Confessing:Would you Tell?

[blackrain]

ahhhh ok

this explains it

when you're younger it's normal to be idealistic and want to see things as black and white

then one day your whole perspective is fucked cause now you start to see that some things are gray and not so easy to just label

funny thing is I used to be one of them super hard charging mofos who was really religious and could never understand how someone could cheat on their spouse.................that is until I got married LOL

anyways tho, as far as consequences, that's a little too personal for me to really be that worried about where my boy puts his meat.......it really isn't my business if it doesn't affect me directly

that's just the reality of it :shrugs

Ice's idea is way to idealistic, but a scenario like this could affect you directly...and it's not a hard stretch to make it so

 

[KingJamal]

to me that's so shiesty you smiling in this person everyday knowing damn well the child aint his

Thats wat Im saying!!!!!!

I could not do that. I ain't a phony muthafucker. Thats why Im shocked that Kimmi goes on a double date with him and the scandalous girl. But I guess they just got that kinda relationship.

 

[goat334]

Yeah, life is like a stupid bitch...you just tolerate it. You don't know what you are going to drive that man to do...he could choke the life outta her, stab her...anything. And then you gotta deal with the fact that you had a hand in that. That's why sometimes, shutting the fuck up is the best option. Things like this is best worked out on its own.

I said that over an hour ago, niggas ain't hearing this shit you preaching.

 

[ms.jones]

I said that over an hour ago, niggas ain't hearing this shit you preaching.

You soundin' kinda aggy over there, boo LOL!!

 

[blakfyahking]

Ice's idea is way to idealistic, but a scenario like this could affect you directly...and it's not a hard stretch to make it so

it could, but if it doesn't then fuck it

cause I'm sitting here trying to picture cutting off a good friend or a relative off just because they cheated on their spouse

doesn't sit right with me to do that

I think this is what Ice isn't considering when it's business between two grown adults................love doesn't have to mean you are required to be stupid and not protect yourself

 

[blackrain]

it could, but if it doesn't then fuck it

cause I'm sitting here trying to picture cutting off a good friend or a relative off just because they cheated on their spouse

doesn't sit right with me to do that

I think this is what Ice isn't considering when it's business between two grown adults................love doesn't have to mean you are required to be stupid and not protect yourself

Would you cut off a good friend of yours if he outright denied a child that he admitted he fathered? We all have different levels of what would make us cut off a good friend...I know mine is hinged heavily upon how they treat their children...cheating, I don't agree with it but that's not my dick/marriage...I'd tell them they're fucking up but I wouldn't say anything...now if I knew they had a child because of their cheating and they acted like it was no big deal, I couldn't be around that...

 

[DaSan!floe]

massa has done a number on black folks, this shit should hold no place in the black community, that's why its fucked up today- confused Negroes

it shouldn't be a wonder the std and aids rate amongst blacks are high.....fuck any muthafucka that find this shit acceptable, acceptable.......fuck that scum that does this to their s/o rather it be male or female, fuck you and I will see to it you burn in hell.....and you childish muthafuckas hollering loyalty and friendship, GROW THE FUCK UP......only honor you should hold to anyone is whatever higher power you believe in and your spouse, everyone else gets the 'treated how you want to be treated" treatment

miss me with the, snitching bullshit also, she don't gotta tell shit but she should let that hoe rott in her mess, fuck transferring this negative energy from person to person cuz her trifilin ass cant deal with her guilt....... also miss me with that "this shit hit close to home" shit, cuz I don't give a fuck who my s/o is or isn't fucking...FUCKING IS FOR KIDS AND HEAD IS WHERE ITS AT........so getcha MIND RIGHT, and stand with principles or continue to fall with these cripple muthafuckas that don't stand for shit.....GOOD DAY

 

[goat334]

You soundin' kinda aggy over there, boo LOL!!

It's so helping the time go by at work...lol...

 

[blackrain]

that seems cowardly though...

cowardly in some situations, smart in others...life isn't black and white...most shit exists in that middle/gray area where the specifics of a situation itself determines how you react

 

[ms.jones]

that seems cowardly though...

*shrugs* I'd rather let her be the demise of her marriage, than it be I. Too many variables in a situation like this for me to jump and be a hero for the day. I know it seems messed up; everything isn't as crystal clear as we all would like it to be.

