Is there a shortage of Black men, or are women just too picky?

[glowy]

Nah, there is no shortage.

Once you factor out the females who are extremely obese, have multiple kids, and the ones you receive a 1 on the 1-10 scale, it's all even.

 

[Rizzo-da-Great]

i had no idea black women were so sucessfull and black men were not, I have seen an abundance of fat hoodrats who are uneducated all over the place, and as far as black women with good jobs im pretty sure theres around the same amount of black men with good jobs. lol i think its funny cause i heard that shit from a girl before she tried to act like she had her shit together and was a proffesional woman who couldnt find a guy on her level, and this bitch worked at fucking staples, get the fuck outa here with that shit

 

[politicalthug202]

i had no idea black women were so sucessfull and black men were not, I have seen an abundance of fat hoodrats who are uneducated all over the place, and as far as black women with good jobs im pretty sure theres around the same amount of black men with good jobs. lol i think its funny cause i heard that shit from a girl before she tried to act like she had her shit together and was a proffesional woman who couldnt find a guy on her level, and this bitch worked at fucking staples, get the fuck outa here with that shit

dude stats dont lie,there are more blk men in jail and outta work then blk woman.

so therefor there is a shortage. succesful blk woman have a point. plus there 1.5 million

more blk woman then man.

 

[DarcSkies]

There is a shortage of decent human beings of any gender.

The catch is there are 300 Million people in the country (assuming you are from the US) and tens of millions in major states and hundreds of thousands or even millions in major cities (assuming you live in major cities).

So if you cant find a decent mate and you're actually trying...you probably need to take a long look in the mirror. Cuz chances are thats where you'll find the problem.

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

Both...but then again idk. Cause if u let all the black men out of jail, we'd still be picky cause I ain't datin no jail nigga.

Black women just need to expand their horizons and be willing to date people for who they are and not just black men. Cause them niggas sure ain't standing round lookin for us.

 

[DarcSkies]

dude stats dont lie,there are more blk men in jail and outta work then blk woman.

so therefor there is a shortage. succesful blk woman have a point. plus there 1.5 million
more blk woman then man.

Stats actually lie a lot (ex: unemployment numbers are a lie. Rape victims in America #s are a lie, and some more) But not in this case though but I was just saying. Stats without context are meaningless.

That said: How many of those black women are actually WORTHY of a successful man? Hell with the shortage and the fact that (despite the lies black women tell) most black women either WANT a black man or cant get a white man the shortage creates an aura of "I dont need that bitch that bitch need me" attitude in black males.

Also lets not pretend they dont count "hurr school," and "Beauty Salon Technician" as college and careers. Just sayin.

And I'm a college grad so Im not hating. Just saying that college degree + employment doesnt mean you deserve a successful black man. If you're obese, loud, ignorant, combative, bitter, arrogant, emotionally unstable (even for a female), sporting firetruck red weaves, got 3 kids and 2 baby daddies, and damn near every other Negro bitch affliction known to society I can give a fuck you graduated from Cal State Smart Bitch, I'm not fuckin wit cho black ass.

 

[Mdizzle9000]

There is a shortage of decent human beings of any gender.

The catch is there are 300 Million people in the country (assuming you are from the US) and tens of millions in major states and hundreds of thousands or even millions in major cities (assuming you live in major cities).

So if you cant find a decent mate and you're actually trying...you probably need to take a long look in the mirror. Cuz chances are thats where you'll find the problem.

stealing this quote;using it elsewhere

 

[Ioniz3dSPIRITZ]

dude stats dont lie,there are more blk men in jail and outta work then blk woman.

so therefor there is a shortage. succesful blk woman have a point. plus there 1.5 million
more blk woman then man.

There are more women in college than men period regardless of race. And with the economy the way it is it. it is definately more men out of work than women. And I must add that contrary to what black women constantly say there are more black men in college than in jail. YES. I said there are more BLACK MEN IN COLLEGE THAN IN JAIL.

