Is there a shortage of Black men, or are women just too picky?

[Yummy.Lix]

What's your definition of a bum?

SMH, no!@Darxwell.

A bum is just a bum(lol).A guy who is not in college nor has a job.Chilling

all day,looking a hot mess.Not doing nothing but listening to Lil Wayne &

smoking weed.Even though I prefer a college guy, I won't shun someone

who is not in college away.BUT they must be doing something with their

lives.I'm not really caught up in how much $ he has since I basically depend

on my parents for everything.& At the ages of 18-21 I don't expect for

him to have all his ish together,but I expect him to be trying.

 

[kevmic]

SMH, no!@Darxwell.

A bum is just a bum(lol).A guy who is not in college nor has a job.Chilling

all day,looking a hot mess.Not doing nothing but listening to Lil Wayne &

smoking weed.Even though I prefer a college guy, I won't shun someone

who is not in college away.BUT they must be doing something with their

lives.I'm not really caught up in how much $ he has since I basically depend

on my parents for everything.& At the ages of 18-21 I don't expect for

him to have all his ish together,but I expect him to be trying.

Fair enough.

 

[So ILL]

SMH, no!@Darxwell.

A bum is just a bum(lol).A guy who is not in college nor has a job.Chilling
all day,looking a hot mess.Not doing nothing but listening to Lil Wayne &
smoking weed.Even though I prefer a college guy, I won't shun someone
who is not in college away.BUT they must be doing something with their
lives.I'm not really caught up in how much $ he has since I basically depend
on my parents for everything.& At the ages of 18-21 I don't expect for
him to have all his ish together,but I expect him to be trying.

That's cool, I guess.....lol

U just want a dude that's doing something opposed to nothing at all. I can fuck with that.....

 

[Yummy.Lix]

That's cool, I guess.....lol

U just want a dude that's doing something opposed to nothing at all. I can fuck with that.....

Yes & That's some what cute,not over weight,has nice teeth,

5`8 or above,intelligent,sweet,respectful,nice, & funny.

 

[blakfyahking]

You could've smashed Mya & you DIDN'T?

yep..........she saw me at my football practice one day and came to my job (I worked with her cousin)

supposedly shorty was checking for me like that and gave me her number....................I took her number and basically never called cause I was too wrapped up with females who IMO looked better

she was some debate team nerd who liked to get tossed up by jocks.................I just didn't have the time to waste on shorty, she was like a 6.5 at the time

a year later, this broad had a song and video out with that Dru Hill nigga SMH

a nigga soul was burning slow everytime I seen shorty on "The Box"

 

[thehonorable]

I love to pick and choose.

 

[Maalik]

yep..........she saw me at my football practice one day and came to my job (I worked with her cousin)

supposedly shorty was checking for me like that and gave me her number....................I took her number and basically never called cause I was too wrapped up with females who IMO looked better

she was some debate team nerd who liked to get tossed up by jocks.................I just didn't have the time to waste on shorty, she was like a 6.5 at the time

a year later, this broad had a song and video out with that Dru Hill nigga SMH

a nigga soul was burning slow everytime I seen shorty on "The Box"

In essence you won out lol...

Had you caught feelings, you would've been like those America's Top Model chicks' boyfriends who lost their impressionable, young girlfriends to the "industry"

And all the Wolves plotting on her

 

[thehonorable]

And Mya was around at Roosevelt...

SMH niggas around riverdale got stories of that smut.

 

[JadaRoss]

we need hoes in our lives

as long as theirs whores around no nigga should go without pussy

 

[So ILL]

Yes & That's some what cute,not over weight,has nice teeth,
5`8 or above,intelligent,sweet,respectful,nice, & funny.

Not bad, I guess what you prefer is better that some chick that prefers a man that is 6'5'' and up, toned with "good hair" with at least a bachelor's degree, a Christian, with no kids, his own home, 2 cars that are under 3 years of age, doesn't smoke, makes at least 75-100k a year with benefits and has a Tyler Perry dvd boxed set....lol

 

[blakfyahking]

And Mya was around at Roosevelt...

SMH niggas around riverdale got stories of that smut.

exactly.............wasn't no way I'd have fallen for shorty

I'm just mad I didn't get a claim on her early before she became a celeb

shorty would prob feel smug to read this shit right now

ah well................I'm still winning in life: she just would've been another notch in my belt LOL

 

[thehonorable]

exactly.............wasn't no way I'd have fallen for shorty

I'm just mad I didn't get a claim on her early before she became a celeb

shorty would prob feel smug to read this shit right now

ah well................I'm still winning in life: she just would've been another notch in my belt LOL

Niggas not from the area aint know how she used to get down tho.

Nothing she does surprises a nigga.

 

[peacetothereal1]

Not a myth. The majority of black women are mentally warped and want and go after thugs. They feel more comfortable wit a weak minded nigga because this is what they were used to growing up.

 

[JadaRoss]

It seems a lot of women enjoy badboys. And it is not just black women who like bad boys, it seems to be a lot of women(no matter the color) who love douchebags. And besides the majority of these women, it seems, are not women but girls who love that drama. Although there are some educated women out there who do love the occassional bad boy. Anyways I believe that it is who a person surrounds themselves with. If a person grew up in those environments they are more likely to be drawn to that type of character. And if a person claims that trouble follows them, then on some levels they must love trouble.

I think some black women aren't use to dating intelligent men. A person is going to date on their level. If they lack morals,drive, dignity, and intelligence; they are going to get with a person the same way.

 

[haute]

I'm starting to think black people in general just complain too much about everything

I'm cranky as shit too

 

[DarcSkies]

Once I get my benefits Imma start treatin females like shit.

I need at least one of yall to restore my faith for I start disrespecting women the rest of my life.

*waits

 

[JadaRoss]

Once I get my benefits Imma start treatin females like shit.

I need at least one of yall to restore my faith for I start disrespecting women the rest of my life.

*waits

women expect men to disrespect them.the more troublesome you are the more they are into you

have yo shit together,they will overlook you like you aint shit bruh

women hate when a nigga got his shit together and you dont need her ass for shit.those the type of niggaz they fear

 

[desertrain10]

finding a black man who isn't a felon, a high school drop out, gay, lazy, doesn't have 2,3 baby mammas, married, in a relationship, "sowing his wild oats" or w/e can be a daunting task depending on where you live ... but the media greatly exaggerates things .... *shrugs*

at the end of the day if you decent looking and have a good head on your shoulders finding a date shouldn't be hard....
finding someone who you find attractive and click with is the hard part.... that's my main complaint. its hard finding a man my age who is on the same page i am in life and emotionally available. i'll find a nice guy but we don't have any chemistry.... or if we do click and things progress either they don't want a commitment, he ends up cheating, we have conflicting schedules, he's too insecure, he's an alcoholic etc... and than the timing has to be right... shit is ruff. lol.

 

[DarcSkies]

finding a black man who isn't a felon, a high school drop out, gay, lazy, doesn't have 2,3 baby mammas, married, in a relationship, "sowing his wild oats" or w/e can be a daunting task depending on where you live ... but the media greatly exaggerates things .... *shrugs*

at the end of the day if you decent looking and have a good head on your shoulders finding a date shouldn't be hard....
finding someone who you find attractive and click with is the hard part.... that's my main complaint. its hard finding a man my age who is on the same page i am in life and emotionally available. i'll find a nice guy but we don't have any chemistry.... or if we do click and things progress either they don't want a commitment, he ends up cheating, we have conflicting schedules, he's too insecure, he's an alcoholic etc... and than the timing has to be right... shit is ruff. lol.

lol
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