Complimenting vs Simping 101

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

10 things Westie Hates



10 - Flowers & everything else botanical

9 - Cards

8 - Valentines Day & Cupid

7 - Teddy Bears (almost got mauled by a brown bear at age 7)

6 - Sweet nothings in her ear

5 - Missionary (she must maintain control at ALL times)

4 - Small peck kisses (FOH wit that European s***)

3 - Pine Sol

2 - Roger Goddell (self explanatory)

1 - Compliments (it's a sign a weakness. grow a pair muthafuccas. Just come right out and say she got a phat azzz/titties, and the gtfo her face. she got s*** to do)

That is all

 

[numbaz...80's baby]

Be yourself, make her laugh, feed her and make her feel like she's more than just a trophy. Show(not tell) her that you know what she's worth without matching it with price tags.

You do that and a woman, not a hoe or a lil girl will fuck with ya the strong way. Too many compliments make you look like a weirdo and she'll be irritated and/or uncomfortable around you.

Too much of anything, including water, is bad for you. It shouldn't be too hard to understand.

 

[blackrain]

Y'all niggas really making the shit more complicated than it is.

Because they don't know what they want from women as much as women don't know what they want from men

 

[Westie]

10 things Westie Hates



10 - Flowers & everything else botanical

9 - Cards

8 - Valentines Day & Cupid

7 - Teddy Bears (almost got mauled by a brown bear at age 7)

6 - Sweet nothings in her ear

5 - Missionary (she must maintain control at ALL times)

4 - Small peck kisses (FOH wit that European s***)

3 - Pine Sol/

2 - Roger Goddell (self explanatory)

1 - Compliments (it's a sign a weakness. grow a pair muthafuccas. Just come right out and say she got a phat azzz/titties, and the gtfo her face. she got s*** to do)

That is all

You got a few right lol

 

[AP21]

This shit sad af

 

[Shizlansky]

So of you dudes are sad as fuck.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad.]

When you go overboard and compliment a woman in a thread, in front of everyone, you know what thats the equivalent of irl? Its the equivalent of a bad chick walking by, everybody lookin, but you that ONE nigga that jumps out the window

"Gooot damn, lookin good ma!! *grabs her elbow* Im sayin whats goodie!?" :s

Just a thought...

@S2J

Are you saying it's going overboard to compliment a woman in a thread? Should compliments only be in private? When is a woman deserving of a sincere compliment?

I'll be real with you. Nothing personal, but your whole vibe in this thread is disgusting :joy:

Why are you, and others, so hell bent on complimenting women???? With seemingly nothing in it for you.

Comes across like u just happy to exist in a woman's presence. Have some pride guy

And to be clear, a physical compliment is the easiest way to put yourself in a box with all the other niggas. Millions of things in the world to talk abot and yall wanna spark a convo about her smile :s

I appreciate yall tho, make the game easier for niggas like me

I don't think anyone in here is hell bent on anything. But the point of the thread is to show that giving an honest, well deserved compliment and simping are two very different things. A compliment isn't always physical appearance. I can compliment her mind, her spirit, her grind etc. but that's obviously on a more personal level. And "Happy to exist in a woman's presence"? As opposed to a man? I don't understand.

When, if ever, is a woman deserving of a compliment?

deserve ain't got nothing to do with it bruh

Deserving has everything to do with it. You've never been compelled to say a genuinely kind thing to a woman? Again a compliment may not always be physical appearance.

What the hell is a well deserved compliment?!?!?!

Why does she "deserve" a compliment?!?!?

Is a woman never deserving of a compliment?

feeling "compelled" is the pure definition of being a simp....it's like basically admitting that u ain't really used to shit, so u feel u have to say something

if she ain't ur main, u shouldn't feel pressed to say shit at all

Simping is actually "slipping on your pimping" not being compelled to speak but today we use it to mean the over the top captainsaveaho type. You've never felt the need to say something kind to a woman that wasn't your main? I'm not talking about putting your coat over a puddle for a ho, but a regular genuine compliment. Being compelled to speak is simply giving props when props are due.

 

[BEAM]

While it is true that a lot of niggas don't know how to talk to women, this is yet another example of women having too much power. While doing something wrong ( in this case, complimenting ) is entirely possible, a lot of this is also coming from women's overall inexperience when it comes to approaching the opposite sex and actually having to be good at it themselves.

