Crude_;c-10117374 said:
Everyone has a past but people when hard evidence like videos and pictures are present that changes the perspective for some people.
No one wants to be anyones fool and that's where pride comes into play because people don't want to deal with another person's past if their is tangible evidence there that can show it on repeat.
Its kind of an oxymoron in many ways in what people are willing to put up with but I don't judge regardless, because I got a past just like the next man or woman.
The only different between you, me, and some random third party is that you and I don't have our past dirty laundry floating around for someone visually to see. A lot of people care more about what their peers think about them and their lives than they would like to let on though....
'Pride and Ego destroy great men!' -A great philosopher
I mean, if I got one foot out the door already or if my relationship ain't really worth a damn anyway, using the fact that a video surfaced might be a convenient reason to bounce.
But if my relationship is A1 and we ain't got no big problems or whatever and THEN some video pops up from years before I was around...I can't let me pride make me bounce. That's kid shit to me. Shit ain't that complicated, from where I'm sitting. Seems like if niggas break up with their girl after the video, they're main concern is niggas laughing at them at parties and shit or being the butt of niggas jokes...rather than their relationship with their woman.
I mean, if there were LIES and shit involved, maybe that's a different story. But simply the fact that it happened? I'ma need something more compelling than that to break up my home. But I'm a nigga who recognizes when pride is helping a situation and when it's hurting one.