konceptjones
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Crude_;c-10117374 said:Everyone has a past but people when hard evidence like videos and pictures are present that changes the perspective for some people.
No one wants to be anyones fool and that's where pride comes into play because people don't want to deal with another person's past if their is tangible evidence there that can show it on repeat.
Its kind of an oxymoron in many ways in what people are willing to put up with but I don't judge regardless, because I got a past just like the next man or woman.
The only different between you, me, and some random third party is that you and I don't have our past dirty laundry floating around for someone visually to see. A lot of people care more about what their peers think about them and their lives than they would like to let on though....
Granted, I have no interest in what the broad is doing nowadays, but y'all know my ex-fiancee was a stripper back in the mid 90's. What an extremely small number of people know about her is that the spot she worked at also put out a monthly magazine and she was featured in it back in '94, asshole naked, full face and everything. Now, we're 23 years since that magazine was on the shelf. Maybe she's a well respected member of whatever community she lives in and has effectively buried her past as a stripper. Maybe she's a teacher, maybe she's a small business owner, maybe she's on the city council or something. Whatever the case, if pics from that magazine ever surfaced and the people in her community saw it I'm pretty sure her reputation would be completely fucked 'cause knowing her she likely hasn't told anyone about her being a stripper ever since getting out of it around '98.