blakfyahking;c-10139689 said:
Madame_CJSkywalker;c-10139235 said:
y'all like to chastise and shame women for opting to get plastic surgery
but never have much to say about the insane beauty standards of our culture
it's no coincidence more and more women are getting things nipped and tucked ...not to mention its getting cheaper
and yes there are women who do it to get to boost their careers, future monetary/social gain
i get not wanting to date a lil kim, someone with obvious issues.... but if it looks natural why not?
we are all insecure about certain things about ourselves....plastic surgery has the potential to help ppl feel more positive about themselves, why is it necessarily so wrong?
we would chastise and clown men for the same vain shit tho, it ain't just exclusive to women
stop playing victim shorty
and it's funny that a black woman would support this shit when most white broads getting fake lips and asses are just doing it to imitate the natural features u would normally find on a black woman
bu when nigga drop sistas and cuff them a pawg, black women be 1st to get in their feelings haha
but I guess in a time where everybody is an "instagram model" it only makes sense to accept more fake shit
ya'll youngins got me seriously worried about the future cuz it's obvious u don't love urselves
lol
if all it takes for a nigga to date outside their race, is a becky with a fat ass when there are blk women with the same assets we better off without bruh anyways
is going under the knife ideal? no. but if the procedure is done in the proper environment by a skilled professional, there is very little risk so I don't see the big deal as long as a person is honest about it. a clean diet and exercise can't fix everything. and ppl have been altering their bodies to imitate cultural standards of beauty since forever ...standards may change but that remains constant
Its also disingenuous asf to dismiss it as 'vain'
when we all do things to make ourselves more attractive/presentable. it draws ppl to you, makes life easier
if you are truly concerned with the future, helping to expand our society/culture's narrow definition of beauty and womanhood would actually do more good than anything. and that doesn't require u putting down someone because they may have struggled with the real social distress and embarrassment that comes with being considered unattractive. but if it makes u feel better ...lol