 

[goat334]

Would you cut off a good friend of yours if he outright denied a child that he admitted he fathered? We all have different levels of what would make us cut off a good friend...I know mine is hinged heavily upon how they treat their children...cheating, I don't agree with it but that's not my dick/marriage...I'd tell them they're fucking up but I wouldn't say anything...now if I knew they had a child because of their cheating and they acted like it was no big deal, I couldn't be around that...

Shiiiittt, I got a step-brother that got 6kids(3 that he have custody of) he take care of, but he also said in so many words that he don't claim 2 other kids that suppose to be his.

Yeah I lost some respect for him, but I didn't cut him off.

 

[Mr.Bocario]

Maybe cuz Im a dude, but I feel if a man is taking care of his family and handling his business, then he should be able to cheat.

 

[Louis Cipher]

massa has done a number on black folks, this shit should hold no place in the black community, that's why its fucked up today- confused Negroes

it shouldn't be a wonder the std and aids rate amongst blacks are high.....fuck any muthafucka that find this shit acceptable, acceptable.......fuck that scum that does this to their s/o rather it be male or female, fuck you and I will see to it you burn in hell.....and you childish muthafuckas hollering loyalty and friendship, GROW THE FUCK UP......only honor you should hold to anyone is whatever higher power you believe in and your spouse, everyone else gets the 'treated how you want to be treated" treatment

miss me with the, snitching bullshit also, she don't gotta tell shit but she should let that hoe rott in her mess, fuck transferring this negative energy from person to person cuz her trifilin ass cant deal with her guilt....... also miss me with that "this shit hit close to home" shit, cuz I don't give a fuck who my s/o is or isn't fucking...FUCKING IS FOR KIDS AND HEAD IS WHERE ITS AT........so getcha MIND RIGHT, and stand with principles or continue to fall with these cripple muthafuckas that don't stand for shit.....GOOD DAY

this ignorant nikka started his rant hollering fire and brimstone then finished it up talking about head...smh

bruh....just log off...

 

[ms.jones]

Maybe cuz Im a dude, but I feel if a man is taking care of his family and handling his business, then he should be able to cheat.

*blinks rapidly*

 

[doublekid]

What everyone has failed to mention is that Kimi's friend just doesn't care enough about her husband to be upfront and honest with him. She got with dude when she was on the rebound in the first place. Her husband was the second choice, a fill in, plan B, you get the picture. Why respect this dude and screw up her marriage and ruin that young boy's life as well just to treat her "fall back" husband with respect and dignity?

 

[goat334]

Maybe cuz Im a dude, but I feel if a man is taking care of his family and handling his business, then he should be able to cheat.

LOL...........What if the women is doing the same(taking care of business and family), should she be able to cheat? Hell her cheating could also be a source of extra income, would you like that?

 

[blakfyahking]

Would you cut off a good friend of yours if he outright denied a child that he admitted he fathered? We all have different levels of what would make us cut off a good friend...I know mine is hinged heavily upon how they treat their children...cheating, I don't agree with it but that's not my dick/marriage...I'd tell them they're fucking up but I wouldn't say anything...now if I knew they had a child because of their cheating and they acted like it was no big deal, I couldn't be around that...

cut completely off? nah, cause I would never know the true circumstances

and as a father myself I'd be a hypocrite to act self-righteous...................at the end of the day none of us is perfect enough to always make the "right" choices

would I call him out on it and possibly treat him different? most likely yeah......but there are a lot of factors to consider

 

[Will Munny]

Maybe cuz Im a dude, but I feel if a man is taking care of his family and handling his business, then he should be able to cheat.

How did that work out for McNair? Tiger Woods?

 

[DaSan!floe]

this ignorant nikka started his rant hollering fire and brimstone then finished it up talking about head...smh

bruh....just log off...

just cuz you posses one doesn't mean you have to be one ya whole life, dick.....HEAD, brains, not in the sense of a sexual act performed orally, but a thinker

 

[OhPee]

Who the hell would do that?

My loyalty is always to my friend. I have a close friend who is married to a really great guy but their son isn't his, and he has no clue]

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