Like Water;c-9688063 said:BOSSExcellence;c-9688018 said:Crude_;c-9687984 said:BOSSExcellence;c-9687958 said:Crude_;c-9687914 said:yellowtapesport;c-9687711 said:So niggas gonna act like they not into 'submissive' women????
Yea, OK
Only for smashing.
When circumstances get tough you want someone has their own mind who can help you figure ish as opposed to someone whose just going to go along with whatever.
being submissive dont mean ur an idiot tho..
i dont know why u niggas cant figure that out..
jus means a bitch knows her place..
thats it and thats all..
and hopefully a bitch is smart enough to not submit to some lame ass nigga who to full of himself to recognize the significance of a second opinion..
like in Chess..
the King is the most important piece on the board..
the queen is the most powerful.
I never said it meant you're an idiot if you're submissive; however, people are the way they are for a reason.
I'd never confuse a reserved person for an idiot but reserved and submissive are not interchangeable and I believe the type of personality you are describing is more reserved than it is submissive.
I don't always like being the dominant personality on all things anyway sometimes I want to sit down and STFU and actually hear what you got to say.
I personally prefer someone that's vocal, but knows when to STFU when I've made up my mind about something.
no nigga..
ur whole post implied bitches are stupid if they submit dont back pedal now..
but thats the problem within our community if we really wanna talk about it..
it aint jus u niggas who view submissive bitches as weak and "doormats" but as a result black bitches feed into that shit.. dont wanna seem weak so they develop "i dont need a nigga" and "i got my own mind can make my own decision" attitudes..
all cause yall dont like thinkin all the time and want a bitch to take over sometime.. heavy is the head so u niggas let the bitch wear it here and there.. the fuck!!?
nah..
im okay wit bearing the burden.. i dont wanna see my woman stress.. shit go bad i accept that challenge and wit her help imma get us out of it..
its like a meme i be seein of a nigga head in his lap sittin in the rain and some dumb bitch holdin an umbrella over him while she gets wet..
bitches think thats the play..
and thats why they fuck wit lames cause they feel they suppose to struggle.
nah bitch.. leave that defeated nigga..
Interesting, since this doesn't sound like you're particularly into "submissive" women either. When I think of submissive woman, I moreso think of your traditional Asian woman. That shit's wack. That's not intellectually stimulating enough for me. Too boring too. I just want an intelligent, reserved woman that knows when to submit. That's not the same as a "submissive" woman, imo.
I don't need you to play the "man's role". I got that covered. But if you see me doing some stupid shit, or you legitimately have a better plan/idea, then speak up. I don't wanna be doing something detrimental to the family, when I thought it was in our best interest, only to find out you could've prevented that shit if you had spoken up. That's just idiotic.
With the rate at which black women are educated, you'd think more of the professional ones would've figured this out by now. It doesn't seem like a difficult concept to me. Or maybe they do know and too many niggas are in their second childhood.
*shrugs* I got mines. That's all that matters to me in the end.
So many people still mistake being book educated equating said person being smart regarding life.
The shit is two very different things.
That school shit somewhat prepares a person to work in a professional environment and follow orders. It doesn't teach them life lessons, how to think outside the box or give them relationship skills.
Its great to have a life smart and book educated woman but if I had to choose I would always take the life/street smart woman over a straight book educated woman every time!
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