HOW DO U VIEW TRICKING OFF ??

[EmM HoLLa.]

There is a lot of projection going on in here... Believe what you want and do what you want.. However, know that whatever it is that you believe is not the only point of view.

As mentioned already some folks rather pay and skip the BS as opposed to running game/courting a female. Other would rather do the opposite. There is no right or wrong approach. It's just a means to an end..

 

[Shuffington]

Trickin ain't a cheat code. It just exposes the core relationship between men and women. Exchange of resources. Females exchange access to pussy for access to materials and resources.

That's why niggas buy nice shit, to attract females with an explicit or implicit promise that she can partake if she dtf. Niggas don't buy nice clothes or shoes or cars or live in nice places for other niggas. They do it to buy the attention of a select class of females.

Females buy ass and titties or get other niggas to, get on the gram or on the book not for other bitches but to attract the attention of select males who may then buy them more stuff, fly them out, get some cash or be around other select men who will do that and then some. And in their mind all they had to do was give up some pussy. And if one of these females get popped off by one of these men all the better because now she got a 18 year ride or more.

Females been trading off their pussy for ever and a day and niggas been trickin off their resources for pussy.

I think we have different definitions on what "tricking" is..... and with good reason because "tricking" isn't lucid.

Whatever a mans intentions of what he does on his own to build himself up (goes to the gym / buys a nice car / chooses a great career for himself) .... is self vitality ....

With that we have no clear way of knowing exactly what a man will do with his new found status tho.

so to me the below quote is not "tricking"

That's why niggas buy nice shit, to attract females

Tricking is not in the attraction... its in the exchange.

Niggas don't buy nice clothes or shoes or cars or live in nice places for other niggas

They might not buy it for "other n*ggas"... sure but they might buy it for themselves. Theres plenty of things that men spend money on that we can all agree more than likely doesn't involve the desires of women. If you can't name any then maybe that saids more about you then most men...(?)

"tricking" imo is the initial m/f interaction. Its the first and subsequent exchange that involves everything other than getting to know someone on a personal level.

Listen, Im no tricking expert, but I would also argue that your last paragraph isn't exactly tricking either. Women buying tits/ass could be for a multitude of reasons that don't always involve procuring sponsorship..... but when they do procure sponsors then yes... thats "tricking"

 

[konceptjones]

There is a lot of projection going on in here... Believe what you want and do what you want.. However, know that whatever it is that you believe is not the only point of view.

As mentioned already some folks rather pay and skip the BS as opposed to running game/courting a female. Other would rather do the opposite. There is no right or wrong approach. It's just a means to an end..

here's the difference: A cat with a mouthpiece can fuck far more women than a cat with a few dollars. You can't just roll up on a random chick at Target and offer her $200 to smash, but you can roll up on a known "escort" and spit game just right and smash without a dollar coming out your pocket if your game is tough. Money can open doors to broads that are willing to fuck for it directly, your brain and what you spit can open those same doors and then some.

Most of them chick on Backpage/CL got at least one dude that can fall through whenever, eat up the shit in her fridge, and blow her back out and ain't spent na'an dime for the pussy.

Be THAT dude.

 

[rickmogul]

It's just pussy man. Some cats aren't as fortune as some of us 2 look handsome, good gig, no kids etc. He might be a nerd / geek and come across the internet chick of his dreams. Cash that dream in son! U'll wish u did years later. Fuck the World when it truly comes down 2 some shit u wanna do lol. I'd tell I did it and DARE a muthafucka to clown me. One word: Integrity. Alotta folks will shock u if u knew what they did when no1 was looking or around. Maids, Nurses, Managers man everybody gets down someway somehow. Make the world go round. Keep living!

 

[blakfyahking]

There is a lot of projection going on in here... Believe what you want and do what you want.. However, know that whatever it is that you believe is not the only point of view.

As mentioned already some folks rather pay and skip the BS as opposed to running game/courting a female. Other would rather do the opposite. There is no right or wrong approach. It's just a means to an end..

here's the difference: A cat with a mouthpiece can fuck far more women than a cat with a few dollars. You can't just roll up on a random chick at Target and offer her $200 to smash, but you can roll up on a known "escort" and spit game just right and smash without a dollar coming out your pocket if your game is tough. Money can open doors to broads that are willing to fuck for it directly, your brain and what you spit can open those same doors and then some.

