Complimenting vs Simping 101

[NeighborhoodNomad.]

I'll never compliment a female I don't have intentions to holla at.

What's the point?

Be the 10th nigga to say the same shit she's been hearing all day?

Ho's out chea fishing for compliments, getting their ego validated by random dudes who compliment, but don't holla.

Makes no sense to me.

You have to plant the seed first before anything takes root and sprouts. And all this takes time.You don't always have to holler right away but she will most likely remember you if/when you see her again, if you came correct, and a natural conversation begins. You gave a little, let it grow and it came back to you.

 

[Like Water]

Once again this works for me...I've never really had to chase anyone...use my advice at your own discretion. If you screw it up with the woman of your dreams listening to me I can not be held liable

I don't chase either. Its just not for me and any time I've tried it does nothing but boost their ego so they can run off with the next nigga.

I'm on some bruce lee "be the water" shit. I let the chips fall where they may.

You have your moments, sir, but if you're using Bruce Lee logic to pick up women I must give you the goat. Hit they ass wit...

And walk the fuck off on some G shit.

 

[StoneColdMikey]

Always complimenting the ladies coming in here. Downtown summer time Chicago is GOAT

 

[Snatch Some Collars]

Is it Drake-ish to compliment a female on her nails?

Yes

What if it's your girlfriend?

women complain when their men (sometimes men in general) don't notice when they have new glasses, new hair or some other small little detail in the way they did theyself up for us

When it comes to lil stuff like that that men don't really know about (nails, accessories) just say something short like "nice nails." I heard this one dude say to his wife "I appreciate you keeping yourself together" after she got her hair done. Just something to say you noticed but don't go into detail =/

no detail..why?

I don't wana hear no nigga I'm with talking bout "oooh girl you wearing that electric lilac! Next time you gon get the acrylic or the gel???"

I'm not sure what this is...

but let's say you make it important enough that you always speaking to him about it...

if he comes to you with that knowledge an make the detailed compliment....would it be good or bad?

my girl wont shut up about the thousands of hair products and nail polish she likes and I still don't know much about that shit

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

Chivalry is dead.

 

[700]

Cognizant........

 

[700]

What that mean

 

[NeighborhoodNomad.]

When you go overboard and compliment a woman in a thread, in front of everyone, you know what thats the equivalent of irl? Its the equivalent of a bad chick walking by, everybody lookin, but you that ONE nigga that jumps out the window

"Gooot damn, lookin good ma!! *grabs her elbow* Im sayin whats goodie!?" :s

Just a thought...

@S2J

Are you saying it's going overboard to compliment a woman in a thread? Should compliments only be in private? When is a woman deserving of a sincere compliment?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

too many rules with y'all.

be smooth, quote Bruce Lee, don't say shit to a group,

how about being yourself and have some heart and try to seize the moment.

don't matter if 50 tried and got shot down.. you doing you could be the game changer.

getting rejected is part of the game like a dropped pass or missed layup.

do you not try because others can't ball?

an yes, I would be the guy in the group to step out an step up...wouldn't grab her tho.

 

[Fosheezy]

Females probably don't deserve 99 percent of the compliments they receive

Lol I don't understand thought processes like this. Who cares? What does it do to you?

Lol maybe y'all should care. You might end up letting the wrong compliment from the right guy go in one ear and out the other and lose out.

It's not about what it does to me, but what it does to y'all and y'all senses.

Does nothing to me personally, I was raised around a bunch of male chauvinist. I deal with women that celebrate their men. and the ones that naturally fix plates for both me and my homeboy when he come over as guest in the house. Not the "what have you done for me lately" and the "I need that Brazilian 28 inch" type with distorted sense of entitlement and expect praise for simply looking good type.

 

[SolemnSauce]

@SolemnSauce take a break

man these hoes ask me how long I can go, I tell EM

"baby I'm like silk da shocker, don't temp me, cause you'll empty, then I reload, empty, reload, empty reload, empty reload,WHOLE BARREL EXPLODE!!!"

