GnS Social Debate 2016: Your lady wants a personal trainer

[Breezy_Kilroy]

"Omg he told me I had proper technique"

If anyone you trying to build with is that weak minded then consider yourself lucky.

 

[mryounggun]

Nah sound like niggas just don't love their bitch

Why willingly be in situations where temptation can occur

idk what this got to do with keeping tabs on my bitch, nah we just not doing that

So knowing how dedicated i am to my craft and all that extra shit... yall still wouldnt trust me with your girl?

Thats fucked up.

Lmao can me and your wife go shopping together ?

Can i stab you in the navel with a broken fishing rod?

How are the two the same?

If you secure, you should have no problem with us hanging out while she shop...you secure

Let her try that dress on for me so I can make sure it's right for you

You are comparing apples and oranges.

There is not one single purpose for a guy to "help her shop" ...

My wife is a professional shopper... She could be in the Olympics of shopping.

If she is hanging out with a dude for no discernible reason and there are romantic undertones ... Then she is hanging out with him just to hang out with him.

That's completely different from what we are discussing in this thread.

Nah b

I know what niggas like to look at

He help her get her body right, I help her get her wardrobe right

Now what's the difference

You ever been shopping with a woman?

"You like this" , "how this look"

all throughout this thread, it's if your girl going cheat, she going cheat

Aight so why oppose to her doing anything she wants

You are trying to make something very simple, complicated.

Cheating is more than the physical act. There is shit that leads up to that.

Flirting, emotional connection, actual cheating ...

NONE of that shit is acceptable ...

Regardless of the context

At the gym

At the mall

On the job ... Anywhere

If she is interacting with another male, I trust that there is an actual reason for it AND I trust her NOT to engage in the aforementioned behavior and shut it down if she suspects it or if it is precipitated from the other party.

The problem with your scenario is not the act of "shopping with another guy", it is the fact that it calls into question her behavior and motivations

She has no reason to do so... Why is she doing it?

If she had a Bachelors Degree and certifications in Health and Fitness, she wouldn't need a Personal Trainer, either.

It's about the woman, not the situation.

You post better under your other account..cause this right here?? Trash.

Lol @ these hostage negotiations going on tho.

If that woman want to leave the house then let her.

All that keeping tabs shit sound stressful.

"I love you and care about you but fuck your goals."

Above anything else, this is the first thing I think in threads like this. I don't understand how niggas live like this on a daily basis, worried about ya old lady fucking another nigga.

At this point in life, I'd be hard pressed to give up the joy of Being stress and worry free, especially in my relationship.

You not keepin it 100. Lets all agree for 1 second that there is a ZERO percent chance of her cheating. And NONE of us are worried about that. Even so, thats not the only concern

Bc most would agree they want their chick to swiftly shut down men who come at her right? U can trust her 1000% but if she unknowingly (or willingly) flirting its a lil annoying she not seeing that the dude thinks he has a shot right? That's what we talkin here.

Nothing more annoying than a ditzy and/or oblivious woman. And in my experience women are most likely to be ditzy and oblivious with dudes they think are somehow above spittin: police, trainers, professors, teachers, doctors, their leasing manager lol Real life observations here

Those type professions get a pass.But they STILL just regular niggas tryin to holla, a point many women dont realize til they get asked out @obnoxiouslyfresh sup ma

So yea i just dont like the thought of my chick being a ditz.

At the end of the day when it's all said and done, no matter how oblivious she is there comes a point where it becomes obvious. At that point, it gets shut down and we move on.

I get your point but in the end, it don't matter.

Ohhh so now you finally gettin a lil Neanderthal wit it?!?! Ha

Naaaah nigga who is "we" , you not there, with a personal trainer aint no end. That flirtation stops when ol boy gives you ya girl back. Thats a unlimited flirt pass you good wit it right? She not gon cheat thats the only concern right ? So they just enjoying each other's jokes n company fam

By shut down he probably means find a trainer that's more about making his money than trying to fuck client's. It ain't always gotta be am extreme. Maybe, just maybe the woman says no and can't be talked into changing her mind like so many of y'all seem to think these brainless chicks y'all deal with are automatically gonna do

Word. Niggas gon' shoot they shoot. Fact of life. Your woman should be able to handle that without you ever needing to step in.

Breh didn't u just say it's not okay for your son to be in a fkkn mentorship program? Cause "I'M HIS DADDY!!"

A lil nigga can't get no village raising but your girl can literally buss it open in leggins fo 2 hours to the instruction of a random man? Foh cornball.

No, I didn't say that at all. I said I would want to know his mom's motivation for putting him in one, but in general I see no reason for my son to be involved in a 'Big Brother' type of mentoring program, since he has 2 stable, well-adjusted adult males in his life who can steer him in the right direction.

Try to keep up, fam. Or just sit this one out.

So in other words yes you did say it.

And you see no contradiction in these two things you nincompoop?

No.

Feel free to point it out and I'd be happy to explain to you how the two are different. It's really not that complicated. To me, anyway.

 

[mryounggun]

All jokes aside, @S2J - is it REALLY that hard to fathom that maybe there are just people who look at the situation differently than you and legitimately wouldn't be concerned?

