HOW DO U VIEW TRICKING OFF ??

[aneed123]

People define tricking differently, because I honestly am too old to be calling myself dating someone who does not spend any money on me. @_Goldie_ and I spoke about this recently. I do think there is a way of letting people know your worth without downing them and treating them like objects and talking in terms of market value. If I call you up about some new louboutins that I've had my eye on, that should be seen as problematic. But if I can't ameliorate my lifestyle or living standards with what you give me then you are not a trick, just a cheap ass dude who does not deserve my attention because you're not a provider.

But u can buy those shoes urself. I'll buy them for u as a Christmas or B-Day gift if u act right lol.

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

Ob what if a guy really likes u but don't have any money to give, he does stuff like always thinking about u, give u everything he does have, like yall go out and it's gets cold and he gives u his old ass pelle from ten years ago to put over your shoulders, and when it's time to eat he order you something and he say he already ate, and his main goal is to make sure u straight

The bold is too adorable :blush:

But no. I couldn't afford to deal with him today. In my 20s... sure I could, because I had the luxury of time on my side. Dont get me wrong. A man that is about his and doing what 's he's supposed to that temporarily falls on hard times is different than a man that lacks ambition and is lazy and just doesn't have any money. A successful person will not stay in the slumps long, because it is not where they belong.

 

[konceptjones]

From what I'm seeing most women at least want you to claim them before fucking them, that could be costly as she might deflect your primary goal=wifey material. U might have much game and hit but if there is a understand able agreement then that avoid conflict. Side prices don't know their part anymore that's why I'm making this thread, also been seeing some relationships end bad where children and money r split like a fuckin board game, look at ti, and tiny I know this ain't going be smoothe sailing what they fina go through.

you mean to tell me you ain't never fucked a broad within at least an hour of meeting her??? Never met a chick at the club or whatever, said some sweet shit in her ear and 10 minutes later you blowin her back out in the ride???

... 'cause I sure the fuck have... quite a few times. Hell I used to fuck hoes in less time back in them dial-up AOL days just on the strength of my chat room game. My roommates used to bug out over it 'cause I'd show them the convos and be like "watch this shit, I'mma tell her to fall through" and 30 minutes later I got a broad knockin at the door. Been days where I was shootin the shit with the dudes at the liquor store and spit game at some broad that walked through the door and and up with my dick in her jaw that night.

Broads don't need or want you to claim shit... well... maybe they tell you that, but a cat spittin at her right can fuck without alladat.

 

[Lefty_]

You payin one way or another, this I know. Time is money, and the luxuries and material items of the world are nothing more than having better "bait" than the next fisherman. Some men just prefer to cut to the chase and just pay to move up in line. I'm not that man, chalk it up to pride.

 

[rebootx1]

I guess I'm speaking from a different position in my life, I work alot and need time to be by myself to deal with this world, I don't really feel like spitting game anymore, sometimes it takes more time than expected, I have spit to a female before in my life and been fucking in like 20 or 30 minutes but more than often people want see what u on before they let u hit like what u got going for yourself

 

[Lefty_]

I guess I'm speaking from a different position in my life, I work alot and need time to be by myself to deal with this world, I don't really feel like spitting game anymore, sometimes it takes more time than expected, I have spit to a female before in my life and been fucking in like 20 or 30 minutes but more than often people want see what u on before they let u hit like what u got going for yourself

You better chill out wit them given away biscuits.

 

[zzombie]

In my adult life I've only ever been concerned with looking for a wife or steady girlfriend therefore i see the money i spend on them as a down payment on an investment and not tricking.

i've always considered men who chase whores or gold diggers to be either weak or dumb.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

I had that argument with a friend months ago. He was boasting about being a chaser, paying dinners and spending time on the phone with them.

I told him that i dont have time to waist PLAYING COMEDY with women for puss. I rather go to swinger clubs and saunas, where you find DOWN TO FUCK WOMEN and play my part there.

But i wont waist all this time and money to lie for puss. Especially in our days.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

That shit is another proof that hypocrisy and lieing lead you nowhere.

Lots of people have lost a lot of potential / money in datings for sex.

 

[konceptjones]

You payin one way or another, this I know. Time is money, and the luxuries and material items of the world are nothing more than having better "bait" than the next fisherman. Some men just prefer to cut to the chase and just pay to move up in line. I'm not that man, chalk it up to pride.

if a dude can't pull hoes wearing some raggedy ass shit lookin tired like you just got done pullin a double at the plant with Shaq's on your feet and a tired ass Starter hat you been rockin since Jazzy Jeff told you crease the hat steppin out a '91 Escort with 3 different tires and mismatched hubcaps on it with straight AM/FM radio then please, by all means, spend money to get pussy.

Shit ain't for me but I get that every cat out here ain't built like that.

 

[rebootx1]

Yeah but while you spending on them with dinners and shit she fucking somebody more than likely, then after doing all that u find out u not for her I'd be passed like ask for my money back at least if u just out right pay u get the ppussy she get the money there's no miscommunication

 

[playmaker88]

not my bag and it kinda of spoils the crop.. gotta change the way we raise our sons/daughters and raise the expectation of people characters instead of monetary value but... ....niggas gonna nig

 

[aneed123]

In my adult life I've only ever been concerned with looking for a wife or steady girlfriend therefore i see the money i spend on them as a down payment on an investment and not tricking.

i've always considered men who chase whores or gold diggers to be either weak or dumb.

