If a good looking man or woman is single........

[1of1]

Marley speaks poetry but breathes halitosis.

There's always a catch.

 

[blackgod813]

Im emotional needy an petty judgemental thats why i think im childless an alone but ive had 90 sex partners .....o an the women I know have kids no go are smart dont believe in virtue or had abortions another no or they cant lie to spare my feelings

 

Marley speaks poetry but breathes halitosis.

There's always a catch.

#exposed

 

[Dr.Chemix]

young nigga shit

if she 30 and single...so the fuck what??

what's the deal with america believing after 30 your ass should be married with kids??

And how is it surprising when you got more cornballs than you do stand up niggas?

 

[ohhhla]

@Empress_

I don't believe you're single for a second.

You like the perfect chick.

Thank you Ohhla.....

.....no one is without flaws though dear....

Near perfect?

Lol. Well flaws can definitely be beautiful....perfection is not the goal.

Word.

 

[Supreme_Mind999]

Some people are just scared to be by themselves..The weak minded usually have to be hugged up on someone to feel important because apart of themselves is lacking...

I like being around women for awhile, and then i break off and do my own thing solo..Theres nothing like being by yourself something without the hassle of protecting someone's feelings or stroking their egos

 

Some people are just scared to be by themselves..The weak minded usually have to be hugged up on someone to feel important because apart of themselves is lacking...

I like being around women for awhile, and then i break off and do my own thing solo..Theres nothing like being by yourself something without the hassle of protecting someone's feelings or stroking their egos

Aloneness is important whether in togetherness or not. I could live with my man and I still need time to self and would be glad to give him the same. Problem is many dont understand how sacred that aloneness is and often times take it personally. They make their s/o wanting alone time about them. Selfish.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Some people are just scared to be by themselves..The weak minded usually have to be hugged up on someone to feel important because apart of themselves is lacking...

I like being around women for awhile, and then i break off and do my own thing solo..Theres nothing like being by yourself something without the hassle of protecting someone's feelings or stroking their egos

Aloneness is important whether in togetherness or not. I could live with my man and I still need time to self and would be glad to give him the same. Problem is many dont understand how sacred that aloneness is and often times take it personally. They make their s/o wanting alone time about them. Selfish.

Amen. I'm not tryin to be all up in my s/o face 24/7. That's crap is annoying.

 

[DarcSkies]

It's because they're some level of psycho. Period. It's the only good answer minus recent breakups of course.

I would not say psycho but some people don't realize the real reason they do things. People are not that self aware at times.

You're right. However, anything in excess is a red flag in a relationship.

A female that cant go 4-6 months without a boyfriend has issues just like a female who has gone years without a boyfriend.

I remember me and Claudia Jordan from the Foxxhole went back-n-fourth when myspace was popular because I asked her why she keeps blaming men for being single. You're 40 years old but you look better than 95% of any woman at any age but you still single? in Los Angeles at that, home of the ballers. So it aint money. It aint looks. ITs gotta be CRAZY.

She caught feelings and got super defensive. But truth is truth.

Im batshit crazy (at times) and attract batshit crazy ass bitches (all-the-time). Hence the recent fiasco I went through wit ************** & my other ex-Chick. Certain personalities attract certain personalities. If you crazy you gonna attract crazy. And crazy tends to either be a repellant or superglue. Depends on what kinda crazy you attracting.

But chances are if you older than a certain age and havent had a mate in a while then you probably crazier than nappy hair on @ladyzee.

 

[Supreme_Mind999]

Some people are just scared to be by themselves..The weak minded usually have to be hugged up on someone to feel important because apart of themselves is lacking...

I like being around women for awhile, and then i break off and do my own thing solo..Theres nothing like being by yourself something without the hassle of protecting someone's feelings or stroking their egos

Aloneness is important whether in togetherness or not. I could live with my man and I still need time to self and would be glad to give him the same. Problem is many dont understand how sacred that aloneness is and often times take it personally. They make their s/o wanting alone time about them. Selfish.

Yeah I don't play that ish...I'm very much in attuned with a woman's body language and vibe so I can sense when a person needs their alone time to recharge...Being all up on each other 24/7 kills the magic in the relationship,I can safely say that because I've experienced it, overexposure is the quickest way to burn out the flame..Too much comfortability breed familarity, after people feel too comfortable, and if they are not disciplined,they start pushing your buttons

I like to be in my creative space as a artist/poet/author so if my chick ain't helping me build a project, I expect her to overstand that i need my space to work without distractions

 

[Undefeatable]

People do, but not me.

 

[willhustle]

Is it that bad to be single, tho?

I don't think it is.

Most people are annoying and you get tired of them.

