Complimenting vs Simping 101

[2stepz_ahead]

I give compliments when I want to and keep it moving, no need to stay in her face looking like an idiot and shit. If she likes you, she'll help you keep it going. If not, oh well. Its not that hard.

exactly

 

[So ILL]

Simping is some shit I just can't get with. Agreeing with everything a chicks says or just letting her have her cake all of the time is some sucker shit. Drama queens think I'm evil as hell, but they still fuck with me because I'm straight up with them.

 

[willhustle]

On the internet not calling a female a bitch and or saying hello is considered simping.

In real life saying hello and not calling that same female a bitch is being a gentleman and not a jackass. Well at least on first impression at least.

Which is why I'm not even going through the thread reading posts. This has been the attitude on the IC for years.

 

[willhustle]

Tbh, I don't like giving out compliments because women these days misinterpret/take shit the wrong way (gas ego) I just say hi and keep it moving.

To add, I'm handicap as well so I done got to the point where I really just don't like saying shit to anybody. People are something else to deal with.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad.]

This thread is depressing. All these damn rules for a compliment

Are they rules, or experience, perspective and words of wisdom?

Just be respectful and genuine. If she receives it cool. If not, cool.

 

[mryounggun]

Simping ain't really nothing but being overly complimentary to a woman, especially if you're trying to shoot your shot and it's clear that she ain't interested.

These days, people look at any compliment, to any woman, about anything, in any form, is simping.

I'll compliment anybody. But simping ain't my thing. You'd be hard pressed to find a woman on the IC or in real life who can call me anything close to a simp.

 

[S2J]

When you go overboard and compliment a woman in a thread, in front of everyone, you know what thats the equivalent of irl? Its the equivalent of a bad chick walking by, everybody lookin, but you that ONE nigga that jumps out the window

"Gooot damn, lookin good ma!! *grabs her elbow* Im sayin whats goodie!?" :s

Just a thought...

@S2J

Are you saying it's going overboard to compliment a woman in a thread? Should compliments only be in private? When is a woman deserving of a sincere compliment?

I'll be real with you. Nothing personal, but your whole vibe in this thread is disgusting :joy:

Why are you, and others, so hell bent on complimenting women???? With seemingly nothing in it for you.

Comes across like u just happy to exist in a woman's presence. Have some pride guy

And to be clear, a physical compliment is the easiest way to put yourself in a box with all the other niggas. Millions of things in the world to talk abot and yall wanna spark a convo about her smile :s

I appreciate yall tho, make the game easier for niggas like me

 

[Fosheezy]

This thread is depressing. All these damn rules for a compliment

For real. Just take the compliment and say thank you. A nigga ain't bout to get on one knee or nothing

 

[MrMinimalist]

I don't ever compliment women but as for in a relationship, women want that affirmation shit. So yea that's when I'll compliment here and there but it should be my actions is why I'm with her.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad.]

When you go overboard and compliment a woman in a thread, in front of everyone, you know what thats the equivalent of irl? Its the equivalent of a bad chick walking by, everybody lookin, but you that ONE nigga that jumps out the window

"Gooot damn, lookin good ma!! *grabs her elbow* Im sayin whats goodie!?" :s

Just a thought...

@S2J

Are you saying it's going overboard to compliment a woman in a thread? Should compliments only be in private? When is a woman deserving of a sincere compliment?

I'll be real with you. Nothing personal, but your whole vibe in this thread is disgusting :joy:

Why are you, and others, so hell bent on complimenting women???? With seemingly nothing in it for you.

Comes across like u just happy to exist in a woman's presence. Have some pride guy

And to be clear, a physical compliment is the easiest way to put yourself in a box with all the other niggas. Millions of things in the world to talk abot and yall wanna spark a convo about her smile :s

I appreciate yall tho, make the game easier for niggas like me

I don't think anyone in here is hell bent on anything. But the point of the thread is to show that giving an honest, well deserved compliment and simping are two very different things. A compliment isn't always physical appearance. I can compliment her mind, her spirit, her grind etc. but that's obviously on a more personal level. And "Happy to exist in a woman's presence"? As opposed to a man? I don't understand.

