I would never marry a broke man .......

[a.mann]

@a.mann how so? That fat bitches character doesn't matter anyway unless you were considering interacting with her fat ass.

IT JUST RUBS ME THE WRONG WAY THAT SOMEONE FAT AND OUT OF SHAPE WILL JUDGE A PERSON BECAUSE THEIR POCKETS ARE SICK

BUT THEY ARE 3 BIG MACS A WAY FROM FROM A HEART ATTACK

 

[MsSouthern]

I did explain myself ... again I didn't just blurt it out @Du

 

[Dupac]

I did explain myself ... again I didn't just blurt it out @Du

oh..well fuck it then.. he caught feelings..

end of story...

 

[UPTOWN]

I just don't see how someone could consider finances a high priority when thinking about a relationship LOL

That's the main reason why I'm single. I can't tell if some girls like me because "I'm doing good" or because they are attracted to the person I am. I didn't accomplish the things that I did just to pay half of someone else's bills.

If I make 100k a year and she makes 70k, she's not broke but she is the one benefiting the most

At the end of the day I would rather fuck with a girl living check to check with a good.heart that I can trust than betting on someone with similar dough just because she can pay half the bills lol.

A lot.of women when they get dough get all bitchy and dictator like anyway

Just always remember to never give anyone more than you're willing give no matter how reasonable they try to make it sound and you'll be good

This whole shit reeks of "tending to the next persons business"

Da fuck you need to see me driving a nice car and cashing a big ass check for??? What I eat dont make you shit lol

 

[PILL_COSBY]

wwomen won't marry a broke nigga but they will fuck him and have his kids

LOL I don't see nothing wrong with it. Buuuuuuuuut It depends on the woman that's saying it.

@Ms Southern

I aint really seen nobody in here touch on this yet but I'm going to keep it 100 witcha. Usually(like 7 out of 10) women who say things like that tend to be rats, bucket headed bitches, gold diggers, ding bats, baby mamas, broke themselves, slut, never had a stable relationship, makes dumb ass dating decisions, etc etc...

some of the dudes could have been broke bums too lol. But the majority were thinking what I posted. It's a basic red flag for any man who's looking for a woman he's gonna spend the rest of his life with. Marriage is like the end to most of us men so we want to be extra safe. It's not so much of a big leap to you guys.

it's amazing the directions these convos end up going...

lol

the whole point of the debate was



IT SOUNDED SHALLOW

it allowed for unfair conclusions to be drawn....

initially every person that explained this to ms S agreed with her that many undesirable qualities can be associated with a broke man, and while we absolutely understood where she was coming from, blanket statements like that run the risk of being taken the wrong way...

that's all....this shit got way over cooked

Why yall keep comparing broke women to fat women?

Shit ain't the same.

NOTICE HOW EVERY TIME SOME TRILL ASS SHIT IS POSTED IT NEVER SEEMS TO GET ADDRESSED BY "CERTAIN" POSTERS? They usually respond to the post that they can find loop holes in lol.

SMH, most dudes that are doing well would think the same if they heard some random chick blurt that out

 

[PILL_COSBY]

I just don't see how someone could consider finances a high priority when thinking about a relationship LOL

AND THIS IS ONE OF THE MAIN REASONS WHY THERE IS SO MANY FAILED MARRIAGES/PEOPLE NOT GETTING MARRIED. It's also the main reason why sooo many unmarried young baby mamas with screwed up baby fathers exists lol. Or they were married at some point but the guy was screwed up from the jump and they ignored it. until they got to there breaking point and ended the marriage lol. I find it interesting that the very chicks with that way of thinking are usually the ones in these situations.

shot out to kobe bryant ex wife. SMH at that broad talking bout "he cheated too much".

 

[DarcSkies]

...perfectly decent fat bitches...

LOL I know...it was an off the eCuff joke.

 

[VulcanRaven]

Someone who lives paycheck to paycheck with no ambition

Someone who job hops becasue they can't learn skills to stick something out

A grown man who works at places like McD's or Subway

Someone with no savings.. .or 401k or some kind of retirement. To me it shows no plans for the future

All of those = broke

none of that equals broke just lower class.as long as you have every thing that you expect a man to have then there is nothing wrong with that.the problem only occurs if you yourself are as you call it broke.

 

[a.mann]

none of that equals broke just lower class.as long as you have every thing that you expect a man to have then there is nothing wrong with that.the problem only occurs if you yourself are as you call it broke.

she sounds like a bootleg elitist

 

[Sour-Cream]

I'd only get offended if ugly or fat broads said that even if I wasn't broke cause I would jump to conclusions and assume ugly people can't be choosy. Not implying or throwing shade at T/S of course.

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

A reason woman accept a broke man because she's broke or doing bad herself.

