If a good looking man or woman is single........

[Dr.Chemix]

I guess this would be a dilemma when you have lured a woman to your house with hawk tickets

 

[Stew]

I guess this would be a dilemma when you have lured a woman to your house with hawk tickets

I dont get it.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

Shrugs...the joke would be lost in translation.

 

Some people are just scared to be by themselves..The weak minded usually have to be hugged up on someone to feel important because apart of themselves is lacking...

I like being around women for awhile, and then i break off and do my own thing solo..Theres nothing like being by yourself something without the hassle of protecting someone's feelings or stroking their egos

Aloneness is important whether in togetherness or not. I could live with my man and I still need time to self and would be glad to give him the same. Problem is many dont understand how sacred that aloneness is and often times take it personally. They make their s/o wanting alone time about them. Selfish.

Yeah I don't play that ish...I'm very much in attuned with a woman's body language and vibe so I can sense when a person needs their alone time to recharge...Being all up on each other 24/7 kills the magic in the relationship,I can safely say that because I've experienced it, overexposure is the quickest way to burn out the flame..Too much comfortability breed familarity, after people feel too comfortable, and if they are not disciplined,they start pushing your buttons

I like to be in my creative space as a artist/poet/author so if my chick ain't helping me build a project, I expect her to overstand that i need my space to work without distractions

@Supreme_Mind999

I can feel extra comfortable with a s/o, that is ideal, this doesn't become negative until someone starts losing themselves. People often let go, they stop doing the things which is what landed them the position of your s/o in the first place, they become complacent. Some also become self absorbed and lose sight of the fact that their mate was an individual prior to having met, they are still that same creation and certain needs must be met whether as a single person or in a relationship, time alone is one of them.

I feel its crucial to ones own personal growth as well as together as a couple.

It's a state where you can just be, see and really feel yourself. Even work shouldn't have to be the excuse IMO, I just want a little "me" time is all. Has absolutely nothing to do with my s/o and everything to do with me. The world doesn't revolve around us alone just because we get into a relationship, we must keep that in mind and always respect our space.

 

I was single for 2-3 years, by choice.

Were you sexually active during this time or were you celibate?

@deadeye

Nosey!

Im sure you've seen me state that I am not promiscuous or into casual relations....with that said when I say "single", I mean completely in every sense of the word.

*waits for the assumptions and stereotypes*

 

[1of1]

I was single for 2-3 years, by choice.

Were you sexually active during this time or were you celibate?

@deadeye

Nosey!

Im sure you've seen me state that I am not promiscuous or into casual relations....with that said when I say "single", I mean completely in every sense of the word.

*waits for the assumptions and stereotypes*

Translation: She kept "1" muchacho on deck for the urges. He had to endure hours of lotiony convos so that she felt comfortable calling it more than a casual womb shifting.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

I was single for 2-3 years, by choice.

Were you sexually active during this time or were you celibate?

@deadeye

Nosey!

Im sure you've seen me state that I am not promiscuous or into casual relations....with that said when I say "single", I mean completely in every sense of the word.

*waits for the assumptions and stereotypes*

*has a shelf full of vibrators, dildos, and other sex tools to curb the urge post*

 

[5th Letter]

in some cases hell yeah something is wrong that with them. They probably got some sort of issues that drives potential suitors away.

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

Fuck no, it means they smart than a muthafucka....

I was single for 2-3 years, by choice.

Were you sexually active during this time or were you celibate?

yo he got that quasimodo hunch back

 

[Dr.Chemix]

mr. burns

 

[huey]

Drop them cigs stew, you should be good

 

[blacktux]

It's because they're some level of psycho. Period. It's the only good answer minus recent breakups of course.

I would not say psycho but some people don't realize the real reason they do things. People are not that self aware at times.

You're right. However, anything in excess is a red flag in a relationship.

A female that cant go 4-6 months without a boyfriend has issues just like a female who has gone years without a boyfriend.

I remember me and Claudia Jordan from the Foxxhole went back-n-fourth when myspace was popular because I asked her why she keeps blaming men for being single. You're 40 years old but you look better than 95% of any woman at any age but you still single? in Los Angeles at that, home of the ballers. So it aint money. It aint looks. ITs gotta be CRAZY.

She caught feelings and got super defensive. But truth is truth.

Im batshit crazy (at times) and attract batshit crazy ass bitches (all-the-time). Hence the recent fiasco I went through wit ************** & my other ex-Chick. Certain personalities attract certain personalities. If you crazy you gonna attract crazy. And crazy tends to either be a repellant or superglue. Depends on what kinda crazy you attracting.

