GnS Social Debate 2016: Your lady wants a personal trainer

[DNB1]

Lol this guy @S2J is still trying tell me I'm not with my woman after I told him we been going for 20 years...

Hilarious.

 

[LUClEN]

What kind of idiot needs a trainer

Just go and lift the fucking weights

 

[Peace_79]

You still not listening, bruh.

I am trusting my girl to not only refrain from cheating ... But to also NOT entertain advances, flirt with the dude that is training her, or participate in similar fuckery.

I expect her trainer to be a professional ...

Nothing more, nothing less

If he can't do that, then he won't be her trainer.

It ain't rocket science, man.

Im not bein a asshole here, real talk. But @ the bolded what does that even mean. You have no say in the matter. lol You either fine with it completely and trust your girl completely or you not comfortable with it. Bc you are not there. And an unprofessional vs professional trainer is just laughable.

But yea, the fact you'd be worried about how professional the trainer would be KINDA sounds like you'd be a little...uncomfortable *shrug*

We just looking at two sides of the same coin.

You right .... I have no say in HIS behavior.

But I do implicitly trust HER behavior.

That's what y'all don't seem to get. She is not a mindless zombie of hormones.

She is a confident woman who constantly deals with male attention and knows how to conduct herself if that attention goes overboard.

I guess we'll just agree to disagree, through.

 

[xxCivicxx]

I work out so thats a insult

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

Using the bible to fall back on is why the catholic church is still active.

The flesh is not weak, you are just selfish.

The Graveyard proves the flesh is weak.

You don't have a remedy for death apart from Yeshua.

Yes, every man at his best state is all together vanity! Our days are as grass: as a flower of the field, so we flourisheth. But when the wind passes over us we are gone, and the place thereof shall know it no more. But the mercy of the LORD is from everlasting to everlasting upon ALL THOSE that fear him, and his righteousness unto children's children; To such as keep his covenant, and to those that remember his commandments to do them.

But do you know the LORD today? That is the question!

Amen.

Whoever wields a holybook to instill FEAR AND DOUBT and JUDGMENT to people is not to be trusted at all.

Thats why people are out of churches and mosqes.

Fuck your Graveyard pick.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

Niggas wanna keep the 'i give no fucks, ever, about anything ' mentality, but they WIFED the broad. With all this scattered ass out here---you WIFED her. So you care. Cut the shit.

@dnb1 didnt u lose your chick champ? Your mic is off on this matter

Bruh, been holding it down near on twenty years and if she went gym tomorrow and had a PT, I have no doubt in my mind he would try it with her...

I'm still not giving a fuck...the shit happens every time she leaves the house...even food shopping with my kids...*shrugs

Bruh she gon be by my side when I die and vice versa...no matter my many transgressions. She know what's real.

I encourage you all to find a woman that offers you the same confidence.

You really will find such issues insignificant. To the point that if she did do it...then bruh at the gym really did you a favour.

To switch it up tho, I really feel like niggas feel like they own their woman to the point she can't go gym and be open to temptation.

What's next, yo woman can't wear a bikini on the beach?

Cause trust me, when I'm with wifey on the beach and she in a bikini...I'm still gon be looking at yo wife in a bikini and I might even imagine what her pussy look like...that gonna burn ya feelings?

Cause niggas try it wit yo girl everyday, in the gym, at the bus stop, when she pumping gas...

She has more temptation than what your brain wants you to believe.

It's almost like some niggas really think their chick is that damn easy to pull. If all it takes is a little attention from a personal trainer to get her then imagine what she does for lunch nigga that brings her extra sauce for her food lol

I was about to say to these niggas, don't let wifey work in a office if you feeling that concerned.

Lmao...niggas just don't know.

Bruh

Workplace

Bus stop

Streets

Gas stations

People at the gym

People at the beatch

People at the mall

People at the wedding ceremony

People in the elevator

Simping are situations where YOU DONT HAVE THE CONTROL OVER THEIR BEHAVIOR.

Whereas CHOOSING A TRAINER IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT!!!

WHY on earth being that COMPLICATED and picking somebody of the opposite sex or gay?

Where is the logic?

Its trying too hard imo

Its being overconfident. There are laws of nature we are obeying to.

Do you let your woman sleep with your invited friend in your bed cause you trust her and if she cheats then she wasnt for you?

Close dancing

Training

Are situations who can make you lose control when all the elements are aligned

Your mood

Your current relationship situatation

Your sexual satisfaction level

Your financial situation

Your psychological situation

Your age

Your health status

Your taste about men and women

Once again im not talking about falling in love, its all about FEELING TOO CONFIDENT ABOUT ONESELF THEN LOSING CONTROL.

