I would never marry a broke man .......

[NoCompetition]

Been bout m .o.b since the 90s (for real) and its helped me amazingly so I have no problem with this attitude from a woman. Fck that broke foolishness tryin to have a relationship. Thats a frustrating life.I prefer to see women with standards then the ones movin in and drivin around some loser till they get fed up with him and wise up. This shouldnt offend any man bout his.

 

[Chef_Taylor]

DAMN!!Malik Went in,,,close the thread down.i wonder which average chick can respond to that?

Lol...waiting for MSs to respond

 

[MsSouthern]

Let's keep it funky broham....

Gold diggers say they don't want a "broke man" because its ambiguous and less appalling than flat out saying........."I want a dude with a lot of money"............which is what they really mean. Because what is broke? To me, a broke dude is living at home with no future, working a bullshit retail job with no plans of bettering himself. Obviously chicks like T/S don't mean that because they still look down on dudes who do have secure jobs, making money & taking care of their responsibilities because his job might be blue collar (like dude in your story). So that could only mean one thing.......you chicks aint being all the way honest

I'm not saying what a man makes isn't important but, when that's the primary indicator of whether you want to be with him or not..............that's a problem & every dude, rich or poor feels the same. Literally every somewhat attractive woman sprouts this bullshit. Chicks who have nothing to offer besides their pussy, expecting an Investment Banker when they work at a Call Center themselves. Never once asking themselves, yea.....you want a caked up dude but, why would a caked up dude want YOU? I've seen some of the chicks on here. You think some dude making 90k works that hard so he can wife up your average ass?

This mentality is why there's a fleet of single, lonely ass 40 year old women in churches waiting on God to send them their man LOL.....because they had their noses up in the air when they were 20, turning down every dude thinking Mr. Big was gonna fall out the sky. Let me help you out. Unless you bad.......and by bad.........I mean Esther Baxter bad, the numbers are just not in your favor. There's 1% of men with a net worth of 7 figures. Another 10% of men clearing 100k yet there's 100 million women who want them. Alot of you not gonna end up with Mr. Big. You might have to settle for Karl the Mailman or Clarence the manager at Hardee's.

I agree with what your idea of a broke man is and I never ever said I look down on a man who is handling his business. If you or anyone else misunderstood what I said then re-read my posts in this thread.

What your S/O can contribute to a relationship is important... financial .. emotionally ... etc. If you think otherwise you are fooling yourself. And to clear up any confusion I bring WAAAAAYYYY more to the table than my pussy. I am a professional not some Call Center employee. I have worked hard to get to where I am in life and I have NO intention of looking back or letting some man drag me down.

Finally I am not single... not 40 ... and not praying to God for a good man. I already have one who loves me as much as I love him. AND AGAIN HAS NO ISSUES WITH WHAT I SAID. In fact he AGREED with me because he wouldn't deal with a broke female

So really your whole thing about settling is not a concern for me

there you go @doubletee lol

 

[Chef_Taylor]

Maliks point>>>>>>

Ijs though

 

[ImTheKangRoundHere]

Malik Point killed your chances MsSouthern.Dude sum'd it all up right there.what youre saying now is complete BS

 

[Dr.Chemix]

word to eddie murphy pretending to be broke in coming to america....

he wanted to make sure the chick liked him for him....cuz he knew most chicks woulda fell in the hands if they knew he was a prince...

i remember a chick on here once told a story about how this dude owned a few buildings he was renting out... like the entire buildings, but he straight up was the janitor of the buildings himself... dude was really obsessive compulsive about his shit, so he stayed working in all his buildings making sure they were right...

given this, he wasn't always dressed to kill, cuz sometimes you gotta do some dirty work in them shits....

well she was like one day her home girl was in the lobby or something looking damn righteous, talking with her when the dude was coming through, he saw her and was like "damn whassup"

but all this chick saw was janitor...thought he was broke and brushed him off......

then like 5 mins later they saw him pull off in his bmw, and her girl then informed her that he was the owner of the building....shorty heart was crushed cuz she thought he was just a broke ass janitor,... when in actuality nothing could have been further from the truth, this nigga was super caked.....and of course being that she played him when she thought he was a janitor... he had no rap for her afterwards...

moral of the story... a nigga like that woulda heard a chick say that at a cook out, and be like..

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm nope....

you ain't gotta be broke to think a chick shallow for only focusing on a niggaz pockets....

and while i understand that's not ms S, her statement ran the risk of sounding like that...

that's all...

Let's keep it funky broham....

Gold diggers say they don't want a "broke man" because its ambiguous and less appalling than flat out saying........."I want a dude with a lot of money"............which is what they really mean. Because what is broke? To me, a broke dude is living at home with no future, working a bullshit retail job with no plans of bettering himself. Obviously chicks like T/S don't mean that because they still look down on dudes who do have secure jobs, making money & taking care of their responsibilities because his job might be blue collar (like dude in your story). So that could only mean one thing.......you chicks aint being all the way honest

I'm not saying what a man makes isn't important but, when that's the primary indicator of whether you want to be with him or not..............that's a problem & every dude, rich or poor feels the same. Literally every somewhat attractive woman sprouts this bullshit. Chicks who have nothing to offer besides their pussy, expecting an Investment Banker when they work at a Call Center themselves. Never once asking themselves, yea.....you want a caked up dude but, why would a caked up dude want YOU? I've seen some of the chicks on here. You think some dude making 90k works that hard so he can wife up your average ass?