 

[Maalik]

word to eddie murphy pretending to be broke in coming to america....

he wanted to make sure the chick liked him for him....cuz he knew most chicks woulda fell in the hands if they knew he was a prince...

i remember a chick on here once told a story about how this dude owned a few buildings he was renting out... like the entire buildings, but he straight up was the janitor of the buildings himself... dude was really obsessive compulsive about his shit, so he stayed working in all his buildings making sure they were right...

given this, he wasn't always dressed to kill, cuz sometimes you gotta do some dirty work in them shits....

well she was like one day her home girl was in the lobby or something looking damn righteous, talking with her when the dude was coming through, he saw her and was like "damn whassup"

but all this chick saw was janitor...thought he was broke and brushed him off......

then like 5 mins later they saw him pull off in his bmw, and her girl then informed her that he was the owner of the building....shorty heart was crushed cuz she thought he was just a broke ass janitor,... when in actuality nothing could have been further from the truth, this nigga was super caked.....and of course being that she played him when she thought he was a janitor... he had no rap for her afterwards...

moral of the story... a nigga like that woulda heard a chick say that at a cook out, and be like..

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm nope....

you ain't gotta be broke to think a chick shallow for only focusing on a niggaz pockets....

and while i understand that's not ms S, her statement ran the risk of sounding like that...

that's all...

Let's keep it funky broham....

Gold diggers say they don't want a "broke man" because its ambiguous and less appalling than flat out saying........."I want a dude with a lot of money"............which is what they really mean. Because what is broke? To me, a broke dude is living at home with no future, working a bullshit retail job with no plans of bettering himself. Obviously chicks like T/S don't mean that because they still look down on dudes who do have secure jobs, making money & taking care of their responsibilities because his job might be blue collar (like dude in your story). So that could only mean one thing.......you chicks aint being all the way honest

I'm not saying what a man makes isn't important but, when that's the primary indicator of whether you want to be with him or not..............that's a problem & every dude, rich or poor feels the same. Literally every somewhat attractive woman sprouts this bullshit. Chicks who have nothing to offer besides their pussy, expecting an Investment Banker when they work at a Call Center themselves. Never once asking themselves, yea.....you want a caked up dude but, why would a caked up dude want YOU? I've seen some of the chicks on here. You think some dude making 90k works that hard so he can wife up your average ass?

This mentality is why there's a fleet of single, lonely ass 40 year old women in churches waiting on God to send them their man LOL.....because they had their noses up in the air when they were 20, turning down every dude thinking Mr. Big was gonna fall out the sky. Let me help you out. Unless you bad.......and by bad.........I mean Esther Baxter bad, the numbers are just not in your favor. There's 1% of men with a net worth of 7 figures. Another 10% of men clearing 100k yet there's 100 million women who want them. Alot of you not gonna end up with Mr. Big. You might have to settle for Karl the Mailman or Clarence the manager at Hardee's.

 

[deadeye]

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Chicks who have nothing to offer besides their pussy, expecting an Investment Banker when they work at a Call Center themselves. Never once asking themselves, yea.....you want a caked up dude but, why would a caked up dude want YOU? I've seen some of the chicks on here. You think some dude making 90k works that hard so he can wife up your average ass?

This mentality is why there's a fleet of single, lonely ass 40 year old women in churches waiting on God to send them their man LOL.....because they had their noses up in the air when they were 20, turning down every dude thinking Mr. Big was gonna fall out the sky. Let me help you out. Unless you bad.......and by bad.........I mean Esther Baxter bad, the numbers are just not in your favor. There's 1% of men with a net worth of 7 figures. Another 10% of men clearing 100k yet there's 100 million women who want them. Alot of you not gonna end up with Mr. Big. You might have to settle for Karl the Mailman or Clarence the manager at Hardee's.

 

[ImTheKangRoundHere]

women wont marry a broke man but you will work things out with a cheating and abusive man huh?as long as he got money right?smh

 

[blakfyahking]

got dayum

this nigga Maalik in here powerfully posting on another level

haha @ Clarence who works at Hardees

 

[Chef_Taylor]

Gotdamn malik...just shut the thread down.

1000% truth.

 

[Chef_Taylor]

women wont marry a broke man but you will work things out with a cheating and abusive man huh?as long as he got money right?smh

Yup thats about it...damn shame no pride at all cash rules.

 

[blakfyahking]

I just don't see how someone could consider finances a high priority when thinking about a relationship LOL

AND THIS IS ONE OF THE MAIN REASONS WHY THERE IS SO MANY FAILED MARRIAGES/PEOPLE NOT GETTING MARRIED. It's also the main reason why sooo many unmarried young baby mamas with screwed up baby fathers exists lol. Or they were married at some point but the guy was screwed up from the jump and they ignored it. until they got to there breaking point and ended the marriage lol. I find it interesting that the very chicks with that way of thinking are usually the ones in these situations.

shot out to kobe bryant ex wife. SMH at that broad talking bout "he cheated too much".

this made me bust out laughing

 

[ImTheKangRoundHere]

DAMN!!Malik Went in,,,close the thread down.i wonder which average chick can respond to that?

 

[mdcu16]

I c/s @Maalik post