Fair or Foul: Women Anonymously Discuss Regretting Having Their Children and Becoming Single Mothers

[VIBE]

For me, I don't have regret towards my children. I do wish both my wife and I would've lived a little, but I don't dwell on it.

I stress to my children to live life, not to jump into anything. Graduate, take a break, then get into your career. Always WORK for yourself. Be selfish for your first few years. Build a career, money and get yourself a car a house before you decide to get into having a family.

 

[deadeye]

Regardless of whether it's fair or foul, they're telling the truth about how they feel...........so I respect them for speaking from their heart.

 

[desertrain10]

its fair

kind of off topic, but its going to be interesting to see how, if ever, we begin to address the fact that here in america child bearing has become disadvantageous....which is obviously problematic

with women for example, you marry/bear children young and your spouse decides to leave you, there is little support there... especially for low income mothers...and more than likely you have little career prospects

you wait until the "right time" to have children, there's a good chance you may struggle to get pregnant considering our chances of getting pregnant begin to dwindle after our early thirties.....most the time fertility drugs aren't covered by your insurance

 

[zzombie]

its fair

kind of off topic, but its going to be interesting to see how, if ever, we begin to address the fact that here in america child bearing has become disadvantageous....which is obviously problematic

with women for example, you marry/bear children young and your spouse decides to leave you, there is little support there... especially for low income mothers...and more than likely you have little career prospects

you wait until the "right time" to have children, there's a good chance you may struggle to get pregnant considering our chances of getting pregnant begin to dwindle after our early thirties.....most the time fertility drugs aren't covered by your insurance

well you feminist wanted no fault divorce

 

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[King Erauno]

Fair. feel how you feel but... suck it up and keep it moving. you had a choice.

chicks get so caught up in having kids....they dont analyze who they have kids with. stop getting pregnant by bums.

i know waaaaay too many single mothers that have this same story.

 

[desertrain10]

its fair

kind of off topic, but its going to be interesting to see how, if ever, we begin to address the fact that here in america child bearing has become disadvantageous....which is obviously problematic

with women for example, you marry/bear children young and your spouse decides to leave you, there is little support there... especially for low income mothers...and more than likely you have little career prospects

you wait until the "right time" to have children, there's a good chance you may struggle to get pregnant considering our chances of getting pregnant begin to dwindle after our early thirties.....most the time fertility drugs aren't covered by your insurance

well you feminist wanted no fault divorce

so the answer is simply throwing away no fault divorce laws

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

Fair. feel how you feel but... suck it up and keep it moving. you had a choice.

chicks get so caught up in having kids....they dont analyze who they have kids with. stop getting pregnant by bums.

i know waaaaay too many single mothers that have this same story.

That's my whole point. They always say niggas aint shit, buuuuut you still CHOSE to sit here and have this niggas baby..... so what does that say about you?

 

[zzombie]

its fair

kind of off topic, but its going to be interesting to see how, if ever, we begin to address the fact that here in america child bearing has become disadvantageous....which is obviously problematic

with women for example, you marry/bear children young and your spouse decides to leave you, there is little support there... especially for low income mothers...and more than likely you have little career prospects

you wait until the "right time" to have children, there's a good chance you may struggle to get pregnant considering our chances of getting pregnant begin to dwindle after our early thirties.....most the time fertility drugs aren't covered by your insurance

well you feminist wanted no fault divorce

so the answer is simply throwing away no fault divorce laws

That's just one of many things we should do, women keeping their legs closed and being more selective in who with let break them down like a shot gun is another.

 

[desertrain10]

Fair. feel how you feel but... suck it up and keep it moving. you had a choice.

chicks get so caught up in having kids....they dont analyze who they have kids with. stop getting pregnant by bums.

i know waaaaay too many single mothers that have this same story.

That's my whole point. They always say niggas aint shit, buuuuut you still CHOSE to sit here and have this niggas baby..... so what does that say about you?

most single mothers were young/teen mothers who come from low income households

so like most young ppl, I would say they were a poor judge of character and easily manipulated...which most will admit if they were being completely honest

and I'm not sure how that takes away from the fact that there was a person who made the conscious decision not to take care of his or her responsibilities

so what is your point again?

with that said, I feel its more of a societal and parental failure then anything else in these instances...

 

[zzombie]

Fair. feel how you feel but... suck it up and keep it moving. you had a choice.

chicks get so caught up in having kids....they dont analyze who they have kids with. stop getting pregnant by bums.

i know waaaaay too many single mothers that have this same story.

That's my whole point. They always say niggas aint shit, buuuuut you still CHOSE to sit here and have this niggas baby..... so what does that say about you?

most single mothers were young/teen mothers who come from low income households

so like most young ppl, I would say they were a poor judge of character and easily manipulated...which most will admit if they were being completely honest

and I'm not sure how that takes away from the fact that there was a person who made the conscious decision not to take care of his or her responsibilities

so what is your point again?

with that said, I feel its more of a societal and parental failure then anything else in these instances...

How typical of a leftist soo these ghetto kids are too fucking stupid to know better???

 

[desertrain10]

Fair. feel how you feel but... suck it up and keep it moving. you had a choice.

chicks get so caught up in having kids....they dont analyze who they have kids with. stop getting pregnant by bums.

i know waaaaay too many single mothers that have this same story.

