bununs alias
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why do yall talk like these women are getting themselves pregnant ?
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I Self Lord & Master
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Kat;8068193 said:Trollio ;8067645 said:Single mothers be fucking
As do most people..lol wtf.
Lmao at every comment towards women stinging you
I bet when u walk outside and hear ppl laughing u get uncomfy cause you jus "KNOW" they laughin at u, huh
MrMinimalist
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bununs alias;8068289 said:why do yall talk like these women are getting themselves pregnant ?
Because women are the ones carrying the baby so they have the upperhand on the decision.
scorpio4lfe
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As a single mother, I would have to disagree with most of the comments being made here. I was raised with both of my parents in the household and although their relationship was horrible, they chose to stay together for the children. It was horrible. Your children suffer just as much when the environment is not conducive to a loving relationship between both parents. My parents tell me daily how great of a job I am doing with my daughters and I am doing it alone. And when I say alone, I mean alone. I make it an effort not to talk badly about their father, however when children get of a certain age, they deduce things for themselves. If your child is constantly asking you to attend a soccer game, orchestra concert etc and it's always an excuse of why you can't. That sends a message. The mother doesn't have to say anything. Hell with cell phones, the communication can be solely between the child and the father.
My children want for nothing. They live in a nice home, participate in extra curricular activities and travel the world. I have 1 biological daughter and 1 neice that I've raised since she was 6. She is now 16 and is being heavily recruited to top colleges around the country, she plays the viola competitively and has lettered in soccer since she was a freshman. She attends highly coveted summer camps, for musical and academic enhancement. My girls are well rounded, cultured and will be highly successful young women, all from being raised by a single mother.
Since my divorce 4 years ago, I have only introduced my girls to one man. A man I dated for almost 2 years and he wasn't introduced to them until well in our relationship. I don't bring men to my home or around my daughters. The message that I relay to my daughters is to be self-sufficient, first. They should never be in a position to be reliant on a man. I have shown them by example that if you are not happy in a relationship it is OK to let it go and take care of yourself and your offspring. Your happiness and well being should always be paramount. So this notion that a women can not raise productive children in society is blasphemous and down right damn ridiculous.
My children want for nothing. They live in a nice home, participate in extra curricular activities and travel the world. I have 1 biological daughter and 1 neice that I've raised since she was 6. She is now 16 and is being heavily recruited to top colleges around the country, she plays the viola competitively and has lettered in soccer since she was a freshman. She attends highly coveted summer camps, for musical and academic enhancement. My girls are well rounded, cultured and will be highly successful young women, all from being raised by a single mother.
Since my divorce 4 years ago, I have only introduced my girls to one man. A man I dated for almost 2 years and he wasn't introduced to them until well in our relationship. I don't bring men to my home or around my daughters. The message that I relay to my daughters is to be self-sufficient, first. They should never be in a position to be reliant on a man. I have shown them by example that if you are not happy in a relationship it is OK to let it go and take care of yourself and your offspring. Your happiness and well being should always be paramount. So this notion that a women can not raise productive children in society is blasphemous and down right damn ridiculous.
damobb2deep
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Rasta.;8068463 said:Regardless of how you spin it, A male figure is needed in the household. No slight on your efforts but it's just the reality of our society.
no one has denied that... but the thread was about women subconsciously teaching their daughters to make the same mistakes they did... or their sons to become like their fathers... which she is saying is not true... shyt I agree..
i think negative stereotypes of single mothers does lead to generalizations... to make it "her fault" when that is not always the case... she could be widowed.... there are so many things that can be the cause..
but hey I'm not too keen on stereotypes anyway... jmo...
Its no wonder our community suffers like it does. The broken family household is tearing us apart. These chicks are choosing to not procreate with the winners in our society they are choosing the scum, the vile, the unclean, then cry about the babies and consequences later. Lets just be real about it and stop coddling these hoes
damobb2deep
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texas409;8068527 said:Its no wonder our community suffers like it does. The broken family household is tearing us apart. These chicks are choosing to not procreate with the winners in our society they are choosing the scum, the vile, the unclean, then cry about the babies and consequences later. Lets just be real about it and stop coddling these hoes
that's the thing... statistically our families are not as broken as they want us to believe... black men are in their children's life more than any other race.... also black women are the most educated out of women in any other race... but the fact that niggas want to believe that "we ain't shyt" because stereotypes say so... niggas start to believe that.. we have at least one "black excellence" thread in here a week.. but they don't do numbers... but let a thread that makes us look like shyt or us being treated like shyt and those threads do... smh.. niggas need to revamp their thinking..
