Have you been Drained of True Emotion?

[bignorm]

Great thread.

I can honestly say, tho im not incapable of emotions,

i will not willingly let any woman close enough to me ever again,

where if she shits on me, that it fucks with who i am.

Its usually that shit that causes men especially to pull back.

so yeah, i love my wife, but she dont get that unedited fully free love,

if that makes sense.

It aint about her tho, no one can get that, cuz when you put yourself all the

way out there like that, and it dont go right,

Its like that team building excercise where you fall down blindfolded and your team

catches you.

Do that and the team lets you fall.

You aint doing that again lol.

 

[J-GUTTA]

Its good to see people out here are just as fucked up as I am. I've personally shared my story with you Kat and I can say I emotionally drained beyound belief yo.

Do you feel like her actions are the norm though? Like would that situation keep you from loving another woman and FULLY loving by putting your heart in a vulnerable spot?

Her actions were fucked up period. But unlike many do I dont blame women as a whole I know it was/is 1 individual that continues to do me wrong. People here know me here IRL I keep it moving. I'm not looking for no relationship and don't want one. I sleep around period. Because at the end when my kids come back in my life my focus is them because they are so young. It would be unfair for me to involve someone in that situation. Why because right now I can take the red eye back to NY just to rock out on a Friday living that bachelor life but once I get my kids back it's them yo my focus.

 

[Go figure]

Definitely not emotionless even tho shit got crazy recently in my life. Like fiat said something to the effect of, about not chasing happiness. IMO it will leave u disappointed most of the time. I more so just enjoy life as it comes. U have bad days and good days. The way I see it is I rather be content. Getting thru fucked up shit makes u more appreciative when u get urself out of it. Those who don't move on let their feelings get the best of them.

 

[Billy_Poncho]

I don't care about much of anything when I'm sleepy besides what can get me back to sleep quickest. I could get horrible news and I'll be like, "Shit aight get some tape, you good..."

 

[jono]

Totally jaded, damn near beyond repair. I don't even bother trying to "emote" that don't mean I don't feel it, I just don't show it.

 

[buttuh_b]

The human brain is mad interesting b.

 

[Splackavelli]

@MzGrahambitches i'm not trolling I was only being honest.

 

[Splackavelli]

LOL@emotion.

 

[bull6599]

Ehh...I guess. I think I'm capable of emotion even though I've been accused of being emotionless & cold. I just naturally have a nonchalant demeanor ( I get it from my pops...which prolly part if the reason he's been divorced 2x). Not a lot gets me upset unless it affects my plans or goals directly.

 

[LPast]

Are yall serious? Shit is depressing. How old are y'all?

I often wonder if I will become like this. I doubt it. But nothing is impossible.

Sounds like yall rode high highs...fell and are afraid to go back there. Learn to enjoy and maintain. Be happy and don't depend on others to make you happy.

I think some of y'alls ish is linked drug use...

 

[mz.d.meaner]

i have no emotion's due to failed ''friendships'', their fake, and losing loved ones, [death]

 

[Kat]

The human brain is mad interesting b.

Agreed

Are yall serious? Shit is depressing. How old are y'all?

I often wonder if I will become like this. I doubt it. But nothing is impossible.

Sounds like yall rode high highs...fell and are afraid to go back there. Learn to enjoy and maintain. Be happy and don't depend on others to make you happy.

I think some of y'alls ish is linked drug use...

How old are you?

 

[LPast]

Thsomee human brain is mad interesting b.

Agreed

Are yall serious? Shit is depressing. How old are y'all?

I often wonder if I will become like this. I doubt it. But nothing is impossible.

Sounds like yall rode high highs...fell and are afraid to go back there. Learn to enjoy and maintain. Be happy and don't depend on others to make you happy.

I think some of y'alls ish is linked drug use...

How old are you?

25, Its crazy to me cause I see older coworkers saying depressing shit.

One of them is probably my age about to get married and the older fat dude chimes in with some depressing shit...

Another one talks about his ex wife from 1996.... but talks about it like it like it was in 2006...

I just use them of examples of what to avoid.

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

my mother used to always tell me don't let what people do to you change who you are. i took that to mean as don't ever let life get you so jaded that you stop being you

sure it sucks when a relationship doesn't work out. but i like to stay positive. i look at like, statistically, my chances have to be better the next time around. no matter what happens, i will continue to love earnestly in the same manner.

cuz not only is it not fair to a new partner to bring your baggage and hang-ups into a new relationship, it;s not fair to you cuz you maybe ruining a good thing before it can even get off the ground

so i just throw myself into it again, i'm just as trusting, just as affectionate, just as loving as i've always been. i like being that person, and i'd never let someone doing me wrong change that.

yeah thats easy for you to say tho when you have what one failed relationship? and then go on to marry your "soulmate" who you paint to be perfect. But for somebody who might've had multiple failed relationships, i'd imagine its impossible to be "just as trusting, just as affectionate, just as loving" as you've always been. After a while a lot ppl just dont got the energy to deal with that shyt..