 

[So ILL]

I can be a personal trainer on the low. I'm trying to get in shape, we can workout together. If she still wants to go get a "real" personal trainer, I can be petty and do the same shit. I'll run up, chopping it up with these two

and she bet not say nothinnnnng. I tried to be a friend, motherfucker lol.

 

[Mr. Insignificant]

I could give two shits.....if you paranoid.....you are probably with the wrong person.....or YOU arethe wong person!

 

[Trollio]

Yo bitch go to the gym religiously only to fuck chubby Niggas in taco bell parking lots

Y'all Niggas insecure

 

[S2J]

Spinoff:

The gym is just too crowded. Yall known how Mondays be. Her trainer has a gym no one uses in his apt complex. 1 on 1, no distractions. No extra charge. You ok with that?

This was a LEGIT question about a believable situation. I was a lil bs trainer out of my building and know plenty of dudes who do the same

These allegee 'idgaf' niggas avoided this question like the plague.

 

[blackrain]

Spinoff:

The gym is just too crowded. Yall known how Mondays be. Her trainer has a gym no one uses in his apt complex. 1 on 1, no distractions. No extra charge. You ok with that?

This was a LEGIT question about a believable situation. I was a lil bs trainer out of my building and know plenty of dudes who do the same

These allegee 'idgaf' niggas avoided this question like the plague.

You also seem to be avoiding the fact that women can and do say no and all don't fall for that shit...that's what you seem to be missing. Its like some of y'all pretend to entertain the fact that a woman will turn you down, ain't a smut, and ain't naive enough to be played

 

[S2J]

Spinoff:

The gym is just too crowded. Yall known how Mondays be. Her trainer has a gym no one uses in his apt complex. 1 on 1, no distractions. No extra charge. You ok with that?

This was a LEGIT question about a believable situation. I was a lil bs trainer out of my building and know plenty of dudes who do the same

These allegee 'idgaf' niggas avoided this question like the plague.

You also seem to be avoiding the fact that women can and do say no and all don't fall for that shit...that's what you seem to be missing. Its like some of y'all pretend to entertain the fact that a woman will turn you down, ain't a smut, and ain't naive enough to be played

Ni-ggaaaaa. Enough. We are having a REAL discussion about YOUR comfort level. As a man. So whether or not a woman would ever act on anything has nothing to do with YOUR comfort.

I.e. if u out n about and a nigga is eyeballin ya girl like u not even there, you will feel some type of way, and it has nothing to do with whether she will 'cheat'. You will feel uncomfortable. While simultaneously having 0 fear of her cheating.

Is it registering, damn lls

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

Spinoff:

The gym is just too crowded. Yall known how Mondays be. Her trainer has a gym no one uses in his apt complex. 1 on 1, no distractions. No extra charge. You ok with that?

This was a LEGIT question about a believable situation. I was a lil bs trainer out of my building and know plenty of dudes who do the same

These allegee 'idgaf' niggas avoided this question like the plague.

You also seem to be avoiding the fact that women can and do say no and all don't fall for that shit...that's what you seem to be missing. Its like some of y'all pretend to entertain the fact that a woman will turn you down, ain't a smut, and ain't naive enough to be played

Ni-ggaaaaa. Enough. We are having a REAL discussion about YOUR comfort level. As a man. So whether or not a woman would ever act on anything has nothing to do with YOUR comfort.

I.e. if u out n about and a nigga is eyeballin ya girl like u not even there, you will feel some type of way, and it has nothing to do with whether she will 'cheat'. You will feel uncomfortable. While simultaneously having 0 fear of her cheating.

Is it registering, damn lls

I think many of them are saying they wouldn't be uncomfortable with their woman having a male personal trainer.

 

[DoUwant2go2Heaven]

Using the bible to fall back on is why the catholic church is still active.

The flesh is not weak, you are just selfish.

The Graveyard proves the flesh is weak.

You don't have a remedy for death apart from Yeshua.

Yes, every man at his best state is all together vanity! Our days are as grass: as a flower of the field, so we flourisheth. But when the wind passes over us we are gone, and the place thereof shall know it no more. But the mercy of the LORD is from everlasting to everlasting upon ALL THOSE that fear him, and his righteousness unto children's children; To such as keep his covenant, and to those that remember his commandments to do them.

But do you know the LORD today? That is the question!

Amen.

Whoever wields a holybook to instill FEAR AND DOUBT and JUDGMENT to people is not to be trusted at all.

Thats why people are out of churches and mosqes.

Fuck your Graveyard pick.

