How Many of Y'all Have Taken Care of Someone Elses Child, Because of a Relationship?

[Purr]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

This is confusing

Nah. It's not. Read it again.

 

[CP203]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

This is confusing

it takes a community, yea i understand that but he's acting like just because a nigga don't want to take care of a kid thats not his means he's not pro black, and I'm saying why not hold people accountable and try to force them to take care of their responsibilities and offer a helping hand so that we can all grow as better people

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

This is confusing

it takes a community, yea i understand that but he's acting like just because a nigga don't want to take care of a kid thats not his means he's not pro black, and I'm saying why not hold people accountable and try to force them to take care of their responsibilities and offer a helping hand so that we can all grow as better people

how would u do this?

 

[CP203]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

This is confusing

it takes a community, yea i understand that but he's acting like just because a nigga don't want to take care of a kid thats not his means he's not pro black, and I'm saying why not hold people accountable and try to force them to take care of their responsibilities and offer a helping hand so that we can all grow as better people

how would u do this?

it would be hard because society so pussy, you cant shame people in to making feel a certain way and i mean we can start by not giving dudes props for doing stupid shit, i mean i hear dudes on the regular bragging about how they don't really see their kid or do anything for em saying the mom got it like wtf

 

[AP21]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

CP, why are you going to the far extreme fam?

If taking care of someone else's child stops the cycle of them being irresponsible and doing the same thing their aint shit daddy did to them, then im all for it

There are irresponsible people EVERYWHERE in EVERY SINGLE WALK OF LIFE.

Some are b/c of shitty luck and some are just b/c they have no desire to want anything better

Its like you are viewing taking care of a child that you didnt father as a reward to the mother. Thats backwards fam. If you love the woman on any level other than being intimate with her, how can you NOT have feelings for her child. YES, I get it...the child does have a dad, but what does that mean in the grand scheme of things if dude aint around and you can be??

Break the cycle brah

 

[deadeye]

Make better life decisions females

How many baby mommas u got?

I tell em the same thing when they start bitching,should have had someone else's baby

Answer the question lol

Psst.

Enough of about him, let's not invade homies personal life.

The most important thing is I don't have any. So, um tell me when you're finished with your current nigga, so we can get started on making bout fo-five little nappyheaded bad ass iconotrains running around the crib.

Its a tempting offer and all...

But nawl...

F'that...

I need answers What was going on with you and @SixSickSins ?

Fixed to reflect what @desertrain10 really meant.

lol @ the co-sign.

Newest power couple.......or newest love triangle?

Someone should make that thread.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

This is confusing

Nah. It's not. Read it again.

Oh

 

[CP203]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

CP, why are you going to the far extreme fam?

If taking care of someone else's child stops the cycle of them being irresponsible and doing the same thing their aint shit daddy did to them, then im all for it

There are irresponsible people EVERYWHERE in EVERY SINGLE WALK OF LIFE.

Some are b/c of shitty luck and some are just b/c they have no desire to want anything better

Its like you are viewing taking care of a child that you didnt father as a reward to the mother. Thats backwards fam. If you love the woman on any level other than being intimate with her, how can you NOT have feelings for her child. YES, I get it...the child does have a dad, but what does that mean in the grand scheme of things if dude aint around and you can be??

Break the cycle brah

or like ole boy said before it could continue the cycle, by a dude seeing a dude who is not his father picking up the slack that his father didn't want to, he could think there is a next dude out there that will do the same when he fucks up

 

[LPast]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

I respect your opinion on this subject, but you don't think other people won't step up to help take care of your children since you can't always be there?

 

[AP21]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

CP, why are you going to the far extreme fam?

If taking care of someone else's child stops the cycle of them being irresponsible and doing the same thing their aint shit daddy did to them, then im all for it

There are irresponsible people EVERYWHERE in EVERY SINGLE WALK OF LIFE.

