IS IT FOOLISH OF YOU TO STAY WITH THE PERSON WHO CHEATED ON YOU?

[VIBE]

Used to feel the way @vibe feels now until it ended up happening to me.

Fucked me up for a bit, changed my outlook on a lot of things and im better because of the situation. We ended up separating for like 4 months but eventually i realized i was just being stubborn and she won me back over.

Like someone else said early in the thread, it really depends on the fabric or foundation of your relationship, you not going to just close the door on someone that has been there for you through and through because of one incident.

Wouldn't be easy, that's for sure.

 

[Trollio]

Bitches wonder why they get cheated on

 

[Kat]

Lemme just drop this here for all you 'double standard' advocates.

 

[Chi Snow]

Willing to over look shit because of what they've invested in a relationship and is to scared to start over.

C/S

Starting over scares the shit out of women. Especially, if they are older and know they will have to compete with young bitches who have less baggage

 

[MARIO_DRO]

MAN I WISH I COULD HAVE FOUND ME AN OLDER WOMAN.. 40-50 WHO STILL LOOKED GOOD.... A NIGGA WOULD BEEN SET

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

I been cheated on and cheated I still think me and her can be friends after

 

[brown321]

The only way I'd take her back is if I know I treated her like shit the whole time & she told me how she felt but I didn't listen.

Otherwise I can't do it.

 

[Dupac]

fucked up thing is women can be so emotional about things...

most men if not all men have a little bit of a pervert in them..

well i'll speak for myself...

i like a lil porn, and i like shit like ill pix, and i'll even comment on pics of some of the chicks on here....

but i'd never in a million years cheat on my wife..or give any chick on this planet the impression that i was interested in them like that...

i might tell a homie "man i'd beat the breaks off of shorty"...but i know damn well i ain't doing shit....

and women a lotta times just don't get that....

shit's frustrating as hell...sometimes shit that ain't even cheating is looked as as cheating

 

[LUClEN]

yep

if you make a deal with someone and they break it why would you trust them again?

terminate the contract and find yourself a new partner

 

[Kat]

fucked up thing is women can be so emotional about things...

most men if not all men have a little bit of a pervert in them..

well i'll speak for myself...

i like a lil porn, and i like shit like ill pix, and i'll even comment on pics of some of the chicks on here....

but i'd never in a million years cheat on my wife..or give any chick on this planet the impression that i was interested in them like that...

i might tell a homie "man i'd beat the breaks off of shorty"...but i know damn well i ain't doing shit....

and women a lotta times just don't get that....

shit's frustrating as hell...sometimes shit that ain't even cheating is looked as as cheating

Maybe if you vocalized the bolded to her, she'd be more likely to believe.

Ya'lls pride has ya'll sitting tight on your feelings a lot of the time.

But I can't say much cause I'm the same damn way.

 

[Trollio]

Man with his girl: hey baby its just me and you

Man with his homies:man where the bitches

 

[shit happens]

Its a lot of tall tales been shared in this thread

 

[AZTG]

So my girl gets with a dude, kisses, some forplay, puts another dudes dick in her mouth, gets her pussy licked by some dude, then gets some dudes dick in her pussy, and im supposed to forgive cause its just a mistake? I just cant do it yo. After all the years and the "I love yous" and the lies and all that shit, if she can throw it away for a night of fun, I cant fuck with her no more. It'll just show her weakness. And we not a young couple, we aint 16 or 17 or nothing where immaturity leads to fuck ups, or, were too immature to trully understand the ins and outs of a relation and what being in a serious relationship means. We grown so we both know what the deal is. So with all that consideration, ill be the fuck out.

 

[Dupac]

Man with his girl: hey baby its just me and you

Man with his homies:man where the bitches

shit's like hall pass though....shit be all talk.....

a lotta men would fumble the shit outta a chance to actually do some scandalous shit with other chicks after being used to their wives for years upon years...that shit be all talk.....i can front all day like i'm suave and charming.... but i very well remember constantly being disgusted with myself for all the retched, putrid, and down right just nasty shit i used to.........man i don't even wanna reminisce no more...

 

[gorilla]

If you stay with a person that stepped out on you, you deserve when they do it again.

No nobody is perfect, but cheating is an imperfection I ain't dealin wit.

 

[Ghost313]

I can forgive, if our relationship was deep enough,but I cannot forget. It will be on my mind. I will however be more inclined to accept offers of stray pussy than to turn them down as I did before she cheated.

 

[The Prodigalson]

Man with his girl: hey baby its just me and you

Man with his homies:man where the bitches

shit's like hall pass though....shit be all talk.....

a lotta men would fumble the shit outta a chance to actually do some scandalous shit with other chicks after being used to their wives for years upon years...that shit be all talk.....i can front all day like i'm suave and charming.... but i very well remember constantly being disgusted with myself for all the retched, putrid, and down right just nasty shit i used to.........man i don't even wanna reminisce no more...

Bruh,

Me and my wife went to this party one of my boys was throwing at the club right. We been drinking for a while. So I go to the bar to get us another round and out of no where this chick, bad as hell came up and started to flirt with me touching on me and shit. I was acting like that bitch had the cooties. I showed the bitch my ring and shit and pointed to my wife. Who wasn't looking at the bar at e time. This bitch was still relentless. So the bartender came and took my order and I felt someone behind me and it was my wife and one of her friends giving this broad the stare of death. I turned and said this is my wife I told you who was sitting over there. Trying to make it known to my wife I told her I was married. I did nothing wrong but man I felt like I was in the twilight zone for those few minutes.

 

[PebblesGirard]

So ? if your girl has revenge sex because she found out you were fucking around is that still considered cheating or getting even?

I'm not a expert in the art of relationships by the way!

 

[Knock_Twice]

2 wrongs don't make a right...

 

[Dupac]

Man with his girl: hey baby its just me and you

Man with his homies:man where the bitches

shit's like hall pass though....shit be all talk.....

a lotta men would fumble the shit outta a chance to actually do some scandalous shit with other chicks after being used to their wives for years upon years...that shit be all talk.....i can front all day like i'm suave and charming.... but i very well remember constantly being disgusted with myself for all the retched, putrid, and down right just nasty shit i used to.........man i don't even wanna reminisce no more...

Bruh,

Me and my wife went to this party one of my boys was throwing at the club right. We been drinking for a while. So I go to the bar to get us another round and out of no where this chick, bad as hell came up and started to flirt with me touching on me and shit. I was acting like that bitch had the cooties. I showed the bitch my ring and shit and pointed to my wife. Who wasn't looking at the bar at e time. This bitch was still relentless. So the bartender came and took my order and I felt someone behind me and it was my wife and one of her friends giving this broad the stare of death. I turned and said this is my wife I told you who was sitting over there. Trying to make it known to my wife I told her I was married. I did nothing wrong but man I felt like I was in the twilight zone for those few minutes.

that shit happened to me in philly once.. only it was the bartender, i was asking for captain morgan and cokes, and she kept giving me 150 and cokes for free...talking about she was tryna get me drunk...

nigga i was in that bitch sweating bullets...kept askin people was anyone else hot in here or was it just me n shit....... lmao.....one of the scariest nights of my life

i swear women don't really be getting it, most good men.....for all the talking they might do... the absolute last thing they'd ever do is step out on their wives...

but women are so emotional, they'd go to the extreme based off of their imagination drawing conclusions...