Is there a shortage of Black men, or are women just too picky?

[DarcSkies]

dude iim saying in the context of socio-economic status and just by the fact there are about 1.5
million more blk womanan that some financially stable blk woman prolly are having
a hard time is it overexaggerated in the media yes,but I go downtown when I go to work
in the financial district and I see way more blk females than males,and the stats bear that out as well
and blk females are beaten us in post-secondary education no doubt.

as far as kids go yes you are right kids are more of a hindarance to a relationship for woman
just like being in jail is a hindarance for males.

I actually agree with you. My point is eventhough there is a shortage. It's not so much of a shortage that it still aint their fault if they cant find a man.

Im not saying you dead ass wrong. Im just saying you are RIGHT but it dont matter cuz there are still enough black men out there that they really should have a problem.

As for the statistics. Of course. Black men (and men in general) face more danger and get into more shit than females do. They really cant say shit about it cuz for every black thug with a damn ice cream cone tattooed on his face it's 3 or 4 black bitches trying to have his baby. And not ALL of them be hood rats either.

 

[ibedamned]

dude stats dont lie,there are more blk men in jail and outta work then blk woman.

so therefor there is a shortage. succesful blk woman have a point. plus there 1.5 million

more blk woman then man.

Stats lie all the damn time, you can make a stat say anything you want it to.

 

[longmeat]

i had no idea black women were so sucessfull and black men were not, I have seen an abundance of fat hoodrats who are uneducated all over the place, and as far as black women with good jobs im pretty sure theres around the same amount of black men with good jobs. lol i think its funny cause i heard that shit from a girl before she tried to act like she had her shit together and was a proffesional woman who couldnt find a guy on her level, and this bitch worked at fucking staples, get the fuck outa here with that shit

lol shit like that used to happen to me all the time. met this one broad who was unemployed, can't cook, overweight, and didn't even have a car tell me she's a catch and can't figure out why she ain't gotta man. a lot of these hoes live in an alternate universe, the shit's comical as hell.

 

[JadaRoss]

The only men stupid enough to believe in the facade of swagger, are male chauvinists who think women don't have the capacity to make their own decisions. Swagger is in essence a lack of awareness, this is what women are confusing with charisma and social skills. Women crave spontaneity but they hate men that are indecisive so they crave men that are impulsive, in others words men that display no intelligence at all. Impuslive behavior is primitive, but women keep reminding men that this behavior will get you laid but at the expense of your integrity. SMDH
So true.

 

[babafryo]

y'all chasing these chicks off the boards with firing rifles, lmao

 

[JadaRoss]

listen to this video

[video=youtube;GOE4tt6Kj5g]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GOE4tt6Kj5g[/video]

 

[king hassan]

I can always count on Dark to drop that science

 

[JadaRoss]

y'all chasing these chicks off the boards with firing rifles, lmao

hell they do the same with us on their feminist sites

 

[politicalthug202]

I actually agree with you. My point is eventhough there is a shortage. It's not so much of a shortage that it still aint their fault if they cant find a man.

Im not saying you dead ass wrong. Im just saying you are RIGHT but it dont matter cuz there are still enough black men out there that they really should have a problem.

As for the statistics. Of course. Black men (and men in general) face more danger and get into more shit than females do. They really cant say shit about it cuz for every black thug with a damn ice cream cone tattooed on his face it's 3 or 4 black bitches trying to have his baby. And not ALL of them be hood rats either.

Assuming that there can only be 1 man for every woman at any given time there are 2 million

more females than males. so those 2 millions I dont see how it their fault their single

 

[caddo man]

Go outside and see if can count one black man standing outside. If you can there is no shortage.

Chicks are picky!

 

[allreasoned_out]

i had no idea black women were so sucessfull and black men were not, I have seen an abundance of fat hoodrats who are uneducated all over the place, and as far as black women with good jobs im pretty sure theres around the same amount of black men with good jobs. lol i think its funny cause i heard that shit from a girl before she tried to act like she had her shit together and was a proffesional woman who couldnt find a guy on her level, and this bitch worked at fucking staples, get the fuck outa here with that shit

Lmao! .

 

[DarcSkies]

Assuming that there can only be 1 man for every woman at any given time there are 2 million
more females than males. so those 2 millions I dont see how it their fault their single

PART 1:

It's not always a matter of FAULT per-se so I think I'm using the wrong words maybe? Let me explain my view on it like this (try and follow me on this lol):

Lets take the NBA draft. There are 30 NBA teams (30 successful men). There are 2 rounds in the draft...

The 30 successful teams/men know what they want and go out and most important have the means to get it. Chances are because of the advantages of being picked up in that round (fortune and fame and stature of being a superstar) the players/females are usually eager to sign (same as how a female wants the fortune, status and self-esteem boost of being "drafted" by a man with a lot to offer her)

After the first round the other teams/men get to pick. Usually they have slightly less to offer but still enough for a female to sign that contract/marriage license quick. Now these other teams are sometimes also just as successful but the fact is the more desirable the woman the more likely she's already been picked up/drafted. So there are still good women left but not AS desirable as the ones already scooped up.