Most of them chick on Backpage/CL got at least one dude that can fall through whenever, eat up the shit in her fridge, and blow her back out and ain't spent na'an dime for the pussy.

Be THAT dude.

ironically tho, would u even be willing to smash a random chick at Target who's willing to give it up for $200?

I'm not sure I'd be too eager to smash a regular chick just tossing it up like that, I'd be too skeptical that it's a set up

but at the end of the day, whether a dude got game or not, if he smashed tho then what is the difference? pride? haha

I'm not too concerned about how the next man is getting it

 

[konceptjones]

There is a lot of projection going on in here... Believe what you want and do what you want.. However, know that whatever it is that you believe is not the only point of view.

As mentioned already some folks rather pay and skip the BS as opposed to running game/courting a female. Other would rather do the opposite. There is no right or wrong approach. It's just a means to an end..

here's the difference: A cat with a mouthpiece can fuck far more women than a cat with a few dollars. You can't just roll up on a random chick at Target and offer her $200 to smash, but you can roll up on a known "escort" and spit game just right and smash without a dollar coming out your pocket if your game is tough. Money can open doors to broads that are willing to fuck for it directly, your brain and what you spit can open those same doors and then some.

Most of them chick on Backpage/CL got at least one dude that can fall through whenever, eat up the shit in her fridge, and blow her back out and ain't spent na'an dime for the pussy.

Be THAT dude.

ironically tho, would u even be willing to smash a random chick at Target who's willing to give it up for $200?

I'm not sure I'd be too eager to smash a regular chick just tossing it up like that, I'd be too skeptical that it's a set up

but at the end of the day, whether a dude got game or not, if he smashed tho then what is the difference? pride? haha

I'm not too concerned about how the next man is getting it

that's beside the point. The point I'm making is that trickin only works for chicks open to fuck for money. Every other woman out there is "out of your league" if that's all you got going for yourself.

 

[1800skypager]

There is a lot of projection going on in here... Believe what you want and do what you want.. However, know that whatever it is that you believe is not the only point of view.

As mentioned already some folks rather pay and skip the BS as opposed to running game/courting a female. Other would rather do the opposite. There is no right or wrong approach. It's just a means to an end..

here's the difference: A cat with a mouthpiece can fuck far more women than a cat with a few dollars. You can't just roll up on a random chick at Target and offer her $200 to smash, but you can roll up on a known "escort" and spit game just right and smash without a dollar coming out your pocket if your game is tough. Money can open doors to broads that are willing to fuck for it directly, your brain and what you spit can open those same doors and then some.

Most of them chick on Backpage/CL got at least one dude that can fall through whenever, eat up the shit in her fridge, and blow her back out and ain't spent na'an dime for the pussy.

Be THAT dude.

I know this generation of hoes think bass ackwards, but the chances of you rolling up on a "known" escort and fucking for free are slim to none and slim is out of town. A whore's time costs $ and a good mouthpiece is not going to be a coupon for free pussy, not happening.

The common marriage is nothing more than a trick/hoe relationship in my opinion. You wine and dine a bitch for so long, play house, she only considers marriage after you spend several thousands on TWO rings-engagement and wedding-and then you go to a job mainly to support her and her lifestyle, and if you lose your job or make less money she wants a divorce. Love and marriage have one stipulation, and that is your income. What a joke.

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

There is a lot of projection going on in here... Believe what you want and do what you want.. However, know that whatever it is that you believe is not the only point of view.

As mentioned already some folks rather pay and skip the BS as opposed to running game/courting a female. Other would rather do the opposite. There is no right or wrong approach. It's just a means to an end..

here's the difference: A cat with a mouthpiece can fuck far more women than a cat with a few dollars. You can't just roll up on a random chick at Target and offer her $200 to smash, but you can roll up on a known "escort" and spit game just right and smash without a dollar coming out your pocket if your game is tough. Money can open doors to broads that are willing to fuck for it directly, your brain and what you spit can open those same doors and then some.

Most of them chick on Backpage/CL got at least one dude that can fall through whenever, eat up the shit in her fridge, and blow her back out and ain't spent na'an dime for the pussy.

Be THAT dude.

I think what you're not understanding is that.. Some cats have the mouthpiece but would rather just pay the chick and skip all the theatrics.. Having game is one way to get the pussy.. But that can open u up to things a nigga that's paying for the puss simply doesn't have to deal with.. But I digress..