This is not tricking it's a difference. U ain't just buy ur ole lady

 

[texas409]

In the light of everyone getting divorce and breaking up is it really bad to trick off, master p gotta pay his wife 30,000 a month after their break. It's not tricking pay them to leave.

cats with game can talk any broad outta the pussy. I guess if you're a game-less chump your only choice is to pay for pussy.

this

 

[aneed123]

The world fucked up tho. U can be courting the girl u like taking ur time talking on the phone daily or even tricking.... all while u doing this age fucking the next nigga she really wants. Ain't no rule/playbook to this shit for real .... just shit that makes our ego feel better.

 

[konceptjones]

Yeah but while you spending on them with dinners and shit she fucking somebody more than likely, then after doing all that u find out u not for her I'd be passed like ask for my money back at least if u just out right pay u get the ppussy she get the money there's no miscommunication

who talkin about dinner??? Talk a chick out them drawls before it gets to that. I gotta try before I buy. Fuck I look like takin a broad out to dinner and shit and later find out the head is wack and she lays there like a dead bug when we fuckin?

Nah b, try before you buy outchea.

 

[Lefty_]

You payin one way or another, this I know. Time is money, and the luxuries and material items of the world are nothing more than having better "bait" than the next fisherman. Some men just prefer to cut to the chase and just pay to move up in line. I'm not that man, chalk it up to pride.

if a dude can't pull hoes wearing some raggedy ass shit lookin tired like you just got done pullin a double at the plant with Shaq's on your feet and a tired ass Starter hat you been rockin since Jazzy Jeff told you crease the hat steppin out a '91 Escort with 3 different tires and mismatched hubcaps on it with straight AM/FM radio then please, by all means, spend money to get pussy.

Shit ain't for me but I get that every cat out here ain't built like that.

I pull em off the aura, not off the game. I never had that shit, some of the homies be havin em on a string wit the gab, and that's dope to me. But that quiet nigga in the corner swag been workin for me my whole life. Nigga gotta know who he is. I speak without speaking lol.

 

[Shuffington]

Tricking is kinda like a cheat code that goes against our "normal" way of male female engagement.

You can almost say that tricking in some form or another is "corruption" because it taints the normal "perceived" way men and women interact.

When your first maneuver is to overtly introduce a woman (in this scenario) to a shiny object / before you get to know them on a personal level, You can argue that the foundation for any relationship going forward has been corrupted

because the precedent has been set.

I believe they're 2 people who hate those that trick off on women:

•those who don't have enough money to participate in the undertaking and they deeply want to.

•those who are disgusted with the idea of an overt exchange of material possessions to captivate ones attention and secure their loyalty

is it "Bad" ? ....

....would you encourage it?.... might be the answer to that

 

[LordZuko]

People define tricking differently, because I honestly am too old to be calling myself dating someone who does not spend any money on me. @_Goldie_ and I spoke about this recently. I do think there is a way of letting people know your worth without downing them and treating them like objects and talking in terms of market value. If I call you up about some new louboutins that I've had my eye on, that should be seen as problematic. But if I can't ameliorate my lifestyle or living standards with what you give me then you are not a trick, just a cheap ass dude who does not deserve my attention because you're not a provider.

Bitch you a whole grown ass woman. Fuck you mean ameliorate YOUR lifestyle with (hypothetical) MY money?

If you can't live within your means while we just talking or dating you definitely can't get the ring. You dont even budget money right.

Yea i could upgrade you while dating but that's no be benefit to me. You upgrading your pussy your head? Nope.

If you stood twenty females composed of legit hoes and just everyday bitches and listened to them talk about relationships and money and men you wouldn't be able to tell the difference.

 

[LordZuko]

Tricking is kinda like a cheat code that goes against our "normal" way of male female engagement.

You can almost say that tricking in some form or another is "corruption" because it taints the normal "perceived" way men and women interact.

When your first maneuver is to overtly introduce a woman (in this scenario) to a shiny object / before you get to know them on a personal level, You can argue that the foundation for any relationship going forward has been corrupted

because the precedent has been set.

I believe they're 2 people who hate those that trick off on women:

•those who don't have enough money to participate in the undertaking and they deeply want to.

•those who are disgusted with the idea of an overt exchange of material possessions to captivate ones attention and secure their loyalty

is it "Bad" ? ....

....would you encourage it?.... might be the answer to that

Trickin ain't a cheat code. It just exposes the core relationship between men and women. Exchange of resources. Females exchange access to pussy for access to materials and resources.

That's why niggas buy nice shit, to attract females with an explicit or implicit promise that she can partake if she dtf. Niggas don't buy nice clothes or shoes or cars or live in nice places for other niggas. They do it to buy the attention of a select class of females.

Females buy ass and titties or get other niggas to, get on the gram or on the book not for other bitches but to attract the attention of select males who may then buy them more stuff, fly them out, get some cash or be around other select men who will do that and then some. And in their mind all they had to do was give up some pussy. And if one of these females get popped off by one of these men all the better because now she got a 18 year ride or more.

Females been trading off their pussy for ever and a day and niggas been trickin off their resources for pussy.