Westie;7603814 said:
dallas' 4 eva;7603792 said:
Westie;7603531 said:
Cain;7603521 said:
If she is my girl then hell NO.........BUT in the same breath women can't do what men can do. That's for you square ass niggas
when it comes to this your ass can't either. You know it too.
Cain is right, women can't do what men can do and we need to start teaching this to the young ones.
Anyway.....
mryounggun;7603795 said:
Westie;7603765 said:
mryounggun;7603689 said:
Westie;7603576 said:
mryounggun;7603556 said:
How you 'allow' an adult to do some shit? I wish my girl would come telling me who she'll 'allow' me to be in contact with.
Ok...the terminology is off, but you get the point. In a partnership there should be boundaries. Anyone who your s/o feels you keeping in contact with is disrespectful should be taken into consideration.
Me and my girl dated for a year before we got into a relationship. I made it very clear that I'm friends with an ex or two and had no plans of stopping communication. She got in a relationship knowing that.
Ok.....and if she wasn't ok with you keeping your past lingering you'd be out of a girlfriend. Whatever works for you.
I wouldn't be 'out' a GF. Never would have made her my GF. But essentially, yes.
So why are you putting your past ahead of your future?
I'm not. If a woman feels it's ok to try to tell me who to be friends with, that's not a person I want a future with. Or if a woman wants to know the situation and then try to flip the script randomly after we've been on the same page about it, that's also not a person I want a future with.
And the fact that I had a romantic relationship doesn't make the current friendship the 'past', it makes the romantic part the past.