 

[LordZuko]

Trickin ain't a cheat code. It just exposes the core relationship between men and women. Exchange of resources. Females exchange access to pussy for access to materials and resources.

That's why niggas buy nice shit, to attract females with an explicit or implicit promise that she can partake if she dtf. Niggas don't buy nice clothes or shoes or cars or live in nice places for other niggas. They do it to buy the attention of a select class of females.

Females buy ass and titties or get other niggas to, get on the gram or on the book not for other bitches but to attract the attention of select males who may then buy them more stuff, fly them out, get some cash or be around other select men who will do that and then some. And in their mind all they had to do was give up some pussy. And if one of these females get popped off by one of these men all the better because now she got a 18 year ride or more.

Females been trading off their pussy for ever and a day and niggas been trickin off their resources for pussy.

I think we have different definitions on what "tricking" is..... and with good reason because "tricking" isn't lucid.

Whatever a mans intentions of what he does on his own to build himself up (goes to the gym / buys a nice car / chooses a great career for himself) .... is self vitality ....

With that we have no clear way of knowing exactly what a man will do with his new found status tho.

so to me the below quote is not "tricking"

That's why niggas buy nice shit, to attract females

Tricking is not in the attraction... its in the exchange.

Niggas don't buy nice clothes or shoes or cars or live in nice places for other niggas

They might not buy it for "other n*ggas"... sure but they might buy it for themselves. Theres plenty of things that men spend money on that we can all agree more than likely doesn't involve the desires of women. If you can't name any then maybe that saids more about you then most men...(?)

"tricking" imo is the initial m/f interaction. Its the first and subsequent exchange that involves everything other than getting to know someone on a personal level.

Listen, Im no tricking expert, but I would also argue that your last paragraph isn't exactly tricking either. Women buying tits/ass could be for a multitude of reasons that don't always involve procuring sponsorship..... but when they do procure sponsors then yes... thats "tricking"

Why are you building yourself up? Why do you desire money? Hit the gym? Desire to drive something expensive? You do all these things to draw attention to yourself. Anybody saying otherwise is a goddamn liar.

You're not doing it strictly for yourself, you're doing it to give yourself more options as to potential females you can attract.

Now I'm not gonna call these things tricking because no exchange it made. But you have niggas that have all this and still buying hoes drinks, or making financial overtures on introductions. You drive a nice car, you have a nice car, same goes for the house or clothes and all that. What I am calling tricking it a nigga buying a bitch drinks, dinner, driving her around, moving shit for her. I'm counting tricking off your time along with tricking off your money. You're doing both to attempt to get pussy.

The only time a man should be doing this: buying expensive dinners, driving around, moving shit is when the female on the team already and committed to that contract.

Now you have women who believe that a man should show his financial capabilities so she can know whether she is worth her time and pussy. I have no problem with this. I just have a problem with them taking exceptions to being called hoes. Because truly there is no difference.

 

[blacktux]

This shit got @obnoxiouslyfresh all confused.

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

People define tricking differently, because I honestly am too old to be calling myself dating someone who does not spend any money on me. @_Goldie_ and I spoke about this recently. I do think there is a way of letting people know your worth without downing them and treating them like objects and talking in terms of market value. If I call you up about some new louboutins that I've had my eye on, that should be seen as problematic. But if I can't ameliorate my lifestyle or living standards with what you give me then you are not a trick, just a cheap ass dude who does not deserve my attention because you're not a provider.

Bitch you a whole grown ass woman. Fuck you mean ameliorate YOUR lifestyle with (hypothetical) MY money?

If you can't live within your means while we just talking or dating you definitely can't get the ring. You dont even budget money right.

Yea i could upgrade you while dating but that's no be benefit to me. You upgrading your pussy your head? Nope.

If you stood twenty females composed of legit hoes and just everyday bitches and listened to them talk about relationships and money and men you wouldn't be able to tell the difference.

Wow and I called myself making my little politically correct post in this thread as not to offend any man who may be broke or on the cusp of being broke. Well guess what, Sugah?

The earth is comprised of 3 billion bitches, many of whom do not share my beliefs, for you to split an uber with. And believe me, thankfully, there are men out there who wouldn't dream of going halfsies on dinner and who understand how, at my age, it is unconscionable to be calling myself dating a man who does not spend money on me. What a time to be alive!

