If a good looking man or woman is single........

[powerman 5000]

if you make it to 30 and are not married, the only advice I'd give you is fuck marriage, let the gays have it. Especially if you're doing well for yourself. By 30, you probably put in a fair amount of work on yourself to set up your life how you want it. A career, at least 1 paid off vehicle so you have some credit if you want to go that route, an established place to lay your head, and a plan set in motion of what you want your future to be like. There's really no good reason to jeopardize that in this day and age. If anything, you should be overly cautious of anyone wanting to talk to you. You can love the person all day but all it's going to take is one disagreement or one decision that will destroy everything you worked for, it could be a bad investment or an unplanned pregnancy. At 25, you can recover from this, at 30 shit is a little more crucial and it gets worst every year after. Now your retirement ain't looking so hot or you're looking for a good preschool at 36 years old and child care just ripped your IRA contribution a new asshole. Nah, fuck that, these are the people that have their shit together.

 

[Kat]

they prolly don't subscribe to shit like love..

one of those types that over think everything, and refuse to let their guards down.....

i don't know if that classifies as something wrong with them.. but they proly just gave up on that shit as a reality, and consider true love a myth

You nailed it. That's my thinking.

Issues.

I'm sure every woman that thought she could tie you down came to the conclusion that you got issues..and they'd be right.

Says the woman that uses the IC as her relationship therapist.

lol..I already said I got issues, I'm getting better though.

 

Depends on how long they are single.

If its past two years they just dont have what it takes to carry their respective role in a relationship, and they probably know that which is why they are working on their issues.

Basically, being single is smart. Its these people that just cant live without a relationship that you need to worry about.

Lmao@ exact numbers.

Come on now.

I was single for 2-3 years, by choice. Mind you this was soon after my previous 4-5 year relationship with my ex. I left him. So.......care to venture into that one?

Ijs, cant possibly generalize in this matter. It is not so black and white, far too much grey area.

 

[Kat]

lmao..wtf is a social leopard?

Spends a lot of time in solitude

leper boo..social leper.

I'd hate for you to say that in real life..lol.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

It's always funny when some women question why you're not married. I explain that marriage is nothing but the ultimate validation for a female.

The ugly truth is that marriage is nothing more than a business. That'S ALL IT IS

*Perpares for the backlash*

C/s the bolded

@Kat...it looks good on paper, b/c it's reality. That's why I get the looks I do when I mention this to women. I their eyes, uncharted territory. So right out the gate they're already plottin to claim it.

And a woman wit no kids, a job, a car get the same reaction from a guy. I only get cautious when I start to get to know them, and they say or do something that causes a red flag.

 

[Kat]

It's always funny when some women question why you're not married. I explain that marriage is nothing but the ultimate validation for a female.

The ugly truth is that marriage is nothing more than a business. That'S ALL IT IS

*Perpares for the backlash*

I don't agree that a marriage is ONLY a business, but I definitely co-sign that part of it is most definitely a business decision, especially if you're marrying later in life.

Not even with marriage. Just being together is also a business decision.

Eh, not so much.

Legally I'm still a head of household with one dependent.

 

[Kat]

Well it is kinda strange...why ARE you single?

Yeah Marley, why ARE you single? Things that make you go HMMMMMM.

Lol. I get it but I don't agree with assuming that just because someone good looking is still single they must have some sort of fundamental issues.

I think the difference is having to be single because you're an undesirable candidate, opposed to choosing to be alone.

For me its a personal choice.

Girl I'm talking about them kitchen skills among other things you've shared. Surprised you haven't been held hostage.

 

[Purr]

All the single ladies put ya hands up! If you liked it then you shouldve put a ring on it!

 

[blacktux]

Depends on how long they are single.

If its past two years they just dont have what it takes to carry their respective role in a relationship, and they probably know that which is why they are working on their issues.

Basically, being single is smart. Its these people that just cant live without a relationship that you need to worry about.

Lmao@ exact numbers.

Come on now.

I was single for 2-3 years, by choice. Mind you this was soon after my previous 4-5 year relationship with my ex. I left him. So.......care to venture into that one?

Ijs, cant possibly generalize in this matter. It is not so black and white, far too much grey area.

You can kick all that herbal shit on here and you know i fuck with your posts.

But you single because you a single mom and you still think you the shit.

Humble yourself.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

a good looking woman who is single in her 30s doesnt automatically mean something is wrong with her but if she's never married or had kids i know in the back of my head i'd be wondering why shes single. theres always thirsty ass men out there trying to wife up some chick, especially a good looking one.

i think it all depends on circumstance. what if theyre single but they had a long term relationship a couple years earlier? an ltr can feel like a marriage and if ended the wrong way would take time for healing or wanting to do your own thing for a minute. not everyone is in a rush. theres no black and white answer to it.

Nail on the head @ the bolded. LTR's are emotionally draining. When that crap ends, it's like a giant azzz weight being lifted.

 

[Stew]

All the single ladies put ya hands up! If you liked it then you shouldve put a ring on it!

In 6 months? Pshhhhhhhhhhh

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

lmao..wtf is a social leopard?

Spends a lot of time in solitude

leper boo..social leper.

I'd hate for you to say that in real life..lol.

I'm glad you cleared that up. I still tryin figure what he meant by that. LOL! Had me scratching my head like "Wait leopards??"

 

[Purr]

All the single ladies put ya hands up! If you liked it then you shouldve put a ring on it!

In 6 months? Pshhhhhhhhhhh

Yea nigga.

 

[Go figure]

Depends on how long they are single.

If its past two years they just dont have what it takes to carry their respective role in a relationship, and they probably know that which is why they are working on their issues.

Basically, being single is smart. Its these people that just cant live without a relationship that you need to worry about.

Lmao@ exact numbers.

Come on now.

I was single for 2-3 years, by choice. Mind you this was soon after my previous 4-5 year relationship with my ex. I left him. So.......care to venture into that one?

Ijs, cant possibly generalize in this matter. It is not so black and white, far too much grey area.

i feel what you're saying. people do stay single by choice and the amount of time it takes for them to be ready to commit to someone once again is not set.

but eventually u will have had a good amount of time doing u, learning and bettering yourself, etc. then finding someone u can see yourself committing to, or them finding u can become the problem especially if u dont easily jump into relationships.

i think for a pretty girl she has the luxury of weighing her options cuz she has them. for ugly girls who dont get much male attention they either get used to being alone or used, or they can get desperate. same with females who have self esteem issues which a lot of pretty girls do have.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

All the single ladies put ya hands up! If you liked it then you shouldve put a ring on it!

...and this the type of hefas I was talkin earlier. Smh.

 

[Purr]

All the single ladies put ya hands up! If you liked it then you shouldve put a ring on it!

...and this the type of hefas I was talkin earlier. Smh.

Didnt read & feelings

 

[black caesar]

Funny how women don't think George Clooney doesn't have issues. He doesn't want to be married and have kids.

 

[BeardedFreak]

leper boo..social leper.

HA! Thanks, i was totally spelling that wrong

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

All the single ladies put ya hands up! If you liked it then you shouldve put a ring on it!

...and this the type of hefas I was talkin earlier. Smh.

Didnt read & feelings

Yes you did b/c you took the time to quote it. That tactic only works on titangraphs boo.

 

[black caesar]

All the single ladies put ya hands up! If you liked it then you shouldve put a ring on it!

In 6 months? Pshhhhhhhhhhh

LOL Shots fired. You do have a point Stew. Even I spoke on that.