Black women use the supposed shortage of "good" black men to justify their own inability to get a man. I'm sick of the anti-black man rhetoric these women and their white counterparts spew out.

 

[politicalthug202]

There are more women in college than men period regardless of race. And with the economy the way it is it. it is definately more men out of work than women. And I must add that contrary to what black women constantly say there are more black men in college than in jail. YES. I said there are more BLACK MEN IN COLLEGE THAN IN JAIL.

Black women use the supposed shortage of "good" black men to justify their own inability to get a man. I'm sick of the anti-black man rhetoric these women and their white counterparts spew out.

I know that there are more blk men in college than jail it still doesnt change the fact

that the gap between blk woman and men as far as college graduation is way wider then other races.

and jail is way wider

even in the article they admit that finding a corporate brother is hard.

 

[DarcSkies]

There are more women in college than men period regardless of race. And with the economy the way it is it. it is definately more men out of work than women. And I must add that contrary to what black women constantly say there are more black men in college than in jail. YES. I said there are more BLACK MEN IN COLLEGE THAN IN JAIL.

Black women use the supposed shortage of "good" black men to justify their own inability to get a man. I'm sick of the anti-black man rhetoric these women and their white counterparts spew out.

More black men in college than jail...less black men in college than jail. Either way im sure the number is not acceptable.

The problem is there are WAY too many black men in jail period. A lot of it is black male's fault...a lot of it is a racist justice system. But the solution is black males. I think we can (or at least should) all agree with that part at least.

Also Dee is right. As much as black women claim that other races of men are just falling at their feet with SERIOUS marriage proposals then why are they so concerned with how black males are doing? Cuz they full of shit thats why. Bill, Jet Li, and Jose aint checking for your black ass thats why. 99 percent of them niggas would get laughed out the family and deleted from the Will for bringing you home.

U expect us to believe that black women are concerned about the well-being of black men? THESE BITCHES? If men of other races was checking for their black asses they would GTFO of dodge quick. We wouldnt even see their black asses til they fall through the hood to get their weaves put back in by a professional. Cuz u know black females aint letting nobody touch they damn hair that aint from the hood.

 

[ItsBboy!]

Women reject dudes every day. Some are just tryin to fuck, but others genuinely wanna get to know them. If the problem were as real as they say, it wouldn't happen as often as it does. Maybe try giving one or two of those guys who approach a chance? idk....alot of women my age (early 20's) think their Advanced degree having, basketball body having, car fixing, back blowing casanova is gonna ride up on a white horse.

It ain't gonna happen for everybody, and for those it does happen for it definitely ain't gonna happen that perfectly.

 

[CapitalB]

my man Darx never dissappoints. lol

 

[politicalthug202]

Stats actually lie a lot (ex: unemployment numbers are a lie. Rape victims in America #s are a lie, and some more) But not in this case though but I was just saying. Stats without context are meaningless.

That said: How many of those black women are actually WORTHY of a successful man? Hell with the shortage and the fact that (despite the lies black women tell) most black women either WANT a black man or cant get a white man the shortage creates an aura of "I dont need that bitch that bitch need me" attitude in black males.

Also lets not pretend they dont count "hurr school," and "Beauty Salon Technician" as college and careers. Just sayin.

And I'm a college grad so Im not hating. Just saying that college degree + employment doesnt mean you deserve a successful black man. If you're obese, loud, ignorant, combative, bitter, arrogant, emotionally unstable (even for a female), sporting firetruck red weaves, got 3 kids and 2 baby daddies, and damn near every other Negro bitch affliction known to society I can give a fuck you graduated from Cal State Smart Bitch, I'm not fuckin wit cho black ass.

for every chick 2 or 3 kids theres a nigga with 2 or 3 kids so it balances out.

as far as character goes for every dumb bitch there is a dumb nigga.

so you can only go back to education, career and incaceration, where im just saying

decent educated blk woman might have a point.

