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Madame_CJSkywalker;c-10086565 said:2stepz_ahead;c-10086338 said:Madame_CJSkywalker;c-10086254 said:2stepz_ahead;c-10086208 said:why do you keep saying this?
change aint a bad thing as long as its benefiting you.
these chicks going to college an shit just want options.
if i find a man great..i can fall back an dont have to use my degree and can have him pay for the loan
or
if i dont find a man, great..i can sleep around and be free and young an have simps pay for my loan
but if they can find a man...then its because its not men that meet their standards or just not enough of them.
nah thats crap....maybe its because these women dont hold themselves like women but more like objects that can be manipulated with a dream thats sold.
how many women be on that..."i aint got time for a man" when they building or getting money or enjoying life? yet want to be apart of someone whos established.
nah lady...its a fly in your soup.
One minute its shame on women for fucking around with bums and thugs
Then too many women standards are too high...what are they bringing to the table
Fact is for many single women under 30 with no children they will have a hard time meeting a male counterpart their age whose earning ability meets or exceeds their own
With young to middle age blk women its even harder
Yes we lost a lot of dating prospects due to racism but that doesnt change the fact blk women outnumber blk men in america
Even if every blk man in america married a blk woman today, one out of 10,12 blk women still wouldn't make it down the aisle if they hoped to marry a blk man
And then when u account for men who are not single or gay or don't date blk women the dating pool shrinks even more for blk women looking to date a blk men. For college educated blk women who want a college educated blk man the dating pool is even smaller
Will women have to adjust there standards yes. But this idea that taking a persons financial situation into consideration is objectifying or should discouraged is bunk
everything you said...is more reason why women should change their stank attitudes.
and even if every blk woman were to have a more pliable attitude there will still be women left without a man if she wants to date a blk man
i mentioned how if you account for gays, men who don't date blk women the dating pool shrinks... what about the men who are physically/mentally abusive, not monogamy material, not father material, chronically unemployed etc
so would that change of attitude include accepting these men and their faults no matter what
we already see that today...i already see some blk men taking advantage ....women putting up with infidelity, dishonesty and abuse just to have somebody
but yes both men and women need to look in the mirror
you see these women putting up with stuff huh?
you ever think of what that woman did to deserve it or if you hearing the whole story?
i once a long time ago met a couple my wife knew.
the dude was an asshole towards his wife.....i was like dude is an asshole.
but later my wife told me that she quit her $100k plus job to open a flowershop.
she got bored and closed the shop and now aint working. an everything fell onto him.
so after that i can see why hes an asshole towards her.
that and the countless other stories i post here...makes you think. are all these women even quality women?
i know more stand up dudes that legit, honest, no lunch nigga having, build with my husband, no attention from others needed, all for the family type women.
most have an angle or an out and they friends allow the out ...allow the game and dont hold their friends accountable for being fuked up.
all my homies will let me know if im fukkin up. how many women will do that for their friends? how many will encourage a chick to just get his number in case?
another thing i can add to the list of shit women dont like...an thats to see another woman happy.