Being proactive and being reactive are two entirely different positions, the latter being much easier, and easier to take advantage of. The trial and error phase that we ( men ) have to endure leaves us open to making mistakes, and if women had to do the same more regularly, they'd understand how one-sided ( and unrealistic ) many of their critiques are.

There have been some good points made, in a technical sense, but in the real world such harsh attention to detail, much of which can only be critiqued after someone's taken the first step, is unfair and petty; Especially since shorty would give a nigga she was attracted to a pass for a lot of the silly shit that cases have been made for in this thread. Attraction that isn't being critiqued, btw..

 

[S2J]

And here's a test. If you post often, and interact with IC women often, and you've never bumped heads with not 1 of em? 96% chance you're a simp. Actually more like a gump to be specific.

A simp is scared shitless of not being liked by a woman, so much so he'll take friendship. Agree wirh anything, do anything to not color outside those lines. Disgraceful lifestyle

name names bruh cuz I noticed u got damn near 30K posts on here LLS

??? Wheres the reading comprehension.

A simp looks at a woman as hollowed ground, delicate flowers who 'deserve to be complimented' and nothing else.

Whereas a regular nigga gon treat em normally, and here on the ic there's nothing but debates so if you've been here long enough and NEVER bumped heads with 1 of the wacky opinions of these women you're likely a simp---or just a gump. It aint rocket science

 

[AP21]

Cain pretty much nailed what I wanted to say, but it's very disturbing to say the least that the attitude here is that unless you are calling a female poster here a bitch or telling her to shut the fuck up, anything not along those lines is considered simping

But let a dude call your mother a bitch and you ready to end it all

Just because you compliment a female here doesn't mean you are in her inbox, and if you are, so what?

A chick posts a pic, dudes try to find the most cruel things to say. If it wasn't for the few ladies that actually actively post here, I would've gotten ghost a long time ago. Some of you niggas in your attempt to make this site all males is just strange and definitely not heterosexual at all.

 

[S2J]

Cain pretty much nailed what I wanted to say, but it's very disturbing to say the least that the attitude here is that unless you are calling a female poster here a bitch or telling her to shut the fuck up, anything not along those lines is considered simping

But let a dude call your mother a bitch and you ready to end it all

Just because you compliment a female here doesn't mean you are in her inbox, and if you are, so what?

A chick posts a pic, dudes try to find the most cruel things to say. If it wasn't for the few ladies that actually actively post here, I would've gotten ghost a long time ago. Some of you niggas in your attempt to make this site all males is just strange and definitely not heterosexual at all.

Thats the problem. :/

 

[MARIO_DRO]

I'll never compliment a female I don't have intentions to holla at.

What's the point?

Be the 10th nigga to say the same shit she's been hearing all day?

Ho's out chea fishing for compliments, getting their ego validated by random dudes who compliment, but don't holla.

Makes no sense to me.

..NOT REALLY BRUH... A COMPLIMENT CAN GO A LONNNG WAY.. U NEVER KNOW WHAT A WOMAN IS GOING THROUGH... A SIMPLE, "THATS A NICE OUTFIT, HAIRSTYLE, SHOES, ETC" CAN LITERALLY MAKE HER DAY.. IT AINT ALWAYS ABOUT TRYIN TO GET THE DRAWZ

 

[AP21]

Cain pretty much nailed what I wanted to say, but it's very disturbing to say the least that the attitude here is that unless you are calling a female poster here a bitch or telling her to shut the fuck up, anything not along those lines is considered simping

But let a dude call your mother a bitch and you ready to end it all

Just because you compliment a female here doesn't mean you are in her inbox, and if you are, so what?

A chick posts a pic, dudes try to find the most cruel things to say. If it wasn't for the few ladies that actually actively post here, I would've gotten ghost a long time ago. Some of you niggas in your attempt to make this site all males is just strange and definitely not heterosexual at all.

Thats the problem. :/

It's a problem if you are in the inbox?

 

[Fosheezy]

Females probably don't deserve 99 percent of the compliments they receive

Lol I don't understand thought processes like this. Who cares? What does it do to you?

Lol maybe y'all should care. You might end up letting the wrong compliment from the right guy go in one ear and out the other and lose out.

It's not about what it does to me, but what it does to y'all and y'all senses.