1. Nothing to fear when you know the LORD Jesus Christ. So the question is do you know Him?

2. Nothing to doubt when you know the LORD Jesus Christ. So the question is do you know Him?

3. If you would judge yourself, you would not be judged. Thus the question is do you know Him?

Therefore THUS SAITH THE LORD:



"Turn to Me and be saved, all the ends of the earth; For I am God, and there is no other." Isaiah 45:22

Do you know Him?

 

[R.D.]

Spinoff:

The gym is just too crowded. Yall known how Mondays be. Her trainer has a gym no one uses in his apt complex. 1 on 1, no distractions. No extra charge. You ok with that?

This was a LEGIT question about a believable situation. I was a lil bs trainer out of my building and know plenty of dudes who do the same

These allegee 'idgaf' niggas avoided this question like the plague.

You also seem to be avoiding the fact that women can and do say no and all don't fall for that shit...that's what you seem to be missing. Its like some of y'all pretend to entertain the fact that a woman will turn you down, ain't a smut, and ain't naive enough to be played

Ni-ggaaaaa. Enough. We are having a REAL discussion about YOUR comfort level. As a man. So whether or not a woman would ever act on anything has nothing to do with YOUR comfort.

I.e. if u out n about and a nigga is eyeballin ya girl like u not even there, you will feel some type of way, and it has nothing to do with whether she will 'cheat'. You will feel uncomfortable. While simultaneously having 0 fear of her cheating.

Is it registering, damn lls

I think many of them are saying they wouldn't be uncomfortable with their woman having a male personal trainer.

I think he's saying based on their responses when the question is expounded on, they're lying

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

Spinoff:

The gym is just too crowded. Yall known how Mondays be. Her trainer has a gym no one uses in his apt complex. 1 on 1, no distractions. No extra charge. You ok with that?

This was a LEGIT question about a believable situation. I was a lil bs trainer out of my building and know plenty of dudes who do the same

These allegee 'idgaf' niggas avoided this question like the plague.

You also seem to be avoiding the fact that women can and do say no and all don't fall for that shit...that's what you seem to be missing. Its like some of y'all pretend to entertain the fact that a woman will turn you down, ain't a smut, and ain't naive enough to be played

Ni-ggaaaaa. Enough. We are having a REAL discussion about YOUR comfort level. As a man. So whether or not a woman would ever act on anything has nothing to do with YOUR comfort.

I.e. if u out n about and a nigga is eyeballin ya girl like u not even there, you will feel some type of way, and it has nothing to do with whether she will 'cheat'. You will feel uncomfortable. While simultaneously having 0 fear of her cheating.

Is it registering, damn lls

I think many of them are saying they wouldn't be uncomfortable with their woman having a male personal trainer.

I think he's saying based on their responses when the question is expounded on, they're lying

Well women in relationships go work out with a trainer everyday. Some guys really just aren't bothered by it.

 

[R.D.]

Spinoff:

The gym is just too crowded. Yall known how Mondays be. Her trainer has a gym no one uses in his apt complex. 1 on 1, no distractions. No extra charge. You ok with that?

This was a LEGIT question about a believable situation. I was a lil bs trainer out of my building and know plenty of dudes who do the same

These allegee 'idgaf' niggas avoided this question like the plague.

You also seem to be avoiding the fact that women can and do say no and all don't fall for that shit...that's what you seem to be missing. Its like some of y'all pretend to entertain the fact that a woman will turn you down, ain't a smut, and ain't naive enough to be played

Ni-ggaaaaa. Enough. We are having a REAL discussion about YOUR comfort level. As a man. So whether or not a woman would ever act on anything has nothing to do with YOUR comfort.

I.e. if u out n about and a nigga is eyeballin ya girl like u not even there, you will feel some type of way, and it has nothing to do with whether she will 'cheat'. You will feel uncomfortable. While simultaneously having 0 fear of her cheating.

Is it registering, damn lls

I think many of them are saying they wouldn't be uncomfortable with their woman having a male personal trainer.

I think he's saying based on their responses when the question is expounded on, they're lying

Well women in relationships go work out with a trainer everyday. Some guys really just aren't bothered by it.

How would you know ? Some guys women getting dug out too, which is fact while your statement is an opinion

 

[Peace_79]

Spinoff:

The gym is just too crowded. Yall known how Mondays be. Her trainer has a gym no one uses in his apt complex. 1 on 1, no distractions. No extra charge. You ok with that?

This was a LEGIT question about a believable situation. I was a lil bs trainer out of my building and know plenty of dudes who do the same

These allegee 'idgaf' niggas avoided this question like the plague.