Now after 2 rounds it's a free-for-all. All the middle class dudes and dudes who couldnt afford or have the means to attract the most desirable women pretty much have to hope to get her one way or the other (humor, wit, dick game, "potential," whatever other wild card you have going for you).

Now we get to the whole point of the 2 million you're talking about....(cont)

 

[DarcSkies]

PART 2:

Now for the 2 million you're talking about are the ones that didnt get drafted. For the purpose of this explanation we'll call them D-League bitches. They entered the draft (i.e. they are dating) but for nobody picked their asses up.

Now as an undrafted player (single woman) they can lie to themselves and say shit like, (AINT NO GOOD TEAMS/MEN LEFT! All the NBA General Managers just want them a player/sista they can boss around! All the GM are either gay or in jail so they couldnt make it to the phone to call me and offer me a contract!)

But to those with a fair mind the truth is likely THEY.JUST.WEREN'T.GOOD.ENOUGH.

The truth is maybe she needs to stop making bullshit excuses and blaming the GM/Black men for being single and hit the gym (dont be a fat ass), work on her jumpshot (work on her attitude), learn to share the ball and play on a team (stop trying to be the damn man in the relationship) and then try to get on a good team that way.

Cuz 2 million women or not. A successful man/team will always have more options. No different than the person with the most money has more buying options at the store. Thats the nature of the beast. So u (as a product/female/potential draft pick) have to give the GM/successful man a reason to draft you. And if you havent. Obviously you a D-League hoe. U need more "Development" as a woman.

 

[politicalthug202]

PART 2:

Now for the 2 million you're talking about are the ones that didnt get drafted. For the purpose of this explanation we'll call them D-League bitches. They entered the draft (i.e. they are dating) but for nobody picked their asses up.

Now as an undrafted player (single woman) they can lie to themselves and say shit like, (AINT NO GOOD TEAMS/MEN LEFT! All the NBA General Managers just want them a player/sista they can boss around! All the GM are either gay or in jail so they couldnt make it to the phone to call me and offer me a contract!)

But to those with a fair mind the truth is likely THEY.JUST.WEREN'T.GOOD.ENOUGH.

The truth is maybe she needs to stop making bullshit excuses and blaming the GM/Black men for being single and hit the gym (dont be a fat ass), work on her jumpshot (work on her attitude), learn to share the ball and play on a team (stop trying to be the damn man in the relationship) and then try to get on a good team that way.

Cuz 2 million women or not. A successful man/team will always have more options. No different than the person with the most money has more buying options at the store. Thats the nature of the beast. So u (as a product/female/potential draft pick) have to give the GM/successful man a reason to draft you. And if you havent. Obviously you a D-League hoe. U need more "Development" as a woman.

so you saying dating is like a market,and if you dont have the skills to get picked itup to you to upgrade

yourself to get more optionsI kinda agree. but im just saying there are socio-economic variables

that limit options so I can be sympathetic to they situation.

an average white or latina woman is always gonna have better options

then say the average blk woman. some chicks have to make the choice of either being single or getting with

a convict or dead beat even if they average looking chick. so therefore there will always being 2 or 3 milion chicks

who can legitamely say they cant find a man.

 

[politicalthug202]

Go outside and see if can count one black man standing outside. If you can there is no shortage.

Chicks are picky!

lol dude but if its 3 chicks trying to get at that 1 guy what she gonna

do.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

never a shortage. black women need to throw that 4 page list of requirements they carry around. i blame tyler perry. lol

 

[ineedpussy]

fuck them bitches. yeah i dont have a car,home, job, or money. or even a college degree but im intelligent, smart, funny,witty, a little on the pudgy side but im a great catch. but a bitch will pass me up with the quickness. why? because i aint shit. and oh

- I NEED PUSSY

 

[almighty breeze]

PART 2:

Now for the 2 million you're talking about are the ones that didnt get drafted. For the purpose of this explanation we'll call them D-League bitches. They entered the draft (i.e. they are dating) but for nobody picked their asses up.

Now as an undrafted player (single woman) they can lie to themselves and say shit like, (AINT NO GOOD TEAMS/MEN LEFT! All the NBA General Managers just want them a player/sista they can boss around! All the GM are either gay or in jail so they couldnt make it to the phone to call me and offer me a contract!)

But to those with a fair mind the truth is likely THEY.JUST.WEREN'T.GOOD.ENOUGH.

The truth is maybe she needs to stop making bullshit excuses and blaming the GM/Black men for being single and hit the gym (dont be a fat ass), work on her jumpshot (work on her attitude), learn to share the ball and play on a team (stop trying to be the damn man in the relationship) and then try to get on a good team that way.

Cuz 2 million women or not. A successful man/team will always have more options. No different than the person with the most money has more buying options at the store. Thats the nature of the beast. So u (as a product/female/potential draft pick) have to give the GM/successful man a reason to draft you. And if you havent. Obviously you a D-League hoe. U need more "Development" as a woman.

This was beautiful

 

[JadaRoss]

tyler perry got these women on some mo shit

 

[Blue Virgo]

Both...but then again idk. Cause if u let all the black men out of jail, we'd still be picky cause I ain't datin no jail nigga.

Black women just need to expand their horizons and be willing to date people for who they are and not just black men. Cause them niggas sure ain't standing round lookin for us.

lol, I have to agree!