Do you allow your woman to maintain contact with men she's slept with?

[Westie]

If she is my girl then hell NO.........BUT in the same breath women can't do what men can do. That's for you square ass niggas

when it comes to this your ass can't either. You know it too.

Cain is right, women can't do what men can do and we need to start teaching this to the young ones.

Anyway.....

How you 'allow' an adult to do some shit? I wish my girl would come telling me who she'll 'allow' me to be in contact with.

Ok...the terminology is off, but you get the point. In a partnership there should be boundaries. Anyone who your s/o feels you keeping in contact with is disrespectful should be taken into consideration.

Me and my girl dated for a year before we got into a relationship. I made it very clear that I'm friends with an ex or two and had no plans of stopping communication. She got in a relationship knowing that.

Ok.....and if she wasn't ok with you keeping your past lingering you'd be out of a girlfriend. Whatever works for you.

I wouldn't be 'out' a GF. Never would have made her my GF. But essentially, yes.

So why are you putting your past ahead of your future?

I'm not. If a woman feels it's ok to try to tell me who to be friends with, that's not a person I want a future with. Or if a woman wants to know the situation and then try to flip the script randomly after we've been on the same page about it, that's also not a person I want a future with.

And the fact that I had a romantic relationship doesn't make the current friendship the 'past', it makes the romantic part the past.

So after y'all broke up you never got it in again right? And you and your ex are on the same page right? She doesn't want you and you don't want her right?

Right. Right. Right.

It;s really not as complicated as y'all are making it out to be.

The only possible way I can think of for this to work is that the sex was wack. Is that it? Hotdog-hallway thing? No diss I just can't relate. I see if there are children involved. But if I'm in love with someone I wouldn't be keeping old dick on the back burner.

Like I said I know how men are. I've been hit with the "need advice" bullshit and it's NEVER just that.

see ur problem is u expect these niggas to think like u bitches...

venus and mars..

estrogen and testosterone..

some shit u jus aint gonna get..

No I expect men to think like men. And yall very rarely don't have pussy on the brain.

You can't put that on all "men" you can only speak on the type of men you attract and choose then compare their thought process

But grouping all men together is quite foolish

It's called risk management

Personally as long as it's respectful i wouldn't mind if my man kept in touch with an ex ... If it came to light their relationship was purely sexual that would be a red flag though

Not at tall

a red flag huh

If pussy was the only driving force and thats what you expect he expects then what does that say about you as a woman?

are you not more than your pussy? Is that all you have to offer is pussy?

On a "rare" occasion those men yall speak of don't have pussy on the brain where does the friendship go?

Reality is the flesh is weak

Realizing this I try not to place myself into situations that could possibly lead me to giving in to temptation like keeping in close contact with someone I obviously found sexually attractive at one point in time

I expect the same from my s/o

It's crazy how many of the you feel as though men and women can't be friends, but at the same time expect your s/o to be cool with you associating with an ex, someone of the opposite sex

Its not crazy. You just don't understand cause you're a woman.

Or

You dont want to see what's right in your face to make you understand and that's also because....you're a woman

I got a better idea.... Your male "logic" is flawed as fuck.

Yup, that's it.

 

[desertrain10]

If she is my girl then hell NO.........BUT in the same breath women can't do what men can do. That's for you square ass niggas

when it comes to this your ass can't either. You know it too.

Cain is right, women can't do what men can do and we need to start teaching this to the young ones.

Anyway.....

How you 'allow' an adult to do some shit? I wish my girl would come telling me who she'll 'allow' me to be in contact with.

Ok...the terminology is off, but you get the point. In a partnership there should be boundaries. Anyone who your s/o feels you keeping in contact with is disrespectful should be taken into consideration.

Me and my girl dated for a year before we got into a relationship. I made it very clear that I'm friends with an ex or two and had no plans of stopping communication. She got in a relationship knowing that.

Ok.....and if she wasn't ok with you keeping your past lingering you'd be out of a girlfriend. Whatever works for you.

I wouldn't be 'out' a GF. Never would have made her my GF. But essentially, yes.

So why are you putting your past ahead of your future?