 

[ReppinTime]

Cornballs everywhere. The majority of those that said no said it ain't about if she actually falls for it. There's exactly no reason to ever even be in the situation for that attention to manifest when female trainers exist. Why would she even want to be in a situation where she got to worry about rejecting someone she is paying money

 

[LPast]

Ya girl going to be like "I'm too tired tonight"

Trainer is "killing her"? ...

She don't know punishment
https://instagram.com/p/BAfwaPxjkiA/

 

[ReppinTime]

Son: "Dad I'm gonna go play catch with grandpa"

Cornball: "NO I'M YOUR FATHER!!"

Wife: Honey I'm about to go work out with Zeus, he said wear as little layers as possible so he can help me with my deep squats.

Corn: "SURE BABE!!"

 

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[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

Trying too hard on thebtemptation side is killing a lot of relationship.

A psychiatrist got a professional distance with his patients. The patients are NORMALLY DRESSED. The situation doesnt call for sex.

When you train you get close to somebody in shorts, Yoga pants, track and field attire. That woman is sweating Aka her FEROMONES ARE JUST GETTIN RIGHT INTO YA.

The hard breathing, the COUPLE TYPE PROXIMITY, THE HANDS ON THE WAIST, THE HADNS HOLDING SPKIT LEGS WHILE SHEBIS DOING SOME DEEP ABS, BACK ARCHING AND ASS POPPIN.

And yall want to tell me that a Trainer can stay very CALM and professional in front of a CIARA or Beyonce type woman squatting?!!

' go head girl, keep squating!!'

' tighten your glutes, you core and behind while swinging that bell'

' im HOLDING you. One more!! Exhale! Yeah you did it!!!'

' hunnn!!! Ahhhh Wooow I did it!!!'

Tooo risky.

Gay or woman.

 

[BeleeDatPleighboy]

if me being uncomfy about certain things concerning my woman = insecure

then I guess Im an insecure ass nigga then breh

 

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[ReppinTime]

I'm not even a trainer and when I've worked out with women sooner or later they start getting caught in my sauce, when I'm purely focusing on the routines. Physical exertion releases chemicals that produce happyness and bonds people together...just like sex does

Some niggas always take women on physically demanding first dates in order to exploit this.

Just a couple days ago a married coworker asked me to be her work out partner for her 3am workouts. Nope. Can't do it. I'm a faithful man of the Lord and I can't have some niggas wife poking her nipples at me cause I showed her to do the Arnold press. I don't even work out with women no more too much sexyness bouncing off each other. Keep them doors closed before it could even be a topic of discussion.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

I just train single women. If the situation goes sexwards I wont mind

 

[ReppinTime]

man.

some of yall sound like yall make ultimatums...

you will live to regret that shit...

Only people that can't deal with ultimatums is the childish and birds/hoes. Give a bish a ultimatum soon as she say her name and you'll have a good idea where she sits on the spectrum.

 

[Peace_79]

Trainers dressed in spandex, flexing every muscle in their body, while excessively groping women are unprofessional... Obviously.

And usually they have ulterior motives.

Women who flirt with their trainers, welcome advances, or even make passes at their Trainers are either

-Single

-Available

-Or don't respect their partner or their relationship

It's really that simple.

Life is full of temptation...

Having a personal trainer doesent make someone cheat... It just gives them a convenient excuse.

Yall can be uncomfortable with it all you want and that's fine. It's just not something I'm gonna worry about.

 

[mryounggun]

This thread just reminded me that I've NEVER actually seen some of you niggas put a coherent, cogent, well-thought-out argument together. Lol.

 

[LPast]

Temptation vs accountability

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

man.

some of yall sound like yall make ultimatums...

you will live to regret that shit...

Only people that can't deal with ultimatums is the childish and birds/hoes. Give a bish a ultimatum soon as she say her name and you'll have a good idea where she sits on the spectrum.

Giving someone an ultimatum is childish and ineffective. It certainly won't get anyone a Netflix password.

 

[DNB1]

Niggas wanna keep the 'i give no fucks, ever, about anything ' mentality, but they WIFED the broad. With all this scattered ass out here---you WIFED her. So you care. Cut the shit.

@dnb1 didnt u lose your chick champ? Your mic is off on this matter

Bruh, been holding it down near on twenty years and if she went gym tomorrow and had a PT, I have no doubt in my mind he would try it with her...

I'm still not giving a fuck...the shit happens every time she leaves the house...even food shopping with my kids...*shrugs

Bruh she gon be by my side when I die and vice versa...no matter my many transgressions. She know what's real.

I encourage you all to find a woman that offers you the same confidence.

You really will find such issues insignificant. To the point that if she did do it...then bruh at the gym really did you a favour.

To switch it up tho, I really feel like niggas feel like they own their woman to the point she can't go gym and be open to temptation.

What's next, yo woman can't wear a bikini on the beach?

Cause trust me, when I'm with wifey on the beach and she in a bikini...I'm still gon be looking at yo wife in a bikini and I might even imagine what her pussy look like...that gonna burn ya feelings?

Cause niggas try it wit yo girl everyday, in the gym, at the bus stop, when she pumping gas...

She has more temptation than what your brain wants you to believe.

 

[DNB1]

Lmao shits hilarious to me ...it's like "bruh! SHES AT THE GYM! The personal trainer is the least of yo worries!"

The niggaz using the gym you gotta worry about...especially the nigga that pulls up outside with the most expensive car...flashing money...only in the gym to show off...you don't want that nigga setting his beady eye on yo girl...

 

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