Insecure (Season 2) HBO.

[LcnsdbyROYALTY]

Also Lawrence "corrected" the issues that plauged the relationship. He got a retail job only to get his dream job right after. Idk about the bedroom part, but lawrence cleaned up after episode 4 and beyond.

according to issa he'd been trying to get his shit together for 4 years

that takes a toll on a relationship

she could have left, but that is easier said than done after investing so much time and energy into a person

but lemme stop

issa is a thot undeserving of forgiveness who didn't deserve Lawrence, right? lol

Nigga, yes. What tha fuck? Are yall seriously that incapable of taking accountabilty of one's OWN action. The bitch cheated on her own. He remained loyal. If he cheated he woulda been every lying cheating dog under the fuckin sun. But since she cheated... Reasons. Fuck outta here dude.

 

[LcnsdbyROYALTY]

Again...Lawrence was not aware of the issues b/c ISSA was not communicatin that to him. So how is he suppose to know she was that unhappy if she wasn't saying anything.

She didn't have to come at him in a nagging type way, but she should've said something. I still don't get that. Youice wit the brotha, yet you go to other people to express your feelings? Its one thing to vent to your friends, but what good is that if you'renot gonna express those same feelings you have the issue wit?

Bruh... Thank you. Sheesh.

 

[banginscrew901]

Agree to disagree .... I come in here and see 30 something new replies and y'all still talking about the stuff.

 

[atribecalledgabi]

Again...Lawrence was not aware of the issues b/c ISSA was not communicatin that to him. So how is he suppose to know she was that unhappy if she wasn't saying anything.

She didn't have to come at him in a nagging type way, but she should've said something. I still don't get that. You live wit the brotha, yet you go to other people to express your feelings? Its one thing to vent to your friends, but what good is that if you're not gonna express those same feelings have to the person you got the issue wit?

Lemme be clear...I wasn't giving perspective on the cheating. Cuz that was what it was...I was tryna shed light on why the relationship was lacking on issa's end with the communication.

I've been in a situation where the other person is in their shit....and in my experience anything you say to somebody that deep in it will come off as a slight to them and they'll just project their anger and insecurities onto you when really you were tryna help. So that was probly on her mind as to why she didn't communicate effectively...also her character is passive aggressive so I'm taking it she doesn't know HOW to do that in the first place.

 

[deadeye]

This

When a man cheats it's almost a given ...or ppl try to justify his actions... it was something he wasn't getting at home

Especially if he is supposedly a "good" man/provider

When a woman cheats she's immediately dismissed as a hoe and irredeemable

Issa was wrong

But can we all agree that Lawrence contributed to the breakdown of the relationship

Yea she didn't help the situation at all

But nobody is gonna be cool with their mate bumming around the crib all day, going from job to job while he or she is out trying to keep the bills up to date

And I picked up her body language around him first episode she wasn't happy

I gotta rewatch, but I think he also forgot her bday

Plus I remember Issa telling Molly he was slacking in the bedroom, they weren't going out a lot

Again Issa was wrong for what she did....But they deserve each other

That's the burden black women bear tho. Cuz I was on the "issa ain't shit" wave before Daniel for not communicating effectively...but y'all gotta realize she was carrying the load of the relationship financially and emotionally.

Lawrence was probly feeling emasculated he couldn't even contribute to bills and shit like that, let alone take his girl out for dinner regularly and do nice things for her... and a lil depressed cuz he couldn't get his app off the ground....so how do you, as the support system for this black man, broach the subject of "I need you to do more" without coming off as the nagging angry black woman stereotype on one end, but also knowing that by doing so, you're more than likely just gonna push him deeper into his funk by pointing out where he's fucking up? Cuz if you do that and push him away, that sacrifice you made to hold him down goes away with nothing to show for it. No thanks, no severance package, no card, no pat on the back...I see why she bit her tongue for so long even if to her detriment.