When, if ever, is a woman deserving of a compliment?

 

[blakfyahking]

When you go overboard and compliment a woman in a thread, in front of everyone, you know what thats the equivalent of irl? Its the equivalent of a bad chick walking by, everybody lookin, but you that ONE nigga that jumps out the window

"Gooot damn, lookin good ma!! *grabs her elbow* Im sayin whats goodie!?" :s

Just a thought...

@S2J

Are you saying it's going overboard to compliment a woman in a thread? Should compliments only be in private? When is a woman deserving of a sincere compliment?

I'll be real with you. Nothing personal, but your whole vibe in this thread is disgusting :joy:

Why are you, and others, so hell bent on complimenting women???? With seemingly nothing in it for you.

Comes across like u just happy to exist in a woman's presence. Have some pride guy

And to be clear, a physical compliment is the easiest way to put yourself in a box with all the other niggas. Millions of things in the world to talk abot and yall wanna spark a convo about her smile :s

I appreciate yall tho, make the game easier for niggas like me

I don't think anyone in here is hell bent on anything. But the point of the thread is to show that giving an honest, well deserved compliment and simping are two very different things. A compliment isn't always physical appearance. I can compliment her mind, her spirit, her grind etc. but that's obviously on a more personal level. And "Happy to exist in a woman's presence"? As opposed to a man? I don't understand.

When, if ever, is a woman deserving of a compliment?

deserve ain't got nothing to do with it bruh

 

[S2J]

What the hell is a well deserved compliment?!?!?!

Why does she "deserve" a compliment?!?!?

 

[S2J]

And here's a test. If you post often, and interact with IC women often, and you've never bumped heads with not 1 of em? 96% chance you're a simp. Actually more like a gump to be specific.

A simp is scared shitless of not being liked by a woman, so much so he'll take friendship. Agree wirh anything, do anything to not color outside those lines. Disgraceful lifestyle

 

[blakfyahking]

And here's a test. If you post often, and interact with IC women often, and you've never bumped heads with not 1 of em? 96% chance you're a simp. Actually more like a gump to be specific.

A simp is scared shitless of not being liked by a woman, so much so he'll take friendship. Agree wirh anything, do anything to not color outside those lines. Disgraceful lifestyle

name names bruh cuz I noticed u got damn near 30K posts on here LLS

 

[NeighborhoodNomad.]

When you go overboard and compliment a woman in a thread, in front of everyone, you know what thats the equivalent of irl? Its the equivalent of a bad chick walking by, everybody lookin, but you that ONE nigga that jumps out the window

"Gooot damn, lookin good ma!! *grabs her elbow* Im sayin whats goodie!?" :s

Just a thought...

@S2J

Are you saying it's going overboard to compliment a woman in a thread? Should compliments only be in private? When is a woman deserving of a sincere compliment?

I'll be real with you. Nothing personal, but your whole vibe in this thread is disgusting :joy:

Why are you, and others, so hell bent on complimenting women???? With seemingly nothing in it for you.

Comes across like u just happy to exist in a woman's presence. Have some pride guy

And to be clear, a physical compliment is the easiest way to put yourself in a box with all the other niggas. Millions of things in the world to talk abot and yall wanna spark a convo about her smile :s

I appreciate yall tho, make the game easier for niggas like me

I don't think anyone in here is hell bent on anything. But the point of the thread is to show that giving an honest, well deserved compliment and simping are two very different things. A compliment isn't always physical appearance. I can compliment her mind, her spirit, her grind etc. but that's obviously on a more personal level. And "Happy to exist in a woman's presence"? As opposed to a man? I don't understand.

When, if ever, is a woman deserving of a compliment?

deserve ain't got nothing to do with it bruh

Deserving has everything to do with it. You've never been compelled to say a genuinely kind thing to a woman? Again a compliment may not always be physical appearance.

What the hell is a well deserved compliment?!?!?!