But chances are if you older than a certain age and havent had a mate in a while then you probably crazier than nappy hair on @ladyzee.

I dont know if "having unrealistic standards" is your definition of crazy but that is what most women that play that blame game are suffering from.

Women have these long essays of qualities that they want in a mate but at the same time couldnt fill out a sticky note with qualities they possess that a partner may be interested in. It is that simple.

They always talking this entitled "i deserve" shit. If instead they humbled themselves to gain someone that is more realistic and worked with that person through patience and compromise they could have a great relationship.

Also,cosign @usmarine women are full of shit if they say they are happy single.

 

[willhustle]

It's because they're some level of psycho. Period. It's the only good answer minus recent breakups of course.

I would not say psycho but some people don't realize the real reason they do things. People are not that self aware at times.

You're right. However, anything in excess is a red flag in a relationship.

A female that cant go 4-6 months without a boyfriend has issues just like a female who has gone years without a boyfriend.

I remember me and Claudia Jordan from the Foxxhole went back-n-fourth when myspace was popular because I asked her why she keeps blaming men for being single. You're 40 years old but you look better than 95% of any woman at any age but you still single? in Los Angeles at that, home of the ballers. So it aint money. It aint looks. ITs gotta be CRAZY.

She caught feelings and got super defensive. But truth is truth.

Im batshit crazy (at times) and attract batshit crazy ass bitches (all-the-time). Hence the recent fiasco I went through wit ************** & my other ex-Chick. Certain personalities attract certain personalities. If you crazy you gonna attract crazy. And crazy tends to either be a repellant or superglue. Depends on what kinda crazy you attracting.

But chances are if you older than a certain age and havent had a mate in a while then you probably crazier than nappy hair on @ladyzee.

I dont know if "having unrealistic standards" is your definition of crazy but that is what most women that play that blame game are suffering from.

Women have these long essays of qualities that they want in a mate but at the same time couldnt fill out a sticky note with qualities they possess that a partner may be interested in. It is that simple.

They always talking this entitled "i deserve" shit. If instead they humbled themselves to gain someone that is more realistic and worked with that person through patience and compromise they could have a great relationship.

Also,cosign @usmarine women are full of shit if they say they are happy single.

And that's why it's so many women out here that can't get a date or find a man now. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be treated right but some women need a reality check on some of their expectations & standards.

 

[Supreme_Mind999]

I was single for 2-3 years, by choice.

Were you sexually active during this time or were you celibate?

@deadeye

Nosey!

Im sure you've seen me state that I am not promiscuous or into casual relations....with that said when I say "single", I mean completely in every sense of the word.

*waits for the assumptions and stereotypes*

*has a shelf full of vibrators, dildos, and other sex tools to curb the urge post*

Damn Marley, you getting put on blast lol..Shyt just got real

They saying you keep them AA batteries on deck for the drought season lol

 

[blacktux]

Marley got yall believing that fairy tale life of hers.

And yall said kai be saying some bullshit.

 

[Stew]

Marley got yall believing that fairy tale life of hers.

And yall said kai be saying some bullshit.

It is true that women can run game as well. Only suckas fall for it tho.

 

Marley got yall believing that fairy tale life of hers.

And yall said kai be saying some bullshit.

 

[deadeye]

I dont know if "having unrealistic standards" is your definition of crazy but that is what most women that play that blame game are suffering from.

Women have these long essays of qualities that they want in a mate but at the same time couldnt fill out a sticky note with qualities they possess that a partner may be interested in. It is that simple.

They always talking this entitled "i deserve" shit. If instead they humbled themselves to gain someone that is more realistic and worked with that person through patience and compromise they could have a great relationship.

Also,cosign @usmarine most women are full of shit if they say they are happy single.

 

[brown321]

From my experience this is true. I met this chick 35 great job, no kids & she turned out to be crazy as hell. I figured it out shortly after meeting her I tried to see how it would turn out but I had to let her ass go.

This is a text exchange I posted on here before:

I have called you over and over. i was home all day and no call from you. I hope you are okay. But i think u are pre occupied. I hope its worth it. 12:14 AM

Jenjira: I wish you the best. You obviously have made your decision. Have a good one. Trust and believe i want for nothing or no one. Enjoy your library hookup 12:17 AM(I think I told her I had to go to the library the day before)

Jenjira: And good luck with the bay bay kids and their dads. Dummy.

All because she didn't tell me she off work so I didn't call her that day & she was calling my google number for some reason so I never knew she was calling me. I knew something was wrong with her right then.

She not the only I know like this either.

 

[Melanin_Enriched]

Probably something wrong with that bitch pussy