Some are b/c of shitty luck and some are just b/c they have no desire to want anything better

Its like you are viewing taking care of a child that you didnt father as a reward to the mother. Thats backwards fam. If you love the woman on any level other than being intimate with her, how can you NOT have feelings for her child. YES, I get it...the child does have a dad, but what does that mean in the grand scheme of things if dude aint around and you can be??

Break the cycle brah

or like ole boy said before it could continue the cycle, by a dude seeing a dude who is not his father picking up the slack that his father didn't want to, he could think there is a next dude out there that will do the same when he fucks up

NOT if a dude steps in and shows him the importance of having a positive male figure in his life.

c'mon fam lol

 

[CP203]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

I respect your opinion on this subject, but you don't think other people won't step up to help take care of your children since you can't always be there?

I'm not always there but i take care of mine, so why would i want someone else to do it, that would mean I'm not doing my job granted could i do better, surely i can. i can admit that but fuck no

 

[zzombie]

Bob Marley did it but I am not Bob Marley.

Mi nah mine no next man pickney and no pussyklatt gal can give me bun and jacket baby

 

[CP203]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

CP, why are you going to the far extreme fam?

If taking care of someone else's child stops the cycle of them being irresponsible and doing the same thing their aint shit daddy did to them, then im all for it

There are irresponsible people EVERYWHERE in EVERY SINGLE WALK OF LIFE.

Some are b/c of shitty luck and some are just b/c they have no desire to want anything better

Its like you are viewing taking care of a child that you didnt father as a reward to the mother. Thats backwards fam. If you love the woman on any level other than being intimate with her, how can you NOT have feelings for her child. YES, I get it...the child does have a dad, but what does that mean in the grand scheme of things if dude aint around and you can be??

Break the cycle brah

or like ole boy said before it could continue the cycle, by a dude seeing a dude who is not his father picking up the slack that his father didn't want to, he could think there is a next dude out there that will do the same when he fucks up

NOT if a dude steps in and shows him the importance of having a positive male figure in his life.

c'mon fam lol

ok it shows em that, but doesn't it also show him that if he doesn't someone else will like more dudes out there like the dude that stepped up in his life

 

[damobb2deep]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

because this child would have a positive influence in their life? maybe having a structured family.... maybe the fact that it would further change stereotypes that "men ain't shyt".. you niggas are so selfish.. and you niggas keep acting like there is only one reason for a female to be a single mother... a child is not a "fuck up" or "mistake" all the time..

btw how the fuck are you going to "force" a grown person to do anything? you can't...

the funny thing is you niggas are indirectly perpetuating the stereotypical shyt of broken homes and don't even know it...

because none of you said you wouldn't fuck a woman with kids... just not date... so say you get her pregnant... are you gonna dash out on her? are you going to take care of that child... hopefully most of you would choose the latter... but apparently you still wouldn't date her... but then you would go to the next chick with a child because you have one now... you going to be around her kid now.. now depending on the situation you have a child's mother and father on the outside you have to deal with...

so in the end you have a potential to be "worse off" just smashing a chick with kids then just flat out dating one...

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

CP, why are you going to the far extreme fam?

If taking care of someone else's child stops the cycle of them being irresponsible and doing the same thing their aint shit daddy did to them, then im all for it

There are irresponsible people EVERYWHERE in EVERY SINGLE WALK OF LIFE.

Some are b/c of shitty luck and some are just b/c they have no desire to want anything better

Its like you are viewing taking care of a child that you didnt father as a reward to the mother. Thats backwards fam. If you love the woman on any level other than being intimate with her, how can you NOT have feelings for her child. YES, I get it...the child does have a dad, but what does that mean in the grand scheme of things if dude aint around and you can be??

Break the cycle brah

or like ole boy said before it could continue the cycle, by a dude seeing a dude who is not his father picking up the slack that his father didn't want to, he could think there is a next dude out there that will do the same when he fucks up

NOT if a dude steps in and shows him the importance of having a positive male figure in his life.

c'mon fam lol

ok it shows em that, but doesn't it also show him that if he doesn't someone else will like more dudes out there like the dude that stepped up in his life

Lol my man...