Why does she "deserve" a compliment?!?!?

Is a woman never deserving of a compliment?

 

[blakfyahking]

When you go overboard and compliment a woman in a thread, in front of everyone, you know what thats the equivalent of irl? Its the equivalent of a bad chick walking by, everybody lookin, but you that ONE nigga that jumps out the window

"Gooot damn, lookin good ma!! *grabs her elbow* Im sayin whats goodie!?" :s

Just a thought...

@S2J

Are you saying it's going overboard to compliment a woman in a thread? Should compliments only be in private? When is a woman deserving of a sincere compliment?

I'll be real with you. Nothing personal, but your whole vibe in this thread is disgusting :joy:

Why are you, and others, so hell bent on complimenting women???? With seemingly nothing in it for you.

Comes across like u just happy to exist in a woman's presence. Have some pride guy

And to be clear, a physical compliment is the easiest way to put yourself in a box with all the other niggas. Millions of things in the world to talk abot and yall wanna spark a convo about her smile :s

I appreciate yall tho, make the game easier for niggas like me

I don't think anyone in here is hell bent on anything. But the point of the thread is to show that giving an honest, well deserved compliment and simping are two very different things. A compliment isn't always physical appearance. I can compliment her mind, her spirit, her grind etc. but that's obviously on a more personal level. And "Happy to exist in a woman's presence"? As opposed to a man? I don't understand.

When, if ever, is a woman deserving of a compliment?

deserve ain't got nothing to do with it bruh

Deserving has everything to do with it. You've never been compelled to say a genuinely kind thing to a woman? Again a compliment may not always be physical appearance.

What the hell is a well deserved compliment?!?!?!

Why does she "deserve" a compliment?!?!?

Is a woman never deserving of a compliment?

feeling "compelled" is the pure definition of being a simp....it's like basically admitting that u ain't really used to shit, so u feel u have to say something

if she ain't ur main, u shouldn't feel pressed to say shit at all

 

[mryounggun]

Y'all niggas really making the shit more complicated than it is.

 

[Westie]

Females probably don't deserve 99 percent of the compliments they receive

Lol I don't understand thought processes like this. Who cares? What does it do to you?

Lol maybe y'all should care. You might end up letting the wrong compliment from the right guy go in one ear and out the other and lose out.

It's not about what it does to me, but what it does to y'all and y'all senses.

Does nothing to me personally, I was raised around a bunch of male chauvinist. I deal with women that celebrate their men. and the ones that naturally fix plates for both me and my homeboy when he come over as guest in the house. Not the "what have you done for me lately" and the "I need that Brazilian 28 inch" type with distorted sense of entitlement and expect praise for simply looking good type.

Yeah idgaf about any of the bolded.

I personally don't like attention at all nor do I like compliments so they do nothing for me this isn't personal. Whatever they do or don't do for other women isn't my concern either. I don't happen to think compliments inflate someone's self-worth that's stupid. Why it would bother you is strange to me.

 

[SolemnSauce]

Females probably don't deserve 99 percent of the compliments they receive

Lol I don't understand thought processes like this. Who cares? What does it do to you?

Lol maybe y'all should care. You might end up letting the wrong compliment from the right guy go in one ear and out the other and lose out.

It's not about what it does to me, but what it does to y'all and y'all senses.

Does nothing to me personally, I was raised around a bunch of male chauvinist. I deal with women that celebrate their men. and the ones that naturally fix plates for both me and my homeboy when he come over as guest in the house. Not the "what have you done for me lately" and the "I need that Brazilian 28 inch" type with distorted sense of entitlement and expect praise for simply looking good type.

Yeah idgaf about any of the bolded.

I personally don't like attention at all nor do I like compliments so they do nothing for me this isn't personal. Whatever they do or don't do for other women isn't my concern either. I don't happen to think compliments inflate someone's self-worth that's stupid. Why it would bother you is strange to me.

ur an odd one, never seen such an amazing woman go out of her way to not been seen as one, and at the same time, go out of her way to be one.

 

[Westie]

What that mean

Being aware