed, that standard of beauty ship guessing game (between u and him) don already sailed and is locked in.
Again, cuz media.