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

This shit got @obnoxiouslyfresh all confused.

Wait, what's happening? Did I post in the wrong forum?

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

People define tricking differently, because I honestly am too old to be calling myself dating someone who does not spend any money on me. @_Goldie_ and I spoke about this recently. I do think there is a way of letting people know your worth without downing them and treating them like objects and talking in terms of market value. If I call you up about some new louboutins that I've had my eye on, that should be seen as problematic. But if I can't ameliorate my lifestyle or living standards with what you give me then you are not a trick, just a cheap ass dude who does not deserve my attention because you're not a provider.

Bitch you a whole grown ass woman. Fuck you mean ameliorate YOUR lifestyle with (hypothetical) MY money?

If you can't live within your means while we just talking or dating you definitely can't get the ring. You dont even budget money right.

Yea i could upgrade you while dating but that's no be benefit to me. You upgrading your pussy your head? Nope.

If you stood twenty females composed of legit hoes and just everyday bitches and listened to them talk about relationships and money and men you wouldn't be able to tell the difference.

And another thing... I don't know where you got it in your imagination that I have trouble managing money or that I need someone to subsidize my household. I am 30, with no children, and have owned everything I have since 24. You don't reach that station without being fiscally responsible and my ducks are in a row to the point where I have a sizable safety net and the disposable income to enjoy the things that I desire. The reality is that I happen to be outpacing my counterparts on the socio-economic scale and when a women who has these things expects the same from a prospective suitor, it is because I am smart. In order to build familial wealth one needs to make sure their partner has financial stability as they do. Fortunately, my guy does as well and is also is of the mindset that a man takes care of what is his so BOOM!

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

People define tricking differently, because I honestly am too old to be calling myself dating someone who does not spend any money on me. @_Goldie_ and I spoke about this recently. I do think there is a way of letting people know your worth without downing them and treating them like objects and talking in terms of market value. If I call you up about some new louboutins that I've had my eye on, that should be seen as problematic. But if I can't ameliorate my lifestyle or living standards with what you give me then you are not a trick, just a cheap ass dude who does not deserve my attention because you're not a provider.

Bitch you a whole grown ass woman. Fuck you mean ameliorate YOUR lifestyle with (hypothetical) MY money?

If you can't live within your means while we just talking or dating you definitely can't get the ring. You dont even budget money right.

Yea i could upgrade you while dating but that's no be benefit to me. You upgrading your pussy your head? Nope.

If you stood twenty females composed of legit hoes and just everyday bitches and listened to them talk about relationships and money and men you wouldn't be able to tell the difference.

And another thing... I don't know where you got it in your imagination that I have trouble managing money or that I need someone to subsidize my household. I am 30, with no children, and have owned everything I have since 24. You don't reach that station without being fiscally responsible and my ducks are in a row to the point where I have a sizable safety net and the disposable income to enjoy the things that I desire. The reality is that I happen to be outpacing my counterparts on the socio-economic scale and when a women who has these things expects the same from a prospective suitor, it is because I am smart. In order to build familial wealth one needs to make sure their partner has financial stability as they do. Fortunately, my guy does as well and is also is of the mindset that a man takes care of what is his so BOOM!

You're better than me I woulda kept scrolling.. Only certain cats will understand your POV..

 

[konceptjones]

People define tricking differently, because I honestly am too old to be calling myself dating someone who does not spend any money on me. @_Goldie_ and I spoke about this recently. I do think there is a way of letting people know your worth without downing them and treating them like objects and talking in terms of market value. If I call you up about some new louboutins that I've had my eye on, that should be seen as problematic. But if I can't ameliorate my lifestyle or living standards with what you give me then you are not a trick, just a cheap ass dude who does not deserve my attention because you're not a provider.

Bitch you a whole grown ass woman. Fuck you mean ameliorate YOUR lifestyle with (hypothetical) MY money?

If you can't live within your means while we just talking or dating you definitely can't get the ring. You dont even budget money right.

Yea i could upgrade you while dating but that's no be benefit to me. You upgrading your pussy your head? Nope.

If you stood twenty females composed of legit hoes and just everyday bitches and listened to them talk about relationships and money and men you wouldn't be able to tell the difference.

