Do you allow your woman to maintain contact with men she's slept with?

[rip.dilla]

If she is my girl then hell NO.........BUT in the same breath women can't do what men can do. That's for you square ass niggas

when it comes to this your ass can't either. You know it too.

Cain is right, women can't do what men can do and we need to start teaching this to the young ones.

Anyway.....

How you 'allow' an adult to do some shit? I wish my girl would come telling me who she'll 'allow' me to be in contact with.

Ok...the terminology is off, but you get the point. In a partnership there should be boundaries. Anyone who your s/o feels you keeping in contact with is disrespectful should be taken into consideration.

Me and my girl dated for a year before we got into a relationship. I made it very clear that I'm friends with an ex or two and had no plans of stopping communication. She got in a relationship knowing that.

Ok.....and if she wasn't ok with you keeping your past lingering you'd be out of a girlfriend. Whatever works for you.

I wouldn't be 'out' a GF. Never would have made her my GF. But essentially, yes.

So why are you putting your past ahead of your future?

I'm not. If a woman feels it's ok to try to tell me who to be friends with, that's not a person I want a future with. Or if a woman wants to know the situation and then try to flip the script randomly after we've been on the same page about it, that's also not a person I want a future with.

And the fact that I had a romantic relationship doesn't make the current friendship the 'past', it makes the romantic part the past.

So after y'all broke up you never got it in again right? And you and your ex are on the same page right? She doesn't want you and you don't want her right?

Right. Right. Right.

It;s really not as complicated as y'all are making it out to be.

The only possible way I can think of for this to work is that the sex was wack. Is that it? Hotdog-hallway thing? No diss I just can't relate. I see if there are children involved. But if I'm in love with someone I wouldn't be keeping old dick on the back burner.

Like I said I know how men are. I've been hit with the "need advice" bullshit and it's NEVER just that.

see ur problem is u expect these niggas to think like u bitches...

venus and mars..

estrogen and testosterone..

some shit u jus aint gonna get..

No I expect men to think like men. And yall very rarely don't have pussy on the brain.

You can't put that on all "men" you can only speak on the type of men you attract and choose then compare their thought process

But grouping all men together is quite foolish

all she' confirming for me is that she has yet to meet a real nigga in her life..

all the men she know.. family included.. her man included.. aint shit! hahaha

Man these females on here wouldn't know what to do if they met a real nigga. They too used to cats who let em do whatever because they think they can do what a man can do.

Fuck with a REAL MAN, and all these females attitudes will change about thinking they can do what I can do believe that.

What's a real man? Or is that a real nigga? Y'all get your lingo straight. Secondly I would never want to be with someone who "lets me do whatever I want to do" you don't know me I don't fuck with Beta males.

Then you would want to fuck with someone like me. I'm good to my woman, very good, but at the same time I have VERY high expectations of her because any shit I talk I back up.

Yeah...maybe...but you can't have exes as friends so we're at a stalemate.

Lol if you can't trust me to control myself like I would trust you then we would never work out anyway. Why be with someone you can't trust? I would hope a woman seeing my actions would learn I am 110% about all the shit I be talking about, but oh well a stalemate it is.

But you'd be mad at me for following yall and maybe trying to run her over... Setting me up for craziness. That's not fair to me.

No I would be upset because you said you only trust a man to be a man. Me and her don't go out and kick it like that, we are cool yes I check up on her and her kids because I was in her life for too long not to I do not do any extra shit like pay her bills or fuck her.

You claimed earlier you only trust a man to be a man, I don't think relationships are for you then if you have such... humble views about men. Females love to preach not all women are the same, not all men are the same and if you can't understand that then you should just have fun niggas forever and be done with it.

If you go into any situation expecting the worst you will get the worst because more than likely that is what you brought on? There is always room for compromise, like I said if we got married I would be willing to keep it down to a simple phone call here amd there and that is it, although I would miss her gumbo and jambalaya....

I have very high expectations on the way I'm treated but as far as in expecting a man to be a man-yeah I do. And I don't believe in marriage so maybe *shrugs* but I never said all men cheat. I'm actually very trusting until proven otherwise. I'm talking about being tempted. Why would you purposely put a complication in a relationship off rip? Truthfully if there's something you're hanging on to so tightly maybe that's something you should try and work out.

And she cooks for you?????

Aww hell no this ain't innocent.

@Westie please explain

 

[trendsetta1030]

when it comes to being in a relationship

your game should be tight enough where she won't want to pursue other dudes from the past

easier said than done of course

a wise person told me

It's not about getting a girl, thats the easy part

It's about keeping the girl, that is the hard part

shiiiiiiiid..

that bitch better keep me! lol

Bitch I'm tha best thing 2 erhappen 2 you!!!!

Let em no