 

[CP203]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

because this child would have a positive influence in their life? maybe having a structured family.... maybe the fact that it would further change stereotypes that "men ain't shyt".. you niggas are so selfish.. and you niggas keep acting like there is only one reason for a female to be a single mother... a child is not a "fuck up" or "mistake" all the time..

btw how the fuck are you going to "force" a grown person to do anything? you can't...

the funny thing is you niggas are indirectly perpetuating the stereotypical shyt of broken homes and don't even know it...

because none of you said you wouldn't fuck a woman with kids... just not date... so say you get her pregnant... are you gonna dash out on her? are you going to take care of that child... hopefully most of you would choose the latter... but apparently you still wouldn't date her... but then you would go to the next chick with a child because you have one now... you going to be around her kid now.. now depending on the situation you have a child's mother and father on the outside you have to deal with...

so in the end you have a potential to be "worse off" just smashing a chick with kids then just flat out dating one...

bruh not once did i say i wouldn't date a chick with kids, i said i wouldn't raise another mans kids just like i wouldn't want another man raising mine

 

[jetlifebih]

Nigga yall acting like the step pops is gon last for ever.....after you go through 2 step parents your outlook on relationships and family changes

 

[damobb2deep]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

because this child would have a positive influence in their life? maybe having a structured family.... maybe the fact that it would further change stereotypes that "men ain't shyt".. you niggas are so selfish.. and you niggas keep acting like there is only one reason for a female to be a single mother... a child is not a "fuck up" or "mistake" all the time..

btw how the fuck are you going to "force" a grown person to do anything? you can't...

the funny thing is you niggas are indirectly perpetuating the stereotypical shyt of broken homes and don't even know it...

because none of you said you wouldn't fuck a woman with kids... just not date... so say you get her pregnant... are you gonna dash out on her? are you going to take care of that child... hopefully most of you would choose the latter... but apparently you still wouldn't date her... but then you would go to the next chick with a child because you have one now... you going to be around her kid now.. now depending on the situation you have a child's mother and father on the outside you have to deal with...

so in the end you have a potential to be "worse off" just smashing a chick with kids then just flat out dating one...

bruh not once did i say i wouldn't date a chick with kids, i said i wouldn't raise another mans kids just like i wouldn't want another man raising mine

That post was in general but now.. so you would date a chick but don't want any part of her child? that post has more meaning to you than you think.. because now you saying if you have a child with her your kid is good but not the child she had before yours... smh

 

[jetlifebih]

So is it worth your child's psychology, to have a relationship or 2 after the biological parent

Pretty selfish of the parent , dudes mom who never remarried gets it.....and that loyalty I'm sure was passed onto the children meanwhile yall wonder why the divorce rate so high and we have mixed family blood lines that blurs our already blurry history

 

[CP203]

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

because this child would have a positive influence in their life? maybe having a structured family.... maybe the fact that it would further change stereotypes that "men ain't shyt".. you niggas are so selfish.. and you niggas keep acting like there is only one reason for a female to be a single mother... a child is not a "fuck up" or "mistake" all the time..

btw how the fuck are you going to "force" a grown person to do anything? you can't...

the funny thing is you niggas are indirectly perpetuating the stereotypical shyt of broken homes and don't even know it...

because none of you said you wouldn't fuck a woman with kids... just not date... so say you get her pregnant... are you gonna dash out on her? are you going to take care of that child... hopefully most of you would choose the latter... but apparently you still wouldn't date her... but then you would go to the next chick with a child because you have one now... you going to be around her kid now.. now depending on the situation you have a child's mother and father on the outside you have to deal with...

so in the end you have a potential to be "worse off" just smashing a chick with kids then just flat out dating one...

bruh not once did i say i wouldn't date a chick with kids, i said i wouldn't raise another mans kids just like i wouldn't want another man raising mine

That post was in general but now.. so you would date a chick but don't want any part of her child? that post has more meaning to you than you think.. because now you saying if you have a child with her your kid is good but not the child she had before yours... smh

explain to me why i should take care of a kid i didn't create