At the start of the series they were both checked out emotionally. Carrying the relationship while watching your man bum it and sit in his feelings for however long takes a toll on you....and so does trying to do something that just won't work and you can't catch no breaks while you see your woman struggle and bust ass for both of you and you can't help.

exactly

no one is trying to give issa a pass or make out Lawrence to be a bad guy

but I can empathize with her

she was in a tough spot and she obviously loved him

So I see folks trying to justify Issa cheating...

So I see folks trying to justify Issa cheating...

@ em and quote the posts.

Kthnx.

@desertrain10 @atribecalledgabi

Got em.

All they've been saying is:

"Issa was wrong for cheating................but"

No matter how many different ways they try to dress it up, that's all they've been saying.

 

[_Goldie_]

@ my fellow men, well done.

 

[banginscrew901]

Can we move on to season 2 or what may happen in the next one

 

[_Goldie_]

Can we move on to season 2 or what may happen in the next one

Hell nah nigga, @ all the females in here

 

[LcnsdbyROYALTY]

Can we move on to season 2 or what may happen in the next one

I think they're gonna make Lawrence a for real savage tbh.

 

[banginscrew901]

Can we move on to season 2 or what may happen in the next one

I think they're gonna make Lawrence a for real savage tbh.

This what I think though bank chick wanted him cause he was in a relationship..... either she done with him after that one night or they gone be a item for season 2. And not sure if they said anything about the history between Lawrence and the bank chick and issa

 

[silverfoxx]

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I knew I remembered her from somewhere

 

[atribecalledgabi]

Can we move on to season 2 or what may happen in the next one

I think they're gonna make Lawrence a for real savage tbh.

I kinda hope they go the route where they smash as exes and issa thinks it could lead to them getting back together but Lawrence is like "nope" and hits the Jadakiss laugh

 

[Bussy_Getta]

She shoulda just left the bum ass nigga real talk

 

[LcnsdbyROYALTY]

Can we move on to season 2 or what may happen in the next one

I think they're gonna make Lawrence a for real savage tbh.

I kinda hope they go the route where they smash as exes and issa thinks it could lead to them getting back together but Lawrence is like "nope" and hits the Jadakiss laugh

I do think they're gonna end up smashing again. Lawrence prolly gonna fuck her head up putting that vicious D on her like he did Tasha.

I wanna see Tasha fleshed out more, but we'll see. Apparently, season two is slated to air in 2018. That thought is heartbreaking.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

I think bank chick is gonna want a relationship with Lawrence...OR...they'll be in a relationship, but she's gonna be more invested in it than he is.

She'll be looked at as the "rebound", while he'll still hide his feelings for Issa. I think eventually bank chick will pick up on that, and that's when the drama develops b/t them.

 

[atribecalledgabi]

That's exactly what yall trying to do and the shit is hilariously sad. If she was feeling that worn down she could've simply broke up with homie. There's no such thing as a perfect relationship , we're always gonna be annoyed by shit our s/o does, there's no excuse to cheat.

Let that nigga L had cheated first (yea I call him L now) and we (niggas) supported/empathized with the shit by saying " he was obviously so distraught and hurt by Issa for not supporting his dreams and talking down to him all the time, I could empathize with him , it hurt to watch that's the everyday struggle of the black male " yall wouldn't let that shit fly for a sec lmaooo

Chile plz. Like niggas wouldn't have criticized if she left him while he was down. Issa was foul for cheating. No denying that. But we also can't ignore the mindstate they both were in before Lawrence got his shit together.

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@_Goldie_

Now look at the reactions to Pico post.....I know you niggas. Lmao.

 

[_Goldie_]

I think it's more about the messenger than the message, niggas just don't like Pico b lol

 

[LcnsdbyROYALTY]

I think it's more about the messenger than the message, niggas just don't like Pico b lol

Right, clearly she be trolling.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

I think it's more about the messenger than the message, niggas just don't like Pico b lol

I ain't even do nothin!

 

[StillFaggyAF]

Just finished. Decent series