scorpio4lfe
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damobb2deep;8070652 said:
PREACH! The same ones screaming "You must have messed with ain't shit niggas" be the same ones screaming in the next breath "Fuck these hoes" "Bitches in't shit but hoes and tricks" Nigga what does that make you.
Stop the madness.
Crazy thing is you never know what kind of father a man will be until he has his first child. You would hope if the relationship doesn't work out between the parents, they would adult enough to know there is a difference between being a father and being a mate. Some belive it's synonymous and that's unfortunate. It's just difficult to gauge what the outcome would be while in the relationship when it's just the 2 of you.
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yellowtapesport
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scorpio4lfe;8070742 said:
Wish I could 1/2 Cosign lol but I agree with the bold
OmegaConflict
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Kat;8065861 said:
Lmao @everyone giving Kat feelings.
Some things never change
scorpio4lfe;8068914 said:
While I understand the point you're trying to make, it isn't very cohesive.
How is it that relationships with these niggas that are supposedly relationship material result in single Parent households?
It would seem that some of these more favorable characteristics would carry over, but things don't always work out that way..
If you want a nigga to go out with and fuck, a boyfriend essentially, then sure. But don't get surprised when being good company and providing good dick don't translate to being a good and/or present Father. Own up to what you want, but don't argue that who's most fun to chill with also struck you as a great Father..
A good Boyfriend/Girlfriend ≠ a good Father/Mother, unfortunately, and this is where a lot of people get caught up..
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CHICAGO_BREED
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texas409;8068527 said:
This shit is true. For example, Ima use somebody that everybody.....know Ciara has a baby by Future but is salty ass hell when the nigga leave and making songs about it.......like damn bitch he must've kept the other 9 kids and 9 BM's a secret.
Plain and simple, females like to fuck with the dope boys and scumbags but want a "real man"/good guy to save em when they been ran thru the mud. The shit is funny to me. Facebook is FULL of these women and a lot of em single mothers
manofmorehouse
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scorpio4lfe;8070742 said:
I think it goes back to women having the ultimate choice of keeping or aborting that makes your argument a little hard to agree with. I agree with u that there are tons of ain't shit niggas in the world. I'll even accept your premise that there are men who completely switch up after a woman gets pregnant (even though I believe the majority of these situations are more about the woman being blinded by love type), but if a woman decides to make a unilateral decision to bring a child in the world knowing how difficult it is, how do u sympathize with that when things get difficult??
That's like me voluntarily getting a job then getting upset at my coworker for not assisting me with my workload. This is not excusing these dead beat niggas that aren't in their kids lives, but chicks have to stop playing the victim roles when yall knew the type of nigga you were dealing with. As a rule of thumb, I don't mess with women that are from a single parent home that don't at least have a positive relationship with their real dad. You're asking for extra baggage. Sure, they're hard to find, but if u looking for quality, shouldn't u be discerning in who u choose??
Kat;8071080 said:
But that's the point, shorty ~ Most people don't take "educated" gambles.
Most people want who they have the best time with to also be a great Spouse and/or Parent.
I've spent time with some dope ass women. Smart, funny, sexy, motivated, ext, and the pussy was A1. But never not once did I allow myself to believe that all of those good vibes would translate to being a good Mother, or even a good longterm girlfriend. I'm not even saying that these qualities are mutually exclusive, but they most certainly aren't one in the same.
* Niggas get shytty at femmes because on an enormous scale, women make bad choices with warped criteria. And they keep making those same mistakes, over and over again, year after year, generation after generation.
A good dick ≠ a Good boyfriend ≠ a Good husband ≠ a Good father.
Men seem to know this when it comes to women. We may knock up sluts, but it's never intentional. Never.
But women knowingly procreate with niggas who everyone ( EVERYONE ) else can see is no good.
Why is that, @Kat?
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damobb2deep
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deadeye;8070935 said:
i do hate this primus.... because she can have the kid and you don't want it but you have to pay child support.... but if you want it and she don't it's very little you can do...
I mean personally I was just reckless. I assumed he was on the same page in not having a baby and I was wrong. I chose to have our child under the premise that he may or may not be around to help out.
That said I know plenty of women that were married and had every reason to believe that they were with a man that would stand up to the responsibility of being a father. Life doesn't always work the way you think..some men find new families, disregarding their own. Some pick up drug or alcohol habits. Some men don't make the money theY feel they should make to provide so they disappear altogether.
If life came with a handbook we'd all be better off, but it doesn't..we can only make moves that we THINK are the way to go, but nothing is guaranteed.
That said I know plenty of women that were married and had every reason to believe that they were with a man that would stand up to the responsibility of being a father. Life doesn't always work the way you think..some men find new families, disregarding their own. Some pick up drug or alcohol habits. Some men don't make the money theY feel they should make to provide so they disappear altogether.
If life came with a handbook we'd all be better off, but it doesn't..we can only make moves that we THINK are the way to go, but nothing is guaranteed.
1800skypager
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It's single mother's own fault they're single. They should upgrade themselves because no good slug niggas lay with no good slug bitches, likes attract alike. I'd recommend those no good slug bitch single mothers be more selective with whom they have unprotected sex with, use some type of contraception, get their tubes tied, or get an abortion. We don't need anymore purposeless lust babies on the planet, and we damn sure don't need to hear single mothers bitching because they're stupid enough to have a baby with a nigga who ain't shit.
BEAM;8071123 said:Kat;8071080 said:
But that's the point, shorty ~ Most people don't take "educated" gambles.
Most people want who they have the best time with to also be a great Spouse and/or Parent.
I've spent time with some dope ass women. Smart, funny, sexy, motivated, ext, and the pussy was A1. But never not once did I allow myself to believe that all of those good vibes would translate to being a good Mother, or even a good longterm girlfriend. I'm not even saying that these qualities are mutually exclusive, but they most certainly aren't one in the same.
* Niggas get shytty at femmes because on an enormous scale, women make bad choices with warped criteria. And they keep making those same mistakes, over and over again, year after year, generation after generation.
A good dick ≠ a Good boyfriend ≠ a Good husband ≠ a Good father.
Men seem to know this when it comes to women. We may knock up sluts, but it's never intentional. Never.
But women knowingly procreate with niggas who everyone ( EVERYONE ) else can see is no good.
Why is that, @Kat?
@kat
MrMinimalist
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1.People need to get their mind right, career and money together before starting a family.
2.People spend their money on everything except birth control or too broke or dumb to use it.
3.If you're only physically attracted to someone, always have some sort of protection.
4.Before marriage, communicate about how money will be used and how many kids to have. In laws and religion is optional.
2.People spend their money on everything except birth control or too broke or dumb to use it.
3.If you're only physically attracted to someone, always have some sort of protection.
4.Before marriage, communicate about how money will be used and how many kids to have. In laws and religion is optional.
MrMinimalist
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Ya'll keep it real. On a side note, do you think young people, 25 years old and younger, purposely have kids........only to show them off? They want to see a little version of themselves, they want to show off pics of them to everyone. They want to dress alike, etc. I really think so.
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