also I have said this plenty of times but get negative reactions all the time.. black people need to start looking at themselves as individuals instead of as a group.. we are the only race if one of us does something bad we all look bad... makes no sense..
scorpio4lfe
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texas409;8068527 said:Its no wonder our community suffers like it does. The broken family household is tearing us apart. These chicks are choosing to not procreate with the winners in our society they are choosing the scum, the vile, the unclean, then cry about the babies and consequences later. Lets just be real about it and stop coddling these hoes
And how would you define these "winners" in society? That has nothing to do with the outcome of a relationship between two people. People are people no matter how much of a "winner" he is. If the shit don't work out, you have 2 choices. Stay and deal with it or leave
I guess we were due for a single mothers thread.
Thread should've ended here.
mryounggun;8065917 said:I'd say that's true of most people, single mother or otherwise. MOST people are too quick to blame others for their behaviors or actions instead of looking in the mirror. No one can MAKE you do anything. You ALWAYS hold responsibility for the choices you make.
Thread should've ended here.
LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY
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Life in some way is a GAMBLE. Dpending on your education and CHOICES the ODDS may be big or not.
LOVE AND REALTIONSHIP IS THE BIGGEST LIFE GAMBLE IMO. until we have a thelepathy ability we will stiil progressing in the dark.
When it comes to rrlashionship NO ONE IS SAFE. MONEY AND WEALTH ARE NO GARANTEE FOR A SUCCESSFULL RELATIONSHIP
POVERTY NEITHER
INTELLIGENCE, STREET KNOWLEDGE DIPLOAMS ET... cannot garantee that you will make the good choices.
That being said its not because you have failed in the relationship gamble that you have to instill anti trust and anti relationship into the mind of your children. they are already suffering from the separtion / divorce. Plus their fear of the unknown is severly increased because of that situation.
Single parents have to teach their children that what happened to them is THEIR LIFE STORY not them childrens. And that they should still have trust in life and love and believe that they will succeed in their relationships. its a fail to transmit your sourness and anger to your loved ones.
LOVE AND REALTIONSHIP IS THE BIGGEST LIFE GAMBLE IMO. until we have a thelepathy ability we will stiil progressing in the dark.
When it comes to rrlashionship NO ONE IS SAFE. MONEY AND WEALTH ARE NO GARANTEE FOR A SUCCESSFULL RELATIONSHIP
POVERTY NEITHER
INTELLIGENCE, STREET KNOWLEDGE DIPLOAMS ET... cannot garantee that you will make the good choices.
That being said its not because you have failed in the relationship gamble that you have to instill anti trust and anti relationship into the mind of your children. they are already suffering from the separtion / divorce. Plus their fear of the unknown is severly increased because of that situation.
Single parents have to teach their children that what happened to them is THEIR LIFE STORY not them childrens. And that they should still have trust in life and love and believe that they will succeed in their relationships. its a fail to transmit your sourness and anger to your loved ones.
LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY
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Plus the parents need to stop actin blind to the facts. If you let your teenager get outside on night chances are they WILL FUCK.
When on earth will parents place a dildo on the living room table a and train these kids on placing A GOD DAMN CONDOM!!!
YOU LET YOUR CHILDREN WATCHING PORN
YOU LET YOUR TEENAGERS GO TO THE CLUB
BUT YOU FREEZE WHEN IT COMES TO LEARNING THEM HOW TO HAVE SAFE SEX!!!
You cannot seat on both sides of the fence. Be realistic with your children.
When on earth will parents place a dildo on the living room table a and train these kids on placing A GOD DAMN CONDOM!!!
YOU LET YOUR CHILDREN WATCHING PORN
YOU LET YOUR TEENAGERS GO TO THE CLUB
BUT YOU FREEZE WHEN IT COMES TO LEARNING THEM HOW TO HAVE SAFE SEX!!!
You cannot seat on both sides of the fence. Be realistic with your children.
CashmoneyDux
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I Self Lord & Master;8068165 said:It aint even that deep
The kids end up fucked up cause this single parent baby mama shit jus simply doesnt work
PERIOD
Wrote a paper on this Shit in college. It goes all the way back to slavery. Shit is deeper than rap.
yellowtapesport
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CashmoneyDux;8069060 said:I Self Lord & Master;8068165 said:It aint even that deep
The kids end up fucked up cause this single parent baby mama shit jus simply doesnt work
PERIOD
Wrote a paper on this Shit in college. It goes all the way back to slavery. Shit is deeper than rap.
