Have you been Drained of True Emotion?

[BiblicalAtheist]

I'm not emotionally dead, I'd just rather use my head than my heart.

 

[Will Munny]

ive never really loved at all before, but I feel emotions when and stuff when I watch dramatic sports movies and stuff if that counts.

 

[deadeye]

@MzGrahamBitches

What inspired this thread Kathryn?

Something you're going through right now?

In response to your thread, however, I don't think I'm "drained" of emotion.

It's just that certain things don't really seem to faze me like they used to.

 

[1of1]

i have been told since i was a teenager, that i have no emotions my mom put me in therapy for it,my wife tells me damn near the same thing she says i'm very cold, no reason i can think of for why i'm that, i just am, and i'm finally starting to realize it after what i said to my mom after she tried to guilt trip into doing some shit for her, i had to tell her i didn't ask her to give birth to me, she made the decision to

Just judging from your unique relationship, I would say this is true of you, but you say you don't know how you became this way?

i really think i was born this way, my mom is always saying they switched me at the hospital because there is no way her child could lack emotion like me, when my brother died didn't cry, when my sister died didn't cry, when my grandfather died didn't cry, when my kids were born it was whatever,that's just how i am

And when the Packers lose you throw fits. Damn, you care more about the cheese heads and the $$$ you bet on them than your own family. Shit some of that $$$ you're betting is the reward for their hard work right? Born with a silver spoon and a wooden heart.

 

[Kat]

@MzGrahamBitches

What inspired this thread Kathryn?

Something you're going through right now?

In response to your thread, however, I don't think I'm "drained" of emotion.

It's just that certain things don't really seem to faze me like they used to.

Yeah I guess so.

I know my boyfriend is older and has definitely been through some shit in his years and I feel it started in his childhood, but sometimes I feel like he is incapable of truly loving, or maybe he's just truly incapable of putting himself out there to love.

I struggle with this myself at times, but one thing I can say..I may have had my fun, but it hasn't been often that I've given my heart to someone, so for me personally to express my love is huge. I think he's beyond that and I believe life and his decisions in love are to blame.

I think you get so jaded that love begins to take on a whole new meaning.

Or maybe he's just incapable of truly loving me...hell I don't know.

Maybe it's true when they say first love is the only true love.

 

[blackrain]

Yeah I am. I don't waste emotions on shit that's not worth my time or energy so I have no problem expressing emotions towards some shit that actually matters if I feel it's needed at that moment. I can be closed off, but not as closed off as most people would tell you I am. I don't ever want to become jaded to the point I don't feel or struggle to feel emotions. That's not a good point to be at

 

[1of1]

My first memory was my pops punching my mom.

So yeah I'm not real emotional.

What type of punch did he throw and where did he hit her?

2nd question: Did you witness this from the womb?

 

[deadeye]

@MzGrahamBitches

What inspired this thread Kathryn?

Something you're going through right now?

In response to your thread, however, I don't think I'm "drained" of emotion.

It's just that certain things don't really seem to faze me like they used to.

Yeah I guess so.

I know my boyfriend is older and has definitely been through some shit in his years and I feel it started in his childhood, but sometimes I feel like he is incapable of truly loving, or maybe he's just truly incapable of putting himself out there to love.

I struggle with this myself at times, but one thing I can say..I may have had my fun, but it hasn't been often that I've given my heart to someone, so for me personally to express my love is huge. I think he's beyond that and I believe life and his decisions in love are to blame.

I think you get so jaded that love begins to take on a whole new meaning.

Or maybe he's just incapable of truly loving me...hell I don't know.

Maybe it's true when they say first love is the only true love.

Have you talked to him about this?

If so, how did he react/respond?

He could be holding back because he's unsure of how you truly feel about him.

Combined with the bad experience he had with his ex/babymoms, he might just be playing it safe so that he doesn't have to go through anything like that again.

 

[Dupac]

those closest to me say i'm full of emotions.. those not think i'm a cold hearted bastard...

i think that's how it's supposed to be...

 

[CP203]

i have been told since i was a teenager, that i have no emotions my mom put me in therapy for it,my wife tells me damn near the same thing she says i'm very cold, no reason i can think of for why i'm that, i just am, and i'm finally starting to realize it after what i said to my mom after she tried to guilt trip into doing some shit for her, i had to tell her i didn't ask her to give birth to me, she made the decision to

Just judging from your unique relationship, I would say this is true of you, but you say you don't know how you became this way?

i really think i was born this way, my mom is always saying they switched me at the hospital because there is no way her child could lack emotion like me, when my brother died didn't cry, when my sister died didn't cry, when my grandfather died didn't cry, when my kids were born it was whatever,that's just how i am

And when the Packers lose you throw fits. Damn, you care more about the cheese heads and the $$$ you bet on them than your own family. Shit some of that $$$ you're betting is the reward for their hard work right? Born with a silver spoon and a wooden heart.

LOL i do get mad over sports, i do care about my family i love em, but what is crying gonna do nothing

 

[Kat]

@MzGrahamBitches

What inspired this thread Kathryn?

Something you're going through right now?

In response to your thread, however, I don't think I'm "drained" of emotion.

It's just that certain things don't really seem to faze me like they used to.

Yeah I guess so.

I know my boyfriend is older and has definitely been through some shit in his years and I feel it started in his childhood, but sometimes I feel like he is incapable of truly loving, or maybe he's just truly incapable of putting himself out there to love.