You also seem to be avoiding the fact that women can and do say no and all don't fall for that shit...that's what you seem to be missing. Its like some of y'all pretend to entertain the fact that a woman will turn you down, ain't a smut, and ain't naive enough to be played

Ni-ggaaaaa. Enough. We are having a REAL discussion about YOUR comfort level. As a man. So whether or not a woman would ever act on anything has nothing to do with YOUR comfort.

I.e. if u out n about and a nigga is eyeballin ya girl like u not even there, you will feel some type of way, and it has nothing to do with whether she will 'cheat'. You will feel uncomfortable. While simultaneously having 0 fear of her cheating.

Is it registering, damn lls

I think many of them are saying they wouldn't be uncomfortable with their woman having a male personal trainer.

I think he's saying based on their responses when the question is expounded on, they're lying

My old lady going to a gym filled with people ... for a 30 minute training session ... With a respectable professional trainer that Ive looked in the eye...

Is in NO WAY congruent to her going to a person's apartment complex ...alone... For 1X1 training session ... With a guy that clearly has ulterior motives.

That's not expounding on the question... That is changing the scenario entirely.

Straw man's argument.

It ain't that I don't "trust her " in that situation (which I would, for he record) ... It's that putting herself in that situation IS in and of itself crossing the line and not to mention pretty dangerous ...

I TRUST her not to put herself in that situation in the first place.

How is that "lying"?

 

[S2J]

Spinoff:

The gym is just too crowded. Yall known how Mondays be. Her trainer has a gym no one uses in his apt complex. 1 on 1, no distractions. No extra charge. You ok with that?

This was a LEGIT question about a believable situation. I was a lil bs trainer out of my building and know plenty of dudes who do the same

These allegee 'idgaf' niggas avoided this question like the plague.

You also seem to be avoiding the fact that women can and do say no and all don't fall for that shit...that's what you seem to be missing. Its like some of y'all pretend to entertain the fact that a woman will turn you down, ain't a smut, and ain't naive enough to be played

Ni-ggaaaaa. Enough. We are having a REAL discussion about YOUR comfort level. As a man. So whether or not a woman would ever act on anything has nothing to do with YOUR comfort.

I.e. if u out n about and a nigga is eyeballin ya girl like u not even there, you will feel some type of way, and it has nothing to do with whether she will 'cheat'. You will feel uncomfortable. While simultaneously having 0 fear of her cheating.

Is it registering, damn lls

I think many of them are saying they wouldn't be uncomfortable with their woman having a male personal trainer.

I think he's saying based on their responses when the question is expounded on, they're lying

This. Bc of shit like this...

Spinoff:

The gym is just too crowded. Yall known how Mondays be. Her trainer has a gym no one uses in his apt complex. 1 on 1, no distractions. No extra charge. You ok with that?

This was a LEGIT question about a believable situation. I was a lil bs trainer out of my building and know plenty of dudes who do the same

These allegee 'idgaf' niggas avoided this question like the plague.

You also seem to be avoiding the fact that women can and do say no and all don't fall for that shit...that's what you seem to be missing. Its like some of y'all pretend to entertain the fact that a woman will turn you down, ain't a smut, and ain't naive enough to be played

Ni-ggaaaaa. Enough. We are having a REAL discussion about YOUR comfort level. As a man. So whether or not a woman would ever act on anything has nothing to do with YOUR comfort.

I.e. if u out n about and a nigga is eyeballin ya girl like u not even there, you will feel some type of way, and it has nothing to do with whether she will 'cheat'. You will feel uncomfortable. While simultaneously having 0 fear of her cheating.

Is it registering, damn lls

I think many of them are saying they wouldn't be uncomfortable with their woman having a male personal trainer.

I think he's saying based on their responses when the question is expounded on, they're lying

My old lady going to a gym filled with people ... for a 30 minute training session ... With a respectable professional trainer that Ive looked in the eye...

Is in NO WAY congruent to her going to a person's apartment complex ...alone... For 1X1 training session ... With a guy that clearly has ulterior motives.

That's not expounding on the question... That is changing the scenario entirely.

Straw man's argument.

It ain't that I don't "trust her " in that situation (which I would, for he record) ... It's that putting herself in that situation IS in and of itself crossing the line and not to mention pretty dangerous ...

I TRUST her not to put herself in that situation in the first place.

How is that "lying"?

 

[Melanin_Enriched]

My lady has a male trainer. He has tried to holla regularly since before I was in the picture. I trust her so it's not a big deal.

If you deal with a quality person others will be interested. Hopefully you can be forthcoming with each other and build a foundation of trust to navigate those circumstances.

Diary of a cuckold.