Does nothing to me personally, I was raised around a bunch of male chauvinist. I deal with women that celebrate their men. and the ones that naturally fix plates for both me and my homeboy when he come over as guest in the house. Not the "what have you done for me lately" and the "I need that Brazilian 28 inch" type with distorted sense of entitlement and expect praise for simply looking good type.

Yeah idgaf about any of the bolded.

I personally don't like attention at all nor do I like compliments so they do nothing for me this isn't personal. Whatever they do or don't do for other women isn't my concern either. I don't happen to think compliments inflate someone's self-worth that's stupid. Why it would bother you is strange to me.

Lol well trust me I most certainly don't care. A woman can take all the free compliments she want to the head as long as she voluntarily cook and fix my plate with love on top

 

[Bussy_Getta]

"You're too pretty to be *insert here*" never felt like a compliment.

 

[T. Sanford]

Be yourself, make her laugh, feed her and make her feel like she's more than just a trophy. Show(not tell) her that you know what she's worth without matching it with price tags.

You do that and a woman, not a hoe or a lil girl will fuck with ya the strong way. Too many compliments make you look like a weirdo and she'll be irritated and/or uncomfortable around you.

Too much of anything, including water, is bad for you. It shouldn't be too hard to understand.

When I was young, I used to always think that you have to have game but I figured that; that was a myth. You don't need it. You are going to always win when you are being yourself. Plus I have sense of humor & personality that makes them feel like they are at home. Imma choosy lover so I'm choosy with the compliments. So it's going to come from a place of sincerity. When I do compliment then I'll compliment something that's foreign & not obvious for her. I like to make my compliment stand out

 

[S2J]

Cain pretty much nailed what I wanted to say, but it's very disturbing to say the least that the attitude here is that unless you are calling a female poster here a bitch or telling her to shut the fuck up, anything not along those lines is considered simping

But let a dude call your mother a bitch and you ready to end it all

Just because you compliment a female here doesn't mean you are in her inbox, and if you are, so what?

A chick posts a pic, dudes try to find the most cruel things to say. If it wasn't for the few ladies that actually actively post here, I would've gotten ghost a long time ago. Some of you niggas in your attempt to make this site all males is just strange and definitely not heterosexual at all.

Thats the problem. :/

It's a problem if you are in the inbox?

Its a problem if you're not in her inbox.

 

[S2J]

I'll never compliment a female I don't have intentions to holla at.

What's the point?

Be the 10th nigga to say the same shit she's been hearing all day?

Ho's out chea fishing for compliments, getting their ego validated by random dudes who compliment, but don't holla.

Makes no sense to me.

..NOT REALLY BRUH... A COMPLIMENT CAN GO A LONNNG WAY.. U NEVER KNOW WHAT A WOMAN IS GOING THROUGH... A SIMPLE, "THATS A NICE OUTFIT, HAIRSTYLE, SHOES, ETC" CAN LITERALLY MAKE HER DAY.. IT AINT ALWAYS ABOUT TRYIN TO GET THE DRAWZ

WHY!?

Not why it makes her day but why is that your concern? For the love of everything sacred can someone please answer that question.

 

[CapitalB]

10 things Westie Hates



10 - Flowers & everything else botanical

9 - Cards

8 - Valentines Day & Cupid

7 - Teddy Bears (almost got mauled by a brown bear at age 7)

6 - Sweet nothings in her ear

5 - Missionary (she must maintain control at ALL times)

4 - Small peck kisses (FOH wit that European s***)

3 - Pine Sol

2 - Roger Goddell (self explanatory)

1 - Compliments (it's a sign a weakness. grow a pair muthafuccas. Just come right out and say she got a phat azzz/titties, and the gtfo her face. she got s*** to do)

That is all

my kind of woman..

too bad shes a gay..

 

[SolemnSauce]

Yall take shit way to serious, be around women that like what you like and convo will flow. Don't be a video game head tryna holla at women in hood clubs. Save some dough and go to a comic con. Into neo soul, go to lounges, dedicated to working. Get a job that lets you met different people everyday.

When you are yourself, you don't have to worry about what to say. Because what you say comes natural, and she is either wit it or not.

by the way....I tell these hoes mane, I tell em

"baby, with that dress, you must up to somethin, cause you make my dick jumpman"