And another thing... I don't know where you got it in your imagination that I have trouble managing money or that I need someone to subsidize my household. I am 30, with no children, and have owned everything I have since 24. You don't reach that station without being fiscally responsible and my ducks are in a row to the point where I have a sizable safety net and the disposable income to enjoy the things that I desire. The reality is that I happen to be outpacing my counterparts on the socio-economic scale and when a women who has these things expects the same from a prospective suitor, it is because I am smart. In order to build familial wealth one needs to make sure their partner has financial stability as they do. Fortunately, my guy does as well and is also is of the mindset that a man takes care of what is his so BOOM!

but you still buying salad in a bag doe...

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

People define tricking differently, because I honestly am too old to be calling myself dating someone who does not spend any money on me. @_Goldie_ and I spoke about this recently. I do think there is a way of letting people know your worth without downing them and treating them like objects and talking in terms of market value. If I call you up about some new louboutins that I've had my eye on, that should be seen as problematic. But if I can't ameliorate my lifestyle or living standards with what you give me then you are not a trick, just a cheap ass dude who does not deserve my attention because you're not a provider.

Bitch you a whole grown ass woman. Fuck you mean ameliorate YOUR lifestyle with (hypothetical) MY money?

If you can't live within your means while we just talking or dating you definitely can't get the ring. You dont even budget money right.

Yea i could upgrade you while dating but that's no be benefit to me. You upgrading your pussy your head? Nope.

If you stood twenty females composed of legit hoes and just everyday bitches and listened to them talk about relationships and money and men you wouldn't be able to tell the difference.

And another thing... I don't know where you got it in your imagination that I have trouble managing money or that I need someone to subsidize my household. I am 30, with no children, and have owned everything I have since 24. You don't reach that station without being fiscally responsible and my ducks are in a row to the point where I have a sizable safety net and the disposable income to enjoy the things that I desire. The reality is that I happen to be outpacing my counterparts on the socio-economic scale and when a women who has these things expects the same from a prospective suitor, it is because I am smart. In order to build familial wealth one needs to make sure their partner has financial stability as they do. Fortunately, my guy does as well and is also is of the mindset that a man takes care of what is his so BOOM!

but you still buying salad in a bag doe...

Guilty

 

[Shuffington]

Why are you building yourself up? Why do you desire money? Hit the gym? Desire to drive something expensive? You do all these things to draw attention to yourself. Anybody saying otherwise is a goddamn liar.

You're not doing it strictly for yourself, you're doing it to give yourself more options as to potential females you can attract.

• This point is debatable. It depends on the person. Every possible maneuver a dude makes in his life isn't contingent on whether loads of women will give him play in the future. You might hit the gym because you like to compete in sports. You might want a reliable car with a banging sound system. If everything you do is an attempt for adequate female attention... maybe you (not you) are a TRICK.

Now I'm not gonna call these things tricking because no exchange it made.

• Sounds like we agree here. I can't confidently call the lead up to a possible exchange tricking.

If a dude is overt about why he buys things, and the attention of women is his #1 motivation then... maybe he's a "trick"....

What I am calling tricking it a nigga buying a bitch drinks, dinner, driving her around, moving shit for her

• I somewhat agree ... but I would add that the level of the gift has to be almost ridiculously high. Like a dude flying a girl out to Dubai with her friend giving her money to shop .... but knowing that at night he's gonna ram through it with no f*cks given.

 

[rebootx1]

What some might consider tricking others might consider being a man, I'm 40 now and if a woman always begging that's a turn off, I normally date sorta close to my age meaning most women I deal with been grown for at least 10 years, I don't go after women with money but to me u gotta have something, unless I known u for a while and I've known your history of bad luck where u are in the position u r in. I would love to hear more feedback from ladies other than ob seems she gets unjustly prosecuted cus she the only female that post here on a regular basis

 

[Trillfate]

Ob in here like

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

What some might consider tricking others might consider being a man, I'm 40 now and if a woman always begging that's a turn off, I normally date sorta close to my age meaning most women I deal with been grown for at least 10 years, I don't go after women with money but to me u gotta have something, unless I known u for a while and I've known your history of bad luck where u are in the position u r in. I would love to hear more feedback from ladies other than ob seems she gets unjustly prosecuted cus she the only female that post here on a regular basis

I know! I don't even know why I stand for this.