I struggle with this myself at times, but one thing I can say..I may have had my fun, but it hasn't been often that I've given my heart to someone, so for me personally to express my love is huge. I think he's beyond that and I believe life and his decisions in love are to blame.

I think you get so jaded that love begins to take on a whole new meaning.

Or maybe he's just incapable of truly loving me...hell I don't know.

Maybe it's true when they say first love is the only true love.

Have you talked to him about this?

If so, how did he react/respond?

He could be holding back because he's unsure of how you truly feel about him.



Combined with the bad experience he had with his ex/babymoms, he might just be playing it safe so that he doesn't have to go through anything like that again.

Nah man, I'm not trying to have him feeling like I'm psychoanalyzing him, but I don't disagree with you on the bolded.

These are things that are in my head though and will be discussed at some point before we have to resign any lease.

I can be loveless as a single woman...but then again, I can be dramatic so I might be reading too much into things.

 

[black caesar]

@MzGrahamBitches

What inspired this thread Kathryn?

Something you're going through right now?

In response to your thread, however, I don't think I'm "drained" of emotion.

It's just that certain things don't really seem to faze me like they used to.

Yeah I guess so.

I know my boyfriend is older and has definitely been through some shit in his years and I feel it started in his childhood, but sometimes I feel like he is incapable of truly loving, or maybe he's just truly incapable of putting himself out there to love.

I struggle with this myself at times, but one thing I can say..I may have had my fun, but it hasn't been often that I've given my heart to someone, so for me personally to express my love is huge. I think he's beyond that and I believe life and his decisions in love are to blame.

I think you get so jaded that love begins to take on a whole new meaning.

Or maybe he's just incapable of truly loving me...hell I don't know.

Maybe it's true when they say first love is the only true love.

Have you talked to him about this?

If so, how did he react/respond?

He could be holding back because he's unsure of how you truly feel about him.



Combined with the bad experience he had with his ex/babymoms, he might just be playing it safe so that he doesn't have to go through anything like that again.

Nah man, I'm not trying to have him feeling like I'm psychoanalyzing him, but I don't disagree with you on the bolded.

These are things that are in my head though and will be discussed at some point before we have to resign any lease.

I can be loveless as a single woman...but then again, I can be dramatic so I might be reading too much into things.

@MzGrahamBitches

What inspired this thread Kathryn?

Something you're going through right now?

In response to your thread, however, I don't think I'm "drained" of emotion.

It's just that certain things don't really seem to faze me like they used to.

Yeah I guess so.

I know my boyfriend is older and has definitely been through some shit in his years and I feel it started in his childhood, but sometimes I feel like he is incapable of truly loving, or maybe he's just truly incapable of putting himself out there to love.

I struggle with this myself at times, but one thing I can say..I may have had my fun, but it hasn't been often that I've given my heart to someone, so for me personally to express my love is huge. I think he's beyond that and I believe life and his decisions in love are to blame.

I think you get so jaded that love begins to take on a whole new meaning.

Or maybe he's just incapable of truly loving me...hell I don't know.

Maybe it's true when they say first love is the only true love.

Have you talked to him about this?

If so, how did he react/respond?

He could be holding back because he's unsure of how you truly feel about him.



Combined with the bad experience he had with his ex/babymoms, he might just be playing it safe so that he doesn't have to go through anything like that again.

Nah man, I'm not trying to have him feeling like I'm psychoanalyzing him, but I don't disagree with you on the bolded.

These are things that are in my head though and will be discussed at some point before we have to resign any lease.

I can be loveless as a single woman...but then again, I can be dramatic so I might be reading too much into things.

Ok, you should talk to him, because people like that have a wall, and they want to see who cares enough to tear it down.

 

[Dupac]

those closest to me say i'm full of emotions.. those not think i'm a cold hearted bastard...

i think that's how it's supposed to be...

you must be a Capricorn

nope a LEO...i love my family and my close friends... but i have little to no concern for anyone else...

 

[black caesar]

those closest to me say i'm full of emotions.. those not think i'm a cold hearted bastard...

i think that's how it's supposed to be...

you must be a Capricorn

I'm a Capricorn, but why do you think this is strictly to Caps?

 

[Kat]

Jacking for my FB.

 

[twatgetta]

I'll still open the door for some good cut.

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

I don't have any close relationships whatsoever, so that makes it hard to display emotions.

 

[haute]

no I can still feel things deeply

I've had heartaches but I chalk it up to life being what life is

But has that realization affected how you love in your current relationships?

oh yea

I have the patience of 1,000 dalai lamas because of it

I don't let the petty shit get in the way any more

 

[GettinLo]

Emotions, Smotions...

 

[twatgetta]

nah, hell nah. we all been hurt, fucked over, and did dirty by somebody somewhere along the line. if it hasn't happened already it will. the person who don't run from their heart after it's been broken shows who truly has courage and heart.

WTF is this shit.

I hate people like that happy go lucky i shit sunshine out my ass shit grin talking mother fuckers.

it's ok to still be hurt. man tf up and get over whatever it was tho. you got a heart for a reason, fuckin use it.

I rather not i care for family to a point.

But to be real heart for what? I seen how some of you dudes get played and i seen it in real life.

I be dame if im go around loving some chick just to end up the laughing stock of the town because mad niggas fuck her or still fucking her.

There use to be a thread on here that went over 100 pages about how women destroyed niggas souls.

I was about 17 reading that shit best believe i learned fast. Let be real caring for you're family is okay at times but for anyone or anything else it just make you weak.

It's a word for people like you, they're called Sociopaths.