 

[D-Marco]

I cant call anyone too picky cuz im picky as shit. But I will say it seems that "successfull" black women look for a mate using a checklist of qualities.

Opposed to looking for the person they grow to love they, they try to love the person with the best qualities. To me its ass backwards.

[video=youtube;fMUJTgY6Jus]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fMUJTgY6Jus&feature=fvwrel[/video]

Like Eddie griffin said... "Whatever happened to just luvin a nigga"

 

[DarcSkies]

for every chick 2 or 3 kids theres a nigga with 2 or 3 kids so it balances out.

This is the part about statistics being meaningless without context.

Males generally have time away from the kids to actually have time for other relationships. Women with kids on the other hand have to settle for less a lot of times. Or date old niggas who pretty much have to put up with less.

so you can only go back to education, career and incaceration, where im just saying
decent educated blk woman might have a point.

I agree decent educated black women do have a point.

All 15 of them.

And if those 15 cant find a decent educated black male to date.............then it's something wrong with THEM.

 

[Maalik]

Stats actually lie a lot (ex: unemployment numbers are a lie. Rape victims in America #s are a lie, and some more) But not in this case though but I was just saying. Stats without context are meaningless.

That said: How many of those black women are actually WORTHY of a successful man? Hell with the shortage and the fact that (despite the lies black women tell) most black women either WANT a black man or cant get a white man the shortage creates an aura of "I dont need that bitch that bitch need me" attitude in black males.

Also lets not pretend they dont count "hurr school," and "Beauty Salon Technician" as college and careers. Just sayin.

And I'm a college grad so Im not hating. Just saying that college degree + employment doesnt mean you deserve a successful black man. If you're obese, loud, ignorant, combative, bitter, arrogant, emotionally unstable (even for a female), sporting firetruck red weaves, got 3 kids and 2 baby daddies, and damn near every other Negro bitch affliction known to society I can give a fuck you graduated from Cal State Smart Bitch, I'm not fuckin wit cho black ass.

But its true though LOL

 

[Maalik]

I live in D.C. The land of single, successful, black women. The switch in demographic is hilarious to me. All the 30 year old chicks have a look of "I need a man, choose me, Im not crazy" on their faces. And all the 22 year bishes in college or just graduated have a look of "mu'fucka, dont even try"...

LOL

 

[JadaRoss]

i got this one from a website.....

During a recent FlirtingTime.com workshop titled "Debunk the Myths and Lies You Believe About Black Men," I asked a male friend who, by day, is a successful corporate trainer, to trade his three-piece business suit for a janitor's uniform. His job was to sweep near the entrance of the workshop and to cheerfully greet each woman as she entered. Of the 40 Black women in attendance, fewer than 1 percent returned his greeting. After the women were confronted with results of this experiment, I asked, "How can you ignite your social life with men if you refuse to speak to them? Was it the broom that blinded you and numbed your tongue?

 

[politicalthug202]

This is the part about statistics being meaningless without context.

Males generally have time away from the kids to actually have time for other relationships. Women with kids on the other hand have to settle for less a lot of times. Or date old niggas who pretty much have to put up with less.

I agree decent educated black women do have a point.

All 15 of them.

And if those 15 cant find a decent educated black male to date.............then it's something wrong with THEM.

dude iim saying in the context of socio-economic status and just by the fact there are about 1.5

million more blk womanan that some financially stable blk woman prolly are having

a hard time is it overexaggerated in the media yes,but I go downtown when I go to work

in the financial district and I see way more blk females than males,and the stats bear that out as well

and blk females are beaten us in post-secondary education no doubt.

as far as kids go yes you are right kids are more of a hindarance to a relationship for woman

just like being in jail is a hindarance for males.

 

[new account2]

a comibnation of both.........but its not that black men are absent, its men period.....

there are more women then men demographically in any culture where they dont promote sacraficing killing older girls.....

But a lotta women fuck up by doing shit they have no business doing....in the end they just playing themselves