gorilla;c-10087000 said:
Madame_CJSkywalker;c-10086974 said:
deadeye;c-10086860 said:
Madame_CJSkywalker;c-10086254 said:
2stepz_ahead;c-10086208 said:
why do you keep saying this?
change aint a bad thing as long as its benefiting you.
these chicks going to college an shit just want options.
if i find a man great..i can fall back an dont have to use my degree and can have him pay for the loan
or
if i dont find a man, great..i can sleep around and be free and young an have simps pay for my loan
but if they can find a man...then its because its not men that meet their standards or just not enough of them.
nah thats crap....maybe its because these women dont hold themselves like women but more like objects that can be manipulated with a dream thats sold.
how many women be on that..."i aint got time for a man" when they building or getting money or enjoying life? yet want to be apart of someone whos established.
nah lady...its a fly in your soup.
Fact is for many single women under 30 with no children they will have a
hard time meeting a male counterpart their age whose earning ability meets or exceeds their own
For college educated blk women who want a college educated blk man the dating pool is even smaller
Will women have to adjust there standards yes. But this idea that taking a persons financial situation into consideration is objectifying or should discouraged is bunk
The bolded is part of the problem
You keep mentioning earning ability and level of education.......but nothing at all about compatibility and/or how well the man treats/respects you.
lol
because those things are given ...
while compatibility is most important
why wouldn't an established person want someone who is also equally yoked at the very least? or at least close to it
So after centuries of men being the provider and having to take care of women, women who claim to want an even playing field only want to date a man that make as much or more than them? Basically don't no woman wanna take car of a man. But equality tho right?
But men supposed to wife sluts and 7th babies mommas tho. And dont act like thats not the case with all thus slut shamming bs and excuses for single moms
Date, fuck, marry who u want to...lol
There are women young and old who dont mind marrying and dating down
And the women who insist upon dating and marrying up and subscribe to traditional gender roles may not believe in feminism...that's their prerogative
But more times then not when given the opportunity men and women today marry and date someone of equal or similar yolk ...especially now that women have made big strides in the job force
I'll admit there is a such thing as a "conditional feminist." Women grow up equating a man taking care of them financially with romance and being swept off their feet. And that is what they feel entitled to. Does it make it right? No. It's an inconsistency that needs to be addressed
That said, this idea that for centuries women have just had to sit back and not do shit is bs bruh and just illustrates how womens work is usually devalued. Not to mention for most women, the luxury of being a housewife was never a reality. We had to work too...Yet we were paid less; hired last; fired first; high wage jobs were reserved for men; and denied any positions of authority. Then yes we had to come home where we were expected to be subservient to our husbands, clean, raise the children, care for the old, etc
This has been the story for blk women in america especially. From slavery to the present day. Especially considering blk men have had a harder time finding work or have been historically underemployed and underpaid. Women have had to step up to be the breadwinner. We were really the first women in america to demand equal rights