Do you allow your woman to maintain contact with men she's slept with?

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I don't think I'd care. If they're gonna cheat they're gonna cheat they don't need an ex for that. And if they realize sometimes down the road they still love each other.. well... they can go fuck themselves.
 
It's not for me to allow, or disallow. I can only make my feelings known on the subject. If they respect that, great. If not, then it's on me to decide if I wanna deal with that or not.

I don't keep in contact with exes, unless it's a situation where it's unavoidable, as is the case with my daughter's mother. Beyond that, there's no reason for me to keep in contact.

I personally feel that keeping in contact with exes when in a new relationship is both inappropriate and disrespectful. But that's just me. Your results may vary.
 
Westie;7603170 said:
dallas' 4 eva;7603157 said:
Westie;7603148 said:
dallas' 4 eva;7603141 said:
King Ghidorah ;7603134 said:
I don't give a fuck, I'm not married

Juat about to post this, unless we married neither one of us should give a fuck.

Foh with that..

rhiana.gif

Shit I maintain contact with my ex we done became the best of friends, if she aint cool with that then oh well aint nobody forcing her ass to stay, like I said we not married.

Yall sleep together from time to time or nah?

Actually we don't, I am living proof it is possible for two former lovers to become platonic friends. The thought doesn't even cross my mind anymore honestly.
 
dallas' 4 eva;7603189 said:
Westie;7603170 said:
dallas' 4 eva;7603157 said:
Westie;7603148 said:
dallas' 4 eva;7603141 said:
King Ghidorah ;7603134 said:
I don't give a fuck, I'm not married

Juat about to post this, unless we married neither one of us should give a fuck.

Foh with that..

rhiana.gif

Shit I maintain contact with my ex we done became the best of friends, if she aint cool with that then oh well aint nobody forcing her ass to stay, like I said we not married.

Yall sleep together from time to time or nah?

Actually we don't, I am living proof it is possible for two former lovers to become platonic friends. The thought doesn't even cross my mind anymore honestly.

Exception to the rule more like it. I just had my ex from high school try to get at me...high...school. And I'm old. I've had 2 platonic straight male friends and both of them tried at some point. Anyone I've actually been in a relationship with, we are friendly but friends? Nah. I have never not had an ex try. And that's across the board with females I know, men will be men.

 
BoogaSuga;7602614 said:
I been with mines since she was a virgin.

...true story

(Boastful post) for all you givin lol and nosign reactions.

But as far as vice versa she dont let me be social media friends with the women i hit... that shes aware of at least.

(Low-key grimey post) "why must I chase the cat? must be the dog in me"
 
Only person you can control in a relationship is yourself. You also decide what you will or will not tolerate. So if a s/o being friends with a past lover is some intolerable shit, that should be known from the jump. They should have the option upfront of eother choosing you or a past lover.

For me, nah I ain't goin. Fuck I look like she just chattin it up with homey that wws dickin her down? Id be a gump. Just straight upask her, who you wanna be with. Chances are if ya girl hasn't already cut off exes , she don't reepect you no way.
 
A women is your partner not a child you shouldn't be allowing her to do anything. With that being said she should know better then to talk to people she slept with in the past.
 
dallas' 4 eva;7603189 said:
Westie;7603170 said:
dallas' 4 eva;7603157 said:
Westie;7603148 said:
dallas' 4 eva;7603141 said:
King Ghidorah ;7603134 said:
I don't give a fuck, I'm not married

Juat about to post this, unless we married neither one of us should give a fuck.

Foh with that..

rhiana.gif

Shit I maintain contact with my ex we done became the best of friends, if she aint cool with that then oh well aint nobody forcing her ass to stay, like I said we not married.

Yall sleep together from time to time or nah?

Actually we don't, I am living proof it is possible for two former lovers to become platonic friends. The thought doesn't even cross my mind anymore honestly.

bullshit lol, did she become unattractive?.... If not ,bullshit
 
Cain;7603521 said:
If she is my girl then hell NO.........BUT in the same breath women can't do what men can do. That's for you square ass niggas

when it comes to this your ass can't either. You know it too.
 
Cain;7603543 said:
Westie;7603531 said:
Cain;7603521 said:
If she is my girl then hell NO.........BUT in the same breath women can't do what men can do. That's for you square ass niggas

when it comes to this your ass can't either. You know it too.

Excuse me madam, I beg to differ also I'm sensing some disrespect in this post. Watch it @westie :-w

Lol .... No disrespect sir. Just saying you know talking to old jumps and exes is a no no regardless of the gender. So I'm calling bs. :)
 
How you 'allow' an adult to do some shit? I wish my girl would come telling me who she'll 'allow' me to be in contact with.
 
ThirdEyeFive;7603193 said:
has a dude who can't control his situation called dudes who can "insecure" yet?

Keep thinking u control ur woman...

A woman is like a wild wolf u domesticated..

She acknowledges u as pack leader, respects that fact, but is well aware of her ability.. If needed, to fuck yo shit all up.....

At least a strong woman is, but a lot of cats ain't in to that..
 
mryounggun;7603556 said:
How you 'allow' an adult to do some shit? I wish my girl would come telling me who she'll 'allow' me to be in contact with.

Ok...the terminology is off, but you get the point. In a partnership there should be boundaries. Anyone who your s/o feels you keeping in contact with is disrespectful should be taken into consideration.
 
YunnSanco;7603417 said:
dallas' 4 eva;7603189 said:
Westie;7603170 said:
dallas' 4 eva;7603157 said:
Westie;7603148 said:
dallas' 4 eva;7603141 said:
King Ghidorah ;7603134 said:
I don't give a fuck, I'm not married

Juat about to post this, unless we married neither one of us should give a fuck.

Foh with that..

rhiana.gif

Shit I maintain contact with my ex we done became the best of friends, if she aint cool with that then oh well aint nobody forcing her ass to stay, like I said we not married.

Yall sleep together from time to time or nah?

Actually we don't, I am living proof it is possible for two former lovers to become platonic friends. The thought doesn't even cross my mind anymore honestly.

bullshit lol, did she become unattractive?.... If not ,bullshit

I don't know what happened, she looks the same, I'm just not interested in her vagina anymore. Lol
 
BoogaSuga;7603205 said:
BoogaSuga;7602614 said:
I been with mines since she was a virgin.

...true story

(Boastful post) for all you givin lol and nosign reactions.

But as far as vice versa she dont let me be social media friends with the women i hit... that shes aware of at least.

(Low-key grimey post) "why must I chase the cat? must be the dog in me"

nigga what u braggin for..

that bitch go venture off and break yo heart.. all bitches got smut in'em.. urs have yet to realize hers. lol

and lol@ "she dont let me..." hahahaha

u think ur soooooo cool huh? hahaha
 

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