Give me the cliff notes lol
Nigga women only talk that "choice" shit when they're deciding to kill their unborn. Other than that you're not going to get a bitch to take responsibility for her actions. Just not going to happen.
Also, not all single mothers are in a bad relationship with the father. Just because two people break up doesn't mean they're at each other's throat. SOME males/females are capable of putting differences to the side for the greater good.
(Emphasis on SOME).
Also, not all single mothers are in a bad relationship with the father. Just because two people break up doesn't mean they're at each other's throat. SOME males/females are capable of putting differences to the side for the greater good.
(Emphasis on SOME).
LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY
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DarcSkies;8069615 said:Nigga women only talk that "choice" shit when they're deciding to kill their unborn. Other than that you're not going to get a bitch to take responsibility for her actions. Just not going to happen.
Also, not all single mothers are in a bad relationship with the father. Just because two people break up doesn't mean they're at each other's throat. SOME males/females are capable of putting differences to the side for the greater good.
(Emphasis on SOME).
CLICHES AND GENERALIZATIONS WONT MAKE THINGS PROGRESSING.
At the end of the day WE NEED EACH OTHER. Instead of shaming and waging a battle of sexes ist high time we reflect on our society and social environment.
Cause these two elements have a huge impact on our relationships.
THE PROBLEM I SEE ON OUR WESTERN SOCIETY
- too much antigonism between men and women.
- we are not educated to share but to FAST AND FURIOUSLY CONSUMMING.
- the dialogue has been enpoverished by MONEY. All that ' i got money so im aight alone dont need anyone' cant hide the heavy use of anti depressors and drugs.
That will lead to my next threads
ARE WESTERN SOCIETY ARE MADE FOR COMMITMENT AND LONGLASTING COUPLES?
ARE WE POISONED SOCIETYWISE BY MONEY?
MEN AND WOMEN : HOW DO WE REINSTALL COMMUNICATION?
Or these females just accept responsibility and reality. You drop your panties for a boy in a mans body that wasn't about accepting his responsibility in fathering a child. So you teach the son or daughter the truth, so that curse doesn't manifest into a generational curse. You don't get mad at the child, get angry or vindictive and raise them up in a incorrect way. But then again, alot get bitter because they lil girls themselves.
damobb2deep
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Dr.Chemix;8070624 said:Or these females just accept responsibility and reality. You drop your panties for a boy in a mans body that wasn't about accepting his responsibility in fathering a child. So you teach the son or daughter the truth, so that curse doesn't manifest into a generational curse. You don't get mad at the child, get angry or vindictive and raise them up in a incorrect way. But then again, alot get bitter because they lil girls themselves.
not say you but people in general promote "boyish behavior".... "don't love these hoes".... "smash and dash"... "Bros before hoes" ect... are all the things you will high five your nigga for doing but bash the female he does it to... you can't have it both ways.. honestly niggas get vindictive as well.. but again there are so many other reasons a female may be a single mother... her fucking a "ain't shyt dude" is only one...
btw people should put as much effort into teaching their sons " you make that baby you stay there for that baby" (not necessarily with the woman) that would curb alot of issues as well...
I grew up knowing lot of kids with moms only where their biological fathers left them and never to be heard from again. Or comes around once in a blue moon but never be there for them in their actual lives. I'm lucky to have both parents... And to all you useless deadbeats out there, either own up to what you did, choice you made, or think with your head first next time, not the one down there. Same for the girls. Easy come, easy go. Good things should take time, not overnight.
There's certain aura and things that make single moms(not the divorced or widowed) and baby daddies who they are. It's negative energy, you just know when you see them or talk to them. G-h-e-t-t-o. But this is food chain, easy lays will get pumped and dumped early on, and the ones who did the dumping will move on. Hence lots of teenage single moms out there, tend to be less intelligent or slutty in nature. Classy ones will stay put and wait for the Mr.Right. It's harsh nature, you get what you deserve though.
There's certain aura and things that make single moms(not the divorced or widowed) and baby daddies who they are. It's negative energy, you just know when you see them or talk to them. G-h-e-t-t-o. But this is food chain, easy lays will get pumped and dumped early on, and the ones who did the dumping will move on. Hence lots of teenage single moms out there, tend to be less intelligent or slutty in nature. Classy ones will stay put and wait for the Mr.Right. It's harsh nature, you get what you deserve though.