 

[NeighborhoodNomad.]

too many rules with y'all.

be smooth, quote Bruce Lee, don't say shit to a group,

how about being yourself and have some heart and try to seize the moment.

don't matter if 50 tried and got shot down.. you doing you could be the game changer.

getting rejected is part of the game like a dropped pass or missed layup.

do you not try because others can't ball?

an yes, I would be the guy in the group to step out an step up...wouldn't grab her tho.

True. When it comes from a real place it's up to her to receive it and accept your truth or honest assessment or reject it. She may just not be ready to accept or receive your truth, but that's on her.

 

[NoCompetition]

Females probably don't deserve 99 percent of the compliments they receive

Lol I don't understand thought processes like this. Who cares? What does it do to you?

Lol maybe y'all should care. You might end up letting the wrong compliment from the right guy go in one ear and out the other and lose out.

It's not about what it does to me, but what it does to y'all and y'all senses.

Does nothing to me personally, I was raised around a bunch of male chauvinist. I deal with women that celebrate their men. and the ones that naturally fix plates for both me and my homeboy when he come over as guest in the house. Not the "what have you done for me lately" and the "I need that Brazilian 28 inch" type with distorted sense of entitlement and expect praise for simply looking good type.

You aint gonna be able to stop the next person from complimenting someone so you really cant worry about that. It only affect you if you let it. Actually you can use it as a tool to stay ahead. If a female gets more compliments or attention than you are comfortable dealing with, you can leave her alone and pre empt getting involved in that. Thats about all you can do. Hence who cares? thats her affairs to worry about.

 

[huey]

This thread is depressing. All these damn rules for a compliment

 

[ThaNubianGod]

This thread is depressing. All these damn rules for a compliment

It's not even complicated. Men used to be men, but now they have their heads messed up. Simply put, be a gentleman. This is how men were pre-1960's. That means carry yourself the right way, learn how to conversate on a level above high school, and give compliments only when warranted. Fake praise is obvious so what's the point. Non-verbal gestures do more communicating that's she on point anyway. Simps come off as desperate, childish, and no woman about anything will check for them.

On a side note, there's hundreds of great body language videos out there. If you want a real advantage, study up on that, won't be disappointed.

 

[blackrain]

In a Sag.. Straight forward and blunt.. If I like you I'll tell you.. I ain't got time for all this fake not liking shit.. As a woman I expect you to handle yourself accordingly when a real nigga approach you..

That's not your zodiac sign that's you being an adult

 

[blackrain]

too many rules with y'all.

be smooth, quote Bruce Lee, don't say shit to a group,

how about being yourself and have some heart and try to seize the moment.

don't matter if 50 tried and got shot down.. you doing you could be the game changer.

getting rejected is part of the game like a dropped pass or missed layup.

do you not try because others can't ball?

an yes, I would be the guy in the group to step out an step up...wouldn't grab her tho.

Every woman is different. It ain't that there's too many rules it's that what works on one won't always work on the next. If you can focus on what makes a woman different from the next that goes a long way...much further than a compliment will get you...that's if you're trying to do more than just get a nut off. If that's just your only goal then just listen to her talk for about 10 minutes and you've got all the answers you need.

 

[blakfyahking]

I'm convinced majority of u niggaz get no pussy tho

but always in "player" threads giving advice

 

[2stepz_ahead]

too many rules with y'all.

be smooth, quote Bruce Lee, don't say shit to a group,

how about being yourself and have some heart and try to seize the moment.

don't matter if 50 tried and got shot down.. you doing you could be the game changer.

getting rejected is part of the game like a dropped pass or missed layup.

do you not try because others can't ball?

an yes, I would be the guy in the group to step out an step up...wouldn't grab her tho.

Every woman is different. It ain't that there's too many rules it's that what works on one won't always work on the next. If you can focus on what makes a woman different from the next that goes a long way...much further than a compliment will get you...that's if you're trying to do more than just get a nut off. If that's just your only goal then just listen to her talk for about 10 minutes and you've got all the answers you need.

very true point.

 

[So ILL]

I give genuine compliments when I want to and keep it moving, no need to stay in her face looking like an idiot and shit. If she likes you, she'll help you keep it going. If not, oh well. Its not that hard.