If a good looking man or woman is single........

[black caesar]

they prolly don't subscribe to shit like love..

one of those types that over think everything, and refuse to let their guards down.....

i don't know if that classifies as something wrong with them.. but they proly just gave up on that shit as a reality, and consider true love a myth

You nailed it. That's my thinking.

 

[Kat]

Life of celibacy sounds WOAT.

Stop wearing them tiny tanks and cut your beard and virtuous women will flock I'm sure.

Well for some it is and for others it's not. If my lot in life is to be celibate, well by Gods grace I will be celibate! Self control is what must be demonstrated at all times, regardless if your married or single. And I praise God that the fruit of the Spirit is manifest in my life. He get's all the glory and praise. Amen.

Self control is much easier when you're actually getting laid.

Ask any priest.

Well everyone of us possess an individual soul. So I can't speak about what another soul has done or will do. But as for me, I can declare that with God all things are possible. Whether it be me finding a wife or me living a life of celibacy.

As long as I am serving God and doing the work that He has called me to do, I will be filled with Joy. You just can't go wrong with Jesus! It's always a win-win situation. Oh how I love Jesus! He's a great God! Hallelujah!

lmao..happy ass.

@dark Stop catching feelings, nobody said anything about ya'll being in bad shape, it's just different and personally would have me like hmmmm and proceeding with caution.

My original plan was to remain single and childless into my 30s, but life happened. Then again, I have issues.

Wha...

...lol @ the irony & oxymoron of you sayin that.

Cautious? LOL!! Has it really come down to this? That use to be gold when you come across someone like that. Hell I know I'm rare breed then. I'm single, no kids, never been arrested or jailed, a job, a car, and I'M BLACK!

Surprised one of those wildlife watchers hasn't hit me wit a tranquilizer dart, and slapped a radio tag on my ear. Just so they can track my azzz.

lol..smh..stop using that pic to solicit LOLs.

Used to? Only until pretty recently people were married with kids by like 25, and that was pushing it. God forbid a woman be single in her 30s, spinster status. And a man? Playboy or gay.

@ the bolded, that all looks real great on paper, but there are plenty of people that have fucked up thought processes yet still look good on paper.

 

[Kat]

they prolly don't subscribe to shit like love..

one of those types that over think everything, and refuse to let their guards down.....

i don't know if that classifies as something wrong with them.. but they proly just gave up on that shit as a reality, and consider true love a myth

You nailed it. That's my thinking.

Issues.

I'm sure every woman that thought she could tie you down came to the conclusion that you got issues..and they'd be right.

 

[King Erauno]

usually something wrong with them.

i know this chick i used to work with years ago. fucked with her when i was 22 (when we met) she was 38. never married, no kids, fine as shit. she was super clingy. it got annoying.

she still aint married, now at 43. sucks to be her

 

[black caesar]

It's always funny when some women question why you're not married. I explain that marriage is nothing but the ultimate validation for a female.

The ugly truth is that marriage is nothing more than a business. That'S ALL IT IS

*Perpares for the backlash*

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Like Lord stated, too many variables. There is no one answer to this question.

 

[vince_vince]

lol @ my sig and @vince_vince sig being the same pose

take that avi down ole flabby and sick lookin swag jacker

 

[Kat]

It's always funny when some women question why you're not married. I explain that marriage is nothing but the ultimate validation for a female.

The ugly truth is that marriage is nothing more than a business. That'S ALL IT IS

*Perpares for the backlash*

I don't agree that a marriage is ONLY a business, but I definitely co-sign that part of it is most definitely a business decision, especially if you're marrying later in life.

 

[Go figure]

It's always funny when some women question why you're not married. I explain that marriage is nothing but the ultimate validation for a female.

The ugly truth is that marriage is nothing more than a business. That'S ALL IT IS

*Perpares for the backlash*

i see what you're saying but aside from financially binding each other and the legalities of it, its what the couple makes of it.

and just like any business u gotta work hard to make it work and be successful whether or not the money's there.

 

[black caesar]

The last woman I was messing with was older than me, and she never married ir had kids. She did a have a boyfriend for 23 years though. She didn't believe in marriage.

 

[Matt-]

i think that it is so much more strange for a 30year old to be posting in the "Damn they goin in on Keysha Cole twitter" than it is for a 30 year old to be single with no kids

 

[bull6599]

Only 26, but 4+ years from now I can see myself still single & childless. I wouldn't think that's weird at all.

 

[black caesar]

they prolly don't subscribe to shit like love..

one of those types that over think everything, and refuse to let their guards down.....

i don't know if that classifies as something wrong with them.. but they proly just gave up on that shit as a reality, and consider true love a myth

You nailed it. That's my thinking.

Issues.

I'm sure every woman that thought she could tie you down came to the conclusion that you got issues..and they'd be right.

Says the woman that uses the IC as her relationship therapist.

 

[BeardedFreak]

lmao..wtf is a social leopard?

Spends a lot of time in solitude

 

[Go figure]

a good looking woman who is single in her 30s doesnt automatically mean something is wrong with her but if she's never married or had kids i know in the back of my head i'd be wondering why shes single. theres always thirsty ass men out there trying to wife up some chick, especially a good looking one.

i think it all depends on circumstance. what if theyre single but they had a long term relationship a couple years earlier? an ltr can feel like a marriage and if ended the wrong way would take time for healing or wanting to do your own thing for a minute. not everyone is in a rush. theres no black and white answer to it.

 

[black caesar]

It's always funny when some women question why you're not married. I explain that marriage is nothing but the ultimate validation for a female.

The ugly truth is that marriage is nothing more than a business. That'S ALL IT IS

*Perpares for the backlash*

i see what you're saying but aside from financially binding each other and the legalities of it, its what the couple makes of it.

and just like any business u gotta work hard to make it work and be successful whether or not the money's there.

Agreed. Good post.

 

[black caesar]

It's always funny when some women question why you're not married. I explain that marriage is nothing but the ultimate validation for a female.

The ugly truth is that marriage is nothing more than a business. That'S ALL IT IS

*Perpares for the backlash*

I don't agree that a marriage is ONLY a business, but I definitely co-sign that part of it is most definitely a business decision, especially if you're marrying later in life.

Not even with marriage. Just being together is also a business decision.

 

[BeardedFreak]

As far as something being "wrong" with them.

There are millions of people who have something "wrong" with them and they still found somebody.

It's more than just that.....keep thinking...

 

[blacktux]

Depends on how long they are single.

If its past two years they just dont have what it takes to carry their respective role in a relationship, and they probably know that which is why they are working on their issues.

Basically, being single is smart. Its these people that just cant live without a relationship that you need to worry about.

 

Well it is kinda strange...why ARE you single?

Yeah Marley, why ARE you single? Things that make you go HMMMMMM.

Lol. I get it but I don't agree with assuming that just because someone good looking is still single they must have some sort of fundamental issues.

I think the difference is having to be single because you're an undesirable candidate, opposed to choosing to be alone.

For me its a personal choice.