This mentality is why there's a fleet of single, lonely ass 40 year old women in churches waiting on God to send them their man LOL.....because they had their noses up in the air when they were 20, turning down every dude thinking Mr. Big was gonna fall out the sky. Let me help you out. Unless you bad.......and by bad.........I mean Esther Baxter bad, the numbers are just not in your favor. There's 1% of men with a net worth of 7 figures. Another 10% of men clearing 100k yet there's 100 million women who want them. Alot of you not gonna end up with Mr. Big. You might have to settle for Karl the Mailman or Clarence the manager at Hardee's.

Dayum son you killed that shit...

And that gif is hilarious

 

[ImTheKangRoundHere]

the truth will set you free

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

That nigga just came in crushing the building.

 

[kingblaze84]

Good post Jones.

When men think about statements like that, they are considering what the woman would do if they were broke. So you look foul.

You said you wouldn't marry a broke man.... What they heard was that you would leave if he hit financial hardships.

This is how I look at it as well. Which is okay, most women are golddigging hoes anyway. Thanks for the confirmation threadstarter = )

 

[ImTheKangRoundHere]

no man wants a woman like that kingblaze.women like her will always run into niggaz who will use her up and throw her ass away when hes tired of her ungrateful ass

 

[kingblaze84]

Maybe the wording was insenstive to the broke men within earshot, but dudes that aren't broke probably took no issue.

I have money, decent savings and all, so I disagree. But situations can come up in which a man's savings can go down drastically (healthcare, job loss, anything rly). The comment threadstarter made makes her sound like a gold digging hoe, right or wrong, that's the way it sounds.

And women wonder why men treat women like sex objects lol.....two can play the game, if money is a deal breaker for a woman, it's only gona set her up for disaster. Her man will forever think, does she rly care about me? Or my money? When a man asks himself that question in a relationship, he will cheat eventually. Word to Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods. Keep fooling yourself though.

 

[kingblaze84]

i agree wit not marrying someone who is broke. its just funny that women are in here saying "yall wouldnt marry a fat bitch, so i dont see whats wrong with not wanting to marry a broke man." when they the main ones saying, niggas is fucked up for not wanting to marry a fat bitch

shallow is shallow no matter how you cut it....thing is more niggaz are willing to accept their charges

"i wouldn't marry no fat chick"

"nigga you shallow as shit"

"guilty as charged"

*sips drink*

yep, bitches hate knowing the truth that they just as shallow

Lol good post.....women by far are equally as shallow as men, maybe more. A man 9 times out of 10 won't mind dating a broke chick. Can we rly say the same for a woman?

 

[haute]

There are a lot of words here just to say broke people need be with other broke people

 

[a.mann]

Lol good post.....women by far are equally as shallow as men, maybe more. A man 9 times out of 10 won't mind dating a broke chick. Can we rly say the same for a woman?

the number of single females with bum ass baby daddies say we can

 

[LPast]

I'm not saying they are gold diggers, I'm saying a lot of people are not built for adversity in a relationship.

When things are going good, it's great, when things are bad, they head for the hills.

 

[MsSouthern]

so all of yall who think I'm horrible for saying that would make a life long commitment to a broke woman with no ambition in life????

seriously????

 

[Sour-Cream]

What some bitches don't understand is that being broke does not equate to having no ambition. Niggas just have bills, rent to pay and to the bitches making money, that shit is a slap in the face to get where your at and look down on niggas based on financial value then get mad when rich niggas play the shit outta ya stuck up asses.

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

so all of yall who think I'm horrible for saying that would make a life long commitment to a broke woman with no ambition in life????

seriously????

See the key of life is to take your L´s and move the fuck on.You can still learn that lesson ma.Just move the fuck on.

Your broke theories don´t work well in a hip hop site because most of us were raised broke.So we don´t feel like you feel.Now if a person doesn´t have any ambition that´s fucked up.But being broke or poor is not a sin nor a crime.

 

[a.mann]

See the key of life is to take your L´s and move the fuck on.You can still learn that lesson ma.Just move the fuck on.

Your broke theories don´t work well in a hip hop site because most of us were raised broke.So we don´t feel like you feel.Now if a person doesn´t have any ambition that´s fucked up.But being broke or poor is not a sin nor a crime.

I can't co-sign this enough

regardless of how well off I maybe financally now

I will never look down or turn my nose up to someone,male or female

struggling to maintain yet still handling their buisness

because I know how it is to spend your last on rent,car note, put food in the house

people like Ms Southern and the ones in this thread that co-sign her just not the type of company I keep in real life.

Arrogant and conceited, because of a fancy job title or swelled bank account. But I'll bet I made more money than all of them in the 3 years contracting with the DOD

but I never once let that go to my head here or off the net. I rarely even mention the shit.

unlike them, my self-worth ain't defined by how much I'm worth. Or anyone else.

I got love & respect for anyone out there doing their thing to move up in the world, rather it be flipping burgers to pay for classes or mopping floors to stay off the streets. Long as you ain't out robbing & stealing from people... You cool with me.

 

[7figz]

so all of yall who think I'm horrible for saying that would make a life long commitment to a broke woman with no ambition in life????

seriously????

See the key of life is to take your L´s and move the fuck on.You can still learn that lesson ma.Just move the fuck on.

Your broke theories don´t work well in a hip hop site because most of us were raised broke.So we don´t feel like you feel.Now if a person doesn´t have any ambition that´s fucked up.But being broke or poor is not a sin nor a crime.

Church.