Like c'mon, it ain't that terrible.

This!

Why do some treat being single like the plague, I don't know. Sound like something you'd hear coming from the Sex and the City ladies. If someone chooses to be alone, whats the problem? Smh.

Because you have some people that try to make it seem like something is wrong with a person that's 30+ & single. Don't tell them you don't have kids then they really want to look at you as if you're crazy for not having any. It's not the next man/woman's fault b/c they chose to make better & wiser decisions regarding their future.

Like Cali said earlier, the older you get the less tolerant you are or become to people and their bullshit. Not everything that gliters is gold and it don't matter if you're man or woman everyone has their bag of BS they come with it just comes down to what batch of bullshit you want to deal with. I'm 30, I'll have a degree in May my only focus is getting my life on track. With the way women are now that shit is the furthest thing on my mind in priorities & they don't make them like they use to.

 

[Supreme_Mind999]

Is it that bad to be single, tho?

I don't think it is.

Most people are annoying and you get tired of them.

Like c'mon, it ain't that terrible.

This!

Why do some treat being single like the plague, I don't know. Sound like something you'd hear coming from the Sex and the City ladies. If someone chooses to be alone, whats the problem? Smh.

Because you have some people that try to make it seem like something is wrong with a person that's 30+ & single. Don't tell them you don't have kids then they really want to look at you as if you're crazy for not having any. It's not the next man/woman's fault b/c they chose to make better & wiser decisions regarding their future.

Like Cali said earlier, the older you get the less tolerant you are or become to people and their bullshit. Not everything that gliters is gold and it don't matter if you're man or woman everyone has their bag of BS they come with it just comes down to what batch of bullshit you want to deal with. I'm 30, I'll have a degree in May my only focus is getting my life on track. With the way women are now that shit is the furthest thing on my mind in priorities & they don't make them like they use to.

Truth.com...This new generation of women for the most part,the diva generation are some of the most over emotional drama queens,them bishes get on my nerves...

Real women still out there but they are deeper in the ocean..You gotta fish deeper to catch one

 

[Cinco]

Seen so much in player days and don't wanna settle. Wanna find a chic w combination of all the best qualities from all the women they've experienced, and it ain't gonna happen.

 

[willhustle]

Is it that bad to be single, tho?

I don't think it is.

Most people are annoying and you get tired of them.

Like c'mon, it ain't that terrible.

This!

Why do some treat being single like the plague, I don't know. Sound like something you'd hear coming from the Sex and the City ladies. If someone chooses to be alone, whats the problem? Smh.

Because you have some people that try to make it seem like something is wrong with a person that's 30+ & single. Don't tell them you don't have kids then they really want to look at you as if you're crazy for not having any. It's not the next man/woman's fault b/c they chose to make better & wiser decisions regarding their future.

Like Cali said earlier, the older you get the less tolerant you are or become to people and their bullshit. Not everything that gliters is gold and it don't matter if you're man or woman everyone has their bag of BS they come with it just comes down to what batch of bullshit you want to deal with. I'm 30, I'll have a degree in May my only focus is getting my life on track. With the way women are now that shit is the furthest thing on my mind in priorities & they don't make them like they use to.

Truth.com...This new generation of women for the most part,the diva generation are some of the most over emotional drama queens,them bishes get on my nerves...

Real women still out there but they are deeper in the ocean..You gotta fish deeper to catch one

Another thing as you get up in age if you get with a woman make sure you're money is on point or right at least. I figure with the way these women are now you if you gone date you better make sure you can afford it. I already know I ain't got the time, money, or patience for it.

 

[deadeye]

I was single for 2-3 years, by choice.

Were you sexually active during this time or were you celibate?

 

[Stew]

Seen so much in player days and don't wanna settle. Wanna find a chic w combination of all the best qualities from all the women they've experienced, and it ain't gonna happen.

lmao Ive almost come to that conclusion too homie

 

[deadeye]

Well it is kinda strange...why ARE you single?

Yeah Marley, why ARE you single? Things that make you go HMMMMMM.

Lol. I get it but I don't agree with assuming that just because someone good looking is still single they must have some sort of fundamental issues.

I think the difference is having to be single because you're an undesirable candidate, opposed to choosing to be alone.

For me its a personal choice.

Girl I'm talking about them kitchen skills among other things you've shared. Surprised you haven't been held hostage.

deadeye's watching

 

[BarryHalls]

Maybe that 30+ year old person is enjoying their life. Living it to the fullest. Doing whatever they want like travel the world. You cant do things like that once you have a kid and S/O clinging on to you.

 

[usmarin3]

A woman, yes! lmfao

No woman wants to be single, unless she is a hoe or something is wrong with her.