That's my whole point. They always say niggas aint shit, buuuuut you still CHOSE to sit here and have this niggas baby..... so what does that say about you?

most single mothers were young/teen mothers who come from low income households

so like most young ppl, I would say they were a poor judge of character and easily manipulated...which most will admit if they were being completely honest

and I'm not sure how that takes away from the fact that there was a person who made the conscious decision not to take care of his or her responsibilities

so what is your point again?

with that said, I feel its more of a societal and parental failure then anything else in these instances...

How typical of a leftist soo these ghetto kids are too fucking stupid to know better???

I never suggested or explicitly stated "ghetto kids are too fucking stupid to know better"

as I said before most young ppl are a poor judge of character and easily manipulated regardless of where they are from or who their parents are

the difference is kids from the mid to top of the economic ladder actually have the funds for an abortion readily available, they have greater access to different forms of contraceptives, and the perceived and actual economic opportunity available

 

[LPast]

its fair

kind of off topic, but its going to be interesting to see how, if ever, we begin to address the fact that here in america child bearing has become disadvantageous....which is obviously problematic

with women for example, you marry/bear children young and your spouse decides to leave you, there is little support there... especially for low income mothers...and more than likely you have little career prospects

you wait until the "right time" to have children, there's a good chance you may struggle to get pregnant considering our chances of getting pregnant begin to dwindle after our early thirties.....most the time fertility drugs aren't covered by your insurance

Society is moving in a direction where delusion of happiness is the best way to live. Instead of handling difficult hurdles we choose hide and make excuses.

Overweight? Accept it and "love" yourself.

Relationships? Men don't "need" women. Women don't "need" men.

Let's talk economics also. There was a time a man could afford to take care of his family on a single income. Those days are OVER, so while the public is moving to a for self, by myself lifestyle. It doesn't work financially.

Part of the problem is that we are going against the grain the create a happy all of the time society. It will backfire. So here you have mothers struggling financially or emotionally because she isn't whole. Then you have men living their life without purpose....

I'm going off on a tangent, but this all connected.

 

[iron man1]

Fair. feel how you feel but... suck it up and keep it moving. you had a choice.

chicks get so caught up in having kids....they dont analyze who they have kids with. stop getting pregnant by bums.

i know waaaaay too many single mothers that have this same story.

That's my whole point. They always say niggas aint shit, buuuuut you still CHOSE to sit here and have this niggas baby..... so what does that say about you?

most single mothers were young/teen mothers who come from low income households

so like most young ppl, I would say they were a poor judge of character and easily manipulated...which most will admit if they were being completely honest

and I'm not sure how that takes away from the fact that there was a person who made the conscious decision not to take care of his or her responsibilities

so what is your point again?

with that said, I feel its more of a societal and parental failure then anything else in these instances...

Should've led with this because your statement just comes off to some like you're blaming men solely for this.

 

[emanuel08]

Women have to be better judge of characters...there are always signs that a nigga ain't shit.....

Anyway use contraceptives til ur ready and this wouldn't happen

a lot of women already know he's no good but most of them think they can change him

 

[Swiffness!]

bitches too cool for IUDs and wanna bet they lives on these fuckniggas pull-out skills tho

My baby’s father promised to be there for us and support me along the way, but promises are made to be broken they say, and five years later, he is absent and uninterested in fathering the child he begged for.

LOL PRO-LIFE NIGGAS LOL

 

[MrMinimalist]

@desertrain10 It's not only young chicks getting knocked up. Chicks older than 25 are going through this too.

Women choose lame ass men (mostly), men choose lame ass women. Both got to do better. Women mostly decides the sex so they're mostly at fault with their shitty choices.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

@desertrain10 It's not only young chicks getting knocked up. Chicks older than 25 are going through this too.

Women choose lame ass men (mostly), men choose lame ass women. Both got to do better. Women mostly decides the sex so they're mostly at fault with their shitty choices.

i think because people look at the wrong reasons to procreate with.....nothing longterm only instant gratification

 

[deadeye]

This thread has a zionist media agenda feel just springing up on Father's Day like this.

I'm starting to think the 1st story in the O/P was made up just to get other women who actually feel that way to talk about it.

Hard to describe, but it just seemed too well written to have really come from the heart.

 

[deadeye]

Fair. feel how you feel but... suck it up and keep it moving. you had a choice.

chicks get so caught up in having kids....they dont analyze who they have kids with. stop getting pregnant by bums.

i know waaaaay too many single mothers that have this same story.

That's my whole point. They always say niggas aint shit, buuuuut you still CHOSE to sit here and have this niggas baby..... so what does that say about you?

most single mothers were young/teen mothers who come from low income households

so like most young ppl, I would say they were a poor judge of character and easily manipulated...which most will admit if they were being completely honest

and I'm not sure how that takes away from the fact that there was a person who made the conscious decision not to take care of his or her responsibilities

so what is your point again?

with that said, I feel its more of a societal and parental failure then anything else in these instances...

Should've led with this because your statement just comes off to some like you're blaming men solely for this.

Exactly.

Which is ironic because it's the exact opposite of what true feminism really is.

However, it is consistent with the male-bashing feminist rhetoric that's being spewed by radical feminists.