I'm not. If a woman feels it's ok to try to tell me who to be friends with, that's not a person I want a future with. Or if a woman wants to know the situation and then try to flip the script randomly after we've been on the same page about it, that's also not a person I want a future with.

And the fact that I had a romantic relationship doesn't make the current friendship the 'past', it makes the romantic part the past.

So after y'all broke up you never got it in again right? And you and your ex are on the same page right? She doesn't want you and you don't want her right?

Right. Right. Right.

It;s really not as complicated as y'all are making it out to be.

The only possible way I can think of for this to work is that the sex was wack. Is that it? Hotdog-hallway thing? No diss I just can't relate. I see if there are children involved. But if I'm in love with someone I wouldn't be keeping old dick on the back burner.

Like I said I know how men are. I've been hit with the "need advice" bullshit and it's NEVER just that.

see ur problem is u expect these niggas to think like u bitches...

venus and mars..

estrogen and testosterone..

some shit u jus aint gonna get..

No I expect men to think like men. And yall very rarely don't have pussy on the brain.

You can't put that on all "men" you can only speak on the type of men you attract and choose then compare their thought process

But grouping all men together is quite foolish

It's called risk management

Personally as long as it's respectful i wouldn't mind if my man kept in touch with an ex ... If it came to light their relationship was purely sexual that would be a red flag though

Not at tall

a red flag huh

If pussy was the only driving force and thats what you expect he expects then what does that say about you as a woman?

are you not more than your pussy? Is that all you have to offer is pussy?

On a "rare" occasion those men yall speak of don't have pussy on the brain where does the friendship go?

Reality is the flesh is weak

Realizing this I try not to place myself into situations that could possibly lead me to giving in to temptation like keeping in close contact with someone I obviously found sexually attractive at one point in time

I expect the same from my s/o

It's crazy how many of the you feel as though men and women can't be friends, but at the same time expect your s/o to be cool with you associating with an ex, someone of the opposite sex

Its not crazy. You just don't understand cause you're a woman.

Or

You dont want to see what's right in your face to make you understand and that's also because....you're a woman

No I can recognize when I being confronted with bullshit

so don't try to feed me bullshit, than expect for me not to either question ur bullshit or move on to the next lol

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

I'm literally the godfather of my ex girl ( the one who got away ) s baby .....

lol this bitch i was fuckin some time ago got pregnant on me.. i knew she was fuckin wit other cats.. but i was heavily recruitin her ass..

anyways.. she told me and then go ask me to be the god daddy.. bitch had me fucked up. lol

told her ill probably end up bein step daddy. lol we still cool.. but the bitch to scared to make a move so i jis be blowin her off when she knows im jn town.. i dont jus kick it to kick it..

She just hit me up like homie ain't taking care of business....and she s not afraid of being a single mother, if he doesnt shape up called that nigga a roommate.....I just her w the don't worry u ll never have to be single mother .....

 

[Westie]

If she is my girl then hell NO.........BUT in the same breath women can't do what men can do. That's for you square ass niggas

when it comes to this your ass can't either. You know it too.

Cain is right, women can't do what men can do and we need to start teaching this to the young ones.

Anyway.....

How you 'allow' an adult to do some shit? I wish my girl would come telling me who she'll 'allow' me to be in contact with.

Ok...the terminology is off, but you get the point. In a partnership there should be boundaries. Anyone who your s/o feels you keeping in contact with is disrespectful should be taken into consideration.

Me and my girl dated for a year before we got into a relationship. I made it very clear that I'm friends with an ex or two and had no plans of stopping communication. She got in a relationship knowing that.

Ok.....and if she wasn't ok with you keeping your past lingering you'd be out of a girlfriend. Whatever works for you.

I wouldn't be 'out' a GF. Never would have made her my GF. But essentially, yes.

So why are you putting your past ahead of your future?

I'm not. If a woman feels it's ok to try to tell me who to be friends with, that's not a person I want a future with. Or if a woman wants to know the situation and then try to flip the script randomly after we've been on the same page about it, that's also not a person I want a future with.

And the fact that I had a romantic relationship doesn't make the current friendship the 'past', it makes the romantic part the past.

So after y'all broke up you never got it in again right? And you and your ex are on the same page right? She doesn't want you and you don't want her right?

Right. Right. Right.

It;s really not as complicated as y'all are making it out to be.

The only possible way I can think of for this to work is that the sex was wack. Is that it? Hotdog-hallway thing? No diss I just can't relate. I see if there are children involved. But if I'm in love with someone I wouldn't be keeping old dick on the back burner.

Like I said I know how men are. I've been hit with the "need advice" bullshit and it's NEVER just that.

see ur problem is u expect these niggas to think like u bitches...

venus and mars..

estrogen and testosterone..

some shit u jus aint gonna get..

No I expect men to think like men. And yall very rarely don't have pussy on the brain.

You can't put that on all "men" you can only speak on the type of men you attract and choose then compare their thought process

But grouping all men together is quite foolish

all she' confirming for me is that she has yet to meet a real nigga in her life..

all the men she know.. family included.. her man included.. aint shit! hahaha

Man these females on here wouldn't know what to do if they met a real nigga. They too used to cats who let em do whatever because they think they can do what a man can do.

Fuck with a REAL MAN, and all these females attitudes will change about thinking they can do what I can do believe that.

What's a real man? Or is that a real nigga? Y'all get your lingo straight. Secondly I would never want to be with someone who "lets me do whatever I want to do" you don't know me I don't fuck with Beta males.

Then you would want to fuck with someone like me. I'm good to my woman, very good, but at the same time I have VERY high expectations of her because any shit I talk I back up.

Yeah...maybe...but you can't have exes as friends so we're at a stalemate.

 

[dr funky resurrected]

If you having relationship problems you need to just come out and say it.

Lol naw just thinking of different ideas for monster topics

 

[dr funky resurrected]

I cant help but noticed no one answered why they do or dont yet.

It's funny how people assume it's the thread starter with the issue lol

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

If she is my girl then hell NO.........BUT in the same breath women can't do what men can do. That's for you square ass niggas

when it comes to this your ass can't either. You know it too.

Cain is right, women can't do what men can do and we need to start teaching this to the young ones.

Anyway.....

How you 'allow' an adult to do some shit? I wish my girl would come telling me who she'll 'allow' me to be in contact with.

Ok...the terminology is off, but you get the point. In a partnership there should be boundaries. Anyone who your s/o feels you keeping in contact with is disrespectful should be taken into consideration.

Me and my girl dated for a year before we got into a relationship. I made it very clear that I'm friends with an ex or two and had no plans of stopping communication. She got in a relationship knowing that.

Ok.....and if she wasn't ok with you keeping your past lingering you'd be out of a girlfriend. Whatever works for you.

I wouldn't be 'out' a GF. Never would have made her my GF. But essentially, yes.

So why are you putting your past ahead of your future?

I'm not. If a woman feels it's ok to try to tell me who to be friends with, that's not a person I want a future with. Or if a woman wants to know the situation and then try to flip the script randomly after we've been on the same page about it, that's also not a person I want a future with.

And the fact that I had a romantic relationship doesn't make the current friendship the 'past', it makes the romantic part the past.

So after y'all broke up you never got it in again right? And you and your ex are on the same page right? She doesn't want you and you don't want her right?

Right. Right. Right.

It;s really not as complicated as y'all are making it out to be.

The only possible way I can think of for this to work is that the sex was wack. Is that it? Hotdog-hallway thing? No diss I just can't relate. I see if there are children involved. But if I'm in love with someone I wouldn't be keeping old dick on the back burner.

Like I said I know how men are. I've been hit with the "need advice" bullshit and it's NEVER just that.

see ur problem is u expect these niggas to think like u bitches...

venus and mars..

estrogen and testosterone..

some shit u jus aint gonna get..

No I expect men to think like men. And yall very rarely don't have pussy on the brain.

You can't put that on all "men" you can only speak on the type of men you attract and choose then compare their thought process

But grouping all men together is quite foolish

all she' confirming for me is that she has yet to meet a real nigga in her life..

all the men she know.. family included.. her man included.. aint shit! hahaha

Man these females on here wouldn't know what to do if they met a real nigga. They too used to cats who let em do whatever because they think they can do what a man can do.

Fuck with a REAL MAN, and all these females attitudes will change about thinking they can do what I can do believe that.

What's a real man? Or is that a real nigga? Y'all get your lingo straight. Secondly I would never want to be with someone who "lets me do whatever I want to do" you don't know me I don't fuck with Beta males.

Then you would want to fuck with someone like me. I'm good to my woman, very good, but at the same time I have VERY high expectations of her because any shit I talk I back up.

Yeah...maybe...but you can't have exes as friends so we're at a stalemate.

Lol if you can't trust me to control myself like I would trust you then we would never work out anyway. Why be with someone you can't trust? I would hope a woman seeing my actions would learn I am 110% about all the shit I be talking about, but oh well a stalemate it is.

 

[Westie]

If she is my girl then hell NO.........BUT in the same breath women can't do what men can do. That's for you square ass niggas

when it comes to this your ass can't either. You know it too.

Cain is right, women can't do what men can do and we need to start teaching this to the young ones.

Anyway.....

How you 'allow' an adult to do some shit? I wish my girl would come telling me who she'll 'allow' me to be in contact with.

Ok...the terminology is off, but you get the point. In a partnership there should be boundaries. Anyone who your s/o feels you keeping in contact with is disrespectful should be taken into consideration.

Me and my girl dated for a year before we got into a relationship. I made it very clear that I'm friends with an ex or two and had no plans of stopping communication. She got in a relationship knowing that.

Ok.....and if she wasn't ok with you keeping your past lingering you'd be out of a girlfriend. Whatever works for you.

I wouldn't be 'out' a GF. Never would have made her my GF. But essentially, yes.

So why are you putting your past ahead of your future?

I'm not. If a woman feels it's ok to try to tell me who to be friends with, that's not a person I want a future with. Or if a woman wants to know the situation and then try to flip the script randomly after we've been on the same page about it, that's also not a person I want a future with.

And the fact that I had a romantic relationship doesn't make the current friendship the 'past', it makes the romantic part the past.

So after y'all broke up you never got it in again right? And you and your ex are on the same page right? She doesn't want you and you don't want her right?

Right. Right. Right.

It;s really not as complicated as y'all are making it out to be.

The only possible way I can think of for this to work is that the sex was wack. Is that it? Hotdog-hallway thing? No diss I just can't relate. I see if there are children involved. But if I'm in love with someone I wouldn't be keeping old dick on the back burner.

Like I said I know how men are. I've been hit with the "need advice" bullshit and it's NEVER just that.

see ur problem is u expect these niggas to think like u bitches...

venus and mars..

estrogen and testosterone..

some shit u jus aint gonna get..

No I expect men to think like men. And yall very rarely don't have pussy on the brain.

You can't put that on all "men" you can only speak on the type of men you attract and choose then compare their thought process

But grouping all men together is quite foolish

all she' confirming for me is that she has yet to meet a real nigga in her life..

all the men she know.. family included.. her man included.. aint shit! hahaha

Man these females on here wouldn't know what to do if they met a real nigga. They too used to cats who let em do whatever because they think they can do what a man can do.

Fuck with a REAL MAN, and all these females attitudes will change about thinking they can do what I can do believe that.

What's a real man? Or is that a real nigga? Y'all get your lingo straight. Secondly I would never want to be with someone who "lets me do whatever I want to do" you don't know me I don't fuck with Beta males.

Then you would want to fuck with someone like me. I'm good to my woman, very good, but at the same time I have VERY high expectations of her because any shit I talk I back up.

Yeah...maybe...but you can't have exes as friends so we're at a stalemate.

Lol if you can't trust me to control myself like I would trust you then we would never work out anyway. Why be with someone you can't trust? I would hope a woman seeing my actions would learn I am 110% about all the shit I be talking about, but oh well a stalemate it is.

But you'd be mad at me for following yall and maybe trying to run her over... Setting me up for craziness. That's not fair to me.

 

[Purr]

Do you allow your woman to maintain contact with men she's slept with?

I would allow my man to be with women he used to sleep with because I either ate his ass(cause ain't no other bitch gone eat ass like I do), on the joint account, or on his mind constantly.

An ex ain't shit, when it comes to me. I trust him with my whole heart.

 

[_Lefty]

Not readin all these pages. To answer the question, that shit dead. What's more, if you even have to put these restrictions in place, you played yourself already. Just the fact that want to remain in contact is disrespectful for one, and shows you don't have her full attention, 330 million people in the united states and you can't let go of this nigga, you wanna be friends with him. Bitch beat it. As soon as we get serious, I cut everybody off as far as sexual encounters go. I expect the same respect, if I can't get it, then we on two different planes of existence, we ain't thinkin the same, i'll take my talents to another bitch. Simple.

 

[God_Yunn]

If she is my girl then hell NO.........BUT in the same breath women can't do what men can do. That's for you square ass niggas

when it comes to this your ass can't either. You know it too.

Cain is right, women can't do what men can do and we need to start teaching this to the young ones.

Anyway.....

How you 'allow' an adult to do some shit? I wish my girl would come telling me who she'll 'allow' me to be in contact with.

Ok...the terminology is off, but you get the point. In a partnership there should be boundaries. Anyone who your s/o feels you keeping in contact with is disrespectful should be taken into consideration.

Me and my girl dated for a year before we got into a relationship. I made it very clear that I'm friends with an ex or two and had no plans of stopping communication. She got in a relationship knowing that.

Ok.....and if she wasn't ok with you keeping your past lingering you'd be out of a girlfriend. Whatever works for you.

I wouldn't be 'out' a GF. Never would have made her my GF. But essentially, yes.

So why are you putting your past ahead of your future?

I'm not. If a woman feels it's ok to try to tell me who to be friends with, that's not a person I want a future with. Or if a woman wants to know the situation and then try to flip the script randomly after we've been on the same page about it, that's also not a person I want a future with.

And the fact that I had a romantic relationship doesn't make the current friendship the 'past', it makes the romantic part the past.

So after y'all broke up you never got it in again right? And you and your ex are on the same page right? She doesn't want you and you don't want her right?

Right. Right. Right.

It;s really not as complicated as y'all are making it out to be.

The only possible way I can think of for this to work is that the sex was wack. Is that it? Hotdog-hallway thing? No diss I just can't relate. I see if there are children involved. But if I'm in love with someone I wouldn't be keeping old dick on the back burner.

Like I said I know how men are. I've been hit with the "need advice" bullshit and it's NEVER just that.

see ur problem is u expect these niggas to think like u bitches...

venus and mars..

estrogen and testosterone..

some shit u jus aint gonna get..

No I expect men to think like men. And yall very rarely don't have pussy on the brain.

You can't put that on all "men" you can only speak on the type of men you attract and choose then compare their thought process

But grouping all men together is quite foolish

It's called risk management

Personally as long as it's respectful i wouldn't mind if my man kept in touch with an ex ... If it came to light their relationship was purely sexual that would be a red flag though

Not at tall

a red flag huh

If pussy was the only driving force and thats what you expect he expects then what does that say about you as a woman?

are you not more than your pussy? Is that all you have to offer is pussy?

On a "rare" occasion those men yall speak of don't have pussy on the brain where does the friendship go?

Reality is the flesh is weak

Realizing this I try not to place myself into situations that could possibly lead me to giving in to temptation like keeping in close contact with someone I obviously found sexually attractive at one point in time

I expect the same from my s/o

It's crazy how many of the you feel as though men and women can't be friends, but at the same time expect your s/o to be cool with you associating with an ex, someone of the opposite sex

Its not crazy. You just don't understand cause you're a woman.

Or

You dont want to see what's right in your face to make you understand and that's also because....you're a woman

No I can recognize when I being confronted with bullshit

so don't try to feed me bullshit, than expect for me not to either question ur bullshit or move on to the next lol

Hypothetically

So as a woman with a man.

Why would you want male friends?

How do you make that work?

 

[BEAM]

The sheer magnitude of selfishness that goes on here, however typical, never ceases to amaze me..

 

[shit happens]

Sheesh

Chucky dat tongue you got must cure all ailments

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

If she is my girl then hell NO.........BUT in the same breath women can't do what men can do. That's for you square ass niggas

when it comes to this your ass can't either. You know it too.

Cain is right, women can't do what men can do and we need to start teaching this to the young ones.

Anyway.....

How you 'allow' an adult to do some shit? I wish my girl would come telling me who she'll 'allow' me to be in contact with.

Ok...the terminology is off, but you get the point. In a partnership there should be boundaries. Anyone who your s/o feels you keeping in contact with is disrespectful should be taken into consideration.

Me and my girl dated for a year before we got into a relationship. I made it very clear that I'm friends with an ex or two and had no plans of stopping communication. She got in a relationship knowing that.

Ok.....and if she wasn't ok with you keeping your past lingering you'd be out of a girlfriend. Whatever works for you.

I wouldn't be 'out' a GF. Never would have made her my GF. But essentially, yes.

So why are you putting your past ahead of your future?

I'm not. If a woman feels it's ok to try to tell me who to be friends with, that's not a person I want a future with. Or if a woman wants to know the situation and then try to flip the script randomly after we've been on the same page about it, that's also not a person I want a future with.

And the fact that I had a romantic relationship doesn't make the current friendship the 'past', it makes the romantic part the past.

So after y'all broke up you never got it in again right? And you and your ex are on the same page right? She doesn't want you and you don't want her right?

Right. Right. Right.

It;s really not as complicated as y'all are making it out to be.

The only possible way I can think of for this to work is that the sex was wack. Is that it? Hotdog-hallway thing? No diss I just can't relate. I see if there are children involved. But if I'm in love with someone I wouldn't be keeping old dick on the back burner.

Like I said I know how men are. I've been hit with the "need advice" bullshit and it's NEVER just that.

see ur problem is u expect these niggas to think like u bitches...

venus and mars..

estrogen and testosterone..

some shit u jus aint gonna get..

No I expect men to think like men. And yall very rarely don't have pussy on the brain.

You can't put that on all "men" you can only speak on the type of men you attract and choose then compare their thought process

But grouping all men together is quite foolish

all she' confirming for me is that she has yet to meet a real nigga in her life..

all the men she know.. family included.. her man included.. aint shit! hahaha

Man these females on here wouldn't know what to do if they met a real nigga. They too used to cats who let em do whatever because they think they can do what a man can do.

Fuck with a REAL MAN, and all these females attitudes will change about thinking they can do what I can do believe that.

What's a real man? Or is that a real nigga? Y'all get your lingo straight. Secondly I would never want to be with someone who "lets me do whatever I want to do" you don't know me I don't fuck with Beta males.

Then you would want to fuck with someone like me. I'm good to my woman, very good, but at the same time I have VERY high expectations of her because any shit I talk I back up.

Yeah...maybe...but you can't have exes as friends so we're at a stalemate.

Lol if you can't trust me to control myself like I would trust you then we would never work out anyway. Why be with someone you can't trust? I would hope a woman seeing my actions would learn I am 110% about all the shit I be talking about, but oh well a stalemate it is.

But you'd be mad at me for following yall and maybe trying to run her over... Setting me up for craziness. That's not fair to me.

No I would be upset because you said you only trust a man to be a man. Me and her don't go out and kick it like that, we are cool yes I check up on her and her kids because I was in her life for too long not to I do not do any extra shit like pay her bills or fuck her.

You claimed earlier you only trust a man to be a man, I don't think relationships are for you then if you have such... humble views about men. Females love to preach not all women are the same, not all men are the same and if you can't understand that then you should just have fun niggas forever and be done with it.

If you go into any situation expecting the worst you will get the worst because more than likely that is what you brought on? There is always room for compromise, like I said if we got married I would be willing to keep it down to a simple phone call here amd there and that is it, although I would miss her gumbo and jambalaya....

 

[Purr]

Sheesh

Chucky dat tongue you got must cure all ailments

Yes, it does.

 

[God_Yunn]

A man who has a woman and still cools with one of his exes

is not the same as

A woman who has a man and is cool with one of his exes.

Can any of you women or men tell me the difference

 

[God_Yunn]

The sheer magnitude of selfishness that goes on here, however typical, never ceases to amaze me..

Its not selfishness from men. Women just don't get it.

They act as if Double standards were created by men in a secret men only town hall meeting.

Doubleb standards were created naturally. It has advantages and disadvantages to both sides.

But in reality the disadvantages are only existent from men and women who wants more than what's given.

Those that understand differences and what roles we play are the happiest

 

[CapitalB]

A man who has a woman and still cools with one of his exes

is not the same as

A woman who has a man and is cool with one of his exes.

Can any of you women or men tell me the difference

dont even go there..

these bitches wanna pee standin up sooooo bad. hahaha

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

A man who has a woman and still cools with one of his exes

is not the same as

A woman who has a man and is cool with one of his exes.

Can any of you women or men tell me the difference

If she is my girl then hell NO.........BUT in the same breath women can't do what men can do. That's for you square ass niggas

when it comes to this your ass can't either. You know it too.

Cain is right, women can't do what men can do and we need to start teaching this to the young ones.

Anyway.....

How you 'allow' an adult to do some shit? I wish my girl would come telling me who she'll 'allow' me to be in contact with.

Ok...the terminology is off, but you get the point. In a partnership there should be boundaries. Anyone who your s/o feels you keeping in contact with is disrespectful should be taken into consideration.

Me and my girl dated for a year before we got into a relationship. I made it very clear that I'm friends with an ex or two and had no plans of stopping communication. She got in a relationship knowing that.

Ok.....and if she wasn't ok with you keeping your past lingering you'd be out of a girlfriend. Whatever works for you.

I wouldn't be 'out' a GF. Never would have made her my GF. But essentially, yes.

So why are you putting your past ahead of your future?

I'm not. If a woman feels it's ok to try to tell me who to be friends with, that's not a person I want a future with. Or if a woman wants to know the situation and then try to flip the script randomly after we've been on the same page about it, that's also not a person I want a future with.

And the fact that I had a romantic relationship doesn't make the current friendship the 'past', it makes the romantic part the past.

So after y'all broke up you never got it in again right? And you and your ex are on the same page right? She doesn't want you and you don't want her right?

Right. Right. Right.

It;s really not as complicated as y'all are making it out to be.

The only possible way I can think of for this to work is that the sex was wack. Is that it? Hotdog-hallway thing? No diss I just can't relate. I see if there are children involved. But if I'm in love with someone I wouldn't be keeping old dick on the back burner.

Like I said I know how men are. I've been hit with the "need advice" bullshit and it's NEVER just that.

see ur problem is u expect these niggas to think like u bitches...

venus and mars..

estrogen and testosterone..

some shit u jus aint gonna get..

No I expect men to think like men. And yall very rarely don't have pussy on the brain.

You can't put that on all "men" you can only speak on the type of men you attract and choose then compare their thought process

But grouping all men together is quite foolish

It's called risk management

Personally as long as it's respectful i wouldn't mind if my man kept in touch with an ex ... If it came to light their relationship was purely sexual that would be a red flag though

Not at tall

a red flag huh

If pussy was the only driving force and thats what you expect he expects then what does that say about you as a woman?

are you not more than your pussy? Is that all you have to offer is pussy?

On a "rare" occasion those men yall speak of don't have pussy on the brain where does the friendship go?

Reality is the flesh is weak

Realizing this I try not to place myself into situations that could possibly lead me to giving in to temptation like keeping in close contact with someone I obviously found sexually attractive at one point in time

I expect the same from my s/o

It's crazy how many of the you feel as though men and women can't be friends, but at the same time expect your s/o to be cool with you associating with an ex, someone of the opposite sex

Its not crazy. You just don't understand cause you're a woman.

Or

You dont want to see what's right in your face to make you understand and that's also because....you're a woman

No I can recognize when I being confronted with bullshit

so don't try to feed me bullshit, than expect for me not to either question ur bullshit or move on to the next lol

Hypothetically

So as a woman with a man.

Why would you want male friends?

How do you make that work?

Good ass question. Ima make a thread about it nigga.

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

A man who has a woman and still cools with one of his exes

is not the same as

A woman who has a man and is cool with one of his exes.

Can any of you women or men tell me the difference

dont even go there..

these bitches wanna pee standin up sooooo bad. hahaha

They